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November 28, 2015
SEX IS RISKY FOR THE UNMARRIED
By Ada Nicholson Brownell
Moral depravity and the underlying lack of faith in God cause greater risk to the under-40 crowd today than the economic and political earthquakes shaking our nation. Somewhere hidden beneath the heartache of virginity lost, beneath dead or diseased bodies of people who died or suffer from sexually transmitted diseases, beneath the millions of babies aborted, beneath children born into poverty because their unwed mother couldn’t provide for them, and beneath the tormented conscience, is one of the most special things God created for humankind—intimacy between a man and woman. God didn’t plan for it to be abused. Yet, today’s evils revolve around immorality. What happened?Of course, sin happened. Sin began in the Garden of Eden and trails every generation. It seems evil encroaches over the United States today like a deadly gooey fungus threatening to contaminate our whole society.“This might be the most wicked generation in history,” says Jim Bradford, General Secretary of the Assemblies of God. Some say sex education promotes illicit sex. We’ve read studies that blame contraceptives. Others lay the problem at the feet of the media, parents and even the church.After years working with youth and as a newspaper reporter covering the problems immorality causes in society and reporting the discouraging statistics, I believe the following helped put our youth in peril.
EARLY DATING If you start dating at age 12 and don’t marry until the mid-20s, that’s a long time to practice self control. Can anyone who kisses and hugs the opposite sex for that many years expect to be morally pure?
DELAYING MARRIAGEYoung people – even Christians – have trouble with self control if they wait until after college to wed, especially if they are in love and alone often. Sexually-active unmarried Christian youth sometimes feel God will overlook their sin because they will marry eventually. Scripture doesn’t give any excuse, but warns about the disastrous consequences of such sin.[1]
GLORIFYING ENTICING ACTIONS AND CLOTHING Being “sexy” is contrary to the teachings of Jesus. Jesus said if we lust in our hearts, it’s the same as committing adultery. While many women don’t feel lust when they dress in tight or revealing clothing, they cause men to lust after them. Let’s teach our young women to be classy instead of sexy! TOLERANCE OF SINFUL LIFESTYLES.We should love the unwed mother and her child, but we should not put these women in places of leadership in the church until they accept Christ and live an exemplary lifestyle an acceptable time. Even if he’s repented of sexual sin, so long as a man doesn’t pay child support for his children, he should be barred from lay ministry as well. Teach that if a young man wants sex, he should take responsibilities that go with what God created, which means self control or marrying the girl with whom he wants to be intimate and sticking with her until death parts them—the most romantic and loving action in life. We need to love sinners, but if they claim to be a Christian and continue to practice a sinful lifestyle, we should shun them (See 1 Corinthians 5:9-13). TOLERATING PORNOGRAPHY. This generation views shows in their own homes that would be against the law in times past. On weekends and evenings it’s almost impossible to view anything without nudity, sex, vulgar language and violence.The selling of sin is no accident—it is by design. Norman Lear, creator of TV shows “All in the Family,” “Maude” and others, in the 1980s intended with his writing to savage television evangelists, including Jerry Falwell, founder of the Moral Majority. Then he had another idea. He founded People for the American Way to use television and other means to counter evangelical Christian beliefs. Lear brought controversial television that glorifies sin to prime time, and other writers and producers who shared his beliefs caught the vision. The church as a whole took little notice. In fact, many watched Lear’s subtle and not so subtle messages. But most of us now participate in the peddling of smut whether we view it or not because anyone who has cable or satellite TV subsidizes pornography.I am a fervent believer in freedom of the press, but I resent helping to bring filth to the masses—particularly youth. If people want their minds and their lives filled with sin, let them pay for it. I’ve written the Federal Communications Commission, City Council and the cable provider protesting forced subsidizing of smut for consumers who only want stations and networks with 24-hour news, weather and G-rated entertainment. I wrote letters to local pastors trying to get them involved. I’ve also contacted television networks about indecent programs.The internet brings more moral temptations for this generation. Even church people are addicted to internet pornography and participate in illicit relationships online. (Notice I didn't identify them as "Christians." Anyone who is not living as Jesus taught is not a Christian.) FAILURE TO PREPARE YOUTH FOR SPIRITUAL BATTLE The first mission of the church is to preach the gospel. When we do, we train each generation about the spiritual armor and weapons God provides to help us be victorious. We also need to give them a glimpse of the Enemy. FAILURE TO POINT OUT SIN’S CONSEQUENCES Sin is dangerous! Unless covered with the blood of Jesus, sin sends you to hell but also drastically affects life on earth. Sexually transmitted diseases can ruin a person’s future, his health and maybe even take his life. These diseases cause infertility, cancer, liver problems, even blindness and death. Some STDs are incurable. Illicit sex also causes emotional consequences. Physicians Joe S. McIlhaney and Freda McKissic Bush, authors of the book, “Hooked,”We reap what we sow and youth should know Satan comes to steal, kill and destroy.
As a parent are you warning your teens?
Galatians 5:19,21 Ephesians 6:10-17 Moody Publishers, 2008
WHY SEX OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE ENDANGERS YOUTH
By Ada Nicholson Brownell
Moral depravity and the underlying lack of faith in God cause greater risk to the under-40 crowd today than the economic and political earthquakes shaking our nation. Somewhere hidden beneath the heartache of virginity lost, beneath dead or diseased bodies of people who died or suffer from sexually transmitted diseases, beneath the millions of babies aborted, beneath children born into poverty because their unwed mother couldn’t provide for them, and beneath the tormented conscience, is one of the most special things God created for humankind—intimacy between a man and woman. God didn’t plan for it to be abused. Yet, today’s evils revolve around immorality. What happened?Of course, sin happened. Sin began in the Garden of Eden and trails every generation. It seems evil encroaches over the United States today like a deadly gooey fungus threatening to contaminate our whole society.“This might be the most wicked generation in history,” says Jim Bradford, General Secretary of the Assemblies of God. Some say sex education promotes illicit sex. We’ve read studies that blame contraceptives. Others lay the problem at the feet of the media, parents and even the church.After years working with youth and as a newspaper reporter covering the problems immorality causes in society and reporting the discouraging statistics, I believe the following helped put our youth in peril.
EARLY DATING If you start dating at age 12 and don’t marry until the mid-20s, that’s a long time to practice self control. Can anyone who kisses and hugs the opposite sex for that many years expect to be morally pure?
