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March 21, 2022

The Body Myth – From Childhood Gymnastics to Puberty to Motherhood: A Body Judgment Story ft. Alyson Shelton

From Childhood Gymnastics to Puberty to Motherhood: A Body Judgment Storyft. Alyson Shelton The Body Myth - Episode 1

Alyson Shelton joins The Body Myth for a conversation about growing up in a household hyper-focused on body size with a father who objectified women, how gymnastics shaped her childhood until puberty disrupted it, and what she has done in recent years to quiet the self-judgment that has been part of her life for as long as she can remember.

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Alyson Shelton wrote and directed the award winning feature, Eve of Understanding. She wrote and created the comic, Reburn, which successfully funded Issues #1 and #2 on Kickstarter during 2021. The art for Reburn Issues #3 and #4, is close to completion, prepping for a Kickstarter launch in March 2022. Her original screenplay, The Night We Met, was selected for the 2nd round of the 2021 Sundance Creative Producers Lab. Additionally, her essays have appeared in The New York Times, Ms., Hobart Pulp, Survivor Lit, and others. Follow her on Twitter and Instagram @byalysonshelton where you can watch and participate in a IG Live poetry series inspired by Geore Ella Lyon’s poem, ‘Where I’m From.’

Link Instagram Twitter YOU MAY ALSO LIKE The Body Myth - Episode 2 The Body Myth – Healing From Family Body Shame ft. Meg Weber The Body Myth - Episode 1 The Body Myth – From Childhood Gymnastics to Puberty to Motherhood: A Body Judgment Story ft. Alyson Shelton ABOUT THE HOST MEET RONIT

Ronit’s essays and fiction have been featured in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, The Iowa Review, The Washington Post, Writer’s Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in both the 2021 Best Book Awards and the 2021 Book of the Year Award and a 2021 Best True Crime Book by Book Riot. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts’ 2020 Eludia Award and will be published in 2022. She is host and producer of the podcasts And Then Everything Changed and The Body Myth.

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Published on March 21, 2022 23:49

March 15, 2022

Let’s Talk Memoir – Season 1, Episode 2 ft. Jeannine Ouellette

SEASON 1, EPISODE 2

Jeannine Ouellette joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about the power of literary constraints, why the how can be just as important as the what, writing about childhood sexual abuse, believing in your project when publishing gatekeepers don’t seem to, and why sad stories can make us happy.

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Jeannine Ouellette’s memoir, The Part That Burns, was a 2021 Kirkus Best 100 Indie Book and a finalist for the Next Generation Indie Book Award, with starred reviews from Kirkus and Publishers Weekly.  Her work appears widely in literary journals and anthologies, including Ms. Aligned: Women Writing About Men; Women’s Lives: Multicultural Perspectives;  and Passed On: Daughters Write About Father Loss, Lack, and Legacy. She teaches through the Minnesota Prison Writing Workshop, The University of Minnesota, and Elephant Rock, a writing program she founded in 2012. She is working on her first novel.

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Ronit’s essays and fiction have been featured in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, The Iowa Review, The Washington Post, Writer’s Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in both the 2021 Best Book Awards and the 2021 Book of the Year Award and a 2021 Best True Crime Book by Book Riot. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts’ 2020 Eludia Award and will be published in 2022. She is host and producer of the podcasts And Then Everything Changed and The Body Myth.

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Published on March 15, 2022 13:40

Let’s Talk Memoir – Season 1, Episode 1 ft. Debra Gwartney

SEASON 1, EPISODE 1

Debra Gwartney joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about the difference between character and narrator in memoir, navigating writing about loved ones, why memoirists need to hold their own feet to the fire, and what question every memoir asks.

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Debra Gwartney is the author of two book-length memoirs, Live Through This, a finalist for the National Book Critics Circle Award, and I Am a Stranger Here Myself, winner of the RiverTeeth Nonfiction Prize and the Willa Award for Nonfiction. Debra has published in such journals as Granta, The Sun, Tin House, American Scholar, The Normal School, Creative Nonfiction, Prairie Schooner, and others. She’s the 2018 winner of the Real Simple essay contest. She’s also a contributing editor at Poets & Writers magazine and received a Pushcart Prize in 2021 for her essay “Suffer Me to Pass,” from VQR.

Debra is co-editor, along with her husband Barry Lopez, of Home Ground: Language for an American Landscape. She lives in Western Oregon.

