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Marketing Tip #2: To Pay or Not Pay For a Blog Tour?

The Blog tour.  I had no idea what that even was before I entered into this industry.  I'm still old-school in that I don't have a Kindle or Nook and that I thought book tours were still done in book stores.  So imagine my surprise when I was invited to participate in my very first blog tour back in February.  My reaction was, "Huh?"  

Not to say I'm a professional blog tour guru now, but I definitely do have the hang of it.  For those of you who may not know what a blog tour is, here is some quick info:  A blog tour is basically a virtual book tour.  There are many ways you can do one.  You can do a one day book blast (usually on the day of your release), a cover reveal tour (usually a month before your release) or one-, two-, three-week tours.  You can even have a blog tour last a month!

There are many companies that offer blog tour services.  Some of the most recommended ones are:

Xpresso Book Tours
Enchanted Book Promotions
Goddess Fish Promotions
Rockstar Book Tours

Before I hired a blog tour company, I wanted to try to do one myself.  Plus I'm a total type-A personality and it's hard for me to not be in control of my own stuff.  I didn't want to bother my friends again so soon after hitting them up for my book blast (which apparently didn't matter because I got yelled at anyway for not contacting them...love my friends!) so I searched online for some blogs.  I basically started on google and typed:  "Best blogs for book tours."  After searching through many great sites, I found these two sites to be the most helpful:

http://www.bookbloggerlist.com
http://bookbloggerdirectory.wordpress.com

Both sites divide genres so it's easy to find bloggers who will have the audience you are targeting.  I sent out a basic e-mail to each individual blogger:

Hi (NAME)!

I am looking to organize a blog tour from September 21 - October 4. I was hoping you could participate. If those dates don't work for you, I would love for you to review my book any time!

My memoir, Who Am I? How My Daughter Taught Me to Let Go and Live Again, was released on August 2, 2014. My book is about my journey into post-partum depression, anxiety disorder, panic attacks, stays in the psych ward, divorce, domestic violence, law school, how I managed to graduate from law school and a beautiful little girl who emerged from all of this chaos. There are two extremely important messages I would like to get across:

One: Postpartum Depression still has a negative stigma attached to it. Women shouldn't be afraid to seek treatment if they feel something is wrong.

Two: Emotional abuse is a form of domestic violence and is not to be taken lightly. It took 10 strangers in a group therapy session in the hospital psych ward to tell me that I was in an emotionally abusive marriage and that I needed to get out for the sake of my daughter.

I am looking for hosts to review my book, feature an author interview or just copy and paste my media kit. Please let me know if you are interested by replying to this e-mail. I REALLY appreciate this!

THANK YOU!!
Meg


I think I sent out about 75-100 e-mails.  The response I got was fabulous!  In fact, I got so many responses, that I extended my blog tour by two weeks; it ends on October 4.  Most of the bloggers wanted to post my media kit, which I made into a zip drive so it's easier for blog hosts.  Some offered to review my book.  Some bloggers even apologized for not being able to fit a book review in the timeframe of my blog, but offered to review it at a later date!  

So far, the blog tour has been pretty successful.  My book has been back on a couple of Amazon Best-Selling Lists and that's always fun to see!

PROS:
Some blog tour companies will charge over $500 for a 4-week blog tour.  For the cost of sending a couple of hard copies and ebook copies of my book, I was able to have my 4-week blog tour for under $50.I got to connect with some really great bloggers and am able to help them out on my blog too.By using the sites above, I was able to connect with bloggers that directly targeted my genre.
CONS:
It take a LOT of time to organize your own blog tour, especially if you are new to marketing.  You have to e-mail each blogger (most do not like group e-mails and I completely understand), organize, schedule and check the day of to make sure each blogger posted.Unfortunately, not every blogger will follow through.  When I sent follow-up e-mails, a couple of them genuinely forgot, which to be wasn't a big deal because there have been some deadlines I've missed myself.  They were quick to reschedule.  Not a big deal.  The bloggers I'm talking about are the ones that don't post something, don't respond to a follow-up and I never hear from them again.  That's frustrating.Some bloggers (like myself) don't list their following so I didn't know if my post reached 10 people or 100 people.  I'm a numbers person, but like I said, I don't list my following so I can't be too much of a hypocrite!

WHAT I WOULD DO DIFFERENT:
I definitely do not regret doing my own blog tour.  I had to try it at least once.  In fact, I may do it again in the future. However, the next blog tour, I will probably hire a company.  The organization, scheduling, checking the blogs - it just took up a lot more time that I thought.  If I can find a company that can do all that at a comfortable price, I will definitely try them.I was so blown away by the responses that I extended by blog tour by two weeks.  Next time, I should keep to the two week schedule and double or triple book dates to cover those bloggers who don't post my information.I have to remember to leave a comment on EVERY blogger's site who posted my info.  It's just a courteous way to say "thanks" and to let them know I took the time to check out their blog.  I also have to remember to share their blog on my social media pages.