DELAYING MARRIAGEYoung people – even Christians – have trouble with self control if they wait until after college to wed, especially if they are in love and alone often. Sexually-active unmarried Christian youth sometimes feel God will overlook their sin because they will marry eventually. Scripture doesn’t give any excuse, but warns about the disastrous consequences of such sin.[1]
GLORIFYING ENTICING ACTIONS AND CLOTHING Being “sexy” is contrary to the teachings of Jesus. Jesus said if we lust in our hearts, it’s the same as committing adultery. While many women don’t feel lust when they dress in tight or revealing clothing, they cause men to lust after them. Let’s teach our young women to be classy instead of sexy! TOLERANCE OF SINFUL LIFESTYLES.We should love the unwed mother and her child, but we should not put these women in places of leadership in the church until they accept Christ and live an exemplary lifestyle an acceptable time. Even if he’s repented of sexual sin, so long as a man doesn’t pay child support for his children, he should be barred from lay ministry as well. Teach that if a young man wants sex, he should take responsibilities that go with what God created, which means self control or marrying the girl with whom he wants to be intimate and sticking with her until death parts them—the most romantic and loving action in life. We need to love sinners, but if they claim to be a Christian and continue to practice a sinful lifestyle, we should shun them (See 1 Corinthians 5:9-13). TOLERATING PORNOGRAPHY. This generation views shows in their own homes that would be against the law in times past. On weekends and evenings it’s almost impossible to view anything without nudity, sex, vulgar language and violence.The selling of sin is no accident—it is by design. Norman Lear, creator of TV shows “All in the Family,” “Maude” and others, in the 1980s intended with his writing to savage television evangelists, including Jerry Falwell, founder of the Moral Majority. Then he had another idea. He founded People for the American Way to use television and other means to counter evangelical Christian beliefs. Lear brought controversial television that glorifies sin to prime time, and other writers and producers who shared his beliefs caught the vision. The church as a whole took little notice. In fact, many watched Lear’s subtle and not so subtle messages. But most of us now participate in the peddling of smut whether we view it or not because anyone who has cable or satellite TV subsidizes pornography.I am a fervent believer in freedom of the press, but I resent helping to bring filth to the masses—particularly youth. If people want their minds and their lives filled with sin, let them pay for it. I’ve written the Federal Communications Commission, City Council and the cable provider protesting forced subsidizing of smut for consumers who only want stations and networks with 24-hour news, weather and G-rated entertainment. I wrote letters to local pastors trying to get them involved. I’ve also contacted television networks about indecent programs.The internet brings more moral temptations for this generation. Even church people are addicted to internet pornography and participate in illicit relationships online. (Notice I didn't identify them as "Christians." Anyone who is not living as Jesus taught is not a Christian.) FAILURE TO PREPARE YOUTH FOR SPIRITUAL BATTLE The first mission of the church is to preach the gospel. When we do, we train each generation about the spiritual armor and weapons God provides to help us be victorious. We also need to give them a glimpse of the Enemy. FAILURE TO POINT OUT SIN’S CONSEQUENCES Sin is dangerous! Unless covered with the blood of Jesus, sin sends you to hell but also drastically affects life on earth. Sexually transmitted diseases can ruin a person’s future, his health and maybe even take his life. These diseases cause infertility, cancer, liver problems, even blindness and death. Some STDs are incurable. Illicit sex also causes emotional consequences. Physicians Joe S. McIlhaney and Freda McKissic Bush, authors of the book, “Hooked,”We reap what we sow and youth should know Satan comes to steal, kill and destroy.
As a parent are you warning your teens?
Galatians 5:19,21 Ephesians 6:10-17 Moody Publishers, 2008
November 20, 2015
A Woman Who knows about unspeakable Hurt tells what to say to give Comfort:
More Word-Gifts by Ronda Knuth“Weeping may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning." Psalm 30:5b"I, even I, am He that comforteth you..." Isaiah 51:12a
To Continue from yesterday, where we ended with point 4. 5. What comforted you when you were hurting? Use what you have learned to comfort another. “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.” II Corinthians 1:3-4
6. Pray together and alone – “May I pray for you?” “I am praying for you.” “Every time we think of you, we thank God for you. Day and night you're in our prayers as we call to mind your work of faith, your labor of love, and your patience of hope in following our Master, Jesus Christ, before God our Father. It is clear to us, friends that God not only loves you very much but also has put his hand on you for something special." 1 Thessalonians 1:2-4 (MSG)
7. What scripture might you appropriately share, when the time is right? “My soul is weary with sorrow; strengthen me according to your word.” Psalm 119:28 (NIV)8. What can I do to help my friend? “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the day approaching.” Hebrews 10:24-25
9. Keep in mind that this too shall pass, but it hasn’t yet. Be patient. Be wise. Be in the moment with your friend. “Looking for that blessed hope, and the glorious appearing of the great God and our Savior Jesus Christ; who gave himself up for us from all iniquity, and purify unto himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works. These things speak, and exhort, and rebuke with all authority. Let no man despise thee.” Titus 2:15
Use your words as a gift to uplift, not a hammer to hurt.
Prayer: “Father, keep my heart tuned to the hearts of others. Sharpen my discernment so that I am aware of need in the lives of those I meet. Help me to think of myself less and others more. Let the words of my mouth and the mediation of my heart be acceptable in your sight. You are my strength and my redeemer.”
Breathe: This Too Shall Pass - "In Breathe: This Too Shall Pass, Ronda has captured the isolation that so many of us feel in life’s experiences, and reminded us we are not alone. We can take the encouragement of this book, and find a resolve, that can lead us through the circumstances that seem to overwhelm us."- Dr. Vince Gappa
When Memory Fades - When Ronda Knuth learned that she was to be the 2014 regional recipient of the "Joy in Service" award for the Assisted Living organization where she is employed she questioned, "How is it that I am being given an award for simply loving?" Ronda is passionate about seniors, and is especially drawn to those who contend daily with Alzheimer's disease and other related dementias. Her book, When Memory Fades: Sunrise Stories of Real People, shares heart-warming stories of senior adults who have touched her life.
Bio:
Ronda Knuth lives in Lakewood, CO, with her husband Rob. She is a mother of four, grandmother of four, and mother-in-love of three. Ronda is a freelance writer and a regular contributor to the Network 211.com, with many articles published on their Global Christian Center website. She is also a regular contributor in the United Kingdom, to The Way.co.uk on their subscription service daily devotionals; published online.
Ronda Knuth received the Sunrise Senior Living 2013 Western Region ‘Joy in Service Award’, The company recognized her dedication, to making the Sunrise Senior Living at Pinehurst Denver, Colorado, residents’ lives the happiest and best they can be. Her first published book, When Memory Fades: Sunrise Stories from Real People, is available in both print and Kindle editions.
Her second book, Breathe: This Too Shall Pass is also available in both print and Kindle editions.
“In Breathe: This Too Shall Pass, Ronda has captured the isolation that so many of us feel in life’s experiences, and reminded us we are not alone. We can take the encouragement of this book, and find a resolve, that can lead us through the circumstances that seem to overwhelm us.”- Dr. Vince Gappa
Her personal life story has been told in, "The Unmasking: Married to a Rapist" by author Kevin Flynn and in "The Triumph Book: Stories of Tragedy Turned into Triumph" by author Melanie Davis. Learn more about Ronda at her website: http://rondasrestingplace.net
Purchase Breathe and When Memory Fades
Breathe: This Too Shall Pass Here
When Memory Fades: Sunrise Stories of Real People Here
November 19, 2015
WORDS THAT ARE GIFTS
Each Word a Gift By Ronda Knuth
“Watch the way you talk. Let nothing foul or dirty come out of your mouth. Say only what helps, each word a gift; Make a clean break with all cutting, backbiting, profane talk. Be gentle with one another, sensitive. Forgive one another as quickly and thoroughly as God in Christ forgave you.” Ephesians 4: 29, 31 (MSSG)
Life has seasons and this one was especially painful. No one I knew, or knew of, had successfully walked through this particular type of pain. Many cared, I’m sure they did, but few took the time to say so mostly, I’m certain, because they didn’t know what to say or do. A few threw scripture my way. I distinctly remember telling my mother, “If one more person quotes Romans 8:28 to me, I’m gonna scream.” Because it wasn’t true? No, because they were using it as a verbal Band-Aid to cover my gaping wound. And, I needed more.
