Rick Hanson's Blog, page 32

October 27, 2021

Preface by Dr. François Bourgognon

[translated into English from the French edition of Neurodharma]

Have you noticed the extent to which it can be difficult to understand one another when we talk about meditation? When really there is not one kind of meditation, but many. In our western culture, the word ‘meditation’ is used to designate very different – even opposing – attitudes and practices, depending on the context in which it is used: philosophical, religious, or therapeutic. In eastern cultures, meditative practice...

 •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on October 27, 2021 12:03

October 26, 2021

Tell the Truth and Play Fair

How to live in peace with each other?

The Practice:  
Tell the Truth and Play Fair

Why?

Perhaps like you, I’ve been worrying lately about what it will take for all of us to live together in peace.

I remember what I’ve heard many teachers say to their students: Tell the truth. Play fair.

This is what we ask our own kids to do. It’s what we look for in a friend, a boss, and a neighbor. If your child cheats on a board game, you point it out; it’s not OK. We want cashiers to give us the co...

 •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on October 26, 2021 20:00

October 25, 2021

Being Well Podcast: Healing Your Attachment Wounds with Dr. Diane Poole Heller

Dr. Diane Poole Heller

Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson focus on two of our most important subjects, attachment wounds and traumatic experiences, with a longtime therapist, trainer of therapists, and world-class expert on attachment theory: Dr. Diane Poole Heller.

LISTEN

WATCH

About our Guest: Diane focuses on using somatic, or body-base...

 •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on October 25, 2021 11:31

October 21, 2021

Meditation + Talk: Accepting Other People

This Wednesday Night Meditation included a 34-minute meditation and 52-minute talk and discussion about Accepting Other People.

I hope you find it helpful, and you are welcome to join my free Wednesday Meditations – open to everyone!

Meditation: Accepting Other People

Download the Audio of this Meditation

Talk: Accepting Other People

Download the Audio of...

 •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on October 21, 2021 17:32

October 19, 2021

Enjoy The Freedom Not To

Do you got to?

The Practice:
Enjoy the freedom not to.

Why?

We’re pulled and prodded by financial pressures, commuter traffic, corporate policies, technology, advertising, politics, and the people we work with and live with. As well, internal forces yank the proverbial chains, including emotional reactions, compelling desires, “shoulds,” and internalized “voices” from parents and other authority figures.

Sometimes these pressures are necessary, like a flashing light on your car’s dash...

1 like ·   •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on October 19, 2021 17:00

October 18, 2021

Being Well Podcast: How to Like Ourselves More

The most important relationship we have is with ourselves. You’re the only person you’ll be around every minute of every day for the rest of your life. And, unfortunately, that relationship is often our most difficult one. Today Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore how we can become better friends to ourselves, and learn to like ourselves more.

LISTEN

...
1 like ·   •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on October 18, 2021 12:21

October 15, 2021

Meditation + Talk: How to Get Out of the War in Your Head

This Wednesday Night Meditation included a 33-minute meditation and 58-minute talk and discussion about How to Get out of the War in Your Head.

I hope you find it helpful, and you are welcome to join my free Wednesday Meditations – open to everyone!

Meditation: How to Get Out of the War in Your Head

Download the Audio of this Meditation

Talk: How to Get Out of the War in Your Head
...
 •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on October 15, 2021 11:56

Meditation + Talk: How to Get out of the War in Your Head

This Wednesday Night Meditation included a 33-minute meditation and 58-minute talk and discussion about How to Get out of the War in Your Head.

I hope you find it helpful, and you are welcome to join my free Wednesday Meditations – open to everyone!

Meditation: How to Get out of the War in Your Head

Download the Audio of this Meditation

Talk: How to Get out of the War in Your Head
...
 •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on October 15, 2021 11:56

October 11, 2021

Being Well Podcast: How You Can Create a Relationship That Lasts

How can we create relationships that last? On this episode, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson lean on Rick’s 35+ years of couples counseling to explore how we can build relationships that are loving, healthy, enjoyable, and reliable. This includes learning the structure of most relationship problems, how to make vulnerable communications, and how to stay open to change.

LISTEN

...
 •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on October 11, 2021 09:55

October 7, 2021

Meditation + Talk: The Emptiness of Interpersonal Upsets

This Wednesday Night Meditation included a 33-minute meditation and 47-minute talk and discussion about The Emptiness of Interpersonal Upsets.

I hope you find it helpful, and you are welcome to join my free Wednesday Meditations – open to everyone!

Meditation: The Emptiness of Interpersonal Upsets

Download the Audio of this Meditation

Talk: The Emptiness of Interpersonal Upsets ...
 •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on October 07, 2021 21:01