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August 15, 2023

September is going to be big

September is going to be big Ronit Feinglass Plank August 15, 2023

I love September. Growing up knowing September was coming put a flutter in my chest. It meant back to school and a new pair of shoes, the buzz of meeting new classmates, the chance to see friends every weekday, and being on a set schedule again (I’m a Virgo and LOVE a schedule). September is also my birthday month. I’m feeling that flutter in my chest just writing about it now.

Also in September…

Let’s Talk Memoir season 3!

I’ve got a launch date for season 3 of Let’s Talk Memoir and am so pleased to announce it will be Tuesday, September 5th, 2023!

I took a few months off the air to read new memoirs, schedule guests, and begin interviews and I am thrilled to announce season 3 production is fully underway! I’ve already got a handful of interviews ready to go and am interviewing additional memoirists over these next months so I can bring you fresh content through Spring 2024. New episodes will be dropping every Tuesday and you won’t want to miss my first guest – one of our memoir greats.

I’m so happy to see a steady stream of downloads even while the show has been on hiatus. This means your recommendations are helping the show reach new listeners. If you’ve left a review on Apple podcasts (or your preferred podcast platform) thank you! If you haven’t yet, I would love to have your review. Clicking on some stars and writing a sentence or two about what you enjoy about Let’s Talk Memoir, helps other listeners find the show.

New work

I have two new pieces that will be out soon, a craft article on writing scenes in memoir and a creative nonfiction flash essay. I will post links on my socials as soon as they are live. Very excited to share these with you!

Seattle friends

Seattle friends, if you love memoir, delicious food, and stories of resilience please join me.

On Sunday evening, September 10th I’ll be moderating a Happy Women Dinner featuring Laura Cathcart Robbins whose new memoir is STASH: My Life in Hiding at a Queen Anne home. Laura Cathcart Robbins is an author, freelance writer, speaker, and host of the popular podcast The Only One in the Room. We will be talking about Hollywood, motherhood, addiction, and how she met her life partner while in recovery.

Your admission of $100 covers a catered dinner and a signed copy of STASH.

I’d love to have you there! If you’d like to attend contact jill@happywomendinners.com with the subject line: Register Me for the “Stash” Memoir Seattle Dinner

Memoir Resources

Jessica J. Hill, memoir mentor and editor and friend of Let’s Talk Memoir is offering The Wandering Writers Retreat this February in Sayulita Mexico! I admire Jessica and her work; she is an incredible literary citizen and champion of memoir.


If you’re writing a memoir or novel (or you’ve been thinking about starting), and you want to gain clarity on your story, create community and renew your commitment to your project, this could be the retreat for you! Here’s a link to learn more: https://www.jessicajhill.com/retreat

That is the latest for now. Thank you so much for subscribing. September’s newsletter will arrive on season 3’s launch date with exciting guest announcements and more. Until then I hope you have a good rest of your summer!

xo, Ronit

 

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July 12, 2023

If I had a nickel for every contradiction

If I had a nickel for every contradiction Ronit Feinglass Plank July 12, 2023 Gratitude

On Saturday I ditched an indoor gym class and went out for a jog on the Burke Gilman trail close to where I live. The trial spans 27 miles and on the few miles I covered, maple, dogwood, and fir trees provide cover, and blackberry bushes spring up, well, wherever they want to.

The trail was fairly empty and I put on an old iTunes playlist and made tracks.

I was pleased to have space and time to myself and so grateful for my body which is different from the version that ran a marathon when I was 30, but still had a little kick here and there.

I have spent so many years (so many!) berating myself for not being (fill-in-the-blanks) enough. Not running fast enough, not sticking to a plan consistently enough, not eating perfectly enough, not drinking water enough, not working on my core enough, not being aware of my posture enough, and these examples are simply just the tip of the iceberg.

Don’t get me started on the barrage of criticism I’ve historically had hammering away at the parts of myself no one can see: my approach to relationships, to writing, to mothering, to social situations, to stress, to cooking meals….again just the tip of the iceberg.

But I felt different while out on Saturday. I jogged slower at times than I hoped I would but was happy to be outside feeling this world I get to live in, doing what I wanted.
Happy to be alive and content, to have the static turned way down low for a change.

