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Early feedback from readers

It's early days. Well, it's been millennia already, so seven months since THE LIAR was published is really just the tiniest specks of time.

As an independent author/publisher, the power I wield over the publishing industry is less than negligible. But this is no ordinary book and I am confident people will read it; the organising of which I defer to Higher Powers.

Slowly, slowly, I'm getting feedback and comments about the book. One interesting comment, that has been made a number of times, is that readers have found their way into the book quite easily, agreeing with the points, noticing the liar in their own personal lives, seeing the labelling and judgment in action in the world, and then they get to the chapter on gender, or relationships, or sex, and get completely stuck, unable to go on.

I've heard, too, that it has been so upsetting for some sensitive souls, they have become tearful. I have had men become defensive, angry and personally offended at the suggestion that the violent labelling of the masculine, agreed to by all, is behind so much of the pain in our world. I've had one complaint so far from an activist who, confusing the message, felt I should have taken sides with them. I've had complaints that the book is depressing. And even a very intelligent, scientifically-minded, hard-core atheist friend of mine was, uncomfortably, unable to get past the assumption!

Now. For me, this is actually wonderful news because it means, primarily, I did a good job. Anyone who has any experience, real experience, of healing old perceptual wounds will know that this is never an easy task. To attempt the healing collectively is going to piss people off, undoubtedly. That is what happens when the truth is told and people don't want to hear it. And these are the first rumblings of the collective healing I intend.

However, in the meantime, defensiveness against the truth can take many forms. It can be violent and angry, but it can also take the form of a little voice persuading us to deep sadness and tears as we start to recognise the time-wasting we are all complicit in.

Whatever form the defensiveness takes, it's only goal is to protect and maintain the collective problem we have now, and prevent us from healing it, by persuading us off this sure fire tactic of examining our thoughts for truthfulness. Yet until we do this, we will never be free of the lies which make the human world, while it is still standing, nothing more than a living nightmare.

Offence is only ever taken by the liar. Remember that please, and do go on with the book. Remember, also, that I suggested you could skip those difficult chapters and come back to them at a time when you felt stronger and less in the stranglehold of the liar-mind.

Let us heal together, finally. Haven't we had enough of the madness?!

It might be that when we seriously start to undertake our collective healing, our personal work will get much easier. Furthermore, we might be leading our species to a state in which future generations will not suffer like we do now. That's my happy dream. What sort of legacy do you want to leave our descendants? More of the same? Really?

Maintaining defensiveness, i.e. not reading the book to the end, ultimately means that we have decided that maintaining our nightmare is more preferable than our freedom. So we are choosing to stay locked up inside our perceptual prisons, even though the cell door is swinging wide open.

The choice has ALWAYS been ours.

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Being like men

From the first mumblings of female liberation from 19th Century Western novels where - even though the protagonists were invariably obsessed with men - we started to hear the voice of the woman. Woman was finally represented as a real human being, with thoughts, ideas, feelings, intelligence and, most importantly, personal choice; even though the choice itself was only between Mr Darcy or Mr Bingley, a decision analysed most fiercely during a turn about the drawing room.


Black Madonna
Gone, nearly, are the days when, for a woman, hell itself was comparable to lacking a husband or, worse still, having fallen foul of some reproductive scandal. Western women most certainly needed men in order to survive, and in many other parts of the world nothing has changed; so why not be obsessed, indeed?

Freedom for women in the West has leapt forward since then, even though we are still foolishly obsessed with men. Nowadays, as we grow up we are told we can do anything we like, and our parents hope we will go out into the world and have a chance at being successful; this success not necessarily based on partnership with a man in any sense. We are expected to get qualifications and jobs in the same way that men do, and we do not question the opportunities we have, or even feel grateful for them. A cursory glance East or South, however, might quickly change our minds about that.

These days, our young daughters are obsessed with naive romancing, princes on white horses, pink castles, fairies, beautiful dresses, and the like, whilst our young sons are obsessed with killing. We never stop to ask ourselves which of these obsessions is more preferable, oddly enough.

More bizarrely still, even though the obvious is in plain sight, we have decided, en masse, that equality for women must mean "being the same as" men. We desire (fiercely sometimes) the freedom to kill and maim other humans in exactly the same way men do, as proof of our 'as good as them' state. For sure, equality for women implies being allowed to behave like men. But assuming the behaviour of men is the benchmark for our own newly-freed state is a descent into madness, and of course down to one thing only, the voice of destruction in our minds of which we're unaware.

Women, in general, whether they are aware of it or not, suffer very profound self-worth issues. This is without question, and is constantly witnessed by us all. Undoubtedly, this low self-valuation has been brought about by eons of existing as part of the personal possessions of a male, that 'object' with which he may do as he pleases. It's practically written into the DNA; for all of us, men and women. So, in our newly-freed state we simply don't notice that we are judging the goals of men as being 'better than' anything we could dream up ourselves, this hangover of 'not good enough' informing our lack of innovation.

