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My Four Mentors in Life, Business, and The Pursuit of Happiness

The word mentor is defined as a trusted counselor or guide and comes from the Greek Mentōr in the Odyssey. The idea of a mentor didn't hold much importance for me until a few years ago, and now I understand that having mentors may be one of the most important and beneficial things you can do for yourself and your growth.

Many, if not all, of the great people in history had mentors, Michelangelo and Mozart just to name a couple. The following four people are those I would consider my mentors. The funny thing is that I have never met any of them, and yet their guidance teaches and inspires me everyday. They are also my heroes, and I aspire to achieve the greatness they have, but in my own way. . . of course. 
1. Daisaku Ikeda
Daisaku Ikeda, or Sensei as many call him, is not only my mentor, but a mentor for millions around the globe. Ikeda Sensei is the most prolific human in recorded history with more volumes of work than Tolstoy and Gandhi.  What does he teach, you ask?

Peace and Happiness For All

Daisaku Ikeda is not a hippie or a "guru" exactly, but he has worked tirelessly to spread the message of peace through heart to heart dialogue with ordinary people and leaders around the world alike. He's no nonsense and yet every word of his carries an encouraging power that lifts off of the page and into your heart. His sincerity is unmatched. 

Alex Lickerman, the author of The Undefeated Mind, said in an interview with Brian Johnson (click here to listen), "The greatest gift is the gift of encouragement, making someone feel like they can solve their problem." Reading Ikeda Sensei's guidance not only helps me understand how to transform my life toward peace and happiness, but to help others do the same.

Many of my friends come to me for advice and a shoulder to cry on. For most of my life I have indulged their complaints with not much to offer except "Don't worry. It will all work out." But, by studying Ikeda's writings, I have noticeably been able to improve the conversation, steering it toward something positive. Empowering others has helped boost my confidence more than anything. 
I could write a book about the impact Daisaku Ikeda has had on my life, but I'll stop here. You can learn more about him at: http://www.daisakuikeda.org 
2. Marie Forleo
This isn't the first time I've written about Marie Forleo on my blog. I LOVE this woman. She's a coach for entrepreneurs and runs a flagship program once a year called B-School. Her story is one I go back to again and again because it's one of courage, patience, and persistence. When her job on the floor of the NYSE didn't work out as she had hoped, she was left to confront her future in a new way. Know what she did? She courageously followed her heart and built her business patiently over many years, supporting herself with "bridge jobs" and even pursued a career in dance.

When I discovered her in early 2014, I was working as a Financial Adviser and feeling like I was selling my soul. Her words of encouragement through episodes of Marie TV and in B-School gave me the courage to change course and pursue my dream of being a writer/publisher. She taught me that  you don't have to become someone you're not in order to run a successful business. It was extremely painful, emotionally, to grow into my authentic self, but it was worth every ache. Thanks, Marie!

You can learn more about this inspiring woman at www.marieforleo.com 
3. Brian Johnson
What you allow in your mind has more impact than you think. What you read, watch, and listen to. Very rarely does a day go by that I don't hear the positive voice of Brian Johnson from a podcast or Philosopher's Note on my iPhone. Brian Johnson is an incredible entrepreneur who figured out a way to get paid to read. Sounds like a dream, right? His mission is to help others optimize their lives by recapitulating some of the most profound wisdom, ancient and modern, and making it simple to apply to everyday life.

He's created summarized Philosopher's Notes, master classes, and even free youtube videos on hundreds of the best books on motivation, positive psychology, philosophy, mental training and more. 
His work has really taught me the importance of practice. Practice, practice, practice! 

In other words, greatness isn't from doing that one big, life-changing thing one time, but that life-changing greatness is due to the work you put in everyday. Every day is an opportunity to do a little better, grow and improve a little more.  That's how we optimize our lives.

If you want to feed your mind whole foods, you definitely have to check him out at www.brianjohnson.me
4. Elizabeth Gilbert
We all know Liz Gilbert from Eat, Pray, Love. But I really discovered how amazing she was when I read Committed. Not only is she a super talented and beautiful writer, she's a really cool woman.