On Saturday I didn’t make any sweeping resolutions about how often I would come back and run, or how many miles I needed to log. I am done with rigidity and all-or-nothingness.

I don’t think we’re meant to be 100% about anything. How could people who are complex, enigmatic, ever-changing, so dang human, be all-in every day on everything they’ve committed to.

We are walking contradictions. I mean I’m a vegetarian-pescatarian and have been trying to cut down on dairy and eggs because of factory farming and yet there I was in a T-shirt from my favorite pizza place in Seattle, Big Mario’s. What the heck.

Contradictions might be the most human part of us.

The gifts of contradiction in memoir

I’ve found embracing contradiction is also a key in memoir-writing. Memoir is a search for understanding – lots of other elements are of course at play in gripping, evocative memoirs – but what helps keep me engaged in a memoirist’s story is their ability to acknowledge the patterns and contradictions in their behavior. Their courage in exposing the aspects of themselves they worry will make them less likeable or sympathetic draws the reader closer.

Ever notice when a writer portrays themselves in only positive or admirable ways you grow weary or even bristle? Readers intuit when a memoirist is missing self-awareness in their narrative and your reader wants you to be curious about why you do what you do.

Readers of memoir are interested in witnessing a mind at work; to see how the memoirist negotiates complicated experiences, how they meaning-make on the page.

Leaning into the parts of yourself you worry about revealing can infuse your narrative with honesty and heighten the stakes in the story you are telling. If you acknowledge what about you confuses even yourself, you invite the reader in and engage them even more.

So, my suggestion is that you don’t run away from your contradictions. Lean into them and watch how kindness for yourself and the story you are telling grows.

Let’s Talk Memoir season 3

I’m prepping for Let’s Talk Memoir interviews which begin next month for season 3’s September launch and holy cow, do I have some incredible guests in store. I can hardly wait to begin recording!

 You can follow me @RonitPlank on Instagram and Threads which I just joined for updates and guest announcements.

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xo,

Ronit

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May 31, 2023

Mothers who go missing and what’s ours to tell

Mothers who go missing and what’s ours to tell Ronit Feinglass Plank May 31, 2023 Sam Now movie posterFilmmaker Reed Harkness of Sam Now is my guest

My latest guest on Let’s Talk Memoir is Reed Harkness whose new documentary is Sam Now which traces Reed and his younger brother Sam as they set off to find out why their mother has gone missing and uncover truths neither of them expects. A story about generational trauma, masculinity, vulnerability, and family, Sam Now is very much a memoir in film. You can learn more about Sam Now and how to stream it here: https://samnowmovie.com

In this episode, we also talk about choosing to move into discomfort in service of sharing the truth, how we as creators can know what’s ours to tell, and Reed shares what he’s learned about vulnerability from documenting 25 years of his family’s story.

You can listen to this episode of Let’s Talk Memoir here: https://ronitplank.com/lets-talk-memoir-with-ronit-plank/

When She Comes Back turns 2!

Talking with Reed about his family reminded me of the ways kids with insecure parental attachment experience their ability to love and be loved. Though Reed and his brothers are younger than me, grew up across the country from where I lived, and their mom left for different reasons than mine, we have some of the effects of parental loss in common. These early experiences leave their mark and each of us try to make sense of them in our work. His is in film, mine is the memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK, which turned two this month. (Photo by Elizabeth Heise)

Writing WHEN SHE COMES BACK helped me understand more about how first my father and then my mother were able to leave when I was a kid. It gave me a way to make sense of the anxiety I experienced when I was young and my lifelong need to try and control whatever I could. It also helped me uncover the origins of the inherent fear I had that I wasn’t good enough; when kids see their parents leave, they often grow up doubting anyone will find them worth sticking around for.

My memoir is about losing the person your life revolves around, coming of age in the 80s, struggling with body image in the era of the first supermodels, being raised by a single dad, and how we try to hold onto our worth when the people we need most leave.In this book I also got to explore a bit about the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh who my mother followed to India and then to Oregon, and the different ways people forfeit their power. Coercive control happens – is happening – all the time, in organizations and “spiritual” movements, and when parents give up their voice in service to that, children pay the price.  You can learn more about WHEN SHE COMES BACK here: https://ronitplank.com/when-she-comes-back/

My second book Home is a Made-Up Place

My short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE which won Hidden River Arts’ Eludia Award was released in February, and in March, April, and May I got to do book events in Seattle, New York, Connecticut, and San Diego. Meeting readers and being in conversation with writers like Kathy Curto, Victoria Buitron, Laurel Peterson, and Sandi Wisenberg made for an exciting and fulfilling spring and I’m grateful to the venues who held these events.

