Domme Addiction Feature Interview
I know you love reading all about me and my exploits, I was recently featured for an interview on DommeAddiction.com. I've reposted it here for all my loyal blog loving fans! This is the full interview reposted from m Domme Addiction.
xox,
Mistress Harley
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Everywhere you turn, there she is. This vision of erotic dominance with her shocking red hair, magnificent beauty, a body that stops traffic, and a demeanor that lets every man know she’s completely in charge. Today’s feature Goddess is the one and only Mistress Harley, and believe me, her answers will tease, shock and arouse your curiosity. You won’t be able to help yourself as you feel a growing desire to know more about this mysteriously sexy Goddess. Follow her links, learn about your new obsession, and then admit that you NEED to bow before Mistress Harley. She is truly amazing and it was a pleasure, and privilege, to interview her!
slaveboysmith: Joining me today at DommeAddiction is the very beautiful and desirable Mistress Harley. Thank you for allowing me the privilege of kneeling before you today Mistress.
Mistress Harley: I always enjoy having a boy kneeling and waiting on my pleasure
sbs: Well then, please use me as you wish today Mistress! I’m going to have to try my best to focus on my questions lol. Can you tell our readers a little about how you became a Femdom Mistress and what led you to where you are today?
MH: Yes of course. I’ve been into BDSM for most of my adult life and was especially active in San Francisco the last 10 years. I always enjoyed the power exchange and the feeling of having someone in the palm of my hand, playing them like an instrument. People started to inquire about paying me for sessions and it became a fast and profitable progression to the world of being a Pro Domme.
I had been working in High Tech at the time and had an extensive amount of computer skills and knowledge, I also started investigating the world of high tech domination with computer control, and even developing my own brand and app to control my slaves from afar. I trademarked my own term “Techdomme” and have been well known for my high tech control ever since.
There has been some coverage of my high tech exploits in Vice, the New York Post, and quite a few more.
sbs: That is most definitely an impressive resume and background in the Femdom world Mistress. I’m sure you’ve forgotten more about the industry than many have learned. Do you remember an instance when you first thought, “this is what I want to be…owner of slaves and desired by all who kneel before me”?
MH: I don’t think there was a single moment, but as I started doing professional sessions I realized that I could drop the vanilla “act” of being a project manager in the corporate game development world, and stay living in the BDSM world as a 24/7 lifestyle. And that thrilled me to my bones, knowing that I never had to go back to pretending to be like other women or have “normal” gendered relationships. That I could always interact with men entirely on my terms, and that was extremely sexy and alluring.
sbs: It’s always best to be true to what you know you are at the core, for sure. Is there a specific type of slave with certain fetishes that is typically drawn to you Mistress?
MH:Obviously I enjoy in engaging many different types of fetishes, but I think the underlying theme is usually humiliation and degradation. I take great delight in really humbling people, and I enjoy myself so much that it always pleases my slaves. They suffer and I laugh, a great combination.
sbs: I believe that answers my next question: sensual or strict in style?
MH: Quite strict. In fact, I don’t enjoy much sensuality with my slaves. I prefer they know how disgusted I am with them.
sbs: I’m sure they know and still they desperately try to do whatever it takes to please you. Is there a significant difference in training slaves in real time sessions, by comparison to online? Beyond the obvious, of course.
MH: I think my approach is always the same regardless of being in person or being at a distance, and ultimately that’s to get inside someone’s head, figure out the thing that will be the most mind-fuck manipulative experience, that will also entertain my sadistic side.
sbs: Do you permit slaves to bring their specific fetishes to your sessions, or is it always “Goddess Rules”?
MH: I always discuss fetishes and limits before a session to determine what ingredients I can really play with. I will indulge specific fetishes if only to provide the correct ups and downs for me to play with my submissive. Ultimately though once we are playing it is up to me how many of the ingredients we discussed that I use.
sbs: Of course Mistress…as it should be. You’re very obviously a stunningly beautiful woman who likely makes every man both nervous and aroused, as you are making me today. Does it ever become routine and expected that men will do almost anything to serve you, or is there still a thrill? What can you say about that feeling when you break a slave down to total submission?
MH: For me there is always a thrill when I REALLY get what I want. Sometimes that is as simple as someone buying me something really nice from my wishlist, or it’s a boy who wants a ballbusting session right when I really want to bust someone’s balls. Sometimes the stars align. There is always a wonderful satisfaction to breaking a slave down to the point where they will do whatever I say. I recently had one of my long term slaves get tattooed and castrated for me and it was an incredible rush of power knowing I had literally pushed him into getting his balls cut off. It was what he wanted deep down inside too, of course, but he needed a little convincing.
sbs: Wow! Now that is serious commitment and devotion. I may not be alone in saying I’m a little scared now!
MH: Hahaha, not surprising. I always like to remind boys that I always respect their limits (that was always important to me as a player even when I was first learning) and that my goal as a Mistress is to push slaves to do the things that they secretly desire. I’m not into truly non-consensual play.
sbs: That’s a little reassuring lol. So what you’re saying is someone with a serious foot fetish who might be willing to play with a little forced bi isn’t going to leave a session as a eunuch then?
