Dianne Kozdrey Bunnell's Blog
April 19, 2017
Have you or a loved one been the victim of religion gone wrong? Or as I look at it, ever been firebombed by the blood of the lamb?
My first book, The Protest, was inspired by the real-life religious hijacking of my two daughters, ages 10 and 12. The sequel, From Ice and Snow, the sequel, published April 1, 2017, tells how I got my daughters back.
Today through April 23, From Ice and Snow is available free on Amazon.
Get the e-book *on sale today* at Amazon.com. From Ice and Snow is #1 on Amazon’s free Memoir store.
The Protest — if you’ve ever wondered how brainwashing is possible, this memoir explains how it happened to my only two children.
March 31, 2017
A new story will be released on April 1: From Ice and Snow.
A Blue Moon Phase of the Heart will follow. It will be released this summer.
After that, a short story, The Inheritance, will be released.
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March 30, 2017
It’s been a while since I’ve blogged. If you are reading this, thanks for your patience.
You see, I’ve been writing the sequel to The Protest.
From Ice and Snow is also a fictional memoir. It picks up where Jane Bernard lost her two daughters to a religious hijacking. The sequel begins with Jane’s life six years later – six years in which she has not seen her 12-year-old twin daughters who were victims of brainwashing in the name of God perpetrated by their father, Reverend Logan Churlick.
Jane is heartbroken and embittered by the loss, causing her to jeopardize her once-happy marriage with her great love, Bolivar Bernard. When her daughters are 18, Bekah reaches out to her mother. But her twin sister Darcy spurns Jane and now wants nothing to do with Bekah. Churlick thwarts Jane’s attempt to reunite with Darcy, and fueled by Bekah’s allegiance with her mother, his obsession to possess Jane grows more twisted. In the meantime, Bekah has to come to grips with her new life: new rules, new friends, new values, and a mother she was taught, in the name of God, to hate.
Dealing with the divisiveness Bekah brings with her when she moves in with Jane and Bolivar creates increasing stress between the couple when the edges of their marriage are already frayed. But Jane will not forsake her daughter as her marital situation worsens. Bekah, accustomed to rebelling against the authority of her father, struggles to leave behind her coping skills of the past and trust that she is safe and secure now. Still, Jane’s heart aches to connect with Darcy, who resents Jane’s abandonment and is terrified to reconnect with her mother for fear she will be cast into hell’s eternal lake of fire and brimstone.
After Darcy graduates from high school, she vanishes. Bekah stumbles upon where her sister is and decides to go after her, hoping she can get through to Darcy and re-establish their close bond. But Reverend Churlick and his wife maintain their hold on Darcy and cause her to question the legitimacy of both Bekah’s and Jane’s motives. The plot questions? Will Churlick be successful in keeping Jane and Bekah from reconnecting with Darcy? Will Jane regain her daughters only to lose Bolivar? Will the strategy Jane sees as her only chance to save the marriage she has all but destroyed work?
Find out April 1 when From Ice and Snow goes on sale on Amazon (paperback and ebook).
May 9, 2015
Love this blog piece on the culture that’s grown up around texting (click on the link below). I have learned the hard way that this is my life now — by that, I mean a year or so ago when I left a phone message for my daughter and didn’t get a reply, and finally did get a hold of my daughter, she said she doesn’t call anymore; if I wanted to reach her, I should text. Wha–???
Texting is so quick (most of the time) that I do love it — but it’s also frustrating. I’d love a real phone call once in a while, a voice I can be excited about hearing, I’d like to enjoy the luxury of no misunderstandings because writing is so easy to read the wrong way, whereas voice inflection is harder to misread, especially if you check back to see if the meaning you’ve made of the person’s words is correct. And there’s nothing to replace the spontaneity that happens when you’re in the moment of a phone call.
Sigh, the good ol’ days.
This piece was very informative about depression to a person who has never had the misfortune to be faced with such a nebulous nemesis. I’m reposting because I learned about what I can do to help someone who is suffering from depression. Being aware of what someone who’s depressed is going through and also, seeing some simple things that can be done to ease their suffering is worth a lot.