You can learn more about the stories in this collection and purchase HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE here: https://ronitplank.com/home-is-a-made-up-place/

Season 3 of Let’s Talk Memoir

I’m so pleased to announce there are now 45 episodes of Let’s Talk Memoir, a podcast dedicated to writing and reading memoir, the writing life, and the nuts and bolts of crafting memoir narratives that stay true to our vision for our work.

This season, I’ve had the pleasure of talking with a wide range of guests including Maggie Smith, Beth Kephart, Camille Dungy, and Suzanne Roberts, about many facets of memoir writing. You can find all the episodes for both season 1 and 2 at this link: https://ronitplank.com/podcast-series/

Season 2 is now wrapped and will be on a hiatus over the summer with a September return for season 3.

To find resources and updates about the show you can follow me at my Instagram and on Facebook.

Thank you for your interest in and support of my work, I am so very grateful. I hope your summer is a good one and you are able to carve out time to do some of what you love.

XO,

Ronit

 

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May 30, 2023

Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 45: Season 2 Is Wrapped!

EPISODE 45 In this episode of Let’s Talk Memoir, reflections on a few most-asked memoir questions, information on Season 3, and where to find Let’s Talk Memoir writing resources and updates while the show is on Summer hiatus. Thank you to Season 2’s generous guests for your insight and clarity, and to the listeners who make this show so rewarding to make. Grateful for your incredible support! Listen On iTunes Listen On Spotify YOU MAY ALSO LIKE Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 45: Season 2 Is Wrapped! Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 44 ft. Reed Harkness Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 43 ft. Gayle Brandeis ABOUT THE HOST MEET RONIT

Ronit’s essays and fiction have been featured in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, The Iowa Review, The Washington Post, Writer’s Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in both the 2021 Best Book Awards and the 2021 Book of the Year Award and a 2021 Best True Crime Book by Book Riot. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts’ 2020 Eludia Award and will be published in 2022. She is host and producer of the podcasts And Then Everything Changed and The Body Myth.

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May 23, 2023

Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 44 ft. Reed Harkness

EPISODE 44

Reed Harkness joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about a mother who goes missing, intergenerational trauma, moving into discomfort in service of truth-telling, what’s ours to tell, masculinity and brotherhood, the hero’s journey as a template for story arc, and what he’s  learned about vulnerability from documenting 25 years of his family’s story in his new deeply personal film Sam Now. 

Listen On iTunes Listen On Spotify YOU MAY ALSO LIKE Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 44 ft. Reed Harkness Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 43 ft. Gayle Brandeis Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 42 ft. Jennifer Lunden ABOUT THE HOST MEET RONIT

Ronit’s essays and fiction have been featured in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, The Iowa Review, The Washington Post, Writer’s Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in both the 2021 Best Book Awards and the 2021 Book of the Year Award and a 2021 Best True Crime Book by Book Riot. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts’ 2020 Eludia Award and will be published in 2022. She is host and producer of the podcasts And Then Everything Changed and The Body Myth.

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Published on May 23, 2023 07:25

May 16, 2023

Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 43 ft. Gayle Brandeis

EPISODE 43 Gayle Brandeis joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about losing her mother to suicide and finding a way to write about it, her work across genres, leaning into what makes us unique on the page, trusting ourselves to discover what our work wants to become, why there is no better time to write than now, editing for connection with readers, and her new collection Drawing Breath: Essays on Writing, the Body. Listen On iTunes Listen On Spotify YOU MAY ALSO LIKE Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 43 ft. Gayle Brandeis Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 42 ft. Jennifer Lunden Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 41 ft. Camille T. Dungy ABOUT THE HOST MEET RONIT

Ronit’s essays and fiction have been featured in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, The Iowa Review, The Washington Post, Writer’s Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in both the 2021 Best Book Awards and the 2021 Book of the Year Award and a 2021 Best True Crime Book by Book Riot. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts’ 2020 Eludia Award and will be published in 2022. She is host and producer of the podcasts And Then Everything Changed and The Body Myth.