What did I need? I needed someone to be present with me in my pain. I did not need them to minimize it or fix it. I needed a listening ear. A caring heart. A shoulder not a sermon. I needed someone who had been through the fire who could say to me, “You’re going to get through this. God is more than able. He is faithful. He’ll be with you like He was with me.”
A pat on the back, a word of affirmation, a tissue . . . sometimes the simplest expression soothes the deepest pain. Encouragement is key to walking alongside someone who is discouraged or hurting. The Greek word for encouragement is “Parakaleo” to call to one’s side and help. In Latin it means, "Goes straight to the heart." Biblical encouragement walks alongside another and breathes hope, comfort and courage into the one who is struggling. As you encourage, consider the following:
1. Carefully choose the words you speak. “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.” Proverbs 25:11 (KJV)
2. Listen – with your ears and your heart. “A man of knowledge uses words with restraint, and a man of understanding is even-tempered.” Proverbs 17: 27 (NIV) “Sometimes silence speaks loudest and presence brings the most comfort.” (Wm. Paul Young)
3. Seek to understand the p4. You earn the right to say the more difficult things, it's not a given. Take time to foster the relationship. By doing so you are more likely to be heard when your words take the form of a gentle rebuke. "Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses. Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart and the pleasantness of one's friend springs from his earnest counsel." Proverbs 27: 5-6, 9 (NASB)
Use your words as a gift to uplift, not a hammer to hurt.
Prayer: “Kind words heal and help; cutting words wound and maim. (Proverbs 15:4). Let the words of my mouth and mediation of my heart be acceptable in your sight Lord. You are my strength and my redeemer. (Psalm 19:14). Amen”
Breathe: This Too Shall Pass - "In Breathe: This Too Shall Pass, Ronda has captured the isolation that so many of us feel in life’s experiences, and reminded us we are not alone. We can take the encouragement of this book, and find a resolve, that can lead us through the circumstances that seem to overwhelm us."- Dr. Vince Gappa
To buy Breathe click Here
Bio:
Ronda Knuth lives in Lakewood, CO, with her husband Rob. She is a mother of four, grandmother of four, and mother-in-love of three. Ronda is a freelance writer and a regular contributor to the Network 211.com, with many articles published on their Global Christian Center website. She is also a regular contributor in the United Kingdom, to The Way.co.uk on their subscription service daily devotionals; published online. Ronda Knuth received the Sunrise Senior Living 2013 Western Region ‘Joy in Service Award’, The company recognized her dedication, to making the Sunrise Senior Living at Pinehurst Denver, Colorado, residents’ lives the happiest and best they can be. Her first published book, When Memory Fades: Sunrise Stories from Real People, is available in both print and Kindle editions. Her second book, Breathe: This Too Shall Pass is also available in both print and Kindle editions.
“In Breathe: This Too Shall Pass, Ronda has captured the isolation that so many of us feel in life’s experiences, and reminded us we are not alone. We can take the encouragement of this book, and find a resolve, that can lead us through the circumstances that seem to overwhelm us.”- Dr. Vince Gappa Her personal life story has been told in, "The Unmasking: Married to a Rapist" by author Kevin Flynn and in "The Triumph Book: Stories of Tragedy Turned into Triumph" by author Melanie Davis. Learn more about Ronda at her website: http://rondasrestingplace.net
“Watch the way you talk. Let nothing foul or dirty come out of your mouth. Say only what helps, each word a gift; Make a clean break with all cutting, backbiting, profane talk. Be gentle with one another, sensitive. Forgive one another as quickly and thoroughly as God in Christ forgave you.” Ephesians 4: 29, 31 (MSSG)
Life has seasons and this one was especially painful. No one I knew, or knew of, had successfully walked through this particular type of pain. Many cared, I’m sure they did, but few took the time to say so mostly, I’m certain, because they didn’t know what to say or do. A few threw scripture my way. I distinctly remember telling my mother, “If one more person quotes Romans 8:28 to me, I’m gonna scream.” Because it wasn’t true? No, because they were using it as a verbal Band-Aid to cover my gaping wound. And, I needed more.
What did I need? I needed someone to be present with me in my pain. I did not need them to minimize it or fix it. I needed a listening ear. A caring heart. A shoulder not a sermon. I needed someone who had been through the fire who could say to me, “You’re going to get through this. God is more than able. He is faithful. He’ll be with you like He was with me.”
A pat on the back, a word of affirmation, a tissue . . . sometimes the simplest expression soothes the deepest pain. Encouragement is key to walking alongside someone who is discouraged or hurting. The Greek word for encouragement is “Parakaleo” to call to one’s side and help. In Latin it means, "Goes straight to the heart." Biblical encouragement walks alongside another and breathes hope, comfort and courage into the one who is struggling. As you encourage, consider the following:
1. Carefully choose the words you speak. “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.” Proverbs 25:11 (KJV)
2. Listen – with your ears and your heart. “A man of knowledge uses words with restraint, and a man of understanding is even-tempered.” Proverbs 17: 27 (NIV) “Sometimes silence speaks loudest and presence brings the most comfort.” (Wm. Paul Young)3. Seek to understand the p4. You earn the right to say the more difficult things, it's not a given. Take time to foster the relationship. By doing so you are more likely to be heard when your words take the form of a gentle rebuke. "Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses. Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart and the pleasantness of one's friend springs from his earnest counsel." Proverbs 27: 5-6, 9 (NASB)
Use your words as a gift to uplift, not a hammer to hurt.
Prayer: “Kind words heal and help; cutting words wound and maim. (Proverbs 15:4). Let the words of my mouth and mediation of my heart be acceptable in your sight Lord. You are my strength and my redeemer. (Psalm 19:14). Amen”
Breathe: This Too Shall Pass - "In Breathe: This Too Shall Pass, Ronda has captured the isolation that so many of us feel in life’s experiences, and reminded us we are not alone. We can take the encouragement of this book, and find a resolve, that can lead us through the circumstances that seem to overwhelm us."- Dr. Vince Gappa
To buy Breathe click Here
Bio:
Ronda Knuth lives in Lakewood, CO, with her husband Rob. She is a mother of four, grandmother of four, and mother-in-love of three. Ronda is a freelance writer and a regular contributor to the Network 211.com, with many articles published on their Global Christian Center website. She is also a regular contributor in the United Kingdom, to The Way.co.uk on their subscription service daily devotionals; published online. Ronda Knuth received the Sunrise Senior Living 2013 Western Region ‘Joy in Service Award’, The company recognized her dedication, to making the Sunrise Senior Living at Pinehurst Denver, Colorado, residents’ lives the happiest and best they can be. Her first published book, When Memory Fades: Sunrise Stories from Real People, is available in both print and Kindle editions. Her second book, Breathe: This Too Shall Pass is also available in both print and Kindle editions.
“In Breathe: This Too Shall Pass, Ronda has captured the isolation that so many of us feel in life’s experiences, and reminded us we are not alone. We can take the encouragement of this book, and find a resolve, that can lead us through the circumstances that seem to overwhelm us.”- Dr. Vince Gappa Her personal life story has been told in, "The Unmasking: Married to a Rapist" by author Kevin Flynn and in "The Triumph Book: Stories of Tragedy Turned into Triumph" by author Melanie Davis. Learn more about Ronda at her website: http://rondasrestingplace.net
WHAT DO YOU YOU SAY TO A HURTING PERSON?