*As always, if you have advice or more ideas, please share in the comments below!  

Next week:  How to get reviews for your book

Sometimes I Still Cry

I usually try to write positive posts.  I try to keep a positive attitude.  I try to smile.  But sometimes, I still cry.  I'm feeling a bit sad today and instead of holding it in, I'm writing about it.  So if you don't want to read anymore, I won't be offended.  

I took Madelyne to dance this morning.  She looked so adorable with her black leotard and pink tights.  It was a typical Saturday morning.  Busy dance studio.  Three classes going on at the same time.  Then this couple walked in with their little girl.  It was her first dance class.  She was wearing a bright pink tutu and her hair was in pigtails.  Her parents took pictures of her in her new dance outfit.  When the teacher came and got our girls, she waved to her parents and joined the others.  A second later, she came running back.  She forgot to give her daddy a hug.  And I cried.

Why can't my daughter have that too?  She deserves the best, damn it, and she should be able to give her daddy a hug.  I don't have any pictures of the three of us together.  I don't even know where her daddy is.  Why do these women get his time and his own daughter hasn't seen him in two years?  TWO YEARS!  I am so angry, I'm pounding the keys as I type this.  

Where have you been?  What was so damn important in your life that you gave up on your own daughter?  Did she ever matter to you?  Did you ever care about her?  Don't you realize what you are missing every single fucking day by not being around her?  DO YOU?  Do you think about her?  Do you even remember her name?  Does your new girlfriend even know you have a daughter?  

I'm sorry.  That whole paragraph came out with such raw emotion that I haven't felt for so long.  

I recently joined a group on Facebook called Narcissism Free.  Maybe this is why I broke down today.  There are so many women and men who have been so affected by someone like this.  There are 4,000 people in the group.  There seems to be a new post every minute.  There is so much pain and hurt in the group.  I joined the group because I thought I could help others.  Instead, they've helped me.  

It's been three years since our divorce was final and you know what?  I still deserve the right to be angry.  He lied to me.  I married this man because I loved him.  He never loved me.  He isn't capable of love.  He doesn't know what love is.  It's because of him that I don't let a man get too close.  And you know what's really sick?  I know that he reads my blogs and I can bet you anything that he is smiling right now.  

See, he's a typical narcissist.  He has no empathy.  No emotional attachments to anyone.  He is devoid of a basic human feeling of love.  He uses people and as soon as he is done with them, he moves on.  If he can't benefit from you, you're nothing to him.  He berates you, puts you down, makes fun of you, makes you seem like there is something wrong with you, and after he is sucked your entire soul, he walks away.  

I can't tell you how grateful I am that I found this support group in Facebook.  For the longest time, I thought I was alone.  It feels so good to talk with other survivors of narcissist abuse.  And for those of you reading this, rolling your eyes because you don't think there is such a thing, then you're lucky.  You are damn lucky.  I hope you never find yourself in the grips of a narcissist because the damage they can do is disgusting.  

Will I ever move past him?  No.  I'm not in love with him anymore but that doesn't mean I don't have the right to be pissed off for the lies.  Hurt because of his twisted vows of love.  Anger for discarding his daughter like a piece of trash.  Sadness for what could of been.

So yeah - sometimes, I still cry...

If you want to purchase my  memoir, please visit:  http://www.amazon.com/Who-Am-Daughter-Taught-Again-ebook/dp/B00MBKZD9K/ref=sr_1_1_bnp_1_kin?ie=UTF8&qid=1411232629&sr=8-1&keywords=megan+cyrulewski

For those men and women who have suffered the abuse of a Narcissist or you think you might be in this situation, please contact me through my website and I will gift you a free e-book copy.  I won't take your money.  I just want to show you that hope gives you the power to survive anything.
Contact me here:  http://www.megancyrulewski.com/contact.html

Marketing Tip #1: The Book Blast

A few weeks ago, I announced that I was going to write 5 blog posts on book marketing.  Before I start today's post, I just want to say that I am definitely not trying to come across as an expert in marketing.  I have been fumbling my way through this whole marketing process just like all of you.  Some of you may agree with me about the way I market and some may not - and I welcome any and all constructive criticism, advice and tips.  However, there is a caveat: if you have anything you want to add to each post, please add in the comments section so everyone can benefit.  :)

For each marketing post, at the end, I will write the "Pros," the "Cons," and "What I Would Have Done Different."

Today's marketing tip is The Book Blast.  I have to be honest and say I have no idea where I heard about a book blast.  I certainly did not come up with it myself!  I know I read about it somewhere, but for the life of me, I don't know where or else I would give that blog/person the credit!  