MH: Exactly
xox,
Mistress Harley
_____________________________________________________________________________
Everywhere you turn, there she is. This vision of erotic dominance with her shocking red hair, magnificent beauty, a body that stops traffic, and a demeanor that lets every man know she’s completely in charge. Today’s feature Goddess is the one and only Mistress Harley, and believe me, her answers will tease, shock and arouse your curiosity. You won’t be able to help yourself as you feel a growing desire to know more about this mysteriously sexy Goddess. Follow her links, learn about your new obsession, and then admit that you NEED to bow before Mistress Harley. She is truly amazing and it was a pleasure, and privilege, to interview her!
slaveboysmith: Joining me today at DommeAddiction is the very beautiful and desirable Mistress Harley. Thank you for allowing me the privilege of kneeling before you today Mistress.Mistress Harley: I always enjoy having a boy kneeling and waiting on my pleasure
sbs: Well then, please use me as you wish today Mistress! I’m going to have to try my best to focus on my questions lol. Can you tell our readers a little about how you became a Femdom Mistress and what led you to where you are today?
MH: Yes of course. I’ve been into BDSM for most of my adult life and was especially active in San Francisco the last 10 years. I always enjoyed the power exchange and the feeling of having someone in the palm of my hand, playing them like an instrument. People started to inquire about paying me for sessions and it became a fast and profitable progression to the world of being a Pro Domme.
I had been working in High Tech at the time and had an extensive amount of computer skills and knowledge, I also started investigating the world of high tech domination with computer control, and even developing my own brand and app to control my slaves from afar. I trademarked my own term “Techdomme” and have been well known for my high tech control ever since.
There has been some coverage of my high tech exploits in Vice, the New York Post, and quite a few more.
sbs: That is most definitely an impressive resume and background in the Femdom world Mistress. I’m sure you’ve forgotten more about the industry than many have learned. Do you remember an instance when you first thought, “this is what I want to be…owner of slaves and desired by all who kneel before me”?MH: I don’t think there was a single moment, but as I started doing professional sessions I realized that I could drop the vanilla “act” of being a project manager in the corporate game development world, and stay living in the BDSM world as a 24/7 lifestyle. And that thrilled me to my bones, knowing that I never had to go back to pretending to be like other women or have “normal” gendered relationships. That I could always interact with men entirely on my terms, and that was extremely sexy and alluring.
sbs: It’s always best to be true to what you know you are at the core, for sure. Is there a specific type of slave with certain fetishes that is typically drawn to you Mistress?
MH:Obviously I enjoy in engaging many different types of fetishes, but I think the underlying theme is usually humiliation and degradation. I take great delight in really humbling people, and I enjoy myself so much that it always pleases my slaves. They suffer and I laugh, a great combination.
sbs: I believe that answers my next question: sensual or strict in style?
MH: Quite strict. In fact, I don’t enjoy much sensuality with my slaves. I prefer they know how disgusted I am with them.
sbs: I’m sure they know and still they desperately try to do whatever it takes to please you. Is there a significant difference in training slaves in real time sessions, by comparison to online? Beyond the obvious, of course.
MH: I think my approach is always the same regardless of being in person or being at a distance, and ultimately that’s to get inside someone’s head, figure out the thing that will be the most mind-fuck manipulative experience, that will also entertain my sadistic side.
sbs: Do you permit slaves to bring their specific fetishes to your sessions, or is it always “Goddess Rules”?MH: I always discuss fetishes and limits before a session to determine what ingredients I can really play with. I will indulge specific fetishes if only to provide the correct ups and downs for me to play with my submissive. Ultimately though once we are playing it is up to me how many of the ingredients we discussed that I use.
sbs: Of course Mistress…as it should be. You’re very obviously a stunningly beautiful woman who likely makes every man both nervous and aroused, as you are making me today. Does it ever become routine and expected that men will do almost anything to serve you, or is there still a thrill? What can you say about that feeling when you break a slave down to total submission?
MH: For me there is always a thrill when I REALLY get what I want. Sometimes that is as simple as someone buying me something really nice from my wishlist, or it’s a boy who wants a ballbusting session right when I really want to bust someone’s balls. Sometimes the stars align. There is always a wonderful satisfaction to breaking a slave down to the point where they will do whatever I say. I recently had one of my long term slaves get tattooed and castrated for me and it was an incredible rush of power knowing I had literally pushed him into getting his balls cut off. It was what he wanted deep down inside too, of course, but he needed a little convincing.
sbs: Wow! Now that is serious commitment and devotion. I may not be alone in saying I’m a little scared now!
MH: Hahaha, not surprising. I always like to remind boys that I always respect their limits (that was always important to me as a player even when I was first learning) and that my goal as a Mistress is to push slaves to do the things that they secretly desire. I’m not into truly non-consensual play.
sbs: That’s a little reassuring lol. So what you’re saying is someone with a serious foot fetish who might be willing to play with a little forced bi isn’t going to leave a session as a eunuch then?
MH: Exactly
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