The movie Coyote Ugly was based on an article she wrote for GQ Magazine. How cool is that?

There are so many reasons I look up to her, but the things that stick out the most are that she's a soul searcher and creative encourager. Liz uses her creativity as a way to learn more about herself and the world. It's not about being a NYT bestseller, though, I don't think she minds. She nurtures her creativity like a growing, living entity, and if you read her new book Big Magic, you'll find that creativity is more than an energy, it has a heartbeat.

Her philosophy on creative work really opened my eyes and my heart to view my writing in a whole new way, a playful way. She has a great relationship with her audience and is always encouraging others to express their creativity, authentically, and more importantly, NOW! Check out her Podcast Magic Lesson here.

And finally, she is my mentor in writing. The way she strings words together creates a beautiful tapestry, that's intricately beautiful and, at the same time, refreshingly simple.  I could never be her or have her style, but I aspire to have readers feel what I feel when they read my words.

Read her, love her, and visit her at www.elizabethgilbert.com 

I would love to hear from you. Who are your mentors and heroes in life? How have they helped shape who you are today? Please leave a comment below. 

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A French Kiss for Valentine's Day

Happy Valentine's Day!

There's been an exciting project in the works for sometime that I haven't talked about. It's a multi-author, six episode serial titled, French Kiss For Hire. 

Guess what? I'm one of the authors!

And . . .  Episode One is available now!

If you subscribe to my newsletter then you already know about the series, the secret, and the giveaway. And if not, you can subscribe to my monthly newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/Q2ibz

I wanted to use this post to share more about this unique project, because it is definitely a first. You'll want to stick around to the end because I've got a fun giveaway for you too.

So my amazing friend and publishing partner at Elephantine Publishing, Heather Hildenbrand, came up with this adorable storyline for a serial about a young Frenchmen in need of money and a renewed visa. So what did he do? French kiss women for money, hence French Kiss For Hire.

We'd worked on other multi-author projects, but this time, Heather wanted to take it up a notch. She asked, "What if we had a different author for each episode, but maintain the same story?" Heather and I had never heard of a project done this way before, and so I told her it was,"GENIUS!"

French Kiss For Hire was underway and we worked with our team to plot the entire story and made a list of authors to get involved. Before we knew it, we had all the pieces lined up, or as I liked to think of it, the dominos were lined up.

So how did we kick off the dominos?
We assigned the the first author with the plot for Episode One along with prompts for them to get creative and enhance the story. By the time we got episode one back, we had a cast of colorful characters and even a new character we hadn't anticipated. So we made adjustments to the plot and sent episode one and the outline for episode two to the second author. We repeated this every time until all six episodes were complete.

Truth be told, we had some set backs and the production schedule was pushed further into the future. BUT, Heather and I could not be happier about the finished project. Each author did an incredible job with their episode, bringing their own flavor, sass, humor, and unexpected turns.

Because all of the authors have a unique style, we thought it would be fun to keep the author of each episode secret and let you guess WHO WROTE IT.

French Kiss For Hire is definitely the kind of French Kiss you want for Valentine's Day. Check out Episode One and enter the giveaway to guess the author. If you guess correctly, you'll be entered into a drawing to win a free signed paperback copy from the author of Episode One. We'll be hosting this giveaway as each episode comes out. So have some fun with us and GUESS WHO!




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Sensitive and sexy Frenchman, Luc Du’mont, is living the American dream. He’s spent the last four years at university on an acting scholarship. Now, with graduation behind him he’s ready to make his big Hollywood splash.

A debut that has to happen before his student visa expires in two months. Otherwise, he’ll be shipped home to France and all of his acting opportunities will sail with him.

But most importantly, he’ll lose any chance at winning blond-bombshell Serena Dawson’s heart. As the sister of his roommate she is strictly off limits. But when Serena approaches Luc for kissing advice, what can Luc say other than pucker up?

The kiss leads to much more than Luc ever imagined. When word gets out about Luc’s lip-locking skills and his unemployment leaves him desperate, Luc finds himself with a new career path: French Kiss for Hire.

Except the only client he wants is the one girl he can’t have.


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Thanks for stopping by. I'd love to hear what you think about French Kiss For Hire. Leave me a comment below. 

