“Jenny had it the hardest,” said Jenny's father Glen. “She was having a baby in the UK and we weren't there. They kick you out after a day over there.”
My feet shuffled. My lips pursed. Three times I had had babies without my parents around. I disagreed with Glen’s negative description of having babies in UK. During a deep breath I noted that what rattled me most was the change in Glen's perception of his daughter's time in UK.
While Glen's daughter was in UK Glen described everything to be okay over there; having babies, working, childcare, even the delights of a winter Christmas. It was all okay because it needed to be for Glen. Now Jenny is back in her homeland, her time in UK in hindsight is open to criticism. Glen's perception of Jenny's time in UK has changed.
Lady or Granny?
Musician or Face?Our perception changes to suit us. We may be aware of the change. Looking at the pictures, you can either see the two images easily or you have to work at it. Our perception can change subconsciously or consciously. Sometimes the perception adjustment can take a great deal of effort.
Both migrants and their loved ones have changes in perception of the migrant’s host country and homeland.
Changing perceptions of a migrant.
Published on June 12, 2018 22:35