Each Word a Gift By Ronda Knuth
“Watch the way you talk. Let nothing foul or dirty come out of your mouth. Say only what helps, each word a gift; Make a clean break with all cutting, backbiting, profane talk. Be gentle with one another, sensitive. Forgive one another as quickly and thoroughly as God in Christ forgave you.” Ephesians 4: 29, 31 (MSSG)
Life has seasons and this one was especially painful. No one I knew, or knew of, had successfully walked through this particular type of pain. Many cared, I’m sure they did, but few took the time to say so mostly, I’m certain, because they didn’t know what to say or do. A few threw scripture my way. I distinctly remember telling my mother, “If one more person quotes Romans 8:28 to me, I’m gonna scream.” Because it wasn’t true? No, because they were using it as a verbal Band-Aid to cover my gaping wound. And, I needed more.
What did I need? I needed someone to be present with me in my pain. I did not need them to minimize it or fix it. I needed a listening ear. A caring heart. A shoulder not a sermon. I needed someone who had been through the fire who could say to me, “You’re going to get through this. God is more than able. He is faithful. He’ll be with you like He was with me.”
A pat on the back, a word of affirmation, a tissue . . . sometimes the simplest expression soothes the deepest pain. Encouragement is key to walking alongside someone who is discouraged or hurting. The Greek word for encouragement is “Parakaleo” to call to one’s side and help. In Latin it means, "Goes straight to the heart." Biblical encouragement walks alongside another and breathes hope, comfort and courage into the one who is struggling. As you encourage, consider the following:
1. Carefully choose the words you speak. “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.” Proverbs 25:11 (KJV)
2. Listen – with your ears and your heart. “A man of knowledge uses words with restraint, and a man of understanding is even-tempered.” Proverbs 17: 27 (NIV) “Sometimes silence speaks loudest and presence brings the most comfort.” (Wm. Paul Young)
3. Seek to understand the p4. You earn the right to say the more difficult things, it's not a given. Take time to foster the relationship. By doing so you are more likely to be heard when your words take the form of a gentle rebuke. "Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses. Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart and the pleasantness of one's friend springs from his earnest counsel." Proverbs 27: 5-6, 9 (NASB)
Use your words as a gift to uplift, not a hammer to hurt.
Prayer: “Kind words heal and help; cutting words wound and maim. (Proverbs 15:4). Let the words of my mouth and mediation of my heart be acceptable in your sight Lord. You are my strength and my redeemer. (Psalm 19:14). Amen”
Breathe: This Too Shall Pass - "In Breathe: This Too Shall Pass, Ronda has captured the isolation that so many of us feel in life’s experiences, and reminded us we are not alone. We can take the encouragement of this book, and find a resolve, that can lead us through the circumstances that seem to overwhelm us."- Dr. Vince Gappa
To buy Breathe click Here
Bio: Ronda Knuth lives in Lakewood, CO, with her husband Rob. She is a mother of four, grandmother of four, and mother-in-love of three. Ronda is a freelance writer and a regular contributor to the Network 211.com, with many articles published on their Global Christian Center website. She is also a regular contributor in the United Kingdom, to The Way.co.uk on their subscription service daily devotionals; published online. Ronda Knuth received the Sunrise Senior Living 2013 Western Region ‘Joy in Service Award’, The company recognized her dedication, to making the Sunrise Senior Living at Pinehurst Denver, Colorado, residents’ lives the happiest and best they can be. Her first published book, When Memory Fades: Sunrise Stories from Real People, is available in both print and Kindle editions. Her second book, Breathe: This Too Shall Pass is also available in both print and Kindle editions.
“In Breathe: This Too Shall Pass, Ronda has captured the isolation that so many of us feel in life’s experiences, and reminded us we are not alone. We can take the encouragement of this book, and find a resolve, that can lead us through the circumstances that seem to overwhelm us.”- Dr. Vince GappaHer personal life story has been told in, "The Unmasking: Married to a Rapist" by author Kevin Flynn and in "The Triumph Book: Stories of Tragedy Turned into Triumph" by author Melanie Davis. Learn more about Ronda at her website: http://rondasrestingplace.net
“Watch the way you talk. Let nothing foul or dirty come out of your mouth. Say only what helps, each word a gift; Make a clean break with all cutting, backbiting, profane talk. Be gentle with one another, sensitive. Forgive one another as quickly and thoroughly as God in Christ forgave you.” Ephesians 4: 29, 31 (MSSG)
Life has seasons and this one was especially painful. No one I knew, or knew of, had successfully walked through this particular type of pain. Many cared, I’m sure they did, but few took the time to say so mostly, I’m certain, because they didn’t know what to say or do. A few threw scripture my way. I distinctly remember telling my mother, “If one more person quotes Romans 8:28 to me, I’m gonna scream.” Because it wasn’t true? No, because they were using it as a verbal Band-Aid to cover my gaping wound. And, I needed more.
What did I need? I needed someone to be present with me in my pain. I did not need them to minimize it or fix it. I needed a listening ear. A caring heart. A shoulder not a sermon. I needed someone who had been through the fire who could say to me, “You’re going to get through this. God is more than able. He is faithful. He’ll be with you like He was with me.”
A pat on the back, a word of affirmation, a tissue . . . sometimes the simplest expression soothes the deepest pain. Encouragement is key to walking alongside someone who is discouraged or hurting. The Greek word for encouragement is “Parakaleo” to call to one’s side and help. In Latin it means, "Goes straight to the heart." Biblical encouragement walks alongside another and breathes hope, comfort and courage into the one who is struggling. As you encourage, consider the following:
1. Carefully choose the words you speak. “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.” Proverbs 25:11 (KJV)
2. Listen – with your ears and your heart. “A man of knowledge uses words with restraint, and a man of understanding is even-tempered.” Proverbs 17: 27 (NIV) “Sometimes silence speaks loudest and presence brings the most comfort.” (Wm. Paul Young)3. Seek to understand the p4. You earn the right to say the more difficult things, it's not a given. Take time to foster the relationship. By doing so you are more likely to be heard when your words take the form of a gentle rebuke. "Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses. Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart and the pleasantness of one's friend springs from his earnest counsel." Proverbs 27: 5-6, 9 (NASB)
Use your words as a gift to uplift, not a hammer to hurt.
Prayer: “Kind words heal and help; cutting words wound and maim. (Proverbs 15:4). Let the words of my mouth and mediation of my heart be acceptable in your sight Lord. You are my strength and my redeemer. (Psalm 19:14). Amen”
Breathe: This Too Shall Pass - "In Breathe: This Too Shall Pass, Ronda has captured the isolation that so many of us feel in life’s experiences, and reminded us we are not alone. We can take the encouragement of this book, and find a resolve, that can lead us through the circumstances that seem to overwhelm us."- Dr. Vince Gappa
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Bio: Ronda Knuth lives in Lakewood, CO, with her husband Rob. She is a mother of four, grandmother of four, and mother-in-love of three. Ronda is a freelance writer and a regular contributor to the Network 211.com, with many articles published on their Global Christian Center website. She is also a regular contributor in the United Kingdom, to The Way.co.uk on their subscription service daily devotionals; published online. Ronda Knuth received the Sunrise Senior Living 2013 Western Region ‘Joy in Service Award’, The company recognized her dedication, to making the Sunrise Senior Living at Pinehurst Denver, Colorado, residents’ lives the happiest and best they can be. Her first published book, When Memory Fades: Sunrise Stories from Real People, is available in both print and Kindle editions. Her second book, Breathe: This Too Shall Pass is also available in both print and Kindle editions.
