When will he be okay again?

The younger of my two sons asked a heartbreaking question as we talked about keeping the house clean because of my immuno-suppression. "When will he be okay again?"

Transplant meds are forever. And with the recent rejection episode, I have to be even more vigilant than before. This is forever.

We explained the situation as best we could, but it reminds me that we never get to suffer alone. We never own our own struggles in full. There are always others who hurt with us and they hurt more, if we try to keep them out.

Check out the video about the discussion with my son. On the YouTube description of the video is a link to a blog where I tried to tackle some of these changes before transplant.

When Will He Be Okay Again?