Backbone To The Future

I'm a man in my 60s. Looking back on my romantic life, I was always the guy women spent time with when their husband or boyfriend wasn't paying attention to them or while they waited for the right guy (status, power, money) to show up. I'm good-looking, but I realize from reading you that I never had enough "mate value," never mastering the essence of Cialdini's "scarcity principle." I'm a retired teacher. For 20-some years, I taught kids who had severe behaviorial problems. While parents, gr...