“In Breathe: This Too Shall Pass, Ronda has captured the isolation that so many of us feel in life’s experiences, and reminded us we are not alone. We can take the encouragement of this book, and find a resolve, that can lead us through the circumstances that seem to overwhelm us.”- Dr. Vince GappaHer personal life story has been told in, "The Unmasking: Married to a Rapist" by author Kevin Flynn and in "The Triumph Book: Stories of Tragedy Turned into Triumph" by author Melanie Davis. Learn more about Ronda at her website: http://rondasrestingplace.net
November 18, 2015
Soothing Words for the Hurting by Ronda Hunter Knuth
By Ronda Knuth
“Heaviness in the heart of man maketh it stoop: but a good word maketh it glad.” Proverbs 12:25
Rarely do we mean to wound, or offend by the words we speak- but, it happens. Here are some suggestions for sensitive, caring words to share:
I’m so sorry. I’m sorry that you are having to go through this experience. I’m sorry for your loss. I know this is very difficult for you.I care about you.I want to hear, whatever you want to share with me.
I haven’t been through an experience like this. Would you help me to understand how you feel?I know that God is holding your face in His great hands, and kissing you tenderly.Don’t run away from your pain, lean into it. Tears are a gift from God meant to soothe and cleanse your hurting soul.Endurance is not just the ability to bear a hard thing, but to turn it into glory. William Barclay I believe in you and in your ability to get through this..."It hurts, doesn't it?" What you are feeling is normal.God is not a disinterested observer. He's not just looking on. He is involved.God gives us time and space to work through the complexities of life. Don't beat yourself up over this, o.k.? What can I do to encourage you this week?We're in this together. You're not alone.Be gentle with yourself as you go through this. Grieving is hard work.God is big enough, and strong enough to care for you.This must be so painful for you. I want to help you hurt.You’re doing a much job than you are giving yourself credit for!“May I pray with you?"You're in my prayers." “I don’t know what to say, but I care.” "I've been thinking about you." "Call me anytime. If you need me, I'll come over." "We love you!" “Just coming by to make sure you're alright!" Be a comfort today to someone who is hurting. Encourage and build them up. (1 Thessalonians 5:11 NIV)
Reprinted with permission from The Way: Christianity Without Walls
Prayer:
“Kind words heal and help; cutting words wound and maim. (Proverbs 15:4). Let the words of my mouth and mediation of my heart be acceptable in your sight Lord. You are my strength and my redeemer. (Psalm 19:14). Amen”
When Memory Fades - When Ronda Knuth learned that she was to be the 2014 regional recipient of the "Joy in Service" award for the Assisted Living organization where she is employed she questioned,
"How is it that I am being given an award for simply loving?" Ronda is passionate about seniors, and is especially drawn to those who contend daily with Alzheimer's disease and other related dementias. Her book, When Memory Fades: Sunrise Stories of Real People, shares heart-warming stories of senior adults who have touched her life. Bio:
Ronda Knuth lives in Lakewood, CO, with her husband Rob. She is a mother of four, grandmother of four, and mother-in-love of three. Ronda is a freelance writer and a regular contributor to the Network 211.com, with many articles published on their Global Christian Center website. She is also a regular contributor in the United Kingdom, to The Way.co.uk on their subscription service daily devotionals; published online.
Ronda Knuth received the Sunrise Senior Living 2013 Western Region ‘Joy in Service Award’, The company recognized her dedication, to making the Sunrise Senior Living at Pinehurst Denver, Colorado, residents’ lives the happiest and best they can be. Her first published book, When Memory Fades: Sunrise Stories from Real People, is available in both print and Kindle editions.
Her second book, Breathe: This Too Shall Pass is also available in both print and Kindle editions.
“In Breathe: This Too Shall Pass, Ronda has captured the isolation that so many of us feel in life’s experiences, and reminded us we are not alone. We can take the encouragement of this book, and find a resolve, that can lead us through the circumstances that seem to overwhelm us.”- Dr. Vince Gappa
Her personal life story has been told in, "The Unmasking: Married to a Rapist" by author Kevin Flynn and in "The Triumph Book: Stories of Tragedy Turned into Triumph" by author Melanie Davis. Learn more about Ronda at her website: http://rondasrestingplace.net
Buy When Memory Fades here:http://www.amazon.com/When-Memory-Fades-Sunrise-Stories-ebook/dp/B00IZ25X48/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1447211812&sr=1-1&keywords=When+Memory+Fades+++Ronda+Knuth&pebp=1447211814979&perid=0QEVEERJ7JS80VYXC34T
November 17, 2015
Controlling Anger: What's Inside?
By Ronda Knuth
“. . . the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.” Matthew 12:34b (NIV) When angry, are you a stewer or a spewer? Both, unmanaged, can turn your world on end. It fell to me to teach each of my four children how to drive. We spent many an hour in the local cemetery driving up and down the streets that ran between the headstones. We practiced right turns, left turns, merging, and U-turns. With little traffic, going the wrong way on a one-way street wasn’t such a big deal. It was the perfect place to learn. Once we had the basics down, we took it to neighborhood streets, then the dreaded freeway. It’s been years since my eldest son Paul was the pupil and I the teacher. Even now, he says, that there are times when he is driving and my words come to him, “Preferring one another in love, son. Preferring one another.” (Romans 12:10)
Ronda KnuthGetting a handle on anger is a prerequisite for safe driving. It’s important for non-toxic living too. Failure to control internal anger will eat you alive. Failure to control external anger will eat others alive.Dr. Ravi Zacharias, who grew up in New Delhi, India, tells a story about his father, who was well known in the city where they lived – some esteemed him, others knew him for his volatile temper. One evening he exploded in a fit of anger. His wife and children bore the brunt of his rage. A teen, Ravi thought they should go to a neighbor for help. Mother said no. She did not want to harm her husband’s reputation. She chose, instead, to quietly bear the discomfort. She believed that, “When your basket is bumped, what spills out defines your character.”What’s in your basket?Scripture has much to say about anger:"A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control." (Proverbs 29:11)"In your anger do not sin; do not let the sun go down while you are still angry." Ephesians 4:26 (NIV)"Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger ... along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Ephesians 4:31-32 (NIV)“[Act on What You Hear] Post this at all the intersections, dear friends: Lead with your ears, follow up with your tongue, and let anger straggle along in the rear. God’s righteousness doesn’t grow from human anger. So throw all spoiled virtue and cancerous evil in the garbage. In simple humility, let our gardener, God, landscape you with the Word, making a salvation-garden of your life.” James 1:21 MSGDo not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 4:29 (NIV)How well do you handle anger? If I bumped your basket today, what would spill out?
Prayer:
“Kind words heal and help; cutting words wound and maim. (Proverbs 15:4). Let the words of my mouth and mediation of my heart be acceptable in your sight Lord. You are my strength and my redeemer. (Psalm 19:14). Amen”
-- Reprinted with permission from The Way: Christianity Without Walls
Bio: Ronda Knuth lives in Lakewood, CO, with her husband Rob. She is a mother of four, grandmother of four, and mother-in-love of three. Ronda is a freelance writer and a regular contributor to the Network 211.com, with many articles published on their Global Christian Center website. She is also a regular contributor in the United Kingdom, to The Way.co.uk on their subscription service daily devotionals; published online.