For those of you who don't know what a book blast is, here is a little summary:  A book blast is usually done on the day of your book release.  You try to get as many people as you can to post something about your book and your brand-spanking-new buy links on blogs and social media sites.  The goal is to have the Internet inundated with your book information.

So here was my approach:  I did a call-out on FB, Twitter and Linkedin and asked if anyone was interested in helping me out.  I offered two $50 Amazon gift cards to be raffled off to two blog hosts who agreed to participate.  I got some responses, but not a lot.  Then I posted on my personal FB and Author page.  Again, not too many people signed up.  To be fair, a lot of my friends on my personal FB page don't have blogs, however, a lot of my friends agreed to at least post my buy links on their FB timeline for release day.  

Since the public call-out didn't seem to work, I then tapped into my e-mail list.  As some of you may know, I have a series on my blog called, Authors Supporting Authors.  From January-July, I posted an author interview every day.  I still do the series, but I had to take a time-out in August because my book release was August 2.  Anyway, I still had all of the e-mails from those authors I had interviewed.  

I have to admit, there was a little internal struggle going on because I didn't want to seem like because I interviewed them, now they "owe" me.  I didn't have time to really think about that, though, because it was four days until my book blast and I had only 6 people signed up.  So I sucked up my pride and wrote that e-mail.  Here is a copy:

Hey my fellow authors,

I promise this will be the last time I bother you!  My book release is on Saturday.  I’m asking people to participate in my book blast.  I have attached a book banner and just a short document about my book.  If you could post one or both on your blog and/or Facebook on Saturday, I would be eternally grateful!  I’m having a raffle for those who are going to post this info on your blog.  Two hosts (chosen at random) will each receive a $50 gift card to Amazon so please let me know if you are hosting so I can add your name to the list.  And you know when it’s time for one of your books to release, you can always contact me and I will promote you like crazy on my blog.  :)

Thanks!
Meg

Let me just say that I am still humbled by the response I got.  Forty-one authors replied and offered to help me out!  It was incredible!  And the best part is that the authors didn't even think twice.  Most of the responses were:  "Sure, send over what you have!"  Not only that, but one author redid my book banner and another one condensed some of my links to make it easier for people to find my books.  

I made it really easy for anyone who offered participate.  All they had to do was post my book banner, a synopsis, an excerpt and the buy links.  That's it!

When August 2 finally came, it was like my second baby was born - but without the labor pains.  All day on Twitter and Facebook, I saw my book cover.  My book was in Amazon's 100 Hot New Releases for Biographies/Memoirs all day!  I think it climbed all the way to number 34.  That may not sound like a high number, but considering that my book release was around the same time as Derek Hough's, Duck Dynasty's and Joan Rivers's new memoirs, I was just glad to be in the same company!  

The next day, I sent out another e-mail to thank all of the participating authors:

Hi everyone,
I want to express my sincerest thanks to each and every one of you in helping with my very first book blast.  I am humbled that all of you let me “take over” your blog yesterday.  The results are incredible!  I broke into the top 100 hot new release for memoirs and my book was there most of the day.  That never would have happened without any of you.  I am also surprised (in a good way) that a ton of you e-mailed me and said that if your name came up for the raffle, I should give it to someone else because you were just happy to help.  Allie Potts said if her name came up, I should donate the money and I really like that idea.  So if you don’t mind, I’m going to donate the $100 to HAVEN, a shelter for domestic violence survivors here in Oakland County, Michigan.  

As a writer, I should be able to come up with better words to show how grateful I am, but all can say is thank you.  Please contact me whenever you need promotion, book blasts, blog tours, anything and I will be happy to help.

Meg

A few authors have e-mailed me asking for me to participate in their book blasts and I couldn't be happier to reciprocate because that's what this is all about - helping and supporting each other.  :)

PROS:
Obviously the biggest pro is getting your name and book out to the social media massesI was able to connect to some new authors through my public call-outsYou get to see your book on an Amazon chart - that's pretty priceless!

CONS:
It's time-consuming if you plan and organize the blast yourself, however, there are some online book marketing companies that will do all the work for you, for a fee, of courseIf you don't have much of a social media presence, then you're not going to be able to tap into an e-mail list like I did.  Try to create a social media presence at least 6 months in advance of your book releaseThere will always be one or two people who think that their way of conducting a book blast is better than yours - and they aren't afraid to tell you.  I had one woman who hated my excerpt and wanted me to call her to discuss other options.  ALWAYS REMEMBER TO BE NICE!  I thanked her for her time and told her that I liked my excerpt but if she didn't, then she didn't have to participate.  