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Published on May 16, 2023 08:18

May 9, 2023

Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 42 ft. Jennifer Lunden

EPISODE 42 Jennifer Lunden joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about her experience with ME/CFS and her new braided memoir American Breakdown: Our Ailing Nation, My Body’s Revolt, and the Nineteenth-Century Woman Who Brought Me Back to Life, writing about trauma, the long-term effects of adverse childhood experiences on health, misogyny in medicine, using imagery to ground our readers, how she found the right publisher, and what it takes to be a working, published writer. Listen On iTunes Listen On Spotify YOU MAY ALSO LIKE Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 42 ft. Jennifer Lunden Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 41 ft. Camille T. Dungy Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 40 ft. Sarah Birnbach ABOUT THE HOST MEET RONIT

Ronit’s essays and fiction have been featured in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, The Iowa Review, The Washington Post, Writer’s Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in both the 2021 Best Book Awards and the 2021 Book of the Year Award and a 2021 Best True Crime Book by Book Riot. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts’ 2020 Eludia Award and will be published in 2022. She is host and producer of the podcasts And Then Everything Changed and The Body Myth.

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Published on May 09, 2023 04:47

May 2, 2023

Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 41 ft. Camille T. Dungy

EPISODE 41 Camille T. Dungy joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about who speaks about the natural world and how, erasure in life and in art, the white gaze, reviewing the cannon of environmental literature with a critical eye, writing about motherhood, manuscript-cutting, leaning into humor and nuance in our work, and her new book Soil: The Story of a Black Mother’s Garden. Listen On iTunes Listen On Spotify YOU MAY ALSO LIKE Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 41 ft. Camille T. Dungy Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 40 ft. Sarah Birnbach Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 39 ft. Candace Cahill ABOUT THE HOST MEET RONIT

Ronit’s essays and fiction have been featured in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, The Iowa Review, The Washington Post, Writer’s Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in both the 2021 Best Book Awards and the 2021 Book of the Year Award and a 2021 Best True Crime Book by Book Riot. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts’ 2020 Eludia Award and will be published in 2022. She is host and producer of the podcasts And Then Everything Changed and The Body Myth.

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Published on May 02, 2023 04:51

April 25, 2023

Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 40 ft. Sarah Birnbach

EPISODE 40 Sarah Birnbach joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about grief and the wished-for mother, how Jewish prayer anchored her as she mourned the father she adored, birth order and responsibility, how spirituality has shaped her life, deciding how much to share about her painful relationship with her mother, and publishing her memoir A Daughter’s Kaddish later in life.  Listen On iTunes Listen On Spotify YOU MAY ALSO LIKE Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 40 ft. Sarah Birnbach Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 39 ft. Candace Cahill Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 38 ft. Maggie Smith ABOUT THE HOST MEET RONIT

Ronit’s essays and fiction have been featured in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, The Iowa Review, The Washington Post, Writer’s Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in both the 2021 Best Book Awards and the 2021 Book of the Year Award and a 2021 Best True Crime Book by Book Riot. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts’ 2020 Eludia Award and will be published in 2022. She is host and producer of the podcasts And Then Everything Changed and The Body Myth.

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Published on April 25, 2023 05:48

April 18, 2023

Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 39 ft. Candace Cahill

EPISODE 39 Candace Cahill joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about placing her newborn son for adoption and meeting him as an adult shortly before his death, writing for clarity, negotiating guilt, finding compassion for yourself, writing as a process for grieving, and her memoir Goodbye Again.  Listen On iTunes Listen On Spotify YOU MAY ALSO LIKE Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 39 ft. Candace Cahill Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 38 ft. Maggie Smith Let’s Talk Memoir – Season 2, Episode 22 ft. Erika Bornman ABOUT THE HOST MEET RONIT

Ronit’s essays and fiction have been featured in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, The Iowa Review, The Washington Post, Writer’s Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in both the 2021 Best Book Awards and the 2021 Book of the Year Award and a 2021 Best True Crime Book by Book Riot. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts’ 2020 Eludia Award and will be published in 2022. She is host and producer of the podcasts And Then Everything Changed and The Body Myth.

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Published on April 18, 2023 07:20