Low self-esteem for the feminine explains why the spiritual/self-help field is dominated by women, because perceptually, for women, the only way is up. It also explains why we see very few men trying to free their minds in the same way, because the general assumption is that there's nothing wrong with the way men are, even in the midst of extreme evidence to the contrary.

All this madness is down to the liar's business in our minds. Please check out the book if you don't know what that the liar is.

So being like men is what women try to do. We try to succeed in worlds built and ruled by men, worlds in which women will never be welcome; not really a bad thing when examined rationally. We have assumed that all organisations, social structures, professional practices, ways of life and even religions are reasonable and good; worlds in which women must now enter, take part and succeed in, if they are to enjoy freedom. We have taken on the sexual behaviour of men, as if this too was part of the liberation deal. All this is a rather huge evolutionary step backwards for humanity, funnily enough.

Everything that has arisen from masculine thinking is deemed OK, reasonable, the Way Of It, unquestionable. No-one has taken the time to check whether this masculine world, as it is, is really worth making an effort over.

In fact, we are talking about the global cult of masculinity, that in which everyone believes without question. Masculinity defines itself by wholly fearful descriptive labels. I talk about this somewhere else, please have a look. It's of dire importance we start noticing this madness now. Even the labels defining masculinity that appear to be reasonable, tend to have some fearfulness in them; such as 'protection', for example,which always implies something we need to be protected from, confirming 'them and us' beliefs and so justifying war.

Women, on the other hand, have rather nice labels to define themselves by; it is simply the unquestioned and general belief that women are 'worse than' men that has persuaded everyone into believing that organic feminine labelling, such as nurturing, birthing, feeling and softness, implies weakness and should be derided, put down and destroyed.

So our little girls are just innocently projecting the fact that the feminine is a little more evolved than the masculine in its approach to life (assuming we are defining an evolutionary step forward as less murder and more peacefulness). The feminine ideal is loving and kind, and it wants relationships with other people that are not based on fucking.



Women have taken on the beliefs of men and consequently joined the denigrating of the rather good feminine labels and ideals. Liberated women hate pink, hate dolls, hate romance, etc...and would rather their daughters slept around and had guns maybe? We certainly have an issue here. Let's talk about this but notice that, in fact, the problem is really not women's.

It remains to be said that if women are able to function by re-defining themselves with violent and fearful masculine identifying labels, there is no reason that cannot work in the opposite direction. The masculine can easily define himself with the loving and caring labels reserved for the feminine, because in truth they are not limited to females, and instead belong to all. If the labels of Unity sit in the feminine camp, the liar can easily point to them and persuade us they are worthless goals, which it has done, very successfully.

Before a shift like the one I'm suggesting can happen, a massive perceptual change must take place, in which we start to discard anything previously thought worth achieving in our world that is defined by aggressive, violent, fearful, warring or separating labels. As we begin to understand what the liar is, this shift will happen automatically.

So, bizarrely for me, who used to fiercely hate pink, fairies and Jane Austen - believing that such preferences would ensure for me a far 'less than' state if I were to associate myself with them - the 'turns about the drawing room' are not such bad things at all, really.

Barbie still has to go though.


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Being like men

From the first mumblings of female liberation from 19th Century Western novels where - even though the protagonists were invariably obsessed with men - we started to hear the voice of the woman. Woman was finally represented as a real human being, with thoughts, ideas, feelings, intelligence and, most importantly, personal choice.


Black Madonna
Gone, nearly, are the days when, for a woman, hell itself was comparable to lacking a husband or, worse still, having fallen foul of some reproductive scandal. Western women most certainly needed men in order to survive, and in many other parts of the world nothing has changed; so why not be obsessed, indeed?

Freedom for women in the West has leapt forward since those days, even though we are still foolishly obsessed with men. Nowadays, as we grow up we are told we can do anything we like, and our parents hope we will go out into the world and have a chance at being successful; this success not necessarily based on partnership with a man in any sense. We are expected to get qualifications and jobs in the same way that men do, and we do not question the opportunities we have, or even feel grateful for them. A cursory glance East or South, however, might quickly change our minds about that.

These days, our young daughters are obsessed with naive romancing, princes on white horses, pink castles, fairies, beautiful dresses, and the like, whilst our young sons are obsessed with killing. We never stop to ask ourselves which of these obsessions is more preferable, oddly enough.

More bizarrely still, even though the obvious is in plain sight, we have decided, en masse, that equality for women must mean "being the same as" men. We desire (fiercely sometimes) the freedom to kill and maim other humans in exactly the same way men do, as proof of our 'as good as them' state. For sure, equality for women implies being allowed to behave like men. But assuming the behaviour of men is the benchmark for our own newly-freed state is a descent into madness, and of course down to one thing only, the voice of destruction in our minds of which we're unaware.