Originally posted on Some Small Solitude:
In November 2012, I was diagnosed with depression. Depression is an illness which provokes a wide range of reactions in people, depending on their own experiences. It is, to me, something intangible- just when I think I’ve understood its impact on my life and those around me, it slips away and mutates into something else. Some days I am able to brush it aside, other days it lies on me like a hot, heavy, suffocating blanket, preventing me from doing anything and leaving me tearful with frustration. I think for sufferers and for those who deal with them, be it friends, family or colleagues, depression is the most frustrating illness of them all.
When I was diagnosed, my doctor suggested anti-depressants and that I be signed off work for a few months. I was, after some initial hesitation, happy to try the anti-depressants, but signing off work was an impossibility…
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May 3, 2015
So I have a favor to ask.
It’s been a little over a month now since The Protest e-book was released and made it to #1 and #2 on Amazon during its promotion days. Thank you for your help in making the book such a success in Amazon’s ranking!
You may have had time to read it, or The Protest may be waiting its turn, keeping the many other books on your kindle company. But if you have read the story and thought it a worthwhile read, I’d like to ask for the two things writer Cindy Dees says are so very important to a book’s success:
“If you find a book you love, do 2 things for it:
1) Tell a friend about it
2) Write a review on Amazon
Authors MUST have reviews for their books to be successful!”
If you’re scratching your head trying to figure out what to write, here are the guidelines: a review should be simple, write what you liked about the book, or did not like about it, and why.
Here’s the link:
If you would write an honest sentence or two about The Protest in a review on Amazon, I would appreciate it so much. Thank you!
April 18, 2015
This post is an amazing, yet subtle, example of the sexism that attempts to keep professional women on a different level than men. As the piece says, “If you find yourself inclined to defend some comment, think about whether you would say the same thing to a man…Rather than getting defensive, learn from your mistake and don’t do it again.”
Originally posted on Of Means and Ends:
“I’m not going to apply for the job because I want you to get it.”
I was in my mid-20s and a promotion opened up in my division at work and I planned to apply for it. Given the hierarchy in our department, one male coworker and I were the natural ones to consider for the job. When the topic came up, that’s what he said to me: “I’m not going to apply for the job because I want you to get it.” I don’t remember what I said in the moment, but I remember quietly seething and thinking, “Don’t do me any favors. Go ahead and apply and I’ll still get it.”
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April 8, 2015
I’ve become enamored of a particular blogger, a writer who is very good at looking at what it takes to write, to not give up because writing is hard work, and to feel energized with a renewed sense of purpose that leaves you feeling like a member of the elite corps of those who create something out of nothing.
Below is a recent post of Kristin Lamb’s blog that I’d like to share with those of you who are writers. Hope you are as inspired by her as I am.
April 7, 2015
I’m working on a story that’s the second book in the series, Life Is Calling, and I hope to release it this summer.
Jane Bernard (in her 40’s now) has lost her husband of twenty years after his battle with cancer. She grieves the loss of what she calls a great love, and after a couple of years have gone by, she longs for the companionship and closeness of a partner. Then a friend introduces her to internet dating. The plot thickens.
I’m looking for stories you may have had in this arena. Anyone have any noteworthy experiences with someone you met on a dating site? Good or bad experiences will work. If you wouldn’t mind seeing your story woven into my next book, I’d love to hear from you.
April 6, 2015
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The Protest went to #2 on Amazon Kindle free downloads of memoirs yesterday, and it’s still at #2 this morning.
So once again, thank you for your support! Today is the final day to see if my story can become “The Protest heard ’round the world.” My cautionary tale shows many of the same underlying principles about the perils of brainwashing as the Going Clear expose’ on Scientology — but with a lot more humor.
As I’ve shared before, The Protest was introduced at one reading I gave at a university in North Carolina with this Kafka quote: “If the book we are reading does not wake us, as with a fist hammering on our skulls, then why do we read it? …A book must be an ice axe to break the sea frozen inside us.”
See what my ice axe is all about.
Then feel free to come back to Literal Lessons of Life. I’d love to hear your story after — or while — you read mine.