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April 9, 2024

Episode 88 ft. Suzette Mullen

Let's Talk Memoir Episode 88 ft. Suzette Mullen Brooke Warner

Suzette Mullen joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about digging to find a deeper story and the question we need to ask in memoir, discovering where to begin by getting to the end of our manuscripts, the revision process as revelatory, the effect our memoirs have on loved ones, leaning on trusted readers and writers, her work as a nonfiction book coach, and her coming of age and coming out memoir The Only Way Through is Out.

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Apr 9, 2024

Suzette Mullen joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about digging to find a deeper story and the question we need to ask in memoir, discovering where to begin by getting to the end of our manuscripts, the revision process as revelatory, the effect our memoirs...

Episode 87 ft. Mimi Zieman Episode 87 ft. Mimi Zieman

Apr 4, 2024

Mimi Zieman joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about thinking of ourselves as characters, hooking readers from the beginning, playing with structure, balancing our reflective narrator, trusting your reader and not overexplaining, the true self and the...

Episode 86 ft. Lisa Cooper Ellison Episode 86 ft. Lisa Cooper Ellison

Apr 2, 2024

Lisa Cooper Ellison joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about therapy vs. memoir, taking care of our nervous systems while working on charged material, writing about trauma without retraumatizing ourselves, developing a robust self-care practice, how to avoid...

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Published on April 09, 2024 06:40

April 4, 2024

Episode 87 ft. Mimi Zieman

Let's Talk Memoir Episode 87 ft. Mimi Zieman Brooke Warner Mimi Zieman joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about thinking of ourselves as characters, hooking readers from the beginning, playing with structure, balancing our reflective narrator, trusting your reader and not overexplaining, the true self and the invisible self, when to listen to others and when to listen to ourselves, being the only woman on a historic climbing expedition, and her memoir Tap Dancing on Everest: A Young Doctor’s Unlikely Adventure.

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Apr 4, 2024

Mimi Zieman joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about thinking of ourselves as characters, hooking readers from the beginning, playing with structure, balancing our reflective narrator, trusting your reader and not overexplaining, the true self and the...

Episode 86 ft. Lisa Cooper Ellison Episode 86 ft. Lisa Cooper Ellison

Apr 2, 2024

Lisa Cooper Ellison joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about therapy vs. memoir, taking care of our nervous systems while working on charged material, writing about trauma without retraumatizing ourselves, developing a robust self-care practice, how to avoid...

Episode 85 ft. Paula Ramón Episode 85 ft. Paula Ramón

Mar 26, 2024

Paula Ramón joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about pivoting from journalism to memoir to tell the story of Venezuela’s collapse, understanding the history of her country before and after Chavez through her mother’s life, guilt, the physical and emotional...

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Published on April 04, 2024 08:31

April 2, 2024

Episode 86 ft. Lisa Cooper Ellison

Let's Talk Memoir Episode 86 ft. Lisa Cooper Ellison Brooke Warner

Lisa Cooper Ellison joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about therapy vs. memoir, taking care of our nervous systems while working on charged material, writing about trauma without retraumatizing ourselves, developing a robust self-care practice, how to avoid creating victim narratives in our memoirs, what to do with gaps in our memory, putting more of ourselves on the page, and her new podcast Writing Your Resilience.

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Apr 4, 2024

Mimi Zieman joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about thinking of ourselves as characters, hooking readers from the beginning, playing with structure, balancing our reflective narrator, trusting your reader and not overexplaining, the true self and the...

Episode 86 ft. Lisa Cooper Ellison Episode 86 ft. Lisa Cooper Ellison

Apr 2, 2024

Lisa Cooper Ellison joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about therapy vs. memoir, taking care of our nervous systems while working on charged material, writing about trauma without retraumatizing ourselves, developing a robust self-care practice, how to avoid...

Episode 85 ft. Paula Ramón Episode 85 ft. Paula Ramón

Mar 26, 2024

Paula Ramón joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about pivoting from journalism to memoir to tell the story of Venezuela’s collapse, understanding the history of her country before and after Chavez through her mother’s life, guilt, the physical and emotional...

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Published on April 02, 2024 08:17

Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 86 ft. Lisa Cooper Ellison

Episode 86 ft. Lisa Cooper Ellison

Lisa Cooper Ellison joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about therapy vs. memoir, taking care of our nervous systems while working on charged material, writing about trauma without retraumatizing ourselves, developing a robust self-care practice, how to avoid creating victim narratives in our memoirs, what to do with gaps in our memory, putting more of ourselves on the page, and her new podcast Writing Your Resilience.

