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The Restoration of Safety Within You

As with all things in duality, we have a very outward focused way of being as it relates to energy. You might say you feel a certain way because of “that person”. The truth is you don’t feel that way because of that person, you feel that way because you have an infinite power station inside of you that’s just been turned on. The switch just got flicked on and you are now generating your own energy, you are connected to your own energy. All of the biological phenomena required to facilitate the evolution of you, your brain, is now in flow. 

But what is that energy? It’s the sexual energy, the sacred creative potential of the universe and it’s ascending just as you are ascending. As that energy flows upward, it starts to nurture and nourish every chakra and eventually moves up to the top of the brain and activates all of the dormant centers in your brain. We’ve heard that we don’t use 97% of our brain, give or take, and guess what, you can now activate that 97% of your brain.

There is nothing you need to do with any of these emotions or feelings. Just welcome them. 

For some of you that may have experienced sexual abuse and trauma, this might be difficult. Because of your experiences, you feel it is not safe for you to be in this sexual energy. This is why it’s important to restore the foundation of safety within you first, so you can be in this creative energy and relax into it. Being in that energy doesn’t mean you are going to be abused again and it’s not going to attract people in your life that will take advantage of you. 

You don’t have to be afraid of being in that energy. You can move through the awakening of this. It’s what you’ve been waiting for. You’ve been waiting for the creative power within you to finally awaken. This creative power is a byproduct of the restoration of safety within the experience of the individual. 

Rest in the awareness of your breath for a living meditation.

The Truth of You

Many of you are living in this misunderstanding or false framework for what evolution is and what transformation looks like. You’ve got it all wrong about you. You are the most beautiful thing in creation. 

What you have to get or understand or begin to become aware of is the fact that every aspect of you is true. The created self is true, everything you deemed as the contraction or what’s unlovable about you and the part where nothing matters, where everything is in a state of flow, that is also true. 

You have two aspects of you that are playing out concurrently. Both of these seemingly contrasting aspects of you are playing out in every moment. What you are unaware of, or what you have yet to become fully powered in is the greater truth. The greater truth is that the creative self is an entry point to the essential self, into expansion. 

For example, a person who is on the spiritual path, has a day where they are angry. And, they make themselves wrong for being angry. What they are missing out on is the fact that the anger they are experiencing isn’t a commentary on their state of consciousness at the level of the essential self. It’s just an experience they are having as the created self. 

How to Work With It:

Whenever you accept the creative self, you access the essential self. It’s that simple. Your identity is the entry point into infinity. 

Resting in the awareness of your breath, transforms your life into a living meditation. 

Some Days You Just Have To Wave The Flag

Thank God that my life continues to put me in touch with the feeling of powerlessness that I still have within me.

I had a moment of feeling completely overwhelmed and I could feel the powerlessness underneath it. Being a parent is hard. Some days you just have to wave the flag. I don’t know what wormhole I went down, but I found myself, after my daughter had a meltdown, in a yucky place where I stayed the rest of the day. 

My place of happy joy joy that was wonderful, that rainbow glitter place, my daughter decided was not going to happen. She threw a shute down to the yucky side of the street directly in front of me and low and behold, I did the slip and slide on the seltzer all the way down the yucky side of the street. I proceeded to live there the remainder of my day. Being a dad is hard. Staying awake and aware is hard. I have feelings of being so powerless as a parent. 

It’s amazing what the entry point into presence is. Even powerlessness is the entry point into presence. 

Here’s to everyone that is overwhelmed and powerless underneath it all. The more we expand, the more we align with that mad wicked awesome mother of dimensional energy that puts us into witness consciousness and allows us to remember we are divine beings unfolding in divine order. That’s how it works.

Resting in the awareness of your breath, transforms your life into a living meditation. 

An Abundance Hack for Having More

I hate the word hack. Let’s call this an abundance top tip: Panache’s top tip for abundance. 

What we have to do is wake up from the illusion of scarcity. I don’t want you to live at any level of scarcity. 

I began to notice that there are certain individuals that have this habit of carrying money around with them everywhere that they go. I thought this was weird at first, why carry money around everywhere you go when in today’s world you just need a credit card or debit card? 

And then I got it. They are carrying cash around as a physical reminder of the abundance they have access to. You don’t have the same relationship with your credit or debit card. So, I would like you to try it for three months. It doesn’t have to be a lot of money. It just needs to be money so that whenever you question abundance, or you question your right to earn and your right to live, you can look at it and be reminded of money, of the abundance you have access to. That way anytime you feel there is a need for money or for remembering abundance you can look at it and with the energy use it like a financial comfort blanket. 