Three Life Changing Lessons from 2015

It's the end of another incredible year. I just took a peek at my New Years post, looking back at how difficult 2014 was and how promising 2015 seemed. Well, the promise was fulfilled. 2015, for me, was one of the best years. Why? Because I actually started to enjoy my life. 

As I mentioned in my New Years post, I resolved to have a balanced life. Turns out that it's not about balance, it's about balancing- its a verb, an act, a process that needs regular attention and recognition. 

When I sent out the Get Sorted questionnaire, it seemed that many of you are seeking balance. That's why I wanted to share the top three lessons that not only helped me with balance, but changed my life. Hopefully, you pick out some nuggets of wisdom from my experience. 

One- Masterpiece Days

This is a little bit of wisdom I picked up from Brian Johnson. I absolutely love this man and his Philosopher's Notes. Please check out his site at www.brianjohnson.me. He's got a ton of free videos and podcasts and an inexpensive membership for more. 

If you want to change your life you have to change your daily habits and actions. All those small, seemingly insignificant acts add up to huge, significant changes. Brian shares the idea, which is from  The Compound Effect  by Darren Hardy, to bookend your days. 

You have the most control over your morning and evening, and you need to make them count. I began changing my evening routine by shutting off the TV and other electronics two hours before bed, no caffeine after 3pm, so I could get to bed early and have a  Miracle Morning , another great book by Hal Elrod. Now I have a morning routine that sets me up for success throughout the whole day! (You can read about it here.) 

Having a masterpiece day also means making time to do the most important thing that you need to do that day, usually getting it done first before the day gets crazy. This alone has made a huge impact on the quality of my life and overall sense of fulfillment. Incredible! I can tell the difference between having a masterpiece day and not. Now, I strive to have more masterpiece days. 

Two- Give Yourself Time

Time. I don't know about you, but I have a love/hate relationship with time. I love when I have it, hate it when I don't. 

The year started great. I released The Commitment Test and I was fast at work on a new novel that I felt was sure to be a great success. Then, around May I found myself in a panic. I was rushing to put out my next book. After all, I set a goal to release at least two if not three books this year. I was running out of TIME. 

During this same time, I was beginning to believe that the reason I wasn't achieving the kind of success I thought I should have at that point was because I was somehow hindering it. Or dare I say, self-sabotaging it. I decided to use my practice of chanting nam-myoho-renge-kyo to have a breakthrough in my life and began chanting for an hour a day for 100 days. 

It was about ten days before my 100 days campaign was up when it happened. My dear friend and fellow author, I'll call her Shoten Zenjin (Protective Function), read my soon-to-be released novel and said, "This is great, but it's not ready." 
No! I was crushed.
But then, she opened my eyes to see that by rushing I had sacrificed the quality of my work, and she encouraged me to think about the kind of writer I wanted to be. It was this same conversation that I realized why I was in such a hurry to make things happen. 

I was on a self-imposed deadline. (BTW, I'm omitting that word this year and replacing it with Timeline or Lifeline) 

I believed that if I didn't have a certain amount of success by early 2016, I would have to go back to a regular full-time job and scale WAY BACK on my writing businesses. Because of this, I was acting out of fear . . . and it was ugly. 

She kept telling me to Give Myself The Time I Needed. "Give yourself time." And so I did. I took a step back, horrified over how I had been thinking and operating, and took some time. I gave myself permission to release a book a year, because there's nothing wrong with that. Because that is me being authentic, true to myself (lesson of 2014). 

Please don't misunderstand this as a reason to hold off on your achievements or aspirations, but to allow yourself the proper amount of time to produce the quality of results that you want to share with the world. Give yourself time.

Three- This & That

So while I'm taking time, and setting up my week to have masterpiece days, I still found myself yearning for what I consider a successful career, wondering when I was going to make that six-figure income. When!? 