Women, in general, whether they are aware of it or not, suffer very profound self-worth issues. This is without question, and is constantly witnessed by us all. Undoubtedly, this low self-valuation has been brought about by eons of existing as part of the personal possessions of a male. It's practically written into the DNA; for all of us, men and women. So, in our newly-freed state we simply don't notice that we are judging the goals of men as being 'better than' anything we could dream up ourselves, this hangover of 'not good enough' informing our lack of innovation.

Low self-esteem for the feminine explains why the spiritual/self-help field is dominated by women, because perceptually, for women, the only way is up. It also explains why we see very few men trying to free their minds in the same way, because the general assumption is that there's nothing wrong with the way men are, even in the midst of extreme evidence to the contrary.

All this madness is down to the liar's business in our minds. Please check out the book if you don't know what that the liar is.

So being like men is what women try to do. We try to succeed in worlds built and ruled by men, worlds in which women will never really be welcome; not really a bad thing when examined rationally. We have assumed that all organisations, social structures, professional practices, ways of life and even religions are reasonable and good; worlds in which women must now enter, take part and succeed in, if they are to enjoy freedom. We have taken on the sexual behaviour of men, as if this too was part of the liberation deal. All this is a rather huge evolutionary step backwards for humanity, funnily enough.

Everything that has arisen from masculine thinking is deemed OK, reasonable, the Way Of It, unquestionable. No-one has taken the time to check whether this masculine world, as it is, is really worth making an effort over.

In fact, we are talking about the global cult of masculinity, that in which everyone believes without question. Masculinity defines itself by wholly fearful descriptive labels. I talk about this somewhere else, please have a look. It's of dire importance we start noticing this madness now. Even the labels defining masculinity that appear to be reasonable, tend to have some fearfulness in them; such as 'protection', for example,which always implies something we need to be protected from, confirming 'them and us' beliefs and so justifying war.

Women, on the other hand, have rather nice labels to define themselves by; it is simply the unquestioned and general belief that women are 'worse than' men that has persuaded everyone into believing that organic feminine labelling, such as nurturing, birthing, feeling and softness, implies weakness and should be derided, put down and destroyed.

So our little girls are really just projecting the fact that the feminine is a little more evolved than the masculine in its approach to life (assuming we are defining an evolutionary step forward as less killing of each other and more peacefulness). The feminine ideal is loving and kind, and it wants relationships with other people that are not based on fucking.



Women have taken on the beliefs of men and consequently joined the denigrating of the rather good feminine labels and ideals. Liberated women hate pink, hate dolls, hate romance, etc...and would rather their daughters slept around and had guns maybe? We certainly have an issue here. Let's talk about this but notice that, in fact, the problem is really not women's.

It remains to be said that if women are able to function by re-defining themselves with violent and fearful masculine identifying labels, there is no reason that cannot work in the opposite direction. The masculine can easily define himself with the loving and caring labels reserved for the feminine, because in truth they are not limited to females, and instead belong to all. If the labels of unity sit in the feminine camp, the liar can easily point to them and persuade us they are worthless goals, which it has done, very successfully.

Before a shift like the one I'm suggesting can happen, a massive perceptual change must take place, in which we start to discard anything previously thought worth achieving in our world that is defined by aggressive, violent, fearful, warring or separating labels. As we begin to understand what the liar is, this shift will happen automatically.

So, bizarrely for me, who used to fiercely hate pink, fairies and Jane Austen - believing that such preferences would make me far 'less than' if I associated myself with them - the 'turns about the drawing room' are not such bad things at all, really.

Barbie still has to go though.


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Guided Meditation - Life Without The Liar

I am working on an audio file of this. Thank you for your patience <3 

Imagine you lost your memory.
Actually, imagine you have TOTAL amnesia.
Think about what this means. Apart from some obvious stuff, like the way your body looks right now, you don’t know anything specific about yourself. You have no name, no address, no family or friends with names and histories of which you are aware, and you have no personal past experience in your mind to call upon.
This may sound scary, but it is not. In fact, you are not frightened about this at all. You have no ‘need’ to know anything. You just are. Things are as they are, at this moment, without a story from the past informing your thoughts about everything you see and do.
Your mind is not blank or stupid, it is simply empty, fresh and alert.
You are not dragged down by any thought, idea or belief at all.
You have no negative, or positive, judgments to make on anything or anyone, because you have no experience to call upon that would set up such judgments as reasonable.
You are calmly and quietly alert and relaxed, yet ready to act if needs be.
You KNOW you are loved.
You KNOW that nothing can ever hurt you.
You KNOW that you are consciousness, this energy of awareness you are experiencing right now. And you know, now, that it is what everyone shares.  You know now, for sure, that this is what and who you ARE in truth. You know that everyone else is exactly the same as you.  Enjoy this peaceful awareness of reality, as it is. *  *  *
Back in the world, amongst those who have not yet experienced what you are experiencing right now, you may slip back a little and start to wonder how it might feel to identify yourself with how your body looks – perhaps someone suggests you do that.  You are flabbergasted! This suggestion sounds so absurd to you, because you realise that to limit your conscious identity to how you look would mean giving up this infinite and alert awareness. This is more than a little bit funny to you. This emptiness you are experiencing, the story-less self, is peaceful, calm and full of love. You know that if you were to single out something in the material world to identify with, you would lose this peace immediately.
You don’t want that. This peace is too wonderful, way too precious to give up for an identity based on hair, eyes, skin-colour, body-size, gender or which other bodies you might be having sex with, or wanting to, or what material objects in the world you may claim ownership over or believe you could not be happy without.
You are the story-less self.
It could be compared to a state of fearless amnesia.
Enjoy this state of fearless emptiness and alertness, ready to act.
And listen closely for the loving assurances you are undoubtedly receiving.