There are certain people that take this to extremes. Floyd Mayweather carries a backpack full of $100 bills everywhere he goes. I am not asking you to do this. Nor am I asking you to drive your net worth around or to get blinged out, iced out chains where your net worth is around your neck. Just make sure you have whatever a good amount of cash is on you and with you so that every time you have this narrative that there’s not enough money in the world, or how am I going to pay my bills, you have it. You have the energy of it. 

I want you to try this. It has made such a huge difference for so many in our community, to be able to access physical, tangible cash, and to look at it and have it override all of the generational inherited frameworks around money and abundance that they have received. 

In a digital world, it’s sometimes good to be analog. 

Rest in the awareness of your breath for a living meditation.

The Wow of Being Human

At some point, we need to get to a place where we realize how magical life is. It takes your breath away. This morning I saw the sunrise and in that moment nothing else mattered. It was one of those WOW moments. My life wasn’t being questioned, no part of my existence was in the balance, I was just one with the sunrise, the emerging sunlight. It felt so good to be free of the cognitive burden of needing to understand or to figure it out.  

In that sunrise, everything just makes sense. I want to live my remaining days in the wow, to remain in the wow of being human. 

To live in the wow has been very challenging for so many of you. It’s time to align with this being human thing, so fully that there is no longer a need to understand it. We weave a story that we need to weave in order to reconcile the fact we are on a blue planet, spinning in an infinite universe.

Maybe I am over simplifying everything and maybe I’m not. Sometimes the simplicity takes away the need to understand everything and to figure everything out. As spiritual people, it seems we always need some kind of spiritual, astrological or vibrational explanation for everything. 

Our need to understand everything takes away from our simple enjoyment of being a human being. There are days we just need to eat a jelly donut. 

Rest in the awareness of your breath for a living meditation. 

An Unconditional Relationship with Yourself

As human beings, we have a compartmentalized hierarchical relationship with ourselves. That means that certain aspects of ourselves are okay and other aspects of us are not. 

In the context of evolution, by virtue that you are a human being, you are here to be all of it. You can’t make the choice to be human and then fundamentally disregard fifty percent of the human equation. It defeats the purpose of why you came in the first place. It would be like going to Disney World and hating Mickey Mouse!!

You have to get to a place where you realize that we are a global community, and a giant family and that nothing is happening in isolation. We are in the midst of an intersection: Having a conditional relationship with ourselves and therefore continuing to control with draconian measures and systems that leverage said control or are we going to have an unconditional relationship with ourselves. 

This is where it becomes interesting. For those of you that have come to love and accept yourself, have you noticed the way in which you are participating in life has shifted? For every single thing that is playing out in the world, knowledge and love of self is the answer and the key for every single thing. You can only impose control, manipulation, intimidation and draconian architecture over a group of people who don’t love themselves and are in fear.

To find out the genesis of this, ask yourself what is it that keeps me in limitation? What is it that keeps me in compliance with a life that at best, is a mediocre reflection of my infinite potential? The answer is simple: Get to a place where you love yourself. 

Resting in the awareness of your breath, transforms your life into a living meditation. 

Our Connection To Lineage

Every now and again, we get to a point in our evolution where we can’t seem to figure out what’s going on and why we’re feeling the way that we are feeling. When I get to those points, I always have to look generationally to see what’s in the lineage because sometimes it doesn’t make any sense in the context of my life. 

Our lineage can be the limiting factor. It’s important that we begin to recognize our lineage. We have ancestors that feel guilty about receiving, guilty about being successful, and we don’t even know how these things can influence us. 

What you don’t realize, is the sum total of your lineage you have access to. It’s all in your DNA. You have access to every potential that everyone in your lineage had access to. We get to activate that dormant recorded potential and the recorded information that serves us and switch off parts that don’t. We all have these aspects that we can’t quite access. For me, it is very powerful to look at ancestors and to tap into ancestry. 

When you think about it, If there is a potential that exists anywhere on the planet, you have access to it. This is why you shouldn’t make anyone special. If there is a potential somewhere, it means that potential is yours. We all have dormant potential and powers in our lineage. In the history of your family line, there was somebody that mastered the material world and you can connect with these family members and bring those potentials into being. 

When you look at evolution and history, you can see that humanity is being faced with a choice now. Do we continue to perpetuate the unconscious genetic choices that we’ve made thus far, and continue to remain in our animalistic nature that is divisive and based in conflict? Or, is it up to us to choose to activate peace, harmony and alignment.

Rest in the awareness of your breath for a living meditation. 