Then I thought to myself, okay let's say I achieved that, what would I do? How would I want to spend my time? My money? So I made a list that I dubbed This & That. If I get This (six-figure income) it means I can have more of That (fill in the blank). Here's some things on my list:

Have time to cultivate lasting relationships (friends & family, etc) that encourage & fulfill others- having conversations (phone, over meals, coffee houses, walks, get togethers)
Getting plenty of sleep Spending time in nature Reading

90% of my list costs nothing, or is extremely affordable. Nothing that would require me to have a six-figure a year income. So I thought instead of waiting to do all these great things when I have the great career, why not make TIME for them now and see what happens. 

You guys, this list is a game changer. 
And since I began acting as if I have the time for these things, in other words adjusting my priorities and making time for them, I feel like I'm not only balancing my life but enjoying my life, dare I say, being successful at life. And after all, isn't that what we really desire? To be happy in our entire life?

I'm not talking about rainbows and unicorns happy all the time, but having a profound sense of yourself and what you want, how you want to feel, knowing and acting on your fundamentals daily.

This & That was so eye opening for me, that I created a free worksheet for you as part of my Get Sorted Series. (Click Here to Download) I'd love to hear what you think.

So what were the life changing lessons you learned this year? Please share them by leaving a comment below.

I wish you and your families a very joyful holiday season. See you in 2016!

XXO-Amanda
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Five Reason I Left My Heart in San Francisco

Golden Gate Park with Joe
Some of you may know that I recently celebrated my 30th birthday with a trip to San Francisco. Yes, The Marin Test Series takes place in the Golden City, but here's a little secret . . . it was my first visit.

I was so excited about the trip . . . in theory. But when it came time to leave, I was so caught up in my day-to-day, that I didn't feel like taking a week away from work and flying 3,000 miles away. 

It wasn't much better when we first arrived. By the time we landed, rented a car, drove to the Haight-Ashbury neighborhood, and found parking four blocks away from where we were staying, three hours were gone and I was hangry. (Yes, it's a real thing) 

Joe and I walked a couple blocks to Nopalito (delicious) and waited for a table. I watch the locals come in and out of the little shops next door, leaving their dogs tide to posts outside. No way in hell my dog would let me do that. She's a suburban dog and these cute pooches were well-trained city dogs.

By the time we settled in that night in our little rented AirBNB room after dinner with friends, a ride on the train, and passing homeless people on the street, I had seen enough. I was ready to go home. 

Then as the days passed on, I found myself absolutely smitten with the city. And here's five reasons why.

Haight-Ashbury NeighborhoodOne: The Walking
It sounds crazy, but I loved being able to walk to the park, restaurants, and Whole Foods. I'm so used to driving and sitting behind a desk, that I forgot how good it feels to move on foot. The weather was chillier than I had anticipated, but once I learned to bundle up, the cool breeze on my face was wonderful. According to my phone's health app, Joe and I walked approximately 16,000 steps a day! Probably the only vacation that didn't result in weight gain.

Conservatory of FlowersTwo: Golden Gate Park
Between the lush trees, vast grounds, the Conservatory of Flowers, and the Japanese Tea Garden, Golden Gate Park is now my favorite park in the WORLD! There was something so peaceful about being there, thoughtful. I imagined I could walk around there for hours, or just sit with the sun shining on my face. If you're ever in the city, this is a must-see.

Conservatory of Flowers

Japanese Tea GardenThree: The Food
We were fortunate enough to have a ton of highly rated (according to yelp) restaurants right in the neighborhood. The restaurants were local and almost all offered vegetarian or vegan options, which was great for me. Joe and I loved Street Taco on Haight Street, but my favorite what this tiny whole-in-the-wall called Lime Tree, a Southeast Asian restaurant. Their yellow curry sauce was to die for. 