Ronda Knuth received the Sunrise Senior Living 2013 Western Region ‘Joy in Service Award’, The company recognized her dedication, to making the Sunrise Senior Living at Pinehurst Denver, Colorado, residents’ lives the happiest and best they can be. Her first published book, When Memory Fades: Sunrise Stories from Real People, is available in both print and Kindle editions. Her second book, Breathe: This Too Shall Pass is also available in both print and Kindle editions.
“In Breathe: This Too Shall Pass, Ronda has captured the isolation that so many of us feel in life’s experiences, and reminded us we are not alone. We can take the encouragement of this book, and find a resolve, that can lead us through the circumstances that seem to overwhelm us.”- Dr. Vince GappaHer personal life story has been told in, "The Unmasking: Married to a Rapist" by author Kevin Flynn and in "The Triumph Book: Stories of Tragedy Turned into Triumph" by author Melanie Davis. Learn more about Ronda at her website: http://rondasrestingplace.net
Breathe: This Too Shall Pass
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http://www.amazon.com/Breathe-This-Too-Shall-Pass-ebook/dp/B010W1ZQIC/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1447211859&sr=1-1&keywords=Breathe%3A+This+Too+Shall+Pass+Ronda+Knuth&pebp=1447211858887&perid=0W11D2F26Y81XJDYYWYS
November 13, 2015
A YOUNG FATHER AND THE CIVIL WAR'S ANDERSONVILLE PRISON
Ada Brownell's interview with Diane Kalas, author of FAITHFUL HEART. Journey Home Series
What research did you do for this book? Did you visit Civil War sites?Answer: I had already researched and visited Andersonville Prison for book 1, so didn’t need to do more. However, for a Texas cattle ranch after the Civil War, I had to research extensively what training a raw cowhand needed to keep himself alive. I learned so much about life on a Texas cattle ranch and enjoyed working the details into the storyline. Have you always been interested in history?Answer: American history, yes. My favorite is the last half of the 19th century. Is Brice troubled with gruesome memories from the war?Answer: Yes, his sleep is disturbed with horrific memories of Andersonville.Why is he angry with God?Answer: First: he was in the Union Army when the Confederates invaded his homeland of Pennsylvania and he couldn’t defend his family or farm. Second: his wife feared living under enemy occupation so she and their daughter fled to their only living relatives in far off Texas. Third: his wife died while he was serving the Union but he didn’t know until the war ended two years later. Fourth: he postpones his plans to travel to Oregon and start over, when he learns of his wife’s death. He can’t travel with a young child and no wife, so he’s angry and confused about why God is allowing his life to go up side down.
Was Lainie, who is taking care of his child, a friend of Brice’s deceased wife? Did he know her previously?Answer: Lainie met Brice’s wife and became new friends shortly before the wife died. Brice didn’t know Lainie.How did his wife die?Answer: Lainie tells the little girl that her mother got sick and the doctor couldn’t do anything to help. I didn’t go into details because the child is just 5 years old. Instead, Lainie emphasized how the child’s mother loved her and wanted Lainie to promise to raise her to be a Christian. Why is Lainie single at her age? Did her man die in the war?Answer: Lainie’s 30 yrs old. The men in her small world wanted a housewife who could pull her weight on an isolated ranch. They didn’t love her, nor she them. Most eligible men she knew died during the war.Has Brice had any experience with children? How old is the child now?Answer: Great question, Ada. Brice has no clue how to raise a little girl and that’s the cause of arguments between him and Lainie. Child is almost 5 years old.Is Lainie cowgirl to the bone, or more the domestic type?Answer: Lainie is one hundred percent domestic, although she knows how to use a rifle to protect herself and her home. She longs to become a mother and wants a large family. Is Brice noticing other young women in the community?Answer: Not really, although Lainie thinks he may be interested in a beautiful widow. For the first 6 months of story, he’s grieving for the loss of his wife and still planning to leave for Oregon in the spring to start over.What happens that causes Brice to notice Lainie as more than his child’s caregiver?
Diane KalasAnswer: Now, this made me smile as I wrote the scenes. Lainie’s an excellent cook, and every single day Brice sits down at her table to enjoy the most flavorful food he’s ever eaten. He becomes less annoyed at Lainie’s permissive ways, regarding his daughter, as time goes by. Six months after arriving at the ranch, he “goes up the trail” with the herd and misses not only his daughter but also Lainie for her kindness and loving nature. He yearns for a ranch of his own and knows he’s been falling in love with Lainie a little at a time. What’s the biggest crises for Lainie? Brice?Answer: For Brice it’s the past and all that he’s lost: his wife, his farm, and early years with his daughter. For Lainie, she lacks confidence with Brice because she’s a plain range woman and struggles to hide her growing affection for him that turns into love. Is this a sequel to Patriot Heart, with some of the same characters?Answer: My 3-book series is about three Civil War POWs who met in the infamous Andersonville Prison for Union soldiers and survived because of their friendship and Christian faith. Each book is about one of the men and their journey home after the Civil War ended. I wrote a reunion scene in Faithful Heart, book 2, to introduce hero of book 3. As a reader, I enjoy those kinds of characters with history that pop up in other stories. Will there be another heart book?Answer: Yes, book 3 “HOPEFUL HEART” has the third POW and his story. Should be published in the spring of 2016.Anything else you’d like to share?
Answer: Yes, my research on Andersonville Prison was tough to deal with and brought me low in spirits for quite awhile. Hopefully, readers will be encouraged as my stories unfold and see that even the worst of times and experiences can turn around. There’s hope for the future when you place your trust in God, the Father, and Jesus Christ, the Son of God.
Back Cover Blurb for Faithful Heart September 1865. Brice Bruton lost his farm to the Confederate invasion of Pennsylvania, while he served the Union Army. He’s angry with God and guilt-ridden, knowing his family had to flee their home before the Gettysburg Battle. Brice travels to Texas, to reunite with his wife and daughter before heading to Oregon, his lifeline of hope while a POW in Andersonville Prison. Lainie Colbert, spinster, lives with her father and brother on a cattle ranch outside of Waco, Texas. Lainie’s been a foster aunt to Emily Bruton for two years and loves the child with her whole heart. When Brice Bruton arrives to take his daughter away, Lainie’s desperate to keep the little girl. She prays God will intervene and allow Emily to remain at the ranch. Grief stricken to learn his wife died, while he served the Union Army, Brice knows he can’t travel with a child on his own, so he accepts a job as cowhand at the Colbert spread. Amid ranch life, Lainie and Brice clash over how to raise Emily. Lainie fears that Brice will leave and take Emily to Oregon. What’s worse, Lainie’s falling in love with Brice and knows he’ll never be attracted to her, a plain range woman. Lainie’s love and devotion to Emily turns Brice’s opposition to admiration and romantic love. Brice goes up the trail with the Colberts’ herd, and decides he wants his own ranch and Lainie for his wife. Would Lainie accept him after all the arguments over Emily? He’s afraid to ask.
Available on: www.amazon.com - E-book and paperback editionswww.forgetmenotromances.com/authors/dianekalas www.facebook.com/dianekalas - author's page http://dianekalas.blogspot.com - Transporting you back in timehttps://pinterest.com/dianedreams - 19th Century history, architecture, and fashionhttp://twitter.com/dianekalas
MEET DIANE KALAS
Diane collects antique books written by men and women who lived through the American Civil War, and/or who pioneered out West. With a degree in interior design, she enjoys touring historical sites, especially Federal era homes with period furniture. Diane is a member of American Christian Fiction Writers. Her biggest challenge is writing Inspirational Historical Romance. Her biggest distraction is her fascination with historical research.