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Ronit’s essays and fiction have been featured in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, The Iowa Review, The Washington Post, Writer’s Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in both the 2021 Best Book Awards and the 2021 Book of the Year Award and a 2021 Best True Crime Book by Book Riot. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts’ 2020 Eludia Award and will be published in 2022. She is host and producer of the podcasts And Then Everything Changed and The Body Myth.

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Published on March 15, 2022 13:36

February 15, 2022

Take Up Space

Take Up Space Ronit Feinglass Plank February 15, 2022 I hope February is treating you well so far. This month I’m thinking about all the ways it feels good to take up space in the world:

To accept our size
Our bodies
Where we come from
What makes us happy
How we choose to live
To honor what we have lost
What we need
What we dream of
To stand up for what we care about
To share our stories

Space-taking in all its forms is an act of empathy for ourselves and an acknowledgement that we all deserve to be here, as we are. We don’t have to shrink ourselves for the world.

To that end, I’ve got two new limited series podcasts rolling out this spring. The first, Let’s Talk Memoir, will launch on Tuesday, March 15th! Let’s Talk Memoir features interviews with memoirists about their writing process, their challenges, what they’ve learned about sharing the most personal of narratives, and their advice for writers contemplating memoir. I’m so excited to bring you these conversations which I hope will reaffirm for you the power of story. More info and links in my next post.

My second project is The Body Myth which features conversations with women about their relationship to their bodies, when they first began judging themselves, how self-surveillance has impacted their lives, and what they’ve come to understand about their bodies and the world. These interviews have opened my eyes even more to how universal body judgment seems to be among Western women and how much time we spend denigrating ourselves. I hope sharing these perspectives will help grow our compassion for one another and ourselves.

If you’d like to take The Body Myth body image survey and add your voice here’s a link: https://linktr.ee/ronitplank

My Latest

My new piece on the dark side of ashrams and the emotional and physical abandonment of children was just published in INSIDER. You can read it here: https://www.insider.com/womans-mother-left-her-to-go-live-in-an-ashram-2022-2

Thank you to Sage Lally of Be Marketplace for interviewing me in this month’s newsletter. I appreciate Sage’s thoughtful questions which made me think in new ways about my mom leaving for a cult and the decision to write my memoir When She Comes Back.

My memoir is also available for purchase at Be Marketplace: https://bewomn.com

Here’s a link to our full interview: https://mailchi.mp/ba661501e961/cults?e=131577a368

I can’t wait to share these new podcasts with you next month when they are live. And, if you have a body image anecdote you’d like me to read aloud on The Body Myth, please email me at ronit@ronitplank.com and indicate whether or not you would like me to use your name.

Thank you so much for being here!
xo,
Ronit

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Published on February 15, 2022 10:26

January 18, 2022

An Honest Look Inside and Out

An Honest Look Inside and Out Ronit Feinglass Plank January 18, 2022 What I’m working on-New Podcast announcement!

Did you know that 50% of American girls ages 11-13 feel they are overweight? And more than half of the women I’ve interviewed for my body survey reported feeling self-conscious about how they look more than ten times a day—some far more than that. From the dozens of interviews I have conducted for my survey I’ve seen we have a raging body image problem in this country. Women of all sizes, ages, ethnicities, races, and socio-economic backgrounds seem to be able to agree on how poorly they measure up to the Western body ideal and this thinking is wreaking havoc on our personal and collective peace of mind.

To do my part in dismantling diet culture, in February I’ll be launching season 1 of The Body Myth—a limited podcast series featuring interviews with women about their body experience in the US from childhood on. Hear from experts and average American women about what they’ve come to understand their size and weight means and doesn’t mean, how they have navigated diet culture, and their strategies for living true to themselves. Every episode will feature a 200-300 word body image anecdote from listeners. If you have one to share please email me at YourBodyAndTheWorld@gmail.com and note whether or not you’d like me to identify you or keep you anonymous.

If you’d like to complete the 19-question body image survey I’m conducting, here is the link:
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1ugVxGFwYVHJCC_PV5F_qrU-gx_rEWUhVKWzNID6Xlz0/

Where I’ll be-Appearances

I have two upcoming appearances for my memoir When She Comes Back in February and would love you to join me! The first is at the JCC Boca Raton on 2/1 at 12pm PST and the second on 2/9 at JCC West Nyack at 11am PST. Details and registration links are here:

-Feb 1 event 

https://levisjcc.org/culture/literaryspecialevents/

-Feb 9 event 

https://operations.daxko.com/Online/3128/ProgramsV2/OfferingDetails.mvc?offering_id=SES2800052&program_id=TMP105698&location_id=B643

Recent conversations-New Interview

I recently got to talk with Maria Olsen Leonard about pattern-breaking, self-clarity, and being able to accept intimacy in your life. Part of what came up was how you can think you’ve done a lot of work, that you understand your weak and strong areas, and then realize—all over again—there is more work to do on yourself.

