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April 11, 2019
The Superhero Drunk Monkey “I’ll save the day!”
When The Drunk Monkey is playing the role of the Superhero it wants to save the day and be the hero. The Super Hero is a do-gooder. It thinks that other people are weak and can’t manage themselves. It meddles in everyone else’s business. Always trying to fix everyone and everything. Sorry, no peace of […]
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April 10, 2019
The Worrier Drunk Monkey “I fear the unknown.”
When The Drunk Monkey is playing the role of The Worrier it fears the unknown. The Worrier is trying to protect you from all of the danger will probably never happen. Worrying, fretting, doubting and uncertainty. That’s how you know The Drunk Monkey is playing the role of The Worrier. There is no peace of mind […]
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April 9, 2019
KPFK Inner Visions Interview
Hey! Nita Vallens conducted a stellar interview with me and it aired today on KPFK. Here’s a link to the podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
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The Victim Drunk Monkey “I can not escape my circumstances.”
When the Drunk Monkey is playing the role of The Victim it tells you that you are powerless. The Victim sees the world as a dangerous place filled with scary people who will take advantage of you. The Victim steals your power by making you believe that you have no control over your life. You […]
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April 8, 2019
The Psychic Drunk Monkey “I can predict the future.”
When the Drunk Monkey playing the role of the Psychic it believes that it can predict the future. It wastes your time pretending it knows what’s going to happen, and then acts accordingly. Then you get surprised and your expectations get broken when your predictions don’t come true. You can’t be at peace if you […]
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April 7, 2019
The Protector Drunk Monkey “I’ll keep you safe.”
When The Drunk Monkey is playing the role of The Protector it identifies potential threats and avoids them or protects you against them. The Protector Drunk Monkey wastes your time and disturbs your peace because it’s constantly scouting out potential danger. It keeps you ready for anything and never allows you to be fully relaxed. […]
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April 6, 2019
The Judge Drunk Monkey “I know what is right and wrong.”
When The Drunk Monkey is playing the role of The Judge it believes that it is the authority on life. The Judge Drunk Monkey believes that it knows what is right or wrong for all people and all situations. It holds people accountable to agreements that they never made and condemns them for not […]
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April 5, 2019
The Enlightened Drunk Monkey “I am all knowing”
The Enlightened is the self-appointed spiritually elite. From its lofty perch, it holds people accountable to a code of ethics, morals, and values that no one actually agreed to. And, then decides who is worth helping, who is good, and who is bad. It is convinced that other people just don’t get it. Daily […]
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April 4, 2019
The Distractor Drunk Monkey “I shift your focus to the unimportant.”
When The Drunk Monkey is playing the role of The Distractor it pulls your attention away from what you really desire. No matter what you want to work on, it finds a way to shift your focus, and invest energy into thoughts, ideas, and actions into things that aren’t really important to you. Daily Enlightenment […]
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April 3, 2019
The Bully Drunk Monkey “I beat you up.”
When The Drunk Monkey is playing the role of The Bully it uses its power, opinions, and judgments against you. There is no escape from the ongoing assault. It tells you that you are too fat, too short, not smart enough, not attractive enough, not a good parent on and on into eternity it unleashes […]
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