What research did you do for this book? Did you visit Civil War sites?Answer: I had already researched and visited Andersonville Prison for book 1, so didn’t need to do more. However, for a Texas cattle ranch after the Civil War, I had to research extensively what training a raw cowhand needed to keep himself alive. I learned so much about life on a Texas cattle ranch and enjoyed working the details into the storyline. Have you always been interested in history?Answer: American history, yes. My favorite is the last half of the 19th century. Is Brice troubled with gruesome memories from the war?Answer: Yes, his sleep is disturbed with horrific memories of Andersonville.Why is he angry with God?Answer: First: he was in the Union Army when the Confederates invaded his homeland of Pennsylvania and he couldn’t defend his family or farm. Second: his wife feared living under enemy occupation so she and their daughter fled to their only living relatives in far off Texas. Third: his wife died while he was serving the Union but he didn’t know until the war ended two years later. Fourth: he postpones his plans to travel to Oregon and start over, when he learns of his wife’s death. He can’t travel with a young child and no wife, so he’s angry and confused about why God is allowing his life to go up side down.
Was Lainie, who is taking care of his child, a friend of Brice’s deceased wife? Did he know her previously?Answer: Lainie met Brice’s wife and became new friends shortly before the wife died. Brice didn’t know Lainie.How did his wife die?Answer: Lainie tells the little girl that her mother got sick and the doctor couldn’t do anything to help. I didn’t go into details because the child is just 5 years old. Instead, Lainie emphasized how the child’s mother loved her and wanted Lainie to promise to raise her to be a Christian. Why is Lainie single at her age? Did her man die in the war?Answer: Lainie’s 30 yrs old. The men in her small world wanted a housewife who could pull her weight on an isolated ranch. They didn’t love her, nor she them. Most eligible men she knew died during the war.Has Brice had any experience with children? How old is the child now?Answer: Great question, Ada. Brice has no clue how to raise a little girl and that’s the cause of arguments between him and Lainie. Child is almost 5 years old.Is Lainie cowgirl to the bone, or more the domestic type?Answer: Lainie is one hundred percent domestic, although she knows how to use a rifle to protect herself and her home. She longs to become a mother and wants a large family. Is Brice noticing other young women in the community?Answer: Not really, although Lainie thinks he may be interested in a beautiful widow. For the first 6 months of story, he’s grieving for the loss of his wife and still planning to leave for Oregon in the spring to start over.What happens that causes Brice to notice Lainie as more than his child’s caregiver?
Diane KalasAnswer: Now, this made me smile as I wrote the scenes. Lainie’s an excellent cook, and every single day Brice sits down at her table to enjoy the most flavorful food he’s ever eaten. He becomes less annoyed at Lainie’s permissive ways, regarding his daughter, as time goes by. Six months after arriving at the ranch, he “goes up the trail” with the herd and misses not only his daughter but also Lainie for her kindness and loving nature. He yearns for a ranch of his own and knows he’s been falling in love with Lainie a little at a time. What’s the biggest crises for Lainie? Brice?Answer: For Brice it’s the past and all that he’s lost: his wife, his farm, and early years with his daughter. For Lainie, she lacks confidence with Brice because she’s a plain range woman and struggles to hide her growing affection for him that turns into love. Is this a sequel to Patriot Heart, with some of the same characters?Answer: My 3-book series is about three Civil War POWs who met in the infamous Andersonville Prison for Union soldiers and survived because of their friendship and Christian faith. Each book is about one of the men and their journey home after the Civil War ended. I wrote a reunion scene in Faithful Heart, book 2, to introduce hero of book 3. As a reader, I enjoy those kinds of characters with history that pop up in other stories. Will there be another heart book?Answer: Yes, book 3 “HOPEFUL HEART” has the third POW and his story. Should be published in the spring of 2016.Anything else you’d like to share?Answer: Yes, my research on Andersonville Prison was tough to deal with and brought me low in spirits for quite awhile. Hopefully, readers will be encouraged as my stories unfold and see that even the worst of times and experiences can turn around. There’s hope for the future when you place your trust in God, the Father, and Jesus Christ, the Son of God.
Back Cover Blurb for Faithful Heart September 1865. Brice Bruton lost his farm to the Confederate invasion of Pennsylvania, while he served the Union Army. He’s angry with God and guilt-ridden, knowing his family had to flee their home before the Gettysburg Battle. Brice travels to Texas, to reunite with his wife and daughter before heading to Oregon, his lifeline of hope while a POW in Andersonville Prison. Lainie Colbert, spinster, lives with her father and brother on a cattle ranch outside of Waco, Texas. Lainie’s been a foster aunt to Emily Bruton for two years and loves the child with her whole heart. When Brice Bruton arrives to take his daughter away, Lainie’s desperate to keep the little girl. She prays God will intervene and allow Emily to remain at the ranch. Grief stricken to learn his wife died, while he served the Union Army, Brice knows he can’t travel with a child on his own, so he accepts a job as cowhand at the Colbert spread. Amid ranch life, Lainie and Brice clash over how to raise Emily. Lainie fears that Brice will leave and take Emily to Oregon. What’s worse, Lainie’s falling in love with Brice and knows he’ll never be attracted to her, a plain range woman. Lainie’s love and devotion to Emily turns Brice’s opposition to admiration and romantic love. Brice goes up the trail with the Colberts’ herd, and decides he wants his own ranch and Lainie for his wife. Would Lainie accept him after all the arguments over Emily? He’s afraid to ask.
Available on: www.amazon.com - E-book and paperback editionswww.forgetmenotromances.com/authors/dianekalas www.facebook.com/dianekalas - author's page http://dianekalas.blogspot.com - Transporting you back in timehttps://pinterest.com/dianedreams - 19th Century history, architecture, and fashionhttp://twitter.com/dianekalas
MEET DIANE KALAS
Diane collects antique books written by men and women who lived through the American Civil War, and/or who pioneered out West. With a degree in interior design, she enjoys touring historical sites, especially Federal era homes with period furniture. Diane is a member of American Christian Fiction Writers. Her biggest challenge is writing Inspirational Historical Romance. Her biggest distraction is her fascination with historical research.
November 6, 2015
SLUGS, GRIT AND SUCCESS
By Ada BrownellThe war began on May 3rd. Our youngest daughter, a beautiful pastor’s wife, the mother of two wonderful sons, and a human resources worker at a Steel Mill, can teach us all about grit and persistence.Today she reported on Facebook that between the day the war began and her last slug hunt on Sept. 18, 2015, she logged 4,149 slugs eliminated from their backyard. Her tools consisted of a flashlight and a homemade organic spray, and the help of two chickens she bought as chicks to help with the war effort.
Common Garden SlugShe says, “Of course I've no idea how much fresh escargot the chickens enjoyed. It is sure to have been plenty as each time I let them out now they fervently look in the "honey holes" that they found, scratching and moving the rocks and leaves to the side, trying to find more.Persistence paid off, as it usually does in any area of life.
Here's an excerpt from my book, Imagine the Future You.
Desire and talent don’t necessarily guarantee success, according to experts. Often it is the
less talented and gifted who achieve great things because they won’t stop working toward
their goals—no matter how many obstacles they face or how often they face rejection or
disappointment. On the other hand, greatly talented people can go to their graves without
doing anything of significance.