What I Would Have Done Different:
For some reason, my type-A personality was not working before my book release.  I realized only five days before my release, I didn't have a plan of action!  Needless to say, I was on my computer 12 hours each day leading up to my blast trying to recruit authors.  Next time, I need to give myself at least a month in advance.Not offered the gift cards and that's not really a negative thing.  I learned that most authors are just happy to help and don't need rewards.  Like I said earlier, a fellow author (who is also a graphic designer) redid my book banner - for free.  She did an AMAZING job!  Mine looked like crap compared to hers.  Next time, I will probably hire the same woman to create my book banner instead of trying to do it myself.  (I didn't put her info here because I didn't want to invade her privacy, however, if you are interested in her services, please contact me and I will forward her the info.)

Next week:  Blog Tours and Why You Don't Need to Pay Money to Have One

I Am Officially A Parent

My kid doesn't love me anymore.  Seriously.  She told me that.  Three times, actually.  Here's what happened:

Madelyne turns into a monster at night.  First, she's a complete hypochondriac.  (Her middle name is Rose named after my hypochondriac Grandmother, may she rest in peace.)  If Madelyne has even the tiniest red mark pretty much invisible to the naked eye, she wants a bandage.  Not just a bandage but vitamin E as well because vitamin E cures everything.  She'll take a huge glop out of the jar, rub it on the invisible boo-boo and fake cry that it burns.  

Second, now that she is fully potty-trained, Madelyne doesn't feel like wearing a nighttime pull-up - even though every now and then when she wakes up, she's wet.  Try telling her that, though.  So every night it's the same ritual.  I go to put the pull-up on her, she takes it from me and throws it across the room.  I grab it, she grabs it, it rips.  I get another one.  One time she asked why she had to wear it at night if she was a big girl.  I told her that big girls still need to wear pull-ups at night.  She asked me what my pull-up looks like.  That was a reverse psychology fail.

Third, she wants everything to talk to her; and by everything I mean everything.  Grandpa started this a while ago.  Madelyne wanted the vacuum cleaner to talk - and Grandpa "made" it talk.  Now not only does everything talk in our house, everything has a name:  Vinny the Vacuum, Sara the Shampooer, Annie the Air Conditioner, etc.  Madelyne once told Grandpa after she went potty that she wanted the "poopsie family" in the toilet bowl to talk.  My mom and I made him sit back down on the couch.  There are limits.

So the other night when Madelyne asked for a bandage, I said "no."  She screamed bloody murder.  Now, I know what some of you are thinking.  Why not just give it to her and avoid the hassle?  I wish.  But she needs to learn that she can't have everything she wants.  She did not need a bandage so I didn't give one to her.  Let me tell you - the ROSE in Maddy ROSE came out and it was ugly.  Her face contorted into an exact replica of the girl from "The Ring."  Open mouth and eyes that penetrate right through you.  Creepy.  I think I slept with one eye open that night.

So while she was already pissed about the bandage, I figured why not continue on and put her pull-up on.  RIP!  She tore it before I even grabbed it, the little stinker.  She sends it sailing through the room until it lands on "Pinkie" the vaporizer.  (It's pink, hence Pinkie.)  Well, Madelyne took it upon herself to cry for Pinkie because Pinkie was obviously hurt by the pull-up missile:

"YOU HURT PINKIE!"  Madelyne screams.
"You're the one who threw your pull-up!"  I scream back.
"Pinkie needs a bandage and some vitamin E."  Madelyne fake cries.
"Pinkie is not real."  I feel like I want to real cry.
"Give Pinkie a hug and tell Pinkie you're sorry."  Madelyne sniffs.
"No."  I stand my ground.
"Where's Grandpa?"  Madelyne screeches.
"He's not here so you're stuck with me."  I smirk.
"I" (sniff sniff) "DON'T LOVE YOU" (sniff sniff) "ANYMORE."

And there it was.  The words that validate yourself as a parent.  Your kid tells you she doesn't love you anymore.  

I have to admit, the first time she said it, it felt like a punch to the gut.  I mean, I thought I had at least a couple of years before I heard that.  I think the first time I said that to my Mom I was in middle school, so I'm feeling gipped by about ten years.  

I kept going and got Madelyne ready for bedtime.  She didn't get any milk or books that night.  As I tucked her into bed, she told me she didn't love me anymore...again.  I came downstairs and sat with my parents.  Madelyne screamed for another 15 minutes because at that point, she was pissed the "eff" off.  Right before she fell asleep, she took a breathe and on the longest sigh I've ever heard in my entire life, she said, "I.......Don't.....Like.....Mommy.....anymore."  Then she fell asleep.