  

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The extension of miracles

Now, I'm probably never going to be any good at correctly quoting 'A Course In Miracles', and that's fine; there are many people putting effort into this and I'll leave that sort of thing to them. In any case, it's just too easy to use quotes to support the liar's business, by leaving out essential info that might put the quote we're looking at into a different perspective.

For example, the Course is quite clear on the human perceptual world being an illusion. However, it never says that a close examination of this 'illusion' is unnecessary - quite the opposite in fact. The quoting of the 'world is illusion' idea, without the broader instructions that we must look first in order to see it for what it is, seems to suggest we don't have to really look at anything we do. This is obviously wrong and leads to Course students with decades of study under their belts still stuck on forgiving their best friend's minor meannesses, and the majority of Course students, of any length of study, maintaining a total inability to look at the supposedly bigger 'stuff' without flinching.

Why can't we look at the difficult stuff? Because we are persuaded not to by this misperception of the 'world is illusion' idea by you-know-who successfully obfuscating the instructions, again. It's a sneaky bugger I tell you.

Anyways. What are we talking about here? Oh yes, the extension of miracles. There's a great bit in the Course somewhere on this. Someone else might be able to highlight where this is exactly, but the gist is, once we open ourselves to performing miracles, we become a conduit for God's Love which acts through us. But we first have to stop trying to control this process by deciding which miracles to do, and which ones not to do, and who needs them, and who can wait, etc. We have to stop thinking we know what all the outcomes of each one should be, and how it's still all up to us to control everything miraculous we do, as well as the whole universe and everything in it; the liar's game again, of course.

The Course says that we cannot know the full extension of the power of a miracle. For example, I might smile at a person today, with love in my heart, yet without even knowing I do it, because I'm joyful and open to spreading this good, good stuff about. This smile may count as a miracle and the extension of my action in the world could be utterly incredible and wondrous. A bit like the chaotic butterfly's wing, this one smile might inspire the person to do something they weren't going to do had they not been smiled at, and this action could have a further knock on effect, like miraculous dominoes, which may, perhaps, cause a war to stop somewhere far across the world. This is entirely possible and demonstrates, in theory, the wonder of it all.

I had already seen this amazing business in action through the work of certain teachers of mine, and years afterwards it made sense, once I'd understood the Course a little. I finally realised what it was that I was seeing. This was the practical lesson of the Course teachings on the extension of miracles. There's always a practical lesson, thankfully.



Land of Healing

Before the Course came into my life, I had embarked on an intense healing journey. I was initially directed to study shamanism, which is never instructions on how to be a shaman but is, instead, always a deep personal cleansing process, which may or may not lead a student to becoming a full-time healer, usually not. We met and stalked the liar (I didn't know we were doing that at the time either) in all its bitter forms in order to release it and undo.

We sat naked in sweat-lodges. We bared our darkest memories in shadowy, night-time circles. We tracked lost soul parts. We argued, cried, made dear friends and bitter enemies. We breathed hard and remembered being born. We journeyed to worlds beyond our imaginings and trusted those that we met there with their messages and loving advice. We had a ball!! And some of us healed.

What I began to notice, after our meetings, was the massive healing that went on outside and beyond them; these meetings of equals in which the main and single intention was for healing, and nothing else. The healing that occurred outside of the formal healing setting was astonishing in its breadth and limitlessness, and I marvelled at how it could pull in others not obviously connected to the circle for their own healing. I see this still going on today, with this beautiful circle of healing Love intention.

This is surely what is meant by Christ in A Course In Miracles when he points out to us the limitless application that a miracle can have in the world, and how we cannot hope to know how far the healing may travel in time and space.

I'm so happy to be doing this work, without really knowing what it is that I am doing.


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Forgiving the Unforgivable - Delhi Gang Rape Murder

Rape is to be understood, from a peaceful perspective, as the human-identified-as-masculine's attempt to project his fear and guilt, and so rid himself of it, onto the label by which he is not defined, his opposite, the 'them' to his 'us', the feminine. There is absolutely no other reason for gender abuse of this form, although the liar will be delighted to persuade us there is and, by doing so, obfuscate the truth and avoid being uncovered as the main culprit.

Gender abuse is the liar's game at its most effective.

