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Laura
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Jul 20, 2019 05:54AM
I'm sorry for your loss, Linda. It stinks we're getting to that age when we're loosing the people we love. Sending hugs!
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And hugs to you, Laura. She was suffering for a while, and that eases the loss. We lost her; she lost her pain. Was an eye opener though. We humans know about end of life for a long time, but knowing and realizing are 2 different feelings. I learned something - my new motto is SOON IS NOW. I'm going to get that put on a hat.
That would be a good motto on a hat! I lost my close friend almost a year ago to stage 4 ovarian cancer. She was a stubborn old gal from Maine. She was a funny one, yet very practical, blunt, and got right to the point. She fought the good fight right up to the end, still believing that she could beat it. She wanted to take one more trip to Scotland. It was as stubborn as a cancer can be tho', platinium resistant. She had a few weeks of bliss after the hysterectomy, etc. before it came back and had spread to her liver and lungs and any place else it could find its foothold. I miss her everyday, but I know she's no longer in pain (not that she'd admit to it.) Insidious shit. The knowing and realizing are certainly 2 different things...dang, it's scary sometimes if I get caught in the loop of thinking about it, but I know my brain has to pick away at such things, puzzling it out like another plot for a book. Hugs n' happy thoughts!!!!