Dear Lord, she's only 3 1/2.  I'm scared for her teenage years.  Seriously scared.  Ummm...anyone out there....help? 

http://www.amazon.com/Who-Am-Daughter-Taught-Again/dp/1626941513/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1410890985&sr=8-1&keywords=megan+cyrulewski

Authors Supporting Authors: Jodi Bowersox/J.B. Stockings

Jodi has so much creativity pouring out of her that I'm not sure if I'm in awe or jealous.  First, she writes children's books.  I've always said that children's books are one of the hardest genres to write because you have to make the story interesting enough to keep a child who is 3+ attention.  I can barely hold Madelyne's attention longer than 10 minutes.  Second, Jodie also paints watercolors.  I've included a few pictures in this interview.  And then of course, Jodi is an author of romance books.  Like I said, tons of creativity!  Can I borrow some?  I hope you enjoy meeting Jodi as much as I did!

What is your name?  
Jodi Bowersox for romance; J.B. Stockings for children's picture books

 Where are you from?  
I've spent most of my life in NE and KS. I'm a recent transplant to CO.

 What genre are you in?
Romance and Children's Picture Books

Please list your books and the year of publication.

Children's

            A Tale of Two Kitties 2006

            The Stubborn Princess 2012

Romance

            Interiors by Design 2012

            Horses, Adrenaline, and Love 2013

            Cinnamon Girl Explains It All 2013

            Rocky Mountain Angels 2014

Why are you an Author? 
It's an obsession

What inspires you?
All kinds of weird things--sometimes the smallest thing can be the spark that ignites a story idea.

Where and what times during the day do you work best?  
I work at home in my office whenever I have the time

Who is your target audience?
Well, the kid's books have an obvious audience : ) The age range is probably 3-9 for The Stubborn Princess and 5-9 for A Tale of Two Kitties.

My romance audience is those women who like some sparks but don't need the details of what goes on in the bedroom. I write contemporary romance, and some of my books have Christian themes, but not all. Cinnamon Girl Explains It All is strictly romantic suspense, Interiors By Design has a few elements of faith, while Horses, Adrenaline, and Love and Rocky Mountain Angels are more faith filled.

I have to warn you, though, I don't get shook up about language, although you will never find the F-word in one of my books. Those that can't stand an occasional "damnation" or other mild profanity should probably not read my books. I also don't pretend that sex doesn't exist. Every real relationship in life deals with the temptation of sex, even if it's not graphicly displayed. I write real romance with real characters. I don't recycle the 6 or so overused plots that most romance writers use.

How do you want your readers to feel as they read your book? 
Swept away and entertained.

What is one piece of advice you would give aspiring author?
Now that self-publishing is so easy, don't publish before you're ready. Find some great writers and let them read and critique.

Share one thing about yourself that you would like readers to know.
I am also a watercolor artist specializing in pet portraits. You can view my gallery at www.jodibowersox.com

Why did you start a blog?
I started a blog because everyone tells you that authors need a blog! I also had some some great stories from my youth that I wanted to get down and share. If one scrolls back far enough, that is how my blog starts. Honestly, I wish I were more consistent in writing in my blog, but there's only so much time in the day!

How do you write for your blog?  What are some topics that you are passionate about?
As I said, I wanted to get those old stories down and out of my head. I try to keep things light and funny (or sometimes informative if I'm pushing a book or an event) in my author blog. I actually have a couple more blogs where I tackle more serious topics of a spiritual nature when I have time and inspiration.

Your watercolors are gorgeous!  Can you include some pictures in this interview so I can share them on my blog?
I'd be glad to!

Are you currently working on another book?
Yes, I'm working on the sequel to Rocky Mountain Angels. The title isn't definite yet, but I'm thinking Rocky Mountain Miracle.


Social Media Links:
jodibowersox.com Art, Writing, Sewing, and MORE!
jbstockings.com  Funding a Cure for Cystic Fibrosis
quiptracks.com  Don't Suffer in Silence--Start Loving the Movies You Hate!

Authors Supporting Authors: Donna DeVane

What is your name? 
Donna (Kay) DeVane  My mother always made a big deal about it meaning lady.  I heard a million times, “Donna Kay your name means lady and ladies don't ask so many questions, talk so much or laugh so loud”.  My reply was that we would either have to change my name or change the meaning of it.  I've been defining the meaning for almost 59 years now.  

Where are you from? 
I live in the south, Alabama, USA.  I love being southern.  The drawl and all, ya'll.  We have so much beauty down here with most of the year filled with green leaves and flowers. 

What genre are you in?
I write about self empowerment, healing and living life to the fullest.  Amazon has me in spirituality and self help. 

Please list your books and the year of publication.
My most recent books are 
I Can Fill This Space With Any Thing I Want    2014
How To Thrive In A Survival Mindset World    2011
A Journey Back To Self                                               2014
How To Be Happy And Live Free                            2014
How To Stay Motivated And Live Free                  2014

Why are you an Author?  
I began writing as a child in order to say everything I thought was important.  Loving to find new ideas and express them I soon realized that rather than driving everyone I knew nuts telling them about it all, it was easier to just write it down.  I've kept journals for over 45 years.  I began writing poetry and essays as a teen, stories when my children were little and books about 20 years ago.  I didn't start publishing until just a few years ago.  