Listen on iTunes Listen on Spotify YOU MAY ALSO LIKE Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 86 ft. Lisa Cooper Ellison Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 85 ft. Paula Ramón Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 84 ft. Elleen Weir Casey ABOUT THE HOST MEET RONIT

Ronit’s essays and fiction have been featured in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, The Iowa Review, The Washington Post, Writer’s Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in both the 2021 Best Book Awards and the 2021 Book of the Year Award and a 2021 Best True Crime Book by Book Riot. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts’ 2020 Eludia Award and will be published in 2022. She is host and producer of the podcasts And Then Everything Changed and The Body Myth.

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Published on April 02, 2024 07:55

March 26, 2024

Episode 85 ft. Paula Ramón

Let's Talk Memoir Episode 85 ft. Paula Ramón Brooke Warner Paula Ramón joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about pivoting from journalism to memoir to tell the story of Venezuela’s collapse, understanding the history of her country before and after Chavez through her mother’s life, guilt, the physical and emotional losses she and her family have faced, the concept of democracy, when there’s no future in your country, emotional warfare and shrinking resources, the toll of migration on the body, and her memoir Motherland.

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Apr 4, 2024

Mimi Zieman joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about thinking of ourselves as characters, hooking readers from the beginning, playing with structure, balancing our reflective narrator, trusting your reader and not overexplaining, the true self and the...

Episode 86 ft. Lisa Cooper Ellison Episode 86 ft. Lisa Cooper Ellison

Apr 2, 2024

Lisa Cooper Ellison joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about therapy vs. memoir, taking care of our nervous systems while working on charged material, writing about trauma without retraumatizing ourselves, developing a robust self-care practice, how to avoid...

Episode 85 ft. Paula Ramón Episode 85 ft. Paula Ramón

Mar 26, 2024

Paula Ramón joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about pivoting from journalism to memoir to tell the story of Venezuela’s collapse, understanding the history of her country before and after Chavez through her mother’s life, guilt, the physical and emotional...

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Published on March 26, 2024 08:07

Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 85 ft. Paula Ramón

Episode 85 ft. Paula Ramón Paula Ramón joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about pivoting from journalism to memoir to tell the story of Venezuela’s collapse, understanding the history of her country before and after Chavez through her mother’s life, guilt, the physical and emotional losses she and her family have faced, the concept of democracy, when there’s no future in your country, emotional warfare and shrinking resources, the toll of migration on the body, and her memoir Motherland. Listen on iTunes Listen on Spotify YOU MAY ALSO LIKE Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 85 ft. Paula Ramón Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 84 ft. Elleen Weir Casey Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 83 ft. Karen DeBonis ABOUT THE HOST MEET RONIT

Ronit’s essays and fiction have been featured in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, The Iowa Review, The Washington Post, Writer’s Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in both the 2021 Best Book Awards and the 2021 Book of the Year Award and a 2021 Best True Crime Book by Book Riot. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts’ 2020 Eludia Award and will be published in 2022. She is host and producer of the podcasts And Then Everything Changed and The Body Myth.

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Published on March 26, 2024 05:40

March 21, 2024

Episode 84 ft. Ellen Weir Casey

Let's Talk Memoir Episode 84 ft. Ellen Weir Casey Brooke Warner Ellen Weir Casey joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about infertility and becoming the mother of one of the world’s first IVF babies in the earliest days of assisted reproductive technology, the role guilt plays in women’s lives, being part of medical and women’s history, forgiving ourselves, reproductive freedom, and her memoir Unstoppable: Forging The Path To Motherhood In The Early Days Of IVF.

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Apr 4, 2024

Mimi Zieman joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about thinking of ourselves as characters, hooking readers from the beginning, playing with structure, balancing our reflective narrator, trusting your reader and not overexplaining, the true self and the...

Episode 86 ft. Lisa Cooper Ellison Episode 86 ft. Lisa Cooper Ellison

Apr 2, 2024

Lisa Cooper Ellison joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about therapy vs. memoir, taking care of our nervous systems while working on charged material, writing about trauma without retraumatizing ourselves, developing a robust self-care practice, how to avoid...

