Oliver Tryst

I'm a 34-year-old woman, and I've been with my boyfriend for three years. I've noticed a weird pattern. Guys looking for a fling get MORE interested instead of less when I tell them I'm in a relationship. I don't understand. Even if I were willing to step out on my boyfriend (which I'm not), why would any guy want a cheater?

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You're saying: "I have a boyfriend. Get lost." They're hearing: "Cool! I can get sex without the crying, the tampon runs, and the map on the nightstand for t...