What makes the difference?
We decide to take what we were born with and grow it into something greater.
Former President Ronald Reagan said, “There are no great limits to growth because there are no limits of human intelligence, imagination, and wonder.”I’ve discovered I can’t spend all of my free time watching television and munching potato chips and expect great things tomorrow. I need to snatch my intelligence from the “brain cell” thieves who stuff me with nonsense. I might enjoy watching a fictional person’s life on the screen or in a book, but I’ll never attain anything significant unless I do something myself.”(Links to Imagine the Future You: Audible http://ow.ly/U8VHv Amazon http://ow.ly/y9zaF ITunes http://ow.ly/U8W8S )Jeanette concluded her Facebook post with this report:
Another species of slugs“It's been a good year and the garden has provided lots of yummy things to eat and pretty flowers to view. The grass is still green and the trees are just about to drop their final leaves. A few more plants are finishing off and then we'll be ready for the yard to take a long winter's nap.”NOTE: If you’d like to have the recipe for the home-made spray, comment and perhaps I can talk her out of it!November 3, 2015
Run! Exciting novel by author with limited vision
Short BioGlenn is a member of ACFW (American Christian Fiction Writers), a graduate of Vision Loss Resources and Bethel Seminary, father of six and grandfather of six. He likes tandem biking and kayaking, and lives in Minneapolis with his wife and two youngest college age children. Glenn is also an award winning author who combines his love for teaching God’s word with his passion for writing exciting fiction. Run is his first novel.Questions & Answers1. How did you get into creative writing? I’ve always loved reading but didn’t have that much time for it. Once glaucoma forced me out of the business world at 40, I tried not to ask “why Lord,” rather “what do you want me to do?” God provided and guided me into a number of blessed ministry opportunities over the next years, including seminary where the idea of creative writing took hold. When some doors closed and ministry settled into a routine, I had time to write. So I began my pursuit of creative writing in earnest in 2007
I’ve always loved reading and would often find myself daydreaming about a book and then taking it on a tangent. But I never considered writing. I didn’t think I was good enough for that, and between family, my business and ministry I didn’t have the time—writing was out of the question. But Glaucoma changed all of that. Suddenly I had lots of time but had to figure out—really find grace to navigate a new situation. I began telling stories to my children . . .
2. What kind of writer are you a plotter or a punster? Maybe a little of both! I usually start a story idea visualizing a scene in my head, often a dramatic moment and then try to imagine how the character would react. From there I often sketch the scene out further in my head, and if it feels right, I write it down. Then I just let it percolate in my brain for days—weeks—months. If it still feels like it could be a story, I then plot it out and draw up a character sketch not necessarily in that order.
3. What do you like most about writing? I love those creative moments where you are in the character’s head and flying through a scene. I also like cleaning up the creative mess and honing the story into something you like.
4. What is your favorite writing fuel, food and beverage?I love great coffee, strong, and dark roast but with cream and sugar. Our Keurig makes a fast fix, but if I’m desperate, a shot of espresso and hot chocolate in a cup of skim milk. Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups are of course the best writing fuel food. 5. Can you talk about the things that helped you most thus far on developing your writing craft?I think Randy Ingermanson’s “Perfect Scene” where he build upon, and made more understandable, concepts from Dwight Swain had the most influence as far as micro techniques. Then the macro structures of Plot and Structure by James Scott Bell helped me “put it together.” But then there were mentors, my two critique partners, Melissa Jagears, and Naomi Rawlings who are extraordinarily good at getting into their characters heads and doing that camera thing. To some extent their influence rubbed off on me. I’ll also mention Kristen Heitzmann’s seminar at an ACFW conference that was enlightening.
6. As a Christian author, what part does faith play in your stories? I use fiction to try to reflect reality from a Christian perspective. My stories have an edge and don’t always have neat and tidy endings for every character—but they all effuse hope. The key characters within each story must apply faith or not, and work through the stuff life throws at them. And in my stories, that’s usually a lot!
7. How are you able to write with your vision problems?I am not blind but have limited functionality in terms of visual acuity and duration. Vision Loss Resources trained me on the use of adaptive software that reads aloud print on the screen, it also tells me what I’m typing and how to execute various functions on my keyboard with very little requirement for a mouse. So in effect I touch type, and “read” by listening carefully. Through practice, I can listen at accelerated speeds which partially compensates for the limited visual input. I also have awesome and patient critique partners.
About RUN1. Tell us about RUN.Run is the story of a thirteen-year-old boy from a Christian home trying to find his way. Wanting to hang with the cool crowd caused Tyler to make some bad choices that mushroomed into a huge mess. A family relocation gave him the opportunity to start over, but he’s not a fast learner . . . Everything seems stacked against him, including a nasty run-in with some very bad men. But Tyler still wants to do things his way. Slowly he begins to trust in God again, and things begin to change. And it’s a good thing, because he’ll need God to make it through what lies ahead in this intense action thriller.
2. How’d you get your idea for Run? Abandoned houses in the woods have always fascinated me. Such mystery! My imagination just runs wild, especially when I remember those times I was brave enough to poke around in the ruins. This was the germ for the story.
3. So Run’s target audience is mainly boys age 10 to 14?Yes and no. It’s true that the protagonist and most of the secondary characters are boys, but I’ve received a number of rave reactions from tween and teen girls as well. In book two of the series, one of the girls from Run, Audrey, is a main character. And both women and men enjoy RUN, it brings a certain nostalgia I think.
Another of Glenn's novels4. How did you come up with the title for RUN?I suppose most book titles go through a metamorphose, that was definitely true with Run. It started as “Dark Forest,” then, “The Plumber” and finally “RUN.” I was influenced by some other single word titles on the market, but I’d say the final inspiration just came to me. One of those God moments I think.
5. Run is the first book in your Intense Series. Tell us about the series. Here is my description: Whether in his small town, in the wilderness, or in the tropics on vacation, danger stalks thirteen-year-old Tyler Higgins like mosquitoes after exposed skin. Don’t miss the prequel, Escape, Book Two, Chase and Book Three, Hyde, in the Intense Series, which combine teen issues like friendship, bullying, drug abuse, parental divorce and first crushes with heart pounding adventure and suspense. Join Tyler as he applies faith to life and goes nose to nose against the dark side of society.
The Back Cover Blurb:
At thirteen, a boy can run from lots of things, but he can’t always hide . . .
Awkward newbie, Tyler Higgins, has to navigate the middle school friendship jungle. But how can he focus on friends when a mysterious plumber casing the neighborhood threatens his life? While chasing the cool kids through the woods, he tumbles into a ruined house where a shadowy creeper emerges from the basement. Tyler escapes, but for how long? The gigantic ninja-like goon sniffs him out and threatens to carve him up—along with his family. Tyler finally connects with a rich kid, but a showdown brews. The plumber has a secret and lots of stolen cash—and Tyler’s friend is locked in on the plumber’s hideout. Now Tyler must risk his life or lose his new friend—permanently.
RUN by Glenn Haggerty(Intense, Book One)Details and Purchase LinksTitle: Run, (Intense Book 1)Publisher: Taegais Publishing Release Date: Oct 13, 2015Genre: Action AdventureStand alone or series: Intense series Purchase links:Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Run-Intense-Book-Glenn-Haggerty-ebook/dp/B015QP5YY0/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1445632525&sr=8-1&keywords=RUN+Intense B&Nhttp://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/books/1122803977?ean=9781940727172
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