Episode 85 ft. Paula Ramón Episode 85 ft. Paula Ramón

Mar 26, 2024

Paula Ramón joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about pivoting from journalism to memoir to tell the story of Venezuela’s collapse, understanding the history of her country before and after Chavez through her mother’s life, guilt, the physical and emotional...

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Published on March 21, 2024 07:59

Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 84 ft. Elleen Weir Casey

Episode 84 ft. Ellen Weir Casey

Ellen Weir Casey joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about infertility and becoming the mother of one of the world’s first IVF babies in the earliest days of assisted reproductive technology, the role guilt plays in women’s lives, being part of medical and women’s history, forgiving ourselves, reproductive freedom, and her memoir Unstoppable: Forging The Path To Motherhood In The Early Days Of IVF.

Listen on iTunes Listen on Spotify YOU MAY ALSO LIKE Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 84 ft. Elleen Weir Casey Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 83 ft. Karen DeBonis Let’s Talk Memoir – Episode 82 ft. Cathy Shields ABOUT THE HOST MEET RONIT

Ronit’s essays and fiction have been featured in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, The Iowa Review, The Washington Post, Writer’s Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in both the 2021 Best Book Awards and the 2021 Book of the Year Award and a 2021 Best True Crime Book by Book Riot. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts’ 2020 Eludia Award and will be published in 2022. She is host and producer of the podcasts And Then Everything Changed and The Body Myth.

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Published on March 21, 2024 07:18

March 19, 2024

March words of support for your memoir writing practic

March words of support for your memoir writing practice Ronit Feinglass Plank March 20, 2024 About not knowing  Are you the kind of writer that needs to know where your project is going in order to create?

Then you’re my people. Most of my life I’ve tried to plan and control as much as I can to fend off uncertainty and doubt. And my writing life is no exception. For type A’s and those of us who grew up with anxious/insecure attachment or abandonment, one of our go-to self-protections can be trying to figure out everything as quickly as possible. It’s a way to feel safe. That seems to spill into my writing life too. Even after all these years as a writer, when I’m staring at all that white space on my laptop I still must remind myself that it’s okay not to know what I’m trying to say or how I’m going to say it. I can trust that the ground won’t crumble beneath me simply because I can’t yet puzzle out the next step in my project.

The answers will come

When I was writing my memoir I struggled because I felt like I couldn’t make any progress on my material until I had the structure. But as memoirists know, it’s not easy to arrive at a structure until you have worked on your project for a while. Needless to say, this limbo wrecked Type-A me. 

Perhaps the lesson I had the hardest time learning all the way up to my thirties was that I didn’t have to have all the answers or framework in place to feel like I’m where safe where I am. I can trust that I will find my way; settle into the unfolding of the dynamic and interesting process living and writing can be. 

It’s okay not to know

I share this with you because I am a reformed need-to-knower. I’ve lived long enough and — happy to report — written for long enough now to recognize the part of me that wants to have all the answers. The part that can still find the many creative choices I have in front of me and the work of trying to distill what I’m trying to convey confounding. But I also know how to quiet that part of me that is balking; it’s a small and scared relic worrying about not being enough.

It’s okay not to know not to know if you’re writing a linear or non-linear memoir, it’s okay not to have a title, how you’re going to find a publisher, how to approach family members about your memoir, whether you should actually keep that scene you’re worried about. It’s okay not to know even what the heck you’re writing!

The answers will come. The answers are coming. The answers are on the way.

I find in my personal life and my writing life that calling out for myself what is really going on helps me digest the obstacles I’m experiencing. We can’t address and work through what we won’t acknowledge. 

A helpful prompt

recommend that you allow yourself to entertain all the thoughts that swoop in disturbing your creative time. You can do this prompt whenever you need to and frame it the way that works best for you.

-Grab something to write with and give yourself a 10-minute timer.

-You will write on this prompt in the way that works best for you: sentence-form, list-form, drawing-form, associative word-form. You decide. The main thing is to keep free writing, whatever comes to mind.

-Here’s the prompt:

When I think about writing my memoir I worry that: _______

Once 10 minutes is up, tuck that away. You’ve exorcised the restless parts of yourself and now you can get to work. If those voices pop up again during your creative time tell them to go grab a blankie and a nap.

 Upcoming workshop offering!

I’ve got some memoir workshops coming up this spring and summer and registration is beginning. 

My first offering is on May 11th.

I’ll be presenting Putting the Plot in Your Memoir + a Q & A at Bianca Marias of the podcast The Shit No One Tells You About Writing’s virtual retreat All About Memoir.