In Forgiving The Unforgivable, we are dealing with reportage; a group witnessing of the regrettable events that occur in our beautiful world, without becoming reactionary and irrational. The sleeping human mind hears the word 'rape', takes a sharp intake of breath and wishes it would go away. And by doing so, we have collectively agreed that the 'victim' has been successfully tarnished and is now guilty in the place of the 'aggressor'. The liar's key tenet, that guilt can be projected, has been proven. Peaceful eradication of gender abuse is perhaps the key to resolving all differences everywhere.

If you don't know what the liar is, please check out the book.

To make a start on forgiving hugely emotive events such as the recent Delhi gang-rape and murder of a young woman (info about it here) we must be able to put our own perception inside the mind of the perpetrators and try to compassionately understand how any human being, including ourselves, might be persuaded into acting so destructively. We must do our best in this practice, as it serves to free our own minds from the torment of condemning our brothers and puts us in a position of being able to resolve conflict in all situations.
It's difficult to say why the gang rape in Delhi last year provoked such a massive reaction from the populace. Gender abuse and gang rape is not uncommon in India, Western female tourists also suffering it on a regular basis, as a quick google will show. Perhaps Indians had simply had enough this time. But after the rage, it was quickly business-as-usual for the rapists again.

It is clear that there is no real solution in angry reaction, vengeance or punishment. Nothing changes, and things may even be getting worse. In the West, where women are more able to stand up to male bullies, we see a concurrent rise in sex crimes against children. What we must do is ask ourselves what state of mind has become so fearful, so powerless, that such behaviour becomes reasonable? 
The answer, first and foremost, is that such a mind believes it is a body, labelled with masculine ideas of power and dominance, which are symbolised by the defining different part, the penis, as the weapon. It is likely true that pretty much all of us believe these ideas at some level already, but what causes some minds to act on these false principles to extremes?
Probably we are talking about minds which have experienced extreme oppression by other similarly labelled mind/body conglomerates. Human males who have suffered severe levels of humiliation, poverty, even violence and aggression from their own side, whilst hearing a daily cultural mantra that the female is 'weaker', 'worse than'. There is no doubt that extreme levels of abuse and bullying can cause people to seek redress by abusing and bullying another person felt weaker than they. Female persons fall into that category quite easily, especially in India.
Whatever the reasons behind horrific acts of violence, we know that a person is believing and acting on lies alone. Lies based on ownership and entitlement of females, arriving as a perceptual hangover from lower stages of evolution. Lies based on humiliation and degradation in the personal life experience. Gang rape is the liar's idea alone. It could not come from the peaceful mind of the noble human beings we truly are.

Reports said she apologised, as if it was her fault. And this is the key to understanding what rape and abuse based on gender is really about.
The belief that we are separate from God and each other generates a profound level of fear and guilt, as well the certainty we are to be punished by God for believing we were able to separate ourselves from Him at all. All humans believe this at varying levels of consciousness, even if we are unaware of it and claim to believe something quite the opposite. The fact is we could NEVER be separate from God, so the belief that we are causes a huge split in our minds and instead of facing the problem as it is, the liar bids us deny it and project it into unlimited forms in the world, so we never get to see the real issue.
This foundational separation psychosis is the super-class of all other fears.

We are told and believe we can shift our own fearfulness onto another person and by doing so relieve ourselves of our own burden of guilt. The other person or people we single out for this will be those we have defined as 'different to' and 'worse than' us. The most obvious of these dualistic differences is gender and, as long as the focus of our compassion remains on the 'victims', we will not solve this problem. 

We have been dealing entirely with the effects and not the cause, as per the liar's design, and this needs to change.
So it is all down to believing lies, feeling guilty for doing so and then attempting to get rid of the guilt by dumping it on someone else. And all of us believe it is possible to rid ourselves of guilt in this way. Thankfully, this is impossible, but while we believe it to be true it is causing us endless suffering.
We are not excusing anything here, by the way, but we need to understand why we behave the way we do because, if we don't, we are likely to label each other 'evil' at the liar's suggestion. Labelling a person 'evil' means we are doomed to remain in the fearful hell we have created with our faulty thinking, because there is no-one responsible for anything if it can never be us. Pointing the finger means that gender abuse, and all other human horrors, remain issues we can never resolve. Healing and resolution is never an option under the liar's advises. 

When we accept the liar as the only enemy, we can see that we all have exactly the same problem to deal with. Also, we see that we would do EXACTLY the same thing given the same circumstances as these poor, fearful men who are so tormented in their minds that destroying the innocent is seen as the only option for feeling better about themselves. 

Pointing the finger, vengeance and violent punishment is just a deflection of the real problem again and we quickly find ourselves behaving just like those we have defined as 'less than' human. Vicious revenge on rapists has done absolutely nothing about gender abuse, which continues unabated. 

Undoubtedly, those with blood on their hands point the finger away from themselves as well. But be sure that we all have blood on our hands whilst we continue to perceptually split human beings into 'better' and 'worse' by gender in any way at all, however subtle. These divisive ideas, thoughts, jokes, throw-away comments and beliefs are the seeds of the horrors we are unable to comprehend.