I had a long road to learning how to be vulnerable in part because I felt so vulnerable as a child which I wrote about in my memoir When She Comes Back. I think I assumed I already had my lumps and so could not hurt other people. That was easy to believe and kept me from seeing where I could still grow.

I dug in some more and saw I was capable of change—and that so much in my life transformed when I committed to honestly looking at myself and the sources of my behavior. It takes courage but is so powerful how life and relationships can shift because of our actions. It really is possible to change; to create your life the way you want to.

If you’d like to listen to my interview with Maria on Becoming Your Best Version here is a link:
https://podcasts.apple.com/…/becoming…/id1562910379…

Recent conversations-New Interview

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Thank you so much for being here.

XO,

Ronit

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December 16, 2021

Turning Dark Into Light

Turning Dark Into Light Ronit Feinglass Plank December 16, 2021

I’ve been thinking about views– how so many people can look out upon what objectively might seem like the same landscape or feature but see it so differently from others. 

I especially get this feeling about office buildings and apartment buildings. All those identical windows and balconies– portals to the people and families inside, but not one life the same. 

And when we look out at the world from our own little landing pads, the sky stretched out above us, the world going on below us, what is actually there is only a fraction of what we perceive because where we’ve come from and what we wish for and how we’re growing are in everything we see. 

And this reminds me of how all of us have stories, which is why I think I’m so captivated by rows of windows and balconies and lives and  memoir. No two people will ever tell something the same. That is why your perspective always matters. 

Memoir is captivating to me for this reason. It’s the story of our experience, what we understood about it then, have come to understand about it now, and all the parts we’re still trying to make sense of. I feel so lucky to have been able to bring my own memoir into the world this year. A few weeks ago I learned When She Comes Back is a finalist in both the 2021 Best Book Awards in the Autobiography/Memoir category and the 2021 Book of the Year Awards in the Memoir category. If you’d like to listen to a sample chapter or purchase a copy, please visit: https://ronitplank.com/book/

Over the last two plus years I’ve had the pleasure of meeting and interviewing more than a hundred authors, survivors, and people in recovery for And Then Everything Changed. I’ve learned when to push my guests a little further for an answer and when to quiet down and hold space. That has become one of the most important experiences for me, something I didn’t understand as powerfully before. I will keep that lesson with me now wherever I go, whatever I do. There’s magic when we make room.

I’m winding up these last two years of And Then Everything Changed with the following episodes:

Episode 102: Inside Passage: A Missing Father, a Fractured Childhood, and the Redemptive Power of Music featuring sisters Keema and Tekla Waterfield Episode 103: Holding the Evangelical Church Accountable featuring Shelly Snow Pordea Episode 104: Turning Dark into Light - 21 Olive Trees: A Mother’s Walk Through the Grief of Suicide featuring Laura Formentini

Available 12/21
Thank you for subscribing to this newsletter, tuning into my podcast, and sharing these stories with the people you care about. I am so grateful to have you as a reader and a listener. I have a few new projects in the works I’m very excited to share with you in the coming months including a new book and a new show. More on those in 2022. I wish you all the best as this year winds down: the time you need to see those you love, to rest, and to create what you envision for yourself. Love,Ronit

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November 8, 2021

We Already Are Who We’re Supposed To Be

We Already Are Who We’re Supposed To Be Ronit Feinglass Plank November 9, 2021 Happy November!

I’m thrilled to be a co-author of The Parenting Odyssey: Trials, Treasures, and Triumphs of Parenting in a Pandemic, edited by Carol Muleta! We’re having a virtual book launch on December 1 and 2 at 8pm EST which is free to attend but please register here:
bit.ly/odysseybooklaunch

I’ll be in the Dec 2nd session and look forward to sharing the evening with these fine writers and mothers.