I write because I don't know how not to.  It's like sharing ideas, I can't keep them to myself.  The more I write the more I understand.  I write for a selfish reason, it helps me to discover the wisdom in all the thinking I do.  As I apply the new ideas it's a natural process to write it down.  Sometimes it turns into an article or a blog, sometimes a book. 

Writing is like talking to myself where I get to ask the questions, answer the questions and have a good debate on topics that really matter to me.  It's fun and I always go for the fun in life. 


What inspires you?
Life inspires  and thrills me.  Each moment of each day is a wonderful magic opportunity for me to experience something a bit different than ever before.  I find inspiration in people watching too.  Often just noticing what others are doing and talking about leads me into a new adventure which must be written down.  

I find a gift in everything that shows up for me.  No matter what the experience there are always gifts of insight and deeper understanding. 

Where and what times during the day do you work best?  
I write all over the place.  I have computers and laptops in several rooms so if inspiration hits I can start typing.  I also carry notebooks and pens around with me everywhere for making notes.  You never know when that one great idea will present itself.  I take notes when watching movies, reading books and even during conversations.  Wisdom pops up all over the place asking to be noticed and applied to life.  Doing so guarantees a life that is well loved and well lived. 

Who is your target audience?
I just got an image of people with bull's eyes on them with this question.  I write for anyone who wants to live a life that satisfies them in every way.  There is so much struggle and suffering today and I write words to encourage people to realize how powerful they are so that they may live a life they enjoy.  

How do you want your readers to feel as they read your book?  
I want to help people feel wonderful, brilliant, awesome and powerful when reading my books.  I write reminders of what is already known deep inside the soul.  My books are there to provide a little nudge to go ahead and BE.  There is nothing to become or deserve.  You already ARE Awesome in every way. 

What is one piece of advice you would give aspiring authors?
Write.  Write more.  Keep writing.  Let everything within you flow onto the word processor or paper.  Just write.  Enjoy the process.  You can edit it later if needed, but keep writing.  

Share one thing about yourself that you would like readers to know.
Only one thing?    I am just like you.  We are mirrors for each other.  I am enjoying life and reminding you to do the same. 

How did you get the name, “The Barefoot Guru?”  
Years ago I was doing a video session with a student who was telling me all about how when she was sharing with a friend about how wonderful I was and perhaps she would like to work with me... her friend warned that I could be a false teacher or false prophet or something.  Picture this.  I was sitting cross legged in the middle of my bed barefooted.  When I heard about the possibility of my being a false teacher or prophet I started laughing so much I fell backwards on the pillows, legs uncrossed and one of my bare feet was poised in front of the camera and I began laughing and saying, “yea, I'm the Barefoot Guru”.  It was so funny that both of us laughed till we cried.  The name suits me so it stuck.  Since I do poke a bit of fun at religious dogma now an then it's an appropriate title for me.  It also reminds me not to take myself too seriously. 

You are the owner of Awakened Radio Network.  Can you please explain what this is?
Awakened Radio Network is a live radio station and magazine plus videos.  I began it three years ago in order to talk all I wanted to on the air and provide space for others with messages to share.  We are live radio not a podcast.  You can listen in during the broadcasts through the radio station website or call in.  We are also streamed through TuneIn and other directories.  Our archives are available in Itunes too. 

How can someone be a guest on one of the shows?
For anyone who would like to take part in one of our radio shows send a message to Donna@AwakenedRadio.net 


Are you still looking for hosts?
I'm always open for another great messenger.  Send me a message Donna@AwakenedRadio.net or find me on Twitter, Facebook or my website www.DonnaDeVane.org  

What can my readers do to support the Awakened Radio Network?
Take part through listening in and most importantly calling in.  I'm always delighted when I hear from a listener.  People all around the world listen.  A guy named Alex from Russia called in and shared with me about a year ago.  Who would have ever thought that I'd be sitting in Alabama talking with a man in Russia?  What an incredible life this is.  Share yours with me.  

Visit the station website at www.AwakenedRadio.net  

Birthday Blues? Not This Year!

A friend of mine, the ever astute David Jones, mentioned a while ago how far I've come in just the past year.  I remember three years ago when my Mom asked me what I wanted for my birthday.  I cried and said I just wanted to be me again.  

Well guess what?  I'm not me again.  I'm a much better version of me!  I've learned and grown so much in the past three years and I wouldn't take back any moment for all the money in the world.  (Okay...there's probably one or two I could pass up for a few million bucks.)