The truth is we are all responsible for the gang rape murder of Nirbhaya because we are all listening in the same way to a voice not our own that is hell bent on our destruction. We cannot be condemned for our actions, however, because we have no idea what this voice is. None of us know what we are doing, or why.
Forgiveness is looking peacefully at, and understanding why, a person could not have known what he was doing when he did it. And in all cases this is because the liar is ruling the mind. Once we become clear about this there is hope, because once we know what the problem is exactly we have a chance to solve it. 

Reactions based on lies will never solve a problem based on lies.



The resistance to truly forgiving and undoing gender abuse, in all its forms, is a need to cherish our self-identification with violent and separating labels on the one-hand, and victimhood on the other. None of the labels are true and none of them we decided upon ourselves. This is the liar's game, now so easily seen.

There is no leap of faith required in forgiving a brother when we understand how the liar functions. It all makes perfect sense. It is natural to feel a deep sadness about the fact that humans are so lost and unhealed, but at the same time there is a profound compassion for those who really have no idea what they are doing and so wantonly, ignorantly, go about destroying everything. 

Understanding the liar gives me hope. I am clear now on why the world is as it is and will continue to be so until we perform a collective healing of the human mind. 

We have started on that now.




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Forgiving The Unforgivable - Delhi Gang Rape Murder

Rape is to be understood, from a peaceful perspective, as the human-identified-as-masculine's attempt to project his fear and guilt, and so rid himself of it, onto the label by which he is not defined, his opposite, the 'them' to his 'us', the feminine. There is absolutely no other reason for gender abuse of this form, although the liar will be delighted to persuade us there is and, by doing so, obfuscate the truth and avoid being uncovered as the main culprit.

Gender abuse is the liar's game at its most effective.

In Forgiving The Unforgivable, we are dealing with reportage; a group witnessing of the regrettable events that occur in our beautiful world, without becoming reactionary and irrational. The sleeping human mind hears the word 'rape', takes a sharp intake of breath and wishes it would go away. And by doing so, we have collectively agreed that the 'victim' has been successfully tarnished and is now guilty in the place of the 'aggressor'. The liar's key tenet, that guilt can be projected, has been proven. Peaceful eradication of gender abuse is perhaps the key to resolving all differences everywhere.

If you don't know what the liar is, please check out the book.

To make a start on forgiving hugely emotive events such as the recent Delhi gang-rape and murder of a young woman (info about it here) we must be able to put our own perception inside the mind of the perpetrators and try to compassionately understand how any human being, including ourselves, might be persuaded into acting so destructively. We must do our best in this practice, as it serves to free our own minds from the torment of condemning our brothers and puts us in a position of being able to resolve conflict in all situations.
It's difficult to say why the gang rape in Delhi last year provoked such a massive reaction from the populace. Gender abuse and gang rape is not uncommon in India, Western female tourists also suffering it on a regular basis, as a quick google will show. Perhaps Indians had simply had enough this time. But after the rage, it was quickly business-as-usual for the rapists again.

It is clear that there is no real solution in angry reaction, vengeance or punishment. Nothing changes, and things may even be getting worse. In the West, where women are more able to stand up to male bullies, we see a concurrent rise in sex crimes against children. What we must do is ask ourselves what state of mind has become so fearful, so powerless, that such behaviour becomes reasonable? 
The answer, first and foremost, is that such a mind believes it is a body, labelled with masculine ideas of power and dominance, which are symbolised by the defining different part, the penis, as the weapon. It is likely true that pretty much all of us believe these ideas at some level already, but what causes some minds to act on these false principles to extremes?
Probably we are talking about minds which have experienced extreme oppression by other similarly labelled mind/body conglomerates. Human males who have suffered severe levels of humiliation, poverty, even violence and aggression from their own side, whilst hearing a daily cultural mantra that the female is 'weaker', 'worse than'. There is no doubt that extreme levels of abuse and bullying can cause people to seek redress by abusing and bullying another person felt weaker than they. Female persons fall into that category quite easily, especially in India.
Whatever the reasons behind horrific acts of violence, we know that a person is believing and acting on lies alone. Lies based on ownership and entitlement of females, arriving as a perceptual hangover from lower stages of evolution. Lies based on humiliation and degradation in the personal life experience. Gang rape is the liar's idea alone. It could not come from the peaceful mind of the noble human beings we truly are.

Reports said she apologised, as if it was her fault. And this is the key to understanding what rape and abuse based on gender is really about.
The belief that we are separate from God and each other generates a profound level of fear and guilt, as well the certainty we are to be punished by God for believing we were able to separate ourselves from Him at all. All humans believe this at varying levels of consciousness, even if we are unaware of it and claim to believe something quite the opposite. The fact is we could NEVER be separate from God, so the belief that we are causes a huge split in our minds and instead of facing the problem as it is, the liar bids us deny it and project it into unlimited forms in the world, so we never get to see the real issue.
This foundational separation psychosis is the super-class of all other fears.