The Painted LadiesFour: The Architecture
I've always been drawn to architecture. Kinda random, but a beautifully designed bridge or house always catches my eye. San Fran has such a picturesque style, it's hard not to fall in love with the bay windows of the Edwardian style houses. The Haight-Ashbury neighborhood has rows of uniquely colored houses that look like they're out of a Dr. Seuss book. My favorite were the famous Painted Ladies. Incredible! The view of the houses stretched all the way to the downtown area, the tall Transamerica building peeking out from behind. You may recognize the houses from the show Full House. I could not get that song out of my head for two days!! "Everywhere you look, everywhere you look . . . "  Golden Gate Bridge

And of course the freaking Golden Gate Bridge!! I totally teared up when we drove across on our way to Muir Woods. It was utterly breathtaking. 
Inside a Redwood Tree
Baker BeachLater, we found ourselves on Baker Beach to get some good photos of the Bridge. As we got closer  to the bridge, we realized we were encroaching on a nude section of the beach. My husband asked, "You want me to climb the rocks and get a picture of bridge?"
"Yeah." 
His steps picked up ahead of me and a naked man drew closer. Joe had seen too much and immediately turned back. "Never mind," he said. "Let's go back." 



Five: The Lifestyle 
The number one thing I noticed about the natives is how active they are; walking, biking, jogging--all day! Everyone is fit, not Southern-California-bronzed-muscle fit, but healthy. Public transportation is the norm and encouraged, partially for environmental reasons and partially for the parking issues. Speaking of the environment, San Francisco and neighboring areas have outlawed plastic grocery bags!! Recycle bins are everywhere. I was in eco-friendly heaven.

When I got home and back to work my colleague noticed how sad I looked. He asked, "What's the matter? Did you leave your heart in San Francisco?" 

Yeah, I totally did. 

Vote For Telly's Cover

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I've got something fun for you today! Telly, Marin's best friend in The Marin Test Series, has her own short story called Telly Tells All: Telly Meets Marin.

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October Seven 11 Blog Hop with GIVEAWAYS!!

Today is October 11th, which means it's time for seven lines from my new short story, available next month for free to all my newsletter subscribers. 

If you're a fan of Telly in The Man Test and The Commitment Test, then you'll love Telly Tells All: Telly Meets Marin.

Here's seven lines from Telly's new Story!

It’s sex. I have sex with my fitness trainer after I work out, and we call it round two. The thing I like about Mike is that he keeps it light, which is good for me because I’m not looking for anything serious. The word relationship is not in my vocabulary. Maybe I’ll add it in my thirties. Make that late-thirties. Besides, how does a young lawyer working at a competitive law firm have time for more than sex?


If you haven't had a chance to read The Man Test you can enter here to win the eBook for FREE!
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Want more seven lines and FREE giveaways! Check out these awesome authors. 
SC Ellington has a SURPRISE giveaway- $600 in gift cards in the online store of your choice!
Heather Hildenbrand is giving away a $5 Amazon gift card and Bitterroot Swag 

Enter to win one of five copies of Scornful Sadie from Felicia Tatum

Bethany Lopez has her novel, 3 Seconds, up for giveaway
Justine Winter's giving away a copy of Sapphire's Divinity
Enter to win a copy of Return to Pandora by Kayla Smith


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Winning in Life Starts in the Morning

In case you didn't know, I'm a self-improvement junkie- productivity, organization, attitude, health, business, writing. If I can learn something that's applicable and will make my life the slightest bit better or easier, I'm in!

I tell you this because for years I've been learning how important mornings are but I've never really applied it until this year. This is what I've learned.


Winning in life starts in the morning. Tweet: Winning in life starts in the morning. @amandaaksel

First, I want to share three keys I've learned for making the most of your morning.

1. Get enough sleep. So many of us are truly sleep deprived. Do you wake up to an alarm clock in the morning? Yep, then you're sleep deprived. Do you need coffee at three o'clock in the afternoon to make it to five? Yep, sleep deprived again. 
This year I've been fortunate enough not to HAVE TO wake up to an alarm. So I did a little experiment and started tracking my sleep and my energy throughout the day with a journal. I found that if I got the amount of sleep I needed, I was much more effective and had more energy throughout the day. It turns out I need more than 8 hours of sleep. And that's okay because it's an investment in my day. 
Makes for a better morning too!
So if you have to be up at a certain time, make sure you go to bed early enough that you'll be fully rested come morning. 


2. Make Your First Hour CountBrian Tracy calls this the "Golden Hour". This is when you set your mind up for the day and arm yourself against the troubles that are thrown at you as soon as you get on the highway. Tracy recommends reading something positive or educational. This is also the best time to meditate or pray, do yoga. Something to get  plugged in to your greater self. 


