Cheryl Ann Mull Moody

Purple Rose for Our Theatre QueenWild, funny, big-hearted, snarky, wonderful crazy woman. We met in high school backstage. One of the first things she did for me was wrangle a furious girlfriend who just found out the guy who'd started dating me had stopped dating her. Opening night, minutes before curtain up, that girl was going to deck me. The show must go on! Cheryl Ann did big deeds for people and spurned gratitude, but wow – cross her, and she'd take you out at the knees. She always loved her people wholeheartedly.Many years later we were roomies in my Detroit house we called The House For Women on Their Way to Do Something Else. She would hear of a woman who could use a room, and in she'd move. Tennessee had a cousin Alabama, who just moved north. Come on in. Cheryl Ann had Tennessee roots her own self. Stinkin' Creek Road, if I remember correctly. We got introduced to peanuts in Coke.Cheryl asked - soon after moving in - if she could use the oven. Sure! I said. She came back into the living room - did you know there are books in there? Oh, that's where those went! We both read the books she dragged out of the oven immediately. Forget dinner.We all pitched in for household bills, and had a Chinese puzzle box on the coffee table for other stuff. Like psychics. And parties. And stuff. If you couldn't get the puzzle box open, you'd had enough stuff already.She had pet names for all of us. She always called me Linda Ruth. She called my sister EA. I called her Cheryl Ann, with a hard CH and a twangy Tennessee accent.Cheryl ran phone interference for everyone in the house. Is she here? I'll check. If she got a head shake no, she'd tell the person on the other end whatever story she thought up. If it was my mother, she just told her I wasn't in. She always knew what her friends needed.I left the Christmas tree up until April one year. Cheryl Ann told people I wasn't going to take it down until the hostages came home. She always covered our foolishness.So many wonderful memories. We laughed more than we did anything else. She loved to laugh, and did often and deep. Among the pictures is a welcome home dinner she did for me. Fancy tablecloth, sign, apron et al. I had probably been gone 3 days. She did thoughtful things for people her whole life.One of the men I was dating was older. Cheryl called him Dad. We'd take the roomies who were home on dinner dates. Cheryl would start a ruckus before we got down the driveway. "Are we there yet?" "Dad, she's poking me." "I have to go to the bathroom."At one of the parties, 3 men I was dating all showed up. The house was big enough, and this party was on all 3 floors and in the back and front yards, so Cheryl would find me, warn me, head him(s) off, and I'd duck up down and around like a cartoon whodunit. She always had your back.She saved me more than once, and with love and, when appropriate, a good scold.We said when we were old ladies in the nursing home, we'd have a big couch. She would read on one end, and I would read on the other. She's now reading on the big couch in heaven, and one day, I'll take the other end.I will always love her. Always.
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Published on July 15, 2019 17:56
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message 1: by Laura (new)

Laura I'm sorry for your loss, Linda. It stinks we're getting to that age when we're loosing the people we love. Sending hugs!


message 2: by Linda (new)

Linda Robinson And hugs to you, Laura. She was suffering for a while, and that eases the loss. We lost her; she lost her pain. Was an eye opener though. We humans know about end of life for a long time, but knowing and realizing are 2 different feelings. I learned something - my new motto is SOON IS NOW. I'm going to get that put on a hat.


message 3: by Laura (new)

Laura That would be a good motto on a hat! I lost my close friend almost a year ago to stage 4 ovarian cancer. She was a stubborn old gal from Maine. She was a funny one, yet very practical, blunt, and got right to the point. She fought the good fight right up to the end, still believing that she could beat it. She wanted to take one more trip to Scotland. It was as stubborn as a cancer can be tho', platinium resistant. She had a few weeks of bliss after the hysterectomy, etc. before it came back and had spread to her liver and lungs and any place else it could find its foothold. I miss her everyday, but I know she's no longer in pain (not that she'd admit to it.) Insidious shit. The knowing and realizing are certainly 2 different things...dang, it's scary sometimes if I get caught in the loop of thinking about it, but I know my brain has to pick away at such things, puzzling it out like another plot for a book. Hugs n' happy thoughts!!!!


message 4: by Linda (new)

Linda Robinson Happy thoughts to you, too, Laura. It's grand to have good people like you in the world - makes the journey brighter. A friend is studying Buddhism and mindfulness and I am enjoying the wisdom she shares. We are learning about letting go. It's all about that now!


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