We are told and believe we can shift our own fearfulness onto another person and by doing so relieve ourselves of our own burden of guilt. The other person or people we single out for this will be those we have defined as 'different to' and 'worse than' us. The most obvious of these dualistic differences is gender and, as long as the focus of our compassion remains on the 'victims', we will not solve this problem. 

We have been dealing entirely with the effects and not the cause, as per the liar's design, and this needs to change.
So it is all down to believing lies, feeling guilty for doing so and then attempting to get rid of the guilt by dumping it on someone else. And all of us believe it is possible to rid ourselves of guilt in this way. Thankfully, this is impossible, but while we believe it to be true it is causing us endless suffering.
We are not excusing anything here, by the way, but we need to understand why we behave the way we do because, if we don't, we are likely to label each other 'evil' at the liar's suggestion. Labelling a person 'evil' means we are doomed to remain in the fearful hell we have created with our faulty thinking, because there is no-one responsible for anything if it can never be us. Pointing the finger means that gender abuse, and all other human horrors, remain issues we can never resolve. Healing and resolution is never an option under the liar's advises. 

When we accept the liar as the only enemy, we can see that we all have exactly the same problem to deal with. Also, we see that we would do EXACTLY the same thing given the same circumstances as these poor, fearful men who are so tormented in their minds that destroying the innocent is seen as the only option for feeling better about themselves. 

Pointing the finger, vengeance and violent punishment is just a deflection of the real problem again and we quickly find ourselves behaving just like those we have defined as 'less than' human. Vicious revenge on rapists has done absolutely nothing about gender abuse, which continues unabated. 

Undoubtedly, those with blood on their hands point the finger away from themselves as well. But be sure that we all have blood on our hands whilst we continue to perceptually split human beings into 'better' and 'worse' by gender in any way at all, however subtle. These divisive ideas, thoughts, jokes, throw-away comments and beliefs are the seeds of the horrors we are unable to comprehend.

The truth is we are all responsible for the gang rape murder of Nirbhaya because we are all listening in the same way to a voice not our own that is hell bent on our destruction. We cannot be condemned for our actions, however, because we have no idea what this voice is. None of us know what we are doing, or why.
Forgiveness is looking peacefully at, and understanding why, a person could not have known what he was doing when he did it. And in all cases this is because the liar is ruling the mind. Once we become clear about this there is hope, because once we know what the problem is exactly we have a chance to solve it. 

Reactions based on lies will never solve a problem based on lies.

The resistance to truly forgiving and undoing gender abuse, in all its forms, is a need to cherish our self-identification with violent and separating labels on the one-hand, and victimhood on the other. None of the labels are true and none of them we decided upon ourselves. This is the liar's game, now so easily seen.

There is no leap of faith required in forgiving a brother when we understand how the liar functions. It all makes perfect sense. It is natural to feel a deep sadness about the fact that humans are so lost and unhealed, but at the same time there is a profound compassion for those who really have no idea what they are doing and so wantonly, ignorantly, go about destroying everything. 

Understanding the liar gives me hope. I am clear now on why the world is as it is and will continue to be so until we perform a collective healing of the human mind. 

We have started on that now.




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Forgiving the Unforgivable - Delhi Gang Rape Murder

Rape is to be understood, from a peaceful perspective, as the human-identified-as-masculine's attempt to project his fear and guilt, and so rid himself of it, onto the label by which he is not defined, his opposite, the 'them' to his 'us', the feminine. There is absolutely no other reason for gender abuse of this form, although the liar will be delighted to persuade us there is and, by doing so, obfuscate the truth and avoid being uncovered as the main culprit.

Gender abuse is the liar's game at its most effective.

In Forgiving The Unforgivable, we are dealing with reportage; a group witnessing of the regrettable events that occur in our beautiful world, without becoming reactionary and irrational. The sleeping human mind hears the word 'rape', takes a sharp intake of breath and wishes it would go away. And by doing so, we have collectively agreed that the 'victim' has been successfully tarnished and is now guilty in the place of the 'aggressor'. The liar's key tenet, that guilt can be projected, has been proven. Peaceful eradication of gender abuse is perhaps the key to resolving all differences everywhere.

If you don't know what the liar is, please check out the book.

To make a start on forgiving hugely emotive events such as the recent Delhi gang-rape and murder of a young woman (info about it here) we must be able to put our own perception inside the mind of the perpetrators and try to compassionately understand how any human being, including ourselves, might be persuaded into acting so destructively. We must do our best in this practice, as it serves to free our own minds from the torment of condemning our brothers and puts us in a position of being able to resolve conflict in all situations.
It's difficult to say why the gang rape in Delhi last year provoked such a massive reaction from the populace. Gender abuse and gang rape is not uncommon in India, Western female tourists also suffering it on a regular basis, as a quick google will show. Perhaps Indians had simply had enough this time. But after the rage, it was quickly business-as-usual for the rapists again.