3. Breakfast! I cannot stress this enough. If you're running on no sleep and no food and you're miserable, it's easy to see why. You're literally running on fumes. Your body needs fuel in the morning. If you're saying, "I'm not a breakfast person." Start saying, "I'm not a breakfast person YET."  
If you're body is trained to go without substance until lunchtime, you can train it to crave substance first thing. 

I totally recommend drinking 8-16 ounces of water first thing upon waking. Your body is very acidic in the morning. Water neutralizes that acidity making you less prone to illness and preparing your body for food. Then have your breakfast and THEN have your coffee. 

Wanna hear about how I spend my mornings? Read on . . . 


1. SleepLike I said, I get enough sleep. I keep water on my nightstand and immediately drink it when I wake up. I started doing this three years ago. Before that, my stomach would hurt shortly after waking if I didn't eat right away and lead to nausea, hence decreasing my appetite. With 16 ounces of water working for me, I don't have that issue anymore. 


2. BreakfastI open the windows in my bedroom, put on some easy or feel good music, and make the bed. That's when I'm ready for BREAKFAST. I used to eat cereal or oatmeal with fruit, but the past few weeks I've been drinking this smoothie and I'm addicted. 

Click here for the recipe. 


3. Spiritual Time As soon as I'm done with my smoothie, I have my "spiritual" time. I practice Nichiren Buddhism and so in the mornings I chant nam-myoho-renge-kyo. When I'm chanting, I make a determination to succeed in my day and for the happiness of others. This practice makes me feel 10 feet tall, so all the problems that come up in my day are easily or at least more easily surmountable. 


4. Mind, Body, and Puppy When I'm done chanting, I continue to get my mind right by listening to something encouraging or motivational. I like to pull up a YouTube video or Podcast. Here's one I listened to recently. I put in my earphones and take my dog for a walk. This is a four in one for me (Inspiration, Nature time, Exercise, Puppy time.)

Okay, now I'm ready to take on the world. 

If you're thinking that you don't have time for ALL this in the morning, then tailor it to fit your life, but make it a priority. I challenge you to tryout these three tips for one week and see the improvements in your life. 

Now I have to ask:


What do you do in the morning that gets you ready to take on the world? 
And
What will you start implementing in your morning routine to make you more effective throughout your day? 

Seven 11 Birthday Blog Hop with GIVEAWAYS!!

This is such a wonderful and terrifying day for me. It's my birthday. 

And I'm turning 30 . . . Holy s***! Where does the time go. 




But we've got a lot of fun things to share for this month's hop as it is the hop's one year anniversary. 

So I guess I'm not the only one having a birthday. 

And since birthdays are about celebrating life, I've decided to donate mine to an amazing cause called Charity:Water. 

You may be surprised to know that there are 748 million people without access to clean water. Something we have abundance of and take for granted. The good news is we can lower that number with a small donation. I'm asking my friends, family and yes, my lovely readers to donate on behalf of my birthday. I set a goal of raising $1000. We've raised $150, changing the lives of FIVE people. 

You can check out the campaign here: https://my.charitywater.org/amandas-3.... 

Here's the interview that inspired my campaign:

Thank you for considering a donation. Every little bit helps!

Now here's seven lines from my upcoming novel. I'll be announcing exclusive information about the release on my newsletter soon. If you haven't joined, sign up below!

Selena smiles, letting out a little laugh. “I definitely haven’t heard that question from a man before. But the key to success is the same wherever you go. It’s about confidence. You have to walk in like you own the place. Because when you roar like a lion, they’ll treat you like you’re the king of the jungle.”

“Or queen,” I say.


Just to make things more fun, I'm giving away an ebook copy of 
The Commitment Test

a Rafflecopter giveaway IT'S BONUS TIME! Here are the links to 5 other AMAZING authors who have agreed to share seven lines from their upcoming books. Get a behind the scenes glimpse of 5 stories!
Heather HildenbrandHeather's giving away at $70 Amazon gift card on Instagram!

Kayla Smith
Justine Winter
Steph NussCheck out Steph's book giveaway on Goodread: A signed copy of Fantasized by You

Felicia Tatum
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June Seven 11 Blog Hop-Can you guess the premise??