I’ll be moderating a discussion between two exciting and talented writers on Friday November 11th at 7pm EST! Grab a drink and join queer feminist horror writer and author of The Gold Persimmon Lindsay Merbaum and N. West Moss, author of the celebrated memoir Flesh And Blood, for a cocktail demo and real talk about writing and publishing! 11/19 at 7 pm EST

Mark your calendars, I’d love you to join us!

https://wpunj.zoom.us

Here’s a short 8-question body image survey I’m doing that will help shape a new project and companion podcast. If you have thought about body image, body acceptance, and diet culture, or even if you haven’t, I would love your input. Please feel free to share widely and your answers can be anonymous if you choose. Thank you so much for lending your voice.
https://forms.gle/Uos3XjnPjtfmQNEEA

This week marks the 100th episode of And Then Everything Changed! Celebrated author of The Courage to Heal and advocate Laura Davis joins me to talk about reconciling with the mother who betrayed her and what the process of writing her memoir The Burning Light of Two Stars: A Mother-Daughter Story, about their relationship was like.

I started the podcast on Halloween of 2019 with my first guest, Paul who took a chance on a new show and a new host, and we created one of my favorite episodes to date. Since then, I’ve gotten to interview people in recovery, survivors, social justice leaders, and so many talented authors. On my website ATEC.com you can go check out and listen to my previous episodes, each categorized by topic, so you can listen to what moves you first.

When I was younger, like in my teens and 20s and maybe even some of my 30s, I thought that someday I would become the version of myself that would be better, happier, more worthy.
I was sure there was something missing from me that other people who seemed to have relationships figured out already had; that I needed to change myself if I wanted to finally be happy.

This can be a very tricky time. When we want to belong and to feel better about ourselves we might get the sense that other people know something we don’t. We can easily fall into relationships and groups that reinforce our sense of unworthiness. This is precisely how so many of us are susceptible to high control groups, manipulative people, and even cults. These groups or people often have something to give us: tools, a program, a system, a retreat, a way of eating, etc., that promise to unlock “wholeness” for us.

I got into bad relationships and was also tempted to get involved in groups a few times but I think my mother having joined a cult gave me just enough perspective to defend myself from this kind of coercion. But— I can see a parallel life where I continued to feel I wasn’t worthy of love and self-acceptance. Where I didn’t find my way.

What I’ve learned in interviewing scores of guests for my podcast, deepening my relationship with my mother, and writing my memoir When She Comes Back, is that we are worthy of love as we are. Yes, we can become more courageous, we can learn how to be vulnerable, we can become better listeners, better at knowing what we need, better writers, better friends, but, we came into the world perfectly ourselves. We already are okay.

Knowing that we are enough is the best, most peaceful feeling.

Thank you so much for being here.
Ronit

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October 6, 2021

A Knowing About Your Work

A Knowing About Your Work Ronit Feinglass Plank October 6, 2021

I remember hearing from some writers and writing teachers years ago when I was beginning that the only way to be serious about writing was to commit to doing it every day. Even better, get started at the same time every day, and meet the same word count goal each session.

This blueprint seemed to make sense, and because I was a wound-up-tight-Type-A, appealed to me. The idea I got was that in order to be a “true” writer, to have any chance at all of succeeding, I needed to follow this formula. Especially because I didn’t yet have many stories under my belt and I worried I wasn’t ever going to be good enough.

But— I was a mom to 2 young children and their primary caregiver. I didn’t have a predictable schedule or guaranteed writing sessions. I had snatches of time, moments of inspiration that, if I was lucky, became stories and essays and articles.

I ended up finding a way, my way.

And as I got more practice I could start to feel when I was on to something. Some weeks were very productive and some weren’t, sometimes I got very little sleep, sometimes even less, but more and more I began to trust myself.

I love learning about the creative process—which is different for everyone. Whether you’re a painter or potter, a writer or actor, a singer or dancer, or any combination of the vast creative arts, you’ve probably found a rhythm over time, a knowing about your work. When you feel it, you’re flying; you embody your creativity and your creativity embodies you.

I was so happy to get a chance to interview Jennifer Fliss, author of the forthcoming short story collection THE PREDATORY ANIMAL BALL, for the current issue of The Citron Review.

It was fun to learn about flash and micro fiction, fun to learn about fabulism, and fun to talk with this friend of mine whom I met way back when we both were starting out.

