Lissy Bauer's Blog - Posts Tagged "choosing-yourself"

Feeling stuck or lonely while single? You don’t need a partner or a passport to feel alive — just curiosity and a free afternoon. Single life is not a waiting room for your “real life” to start. It’s a unique, powerful season full of opportunities for growth, joy, and freedom.

But freedom can sometimes feel isolating, especially when social media fills your feed with couples’ vacations or family get-togethers you’re not part of. If you’re craving joy and connection but don’t want to wait for the perfect timing or someone else’s company, micro-adventures can be your secret weapon.

What Are Micro-Adventures? These are simple, local experiences that break your routine and bring you back to life. Whether it’s a solo brunch at a new cafe, a sunset walk in a part of town you’ve never explored, or a quiet backyard picnic with no phone — these small adventures cultivate joy and confidence without needing a big budget or travel plans.

Joy is not a luxury reserved for “later.” It’s essential to well-being and resilience. Micro-adventures help you reconnect with the little delights — a new flavor, a fresh breeze, the thrill of doing something just because you want to. These moments teach you that life is happening right now, and you are the one who gets to live it fully.

Going solo might feel intimidating at first, but it’s also empowering. Each micro-adventure builds your confidence and emotional resilience. You learn you can show up for yourself, handle discomfort, and create meaningful experiences without relying on anyone else. You stop waiting to be chosen and start choosing yourself.

True freedom means owning your power to choose. Your life is yours to shape. Your happiness doesn’t depend on relationship status or external circumstances. You are whole and deserving of joy right now.

Try This: Dress up and be your own date. Take a sunrise walk to watch the day begin. Join a new class or event, even if you feel nervous. Camp outside under the stars in your backyard. Take a spontaneous train or bus ride with no destination in mind. These simple choices add up to big shifts in your mindset and well-being.

To dive deeper into how micro-adventures can transform your life, check out my book Extra Ordinary Adventures: Building Resilience Through Micro-Adventures. It’s a guide to reclaiming joy, resilience, and confidence through small, local adventures.

Have you taken a micro-adventure recently? Share your story in the comments — I’d love to hear how you’re choosing yourself! 🌿