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March 24, 2024

Theoerotics!?

The cast of RuPaul’s Drag Race Down Under season three, in pirate garb! (Photo: TVNZ, Image Design: Tina Tiller)

Theoerotics … those that know (me) assume they know the answer, those that don’t, aquaintences sometimes ask, or smirk dismissively. Walking away making assumptions of the what, the how and the why. This blog has in the past adressed this topic and failed to uncover it’s dirty secrets. As this text will fail to uncover […]

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Published on March 24, 2024 03:05

March 12, 2024

The perfect coming out …

Queer

Coming out is an important rite of passage for all queer persons. It is the act of revealing to the world who you really are and as such it signifies the end of hiding. I have written elsewhere about coming out as a sacrament: the act of outwardly expressing your inner grace. September 2012 I […]

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Published on March 12, 2024 02:08

November 25, 2023

Blood is thicker than water – the birthday reflection

Turning 50 is a divider that cuts through life with the sharpest edge. It calls for contemplation and reflection more than it conjures up visions and dreams of the future. When my father turned 50 he lightheartedly announced that he was now in the “death half” (döhalvan) of life. It is the time when (hopefully) […]

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Published on November 25, 2023 04:54

October 24, 2023

Books that changed my life

The catalyst that changes the direction of a persons life can be very differnt depending on who you are, for me it often starts with a thought and from having the thought I would seek out books to learn more and the books would help me to shape or resahpe my reality. This series is […]

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Published on October 24, 2023 02:50

October 22, 2023

The god of passionate lovers…

Erotic Union, art by Ines Honfi - ineshonfi.com

We love, because we are loved. Eros calls to us from the deepest depths of our worldly existance. Built into the very core of reality is the desire for union, the desire to fall back into oneness. To enter into union is to step, naked and vulnerable into the holy of holies, the inner sanctum […]

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Published on October 22, 2023 05:28

October 18, 2023

Ten years later – any wiser?

The New Polyamory flag

I was sitting on my brothers couch in Skarpnäck, Stockholm with him and his wife. As it often does, the polyamoury conversation came up. For once not the usual very intimate probing questions about bedroom activities. Rather the conversation was about emotions, communication and logistics. The conversation allowed me to reflect on the Journey so […]

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Published on October 18, 2023 02:56

October 14, 2023

I’m the man in black!

Johnny cash - The man in black

People ask me why I bother with the church. Why I bother coming back to christianity at all after all that has happened. I think the truth is, first of all, that I never left. My faith has (although shaken at times) always been an integral part of who I am and why I have […]

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Published on October 14, 2023 02:39

October 12, 2023

Will the real Sodomite(s) please stand up!

Devil eating people - sodomites

Sodomy and sodomite are two sad words in the english language. The words have been used in the past to describe Homosexual men and their actions. Of course the word actually means “a person from Sodom” and the verb should mean “doing what the people in Sodom did.” So what did the people of Sodom […]

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Published on October 12, 2023 02:38

October 4, 2023

Theoerotic is going live!

POdcast microphone

It’s about time, isn’t it. Theoerotic – the podcast is coming in January 2024. So why post about it now? Well, I want your input. The plan is to have conversations in the intersection of spirituality, sexuality and social justice. And focussing on the voices from the margins of both faith and the kink/poly/sexpositive community. […]

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Published on October 04, 2023 00:37

September 27, 2023

Let’s talk about SEX!

It’s that time again, or perhaps still, to have a meta conversation about the conversation. Today I am having the conversation about god, religion and sex on the Swedish podcast Dirtytalkpodden. And so the questions come, the question that always comes up: Why do you always talk about sex? Barbara Carellas once wrote: “I give …

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Published on September 27, 2023 01:59