You can read our Q & A here: https://citronreview.com/tag/ronit-plank/

Upcoming: An Appearance at She Podcasts Live

Next week I’ll be a speaker at She Podcasts Live which I’m so excited about! This is a community I found just before I launched my own podcast And Then Everything Changed and the support and encouragement there has been invaluable. I’m eager to meet some of my podcasting friends in person, share what I’ve learned about interviewing, and see what new projects lie ahead.

And Then Everything Changed: Episode 97 ft. Treveal Lynch

Last week on the podcast my guest for episode 97 was Treveal Lynch who grew up amid addiction and emotional trauma. It wasn’t until he was arrested and found himself standing trial that he realized he was losing himself.

You can listen to his episode and learn how he changed his life, here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/and-then-everything-changed/id1485293813?i=1000536831776

Coming Next On My And Then Everything Changed Podcast

Next week my guest is Suzanne Najarian who left her marriage several years ago in search of herself. What she found opened a door to her sensuality and sense of purpose she had intuited were there but didn’t know how to access. 

Episode 100 Is Almost Here!

Episode number 100 is coming up and I’m hosting a giveaway of my book WHEN SHE COMES BACK! All you need to do to enter is leave a review for And Then Everything Changed on Apple Podcasts and send me a screenshot on Instagram or FB @ronitplank. A winner will be chosen by drawing on 10/14!

Thank you for tuning into the podcast, for reading my newsletter, for being here.
I’m so happy that we are connected. I’ll be back next month!


-Ronit

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September 14, 2021

The Cult Vault, Social Media, and The Stew

The Cult Vault, Social Media, and The Stew Ronit Plank September 14, 2021

Hi, friends! I hope this newsletter finds you well. The weather has begun to cool, and the kids are back in school (for now), so I’m feeling a new rhythm to my days beginning. I hope life is feeling more predictable by you, too.

Please read on for interview and writing news!

Reflection, Forgiveness, and Renewal

Rosh Hashonnah, the Jewish New Year, is a time of reflection, forgiveness, and renewal. This is year 5782 in the Jewish calendar and we dip apples into honey to mark the holiday and bring in a sweet new year.

I’m so pleased to be a guest on Emily Alhadeff’s The Cholent (the stew in Hebrew) with my friend author Judy Temes for this podcast episode No One Is Good or Evil.  Thank you to Emily who felt that my story and Judy’s story of parental abandonment and reconciliation would resonate with this time of year.

You can listen here: https://thecholent.substack.com/p/no-one-is-good-or-evil

An Appearance On 'The Cult Vault'

For the month of September The Cult Vault one of my favorites podcasts is featuring my book When She Comes Back for Memoir Mondays. You can listen to my interview episode 118, learn more about my book, and by following and commenting on The Cult Vault’s social media posts, have a chance to win one of three signed copies of my book.

You can listen to my episode here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-cult-vault/id1514656568?i=1000534160025

“Can a Writer Have an Inner Life and a Social Media Presence?”

My new article in Writer’s Digest, “Can a Writer Have an Inner Life and a Social Media Presence?” features interviews, advice, and perspective on utilizing social media.

You can read it here: https://www.writersdigest.com/getting-published/can-a-writer-have-an-inner-life-and-a-social-media-presence

This Week On My ATEC Podcast

When Allison Hong Merrill was growing up in the slums of Taiwan her family was riddled with cycles of alcoholism and domestic violence. She couldn’t imagine a different life until she met Mormon missionaries, began attending church and witnessed, for the first time, families who cared for one another. She became more and more active in the church and eventually fell in love, moving to the US to be with her American husband. But soon after, he abandoned Allison, took her money, and left her alone in her new country with no resources. In this episode Allison, whose new memoir Ninety-Nine Fire Hoops is out this month, shares how she found strength, created a new life for herself, and what her past has helped her understand.

Listen in here: https://andtheneverythingchangedpodcast.com/episode-96-ninety-nine-fire-hoops-ft-allison-hong-merrill/

Thank you so much for subscribing to my newsletter. I’ll be back in October with more updates. Until then, I wish you a refreshing rhythm to your days.

XO,

Ronit

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August 4, 2021

JCC Rockland, West Nyack (2.9.22)

JCC Rockland, West Nyack

On February 9th, I will be making an online appearance with JCC Rockland, West Nyack.

Event Details Date

2.9.22

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11 AM PST

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Other Events JCC Rockland, West Nyack (2.9.22) Adolph & Rose Levis Jewish community Center, Boca Raton (2.1.22) Jewish Community Campus of Central NJ, Scotch Plains (10.25.21)

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