I feel like I've been living in a cave, writing and editing this new book. Now, I'm ready to rejoin the world and get back to blogging and social media. So it's a perfect time to come back with this month's blog hop.

Today is June 11th, which means it's time for another seven lines from my new comedic novel, which is expected to release in August! I've been tight lipped on this project and I'll announce it next month. 

Can you guess the premise based on today's seven lines . . . . ?

Something’s different this morning. I can see clearly though my glasses are on the nightstand. Weird. I stretch out under the covers of my warm, cozy bed. My full bladder is screaming for me to get up. That’s normal. But I also have this light pressure in my crotch and it feels a little sensitive. 

IT'S BONUS TIME! Here are the links to 6 other AMAZING authors who have agreed to share seven lines from their upcoming books. Get a behind the scenes glimpse of 6 stories!
Heather Hildenbrand
Kayla Smith
Justine Winter
Felicia Tatum
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You Have a Voice, So Listen!

Today, author Karla Sorensen takes over my blog on an important topic for readers and authors alike.

Hearing Your Own Voice

Writing a book is hard. Selling them is even harder. And every single day, there are lots and LOTS of books published, whether traditionally or self-published. Readers have more choices now than ever before, and it’s fairly overwhelming, isn’t it?

So, as an author, what’s the best way to crack into that sweet spot? You know the one, not only writing books, but actually selling enough to make some dough. Well, I could write a tortured, handsome, alpha billionaire or a step-brother romance and I’d probably do fairly well for myself. And if I made him a shape-shifter? Watch out, Amazon Top 100, I’m comin’ for you.

We all laugh at some of the books out for sale now, you know which ones I’m talking about. Dinosaurs and toasters and were-bears, oh my! I’m of the thought process that writing for the market is dangerous. And I say that knowing that I may sound naively principled to some people. Stupidly optimistic.

But what if next year, those books we all kind of scoff at in disbelief, those space dinosaur toaster-loving erotica become the hottest thing in ebooks since Christian Grey used a riding crop? Would you write it?

I won’t. I’m going to write my book, in my voice. I’m going to write realistic love stories about everyday people that make the reader laugh and smile and maybe tear up a little bit. The best compliment that I receive, the one that makes me smile the biggest, is when people tell me that they can ‘hear’ me when they’re reading my book. The heroine in my debut romantic comedy isn’t me. I am definitely not Casey, even if I wish I could be as organized and energetic as she is. And I’m certainly not like Jake, the silent, slightly broody hero. But when people read my words, they should be able to hear ME. I’m an upbeat person, I say things like ‘fricken’ and ‘dude’ a lot. I like to make people smile when I talk to them. I’m just a touch sarcastic and if I like you, I’ll probably give you crap.

And the reason I’m giving you a rundown of my personality is because these are things that you should be able to pick up in my writing. A good writer will harness their voice in everyday life and channel it into their writing. I firmly believe that if I write the books that feel most natural to me, the ones that I love to write because they’re ME, that readers will respond better. Now, I may not sell as many as if I churned out something a little steamier and a little darker, but honestly, I’m okay with that.

It’s also very easy to get into the comparison game when you become an author. Man, I wish I could make someone cry with laughter like Kristan Higgins or give someone goosebumps with my prose like Tarryn Fisher. But I can’t. My friend Whitney Barbetti wrote a book called Ten Below Zero that is categorized as an ‘ugly cry’ book. It’s beautiful and touching and it’s just not the kind of book that I could ever write. And isn’t that awesome? I’m just me. I’m Karla Sorensen, and that is the best, most successful writer I can be. I still get to be ‘reader Karla’ and experience these books that I couldn’t pull off writing. Those three authors that I mentioned? They write THEIR books, their way. They found a niche and they found an audience who feels something reading their words.

It’s all any author can hope for.

So if you’re reading this and you aspire to be a writer, go for it! But stay true to YOU. I know I will be.

Check out Karla on her site at https://karlasorensenbooks.wordpress.com FacebookTwitter

And don't forget her latest title, By Your Side- available now!
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