Even posting the picture above is not something I would have EVER done even last year.  Where I used to see flaws, I see me.  Happy and content.  Calm and peaceful.  Enjoying the hell out of life because that's what it's all about, isn't it?  Living each day like it was your last because you never know what will happen.

I was waiting to get a massage yesterday and the receptionist asked me if I was doing anything special for my birthday.  Well, my parents already gifted me and my friend, Natalie, to a couple of days up north at a lovely spa.  You know what I told the receptionist?  I was so excited to see my cake because Madelyne (my daughter) helped my mom decorate it this year.  That's how I was going to celebrate.  That's what mattered to me most.  I mean, don't get me wrong.  I had a great time at the spa with Natalie.  We drank, swam and got pampered.  But to watch Madelyne decorate my cake (from a distance because she didn't want me to see what she was doing) is something I will never forget.  She was ecstatic.

Funny how things change, isn't it?  The moments we cherish as we get older.  Presents are nice.  Cards are great.  But sharing birthdays with family and friends  - there are no words to explain.  I have the best people in the world in my everyday life from my friends on social media to friends I've known for years.  I am so thankful for their love and support.

So to everyone who is sending me birthday wishes today, thank you.  Your wishes and love mean more to me than you will ever know.  I have so much love in my heart for each and every one of you.  You fulfill my life and make me smile day after day.  

I love you,
Meg xo    

Blog Tour Anyone?

Starting tomorrow, September 7 (also my birthday), my book is going on a 4-week blog tour around the world!  I reached out and asked if bloggers would be interested in helping me and the response I got was incredible!  I will update Facebook and Twitter every day during the tour to direct you to which blog on each day.  While you are visiting, check out other articles and posts on these blogger sites.  The following is the schedule:

9/7:  Samie Sands:  http://thelockdown.co.uk/blog.php
9/8:  Sabrina Rainey:  http://www.ripplesthebook.com
9/9:  Maggie Tideswell:  http://maggietideswell.weebly.com
9/10:  Vicky Brinius:  http://www.bloggingforbooks.org/reviews/index/blogr:7167
9/11:  Iyana Jenna:  http://iyanajenna.com/  and Linda Parkinson-Hardman:  http://womanontheedgeofreality.com/
9/12:  BK Walker:  http://www.bkwalkerbooks.com/
9/13:  Peace, Love and Writing:  http://www.peaceloveandwriting.net/
9/14:  I left this date open because I have a huge fundraiser that day and I know I won't be able to promote any blog on this day!
9/15:  Tina Whittle:  http://tinawhittle.blogspot.com/
9/16:  LuAnn Braley:  http://backporchervations.blogspot.com/
9/17:  Nancy Nance:   http://thequintessentialbibliophile.wordpress.com and Stephanie Blair:  http://stephanysbookreviews.blogspot.com

9/18:  Book Troll:  http://booktrollsrealescapebookblog.com
9/19:  Eugene Uttley:  http://wayout2014.wordpress.com/
9/20:  Euphonos Aus:  http://euphonosbooks.com
9/21:  OPEN
9/22:  OPEN
9/23:  Ashley Williams:  http://thebookfetishblog.com/
9/24:  Amberr Meadows:  http://www.amberrisme.com/
9/25:  Sandra Richardson:  http://jeanzbookreadnreview.blogspot.co.uk/ and Guiltless Reading:  http://guiltlessreading.blogspot.com

9/26:  Lynelle Clark:  http://lynelleclarkaspiredwriter.blogspot.com/ and Troi Towel:  http://www.comictowel.com/
9/27: OPEN
9/28:  Collene Irvin:  http://bibliobettybooks.wordpress.com
9/29:  Michelle Johnston:  http://jarrahjungle.blogspot.com.au/
9/30:  Teresa Beasley:  http://www.arbookcorner.wordpress.com/
10/1:  Brianna Soloski:  http://girlseeksplace.wordpress.com/
10/2:  OPEN
10/3:  Justine Bowman:  http://rmfabbookreviews.blogspot.com
10/4:  Reeca:  http://reecaspieces.com

Thank you to everyone who is helping me out!  

Meg xo

Authors Supporting Authors: Chad Hofmann

Either I'm not fully awake yet or I really am dense.  I asked Chad what is one thing he would like to share with everyone.  His answer?  "I'm standing right behind you."  And of course I actually looked behind me...and then busted out laughing.  So thank you Chad for that early morning laugh.  Keep on reading to learn more about Chad.  I hope you enjoy meeting Chad as much as I did!




What is your name?  
Chad Hofmann

Where are you from? 
I was born in Virginia in the Untied States

What genre are you in?
I really like to try and experiment with genres, I have a goal to one day have a book written in every genre I can (excluding romance, sorry just not my cup of tea). However when I write it typically ends up being horror, or some kind of dark sci-fi/paranormal story. I'm my main characters' worst enemy, I frequently like to ruin their day.

