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June 16, 2017

What is a Techdomme®

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Published on June 16, 2017 21:25

What is a Techdomme®?

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Published on June 16, 2017 19:30

How I Would Fuck You

How I Would Fuck You



I know we have been flirting for a while and I know how sexy and hot you think I am. I can see your big hard on through your pants whenever we hang out. I know you're just a nice guy, way too nice to make a move. Lucky for you I have no problem being aggressive. I want you to take your dick out of your pants and stroke for me, because I'm going to tell you exactly what I would do to your big dick, and exactly how I'd fuck you.
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Published on June 16, 2017 19:06

June 13, 2017

Yes Creeper Porn is Legal, and it Sucks

I wanted to write this blog after a twitter discussion (LOL "discussion") in which a bunch of dommes called out for a gross dude who produces creeper porn to be arrested, because Creeper porn is illegal. Sadly, in the United States, there is NO law that protects people from Creeper porn as long as it is filmed in public.

I want to start by saying that I do NOT IN ANY WAY condone Creeper porn. I think like most pornography it's gross, exploitative, and rooted in the patriarchal world that sees women as only sexual objects instead of as human beings. However it is important to look at the legal reasoning behind the legality of creeper porn. This is because as content producers I think it's really important to understand the legal reasoning behind something. I also think that it's irresponsible to call out someone for illegal behavior when what they are doing is NOT actually illegal. As a content producer people accuse me of illegally hacking into people's computers (I don't, they explicitly invite me and pay me to access their computer) and accusing someone of something that is not true is actually a crime called SLANDER. If you are an adult content producer it is really important to understand the law about these things.

So why is Creeper Porn legal?
1. Most of it is filmed in public where there is no assumption of privacy. Because of the 1st amendment and laws regarding journalism in the U.S. the courts have ruled that it is perfectly legal to film someone in public without their consent or knowledge. Yes, even your mom, or your kids, or whatever. This is how news crews are able to film riots in the street without having people sign a model release, it is also how you are allowed to take selfies in front of famous landmarks.

2. 2257 compliance that requires that all models be over 18+ only applies to content that has "Sexually explicit content." If content is not sexually explicit (IE: Showing the unclothed/ naked people, genitals, etc) it is NOT required to conform to 2257 compliance. Again, that is how the news films people on the street for commercial use without getting model releases.

3. Creeper shots are not inherently pornographic. If a woman walks down the street in leggings, that is not pornographic. Therefore a person filming her ass as she walks down the street in legggings is also NOT INHERENTLY PORNOGRAPHIC. Texas, Massachusets, Oregon, and Washington DC actually tried to pass a law against "upskirt" cams and creeper shots and their law was STRUCK DOWN by a higher level court, because there is no expectation of privacy in a public place, period.

It is legal, but it is appalling. This is important for knowing if YOU as a woman are a victim of a Creeper, and it is also important for knowing your rights as a content producer who might be filming in public places.

Sources for this blog (Because I'm a fucking ex-librarian)

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2...

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10...

https://www.theguardian.com/commentis...

https://thinkprogress.org/high-court-...

https://thinkprogress.org/creepshot-p...

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Published on June 13, 2017 21:11

June 10, 2017

What is Bimboficiation Fetish?



People often get confused about what Bimboficiation is, or why someone would want to be a "bimbo." I give my perspective on Bimboficiation and talk about why I enjoy it.
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Published on June 10, 2017 22:30

June 7, 2017

Updated Wish List for my Hollywood Condo

As you know I've recently relocated from San Francisco to Hollywood! I need lots of new things for my massive condo. Send me giftcards so I can treat myself. $CASH$ is of course still my favorite. My wishlist has been updated and so has hubby's. I know you cuck fucks can resit buying my man gifts.




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May 28, 2017

May 22, 2017

I was in the fucking International Business Times

Meanwhile in California, another findom businesswoman is developing proprietary technology for complete data domination. Since Mistress Harley, the self-proclaimed “tech domme," started three years ago, she has become the most recognizable public face of findom.
Harley charges as much as $100 for a computer control session, where she uses TeamViewer to take over the cash slave’s computer and all that it entails, from email and social media accounts to personal photos.


“I specialize in high-tech control,” she said. “Blackmail is an extremely popular fetish.”
Recent media coverage has drawn many first-time sex workers to the findom community, eager to try their hand at digital BDSM from the safety of their homes. To distinguish herself from the competition, Harley developed her own findom app. It allows her to monitor men’s phones and even take control of the phones if her submissives misbehave. If a submissive used a banking app or logged into a bank account from a phone, Harley’s app could recreate those steps.

