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3 love hacks to SAVE your long distance relationship.

Dear Lauren,

I want to understand my boyfriend and save my long distance relationship. I’m not sure if I want to be with him, because sometimes I think I can’t live without him, and sometimes I don’t want to deal with his ignorant behavior. He doesn’t even text me or call me. When I ask him why he doesn’tpay attention to me, he says he’s busy and he forgets. Frankly, I don’t feel like I’m asking too much. I don’t want to run after him, I...

The SECRET to my great relationship.

Celebrating five years since I “fell on his face”

My partner, Glade, and I just got back from Napa, California where we celebrated our 5 year anniversary.

FYI - We’re not married. We celebrated the 5 out-of-this-world-amazing years since I drunkenly “fell on his face.”

Let me explain.

Six years ago we were JUST friends. We’d go hiking, we’d go out to breakfast, we were in a few musical theater shows together. We were pals. That&r...

3 Secrets to Stop Attracting Mr. Wrong

Dear Lauren,

For a long time now, I have been seeing a man that only wants sex from me. This seems to be a pattern for me. Can a woman do something unconsciously to attract this type of man even though she wants a whole life relationship?

-Kate

Dear Kate,

Absolutely she can! And I’ll tell you how. But first I want to teach you the formula to break A pattern, before we dive in to breaking YOUR pattern.

Step #1: See through the excuses and justifications and acknowle...

John Gray Leads A Walking Meditation At His Soul Mate Seminar

John Gray explains how easy it is to feel happy with his guided, walking meditation. This video is a clip from a recent Soul Mate Seminar at his ranch home in Northern California.

John Gray Explains The Chemistry Of Love At His Soul Mate Seminar

John Gray explains the 4 things that make up the chemistry of love with a Soul Mate: Physical Chemistry, Emotional Chemistry, Sexual Chemistry and Spiritual Chemistry. This video is a clip from a recent Soul Mate Seminar at his ranch home in Northern California.

John Gray Teaches The 6 Kinds Of Love At His Soul Mate Seminar

John Gray teaches the six kinds of love you need to give and receive with your Soul Mate. This video is a clip from a recent Soul Mate Seminar at his ranch home in Northern California.

Do Long Distance Relationships Ever Work?

Hi John -

I read your book Mars and Venus On A Date and I am hoping you can help me with my long distance dating situation.

I live in New York but I am dating a guy who lives in California. He comes to New York for 1 week each month for work. It's always an amazing week together.

This has been going on for 8 months. And we have been exclusive for the past 3 months. It's getting scary.

He grew up on the West Coast and STRONGLY does not want to move here (New York). ...

John Gray talks to Moms Across America about GMOs, Toxins and Brain Health

This is a video of my fabulous interview with Zen Honeycutt and Moms Across America on September 15.

We dived right into the important topics like autism, Parkinson's and ADHD, and discussed what you can do to help them.

Here are some notes on this informative discussion:

We covered GMOs, or genetically-modified foods, and glyphosate at around 12 minutes into interview. I tried to give a clear explanation of how glyphosate destroys the good gut bacteria and stops the productio...

How to deal with a jealous boyfriend

*This blog was originally posted in February 2014. It has been edited and updated.*

Dear Lauren,
Two months into my relationship, my boyfriend looked through all my text messages while I was sleeping. He found an old one from my ex. Three months later he went through all my emails and found a few from male friends. I have an extremely suspicious boyfriend.I have explained everything to him but he calls me deceitful, a liar, and untrustworthy.

I was outside at a party with a bunch of ...

Hot and cold? How to tell if he has REAL feelings for you.

Dear Lauren,

I’ve been sorta seeing this guy for awhile. I told him at the beginning that I was not ready for a relationship. His response was fine, that he was willing to wait. So we continue casually talking, having lunch dates, and occasionally hooking up.

Now I feel ready to be in a relationship and I’m waiting for him to actively pursue me with romantic dates, phone calls and flowers. The problem is that I’m not seeing this happening. He’s been very inconsi...