Here’s a link to check out my co-presenters and register. Mention I sent you when you register! 

 On Let’s Talk Memoir

Season 4 launches April 2nd! Make sure you’re subscribed so you don’t miss an episode.

 Listen HERE.


The Vulnerability of Writing About Difficult Motherhoods

Latest episodes:

Ep. 83 The Vulnerability of Writing About Difficult Motherhoods featuring Karen DeBonis

Ep. 82 Loving and Wriiing About an Imperfect, Magnificent Child featuring Cathy Shields

Ep. 81 Self-Declared Spiritual Gurus, Secret mantras, and Yoga Cults featuring Joelle Tamraz

Thank you for reading my work. I’ll have more memoir writing encouragement and workshop announcements next month. If you have a memoir question you’d like me to address in my newsletter please get in touch. 

Take good care of yourself and thank you for being here.

XO,

Ronit

 

 

 

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March words of support for your memoir writing practice

March words of support for your memoir writing practice Ronit Feinglass Plank March 20, 2024 About not knowing  Are you the kind of writer that needs to know where your project is going in order to create?

Then you’re my people. Most of my life I’ve tried to plan and control as much as I can to fend off uncertainty and doubt. And my writing life is no exception. For type A’s and those of us who grew up with anxious/insecure attachment or abandonment, one of our go-to self-protections can be trying to figure out everything as quickly as possible. It’s a way to feel safe. That seems to spill into my writing life too. Even after all these years as a writer, when I’m staring at all that white space on my laptop I still must remind myself that it’s okay not to know what I’m trying to say or how I’m going to say it. I can trust that the ground won’t crumble beneath me simply because I can’t yet puzzle out the next step in my project.

The answers will come

When I was writing my memoir I struggled because I felt like I couldn’t make any progress on my material until I had the structure. But as memoirists know, it’s not easy to arrive at a structure until you have worked on your project for a while. Needless to say, this limbo wrecked Type-A me. 

Perhaps the lesson I had the hardest time learning all the way up to my thirties was that I didn’t have to have all the answers or framework in place to feel like I’m where safe where I am. I can trust that I will find my way; settle into the unfolding of the dynamic and interesting process living and writing can be. 

It’s okay not to know

I share this with you because I am a reformed need-to-knower. I’ve lived long enough and — happy to report — written for long enough now to recognize the part of me that wants to have all the answers. The part that can still find the many creative choices I have in front of me and the work of trying to distill what I’m trying to convey confounding. But I also know how to quiet that part of me that is balking; it’s a small and scared relic worrying about not being enough.

It’s okay not to know not to know if you’re writing a linear or non-linear memoir, it’s okay not to have a title, how you’re going to find a publisher, how to approach family members about your memoir, whether you should actually keep that scene you’re worried about. It’s okay not to know even what the heck you’re writing!

The answers will come. The answers are coming. The answers are on the way.

I find in my personal life and my writing life that calling out for myself what is really going on helps me digest the obstacles I’m experiencing. We can’t address and work through what we won’t acknowledge. 

A helpful prompt

recommend that you allow yourself to entertain all the thoughts that swoop in disturbing your creative time. You can do this prompt whenever you need to and frame it the way that works best for you.

-Grab something to write with and give yourself a 10-minute timer.

-You will write on this prompt in the way that works best for you: sentence-form, list-form, drawing-form, associative word-form. You decide. The main thing is to keep free writing, whatever comes to mind.

-Here’s the prompt:

When I think about writing my memoir I worry that: _______

Once 10 minutes is up, tuck that away. You’ve exorcised the restless parts of yourself and now you can get to work. If those voices pop up again during your creative time tell them to go grab a blankie and a nap.

 Upcoming workshop offering!

I’ve got some memoir workshops coming up this spring and summer and registration is beginning. 

My first offering is on May 11th.

I’ll be presenting Putting the Plot in Your Memoir + a Q & A at Bianca Marias of the podcast The Shit No One Tells You About Writing’s virtual retreat All About Memoir.

Here’s a link to check out my co-presenters and register. Mention I sent you when you register! 

 On Let’s Talk Memoir

Season 4 launches April 2nd! Make sure you’re subscribed so you don’t miss an episode.

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Thank you for reading my work. I’ll have more memoir writing encouragement and workshop announcements next month. If you have a memoir question you’d like me to address in my newsletter please get in touch. 

Take good care of yourself and thank you for being here.

XO,

Ronit

 

 

 

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