Be Willing To Receive What You Deserve To Have

Is it time to go beyond your own resistance to allow and receive what you are asking for. Freedom is the ability to live in peace and to love your life. On a scale of 1 to 10, how much do you love your life? Not just some parts of your life, but every area of your life. If it’s less than 5 or 6, it’s because you are not willing to receive what you deserve to have. 

You deserve to be in a respectful relationship. You deserve to be in a loving relationship with intimacy. You deserve to work in a place where you are valued, cherished and paid. You deserve to be at peace in your life no matter what you are going through, whatever that is. Why?, because that’s spirituality. 

Spirituality is the ability to remain at peace in the midst of the ever changing ebb and flow that is life. When you finally choose what works, and what’s in alignment with you, you are paying attention and you will find peace. 

It’s like going to a restaurant. Restaurants are hit or miss, sometimes a restaurant is a ten and you love it. Sometimes you go to a restaurant and it’s a three. On the worst day, the restaurant that was a ten will be an eight due to staffing or service. But it’s still an eight. 

Why is it you think you deserve less than what you should have? Sometimes we have to shake the tree. Fear is Grace. Shaking the tree is shaking you out of your adaptation of complacency. But, shaking the tree is a loving act. “What am I tolerating?, what am I putting up with?”’  These are all questions for you. It’s better to shake the tree than scorch the Earth. The clock is ticking. 

Resting in the awareness of your breath, transforms your life into a living meditation. 

Okay, Bring on the Crisis

Somehow in this world of crisis, all people want to talk about is crisis. We are all forever transformed as a result of the crisis we have gone through. I am sharing this with you because nobody would intentionally welcome a crisis in their lives. Nobody would intentionally say “Okay, bring on the crisis.” But I have to tell you there is such a gift available to all of us right now, through the pandemic, with everything we are going through in the world . . . it’s such a blessing. In the welcoming of a crisis, it puts you in the redefinition of yourself.

I like who I am now, especially after how life reduced me to my knees. I like this version of me. As I get older, I appreciate this version of being Panache Desai more and more. And there is an amazing freedom that comes along with having navigated my way through a crisis. Things aren’t such a big deal anymore. Having lived through a hurricane, and a child who almost died, and helping my wife with her health issues, I realize we are so blessed to have gone through these things. 

A crisis opens up a depth of empathy and compassion within us that we never would have had before. Is it hard? Yes, it’s hard, and you are not alone. Can it be challenging? Absolutely, it can  be very challenging. It challenges your world view, it challenges your identity, it helps you realize who your friends are and what’s important. It helps you not waste your time. There are so many amazing blessings that crisis brings into your life. 

But, I can tell you the most important gift a crisis can give you is humility. 

The pandemic affected everybody equally. It didn’t matter what you have, or what you did for a living. You had to be with yourself and with your family. You had to come to terms with the choices you had made consciously or unconsciously. Planet Earth got a break, nature got a reprieve. Suddenly, everything in our lives became more tangible and more real. 

What an amazing time it’s been, to go through this crisis, to be in community, to be held in a loving space and to be able to find peace in the midst of it all. 

Resting in the awareness of your breath, transforms your life into a living meditation. 

Life Is Responding To What’s Happening

As you evolve, you stop valuing all the stuff that doesn’t matter anymore and you start valuing the stuff that does. It’s how you feel everyday that matters. Do you want to keep revisiting your past thinking that revisiting your past is going to make a difference? It isn’t. 

How do you want to enjoy and make the best of your time? For me, time is a depreciating asset. It’s the only thing that has any value. I don’t have any ambition, motivation or drive and I’m so happy. Primarily, because I’m not afraid anymore.

Somebody who is extraordinarily driven is extraordinarily scared, insecure, and incomplete. They still think there is something outside of them that they have to accomplish or they have to prove something. Sadly, no matter how much this person accumulates or accomplishes, they will never be enough for them because they don’t know who they are or why they are here. 

Shift your fuel supply out of fear, lack and scarcity into love.  

At work, instead of just sitting there, take the time to stare out of your window and appreciate the clouds for a few moments. Take the time to breathe. Work is pretty basic: You’re responding to what’s happening. That’s what life is. It’s not complicated. 

Realize that nothing in life is complicated nor does it need to be complicated. By not valuing yourself, you fill your time with things that don’t mean anything because you have to prove your value. You’ll find you have so much extra time when you are not driven by fear anymore. 

As you evolve, you are no longer motivated or driven by the same things because you shift out of a short term mindframe into displaying the maturity to delay gratification. You understand that repetition, consistency and commitment are important and you also realize you don’t have to prove anymore or justify your value. You can actually enjoy every moment and phase in your life. 

Rest in the awareness of your breath for a living meditation.