Please list your books and the year of publication.
Helena, (2012)
The Bird Room, (2014)

Why are you an Author?
I love stories. Telling them, listening to them, exploring them, everything about stories. When I was younger things didn't always go my way, so when life was too tough I would get lost in books and writing. Who doesn't love being able to play God and create whole worlds where the rules are only limited by the extent of your own imagination? Oh and it's pretty cool when other people like your writing. Feels good. 

What inspires you?
Life and everything. I never know what or when I will have an idea. Just the other day I thought of an entire story when I saw the shape of a water splash that had spilled on a dry rock, while I was walking the dog.

Where and what times during the day do you work best?  
I typically work in the first half of the day, but I'm not too choosy. If I don't have time in the morning or afternoon, I will work in the evening or night. And normally I like to write on my couch or somewhere else around the house, alone. I get distracted easily and when I write I want to give my full attention to the story.

Who is your target audience?
There's a wide variety of people I want to be my audience, right now its mostly adults who enjoy horror and sci-fi stories. As well as young adults. I like to write stories for young adults because I remember how important they were to me as a boy. So I try and write stories I think I would have liked to read when I was a kid.

How do you want your readers to feel as they read your book?
Like they want to read my next one.

What is one piece of advice you would give aspiring authors?
Just keep writing. Even when it get's hard and discouraging, don't quit. After you finish your book do everything you can to tell the world about it. Then write another.

Share one thing about yourself that you would like readers to know.
I'm standing right behind you...

I see that you started a blog.  How do you write for you blog?  What are some topics that you are passionate about?
I'm not going to lie to you, I am still figuring out this thing we call a blog. I feel like I understand a great many things in this world, blogging does not seem to be one of them. But stay tuned, that will change.

Dark Adventure.  With a smile.  I have to ask – what does that mean?
I was sitting around trying to think of a few words to sum myself and my writing up and this is what happened. A lot of my writing has been kind of dark and a little twisted, but that doesn't stop it from laughing in your face at the end. Sometimes literally.

Are you currently working on another book?
Boy am I. I've been going non-stop lately. I have one that hasn't quite made it from my brain onto paper yet, and another that is about a robot that is part of the way written (tenative release date is early summer 2015), and I will be re-releasing my young adult fiction book Helena on November 1st 2014 (maybe earlier if I can swing it).

Are You Looking For A New, Fun and Informative Magazine? Come On In!

I was checking my e-mail one morning last month and I received a message from Brenda Krueger Hoffman.  She is the Executive Editor for Women's Voices Magazine.  She had read a blurb from my book and wanted to let me know how much she liked it.  I noticed that she was the editor of the above mentioned magazine and asked if I could advertise my book.  She asked if I would like a column - and the rest is history!

Women's Voices Magazine (WVM) is a new online magazine.  Since the first issue in April 2013, WVM has over 500,000 subscribers.  WVM also just won a HUGE award - New Media Award For Standard of Excellence.  According to the WVM website, the vision of WVM is as follows:

"Women’s Voices Magazine is created and published by Women’s Voices Media, LLC.  We strive to produce a fun experience for you with our unique all-column website magazine that allows you to relax, relate and enjoy!   WVM actively pursues the creation of a community that welcomes and encourages all people.

We seek to provide a place to celebrate life and relate to one another.  The goals of WVM are to offer insight, information and inspiration while creating a contemporary community experience.

The WVM vision is to bridge the generation gap, the wealth gap and the circumstance understanding gap, for we know most life themes, no matter how they play out specifically, are universal life themes for most people.  We know we have more in common than not in life’s bigger picture, and we all do better when we come together as a relatable community.

Women’s Voices Magazine is Insightful…Informative…Inspirational. WVM focuses on being about Real Life…Relatable…Relevant.

WVM is for readers from all walks of life and backgrounds, from all income levels, of all ages and family descriptions, and from all points of view.  Women’s Voices Magazine is for women, about women, and by women encouraging women to share their voices on an array of topics.  WVM has male readers too!

WVM is contemporary, thought-provoking, and entertaining.  The 45+ WVM Columnists live in cities and towns all across the United States.  They range from 23 to 50+, from single working class mom to seasoned executive, with columns from serious and poignant to downright hilarious and LOL funny.

With 10 sections of interests – Home, Family, Life, Enjoy, Soul, Politics, Economy, Digital, Impact, Community – there are sure to be several every woman will bookmark as their favorite."

My column, "Who Are You?" will appear in the Family Section every month.

So definitely check us out!  

Meg xo

LINK TO MAGAZINE:  http://www.womensvoicesmagazine.com
LINK TO MY COLUMN:  http://www.womensvoicesmagazine.com/family-section/who-are-you/#.VAnVrlZigds


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