It is clear that there is no real solution in angry reaction, vengeance or punishment. Nothing changes, and things may even be getting worse. In the West, where woman are more able to stand up to male bullies, we see a concurrent rise in sex crimes against children. What we must do is ask ourselves what state of mind has become so fearful, so powerless, that such behaviour becomes reasonable? 
The answer, first and foremost, is that such a mind believes it is a body, labelled with masculine ideas of power and dominance, which are symbolised by the defining different part, the penis, as the weapon. It is likely true that pretty much all of us believe these ideas at some level already, but what causes some minds to act on these false principles to extremes?
Probably we are talking about minds which have experienced extreme oppression by other similarly labelled mind/body conglomerates. Human males who have suffered severe levels of humiliation, poverty, even violence and aggression from their own side, whilst hearing a daily cultural mantra that the female is 'weaker', 'worse than'. There is no doubt that extreme levels of abuse and bullying can cause people to seek redress by abusing and bullying another person felt weaker than they. Female persons fall into that category quite easily, especially in India.
Whatever the reasons behind horrific acts of violence, we know that a person is believing and acting on lies alone. Lies based on ownership and entitlement of females, arriving as a perceptual hangover from lower stages of evolution. Lies based on humiliation and degradation in the personal life experience. Gang rape is the liar's idea alone. It could not come from the peaceful mind of the noble human beings we truly are.

Reports said she apologised, as if it was her fault. And this is the key to understanding what rape and abuse based on gender is really about.
The belief that we are separate from God and each other generates a profound level of fear and guilt, as well the certainty we are to be punished by God for believing we were able to separate ourselves from Him at all. All humans believe this at varying levels of consciousness, even if we are unaware of it and claim to believe something quite the opposite. The fact is we could NEVER be separate from God, so the belief that we are causes a huge split in our minds and instead of facing the problem as it is, the liar bids us deny it and project it into unlimited forms in the world, so we never get to see the real issue.
This foundational separation psychosis is the super-class of all other fears.

We are told and believe we can shift our own fearfulness onto another person and by doing so relieve ourselves of our own burden of guilt. The other person or people we single out for this will be those we have defined as 'different to' and 'worse than' us. The most obvious of these dualistic differences is gender and, as long as the focus of our compassion remains on the 'victims', we will not solve this problem. 

We have been dealing entirely with the effects and not the cause, as per the liar's design, and this needs to change.
So it is all down to believing lies, feeling guilty for doing so and then attempting to get rid of the guilt by dumping it on someone else. And all of us believe it is possible to rid ourselves of guilt in this way. Thankfully, this is impossible, but while we believe it to be true it is causing us endless suffering.
We are not excusing anything here, by the way, but we need to understand why we behave the way we do because, if we don't, we are likely to label each other 'evil' at the liar's suggestion. Labelling a person 'evil' means we are doomed to remain in the fearful hell we have created with our faulty thinking, because there is no-one responsible for anything if it can never be us. Pointing the finger means that gender abuse, and all other human horrors, remain issues we can never resolve. Healing and resolution is never an option under the liar's advises. 

When we accept the liar as the only enemy, we can see that we all have exactly the same problem to deal with. Also, we see that we would do EXACTLY the same thing given the same circumstances as these poor, fearful men who are so tormented in their minds that destroying the innocent is seen as the only option for feeling better about themselves. 

Pointing the finger, vengeance and violent punishment is just a deflection of the real problem again and we quickly find ourselves behaving just like those we have defined as 'less than' human. Vicious revenge on rapists has done absolutely nothing about gender abuse, which continues unabated. 

Undoubtedly, those with blood on their hands point the finger away from themselves as well. But be sure that we all have blood on our hands whilst we continue to perceptually split human beings into 'better' and 'worse' by gender in any way at all, however subtle. These divisive ideas, thoughts, jokes, throw-away comments and beliefs are the seeds of the horrors we are unable to comprehend.

The truth is we are all responsible for the gang rape murder of Nirbhaya because we are all listening in the same way to a voice not our own that is hell bent on our destruction. We cannot be condemned for our actions, however, because we have no idea what this voice is. None of us know what we are doing, or why.
Forgiveness is looking peacefully at, and understanding why, a person could not have known what he was doing when he did it. And in all cases this is because the liar is ruling the mind. Once we become clear about this there is hope, because once we know what the problem is exactly we have a chance to solve it. 

Reactions based on lies will never solve a problem based on lies.The resistence to truly forgiving and undoing gender abuse, in all its forms, is a need to cherish our self-identification with violent and separating labels on the one-hand, and victimhood on the other. None of the labels are true and none of them we decided upon ourselves. This is the liar's game, now so easily seen.There is no leap of faith required in forgiving a brother when we understand how the liar functions. It all makes perfect sense. It is natural to feel a deep sadness about the fact that humans are so lost and unhealed, but at the same time there is a profound compassion for those who really have no idea what they are doing and so wantonly, ignorantly, go about destroying everything. 

Understanding the liar gives me hope. I am clear now on why the world is as it is and will continue to be so until we perform a collective healing of the human mind. 

We have started on that now.




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