For the few fully immersed in the findom lifestyle, Harley even instructed several regulars to install nest cams in their homes. “So I can monitor them 24/7,” she said. Harley interacts with 10 to 20 regulars every week, in addition to 10 to 20 curious newbies, which she says results in $500 to $5,000 a day. In the near future, Harley thinks that pet tech, like high-tech shock collars a domme can operate by phone, could become popular tools for financial domination. High-tech gadgets could redefine BDSM play for findom couples, the same way that social networks have already reshaped the broader community.(Link) http://www.ibtimes.com/what-findom-how-tech-shaping-secretive-lifestyle-2539301
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Published on May 22, 2017 15:38

Bawdy Storytelling's '#NerdSex -w/Mini Carnal-val!' (5/17, SF)

Event Details "Best Sex Podcast" - Esquire.com (come see the Magic LIVE!)•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••“The Moth for Pervs” – LA Weekly•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••Wednesday, May 17th, 2017at the Verdi Club, 2424 Mariposa, San FranciscoTickets $20 in Advance / Reserved Seating $30Want a sample? Listen to our AwardWinning podcast athttp://bit.ly/bawdypodcastWe don't limit you. Why are you limiting yourself? #Storytelling#Unedited#TheRealDeal
•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••“Dixie De La Tour’s scandalous, over-the-top Bawdy Storytelling series” – SF Weekly•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••
This Evening of Knowledge-filled Storytelling - plus our signature pervy brain games! - includes:❤ The Techdomme, Mistress Harley❤ Physicist & Pornstar Ned Would❤ Comic Book creator Bruce WangKink/BDSM performer Auntie Vice ❤ Yoyo Legend & Board Game creator Doctor Popular❤ Brand new Sex Nerd songs by Jefferson Bergey❤ Hosted by Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour❤ Show up early to play a Super Brainy #Bang-OSniff Test! Bring your sweat-scented items for #Pheremones related social/science experiments❤ OKPervert, Bawdy's signature analog flirting/hookup game#TindrMeetsSpeedDating❤ WIN Pervy Prizes just for talking to new, super-sexy strangers❤ Reserved Seating puts you right up front - grab em in advance #OnlySoldOnline❤ Sexy cocktails to help you Libate #ItsOK#PublicLibationIsLegal••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••Hey smarty, wanna party? If you're finding yourself drawn to that professorial pin-up boy, Dr. Stephen Hawking; if you do the Sunday Times crossword in pen, or have impure thoughts about what you could do with a retro-fitted Large Hadron Collider (the "largest Fleshlight™ in the world!"), then this is the evening for you. Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour has created an event dedicated to those size queens who salivate at the flash of a MENSA membership card, rather than a massive package. I mean, naughty bits are awesome but we say: show us your naked BRAIN!
Bawdy Storytelling- the girl who wants to put her Heidegger in your Derrida - presents an evening of real world Einsteins with big libidos and even bigger IQs. Our handpicked line-up of pervy brainiacs will put down their copy of Kant's "Groundwork of the Metaphysic of Morals," put their pants back on, & spend a Wednesday night telling you true stories that illustrate where their ‘intellect’ and ‘sex drive’ Venn diagrams intersect. Those nerds on "The Big Bang Theory" have no idea what a really big bang is about, do they? Join us on May 17th at the Verdi Club in San Francisco and let’s celebrate the cerebellum, Bawdy style!•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••Winner of SFist's Best Storytelling Show of 2016, the SF Weekly’s Best of San Francisco & the LA Weekly’s Best Of Los Angeles (for Best Storytelling) & 2 Time Winner of the SF Bay Guardian’s Best of the Bay Award (Best Literary Event)•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••About Bawdy Storytelling:Bawdy Storytelling - the Original Sex + Storytelling series - features Real People & Rockstars sharing their Bona Fide Sexual Exploits Live Onstage; think of us as a One Night Stand with the Moth & Savage Love. Storytellers are an eclectic mix of Authors, Porn Stars, Sex Educators, Comics & More, along with Regular Joes just like you who submitted their stories online and were chosen for their panache and sense of (Mis)Adventure.Bawdy Storytelling features tales of Carnal Wins & Epic Fails with No Scripts, No Nets, and No Holds Barred. These folks aren't reading from cue cards: this is honest-to-badness story time with true sexcapades and poignant, transformational tales at each and every show. Join Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour & hand-picked Rockstars as they share their own stories of Love, Lust, and making you feel funny in your bathing suit area. Hey, you may even go home with a few new tricks for your boudoir arsenal!Performer Bios:
Performer Bios:
Mistress Harley is a high tech refugee who found her niche in dominating men through innovative high tech means. She holds a B.A. in History and a Masters in Library Science and Information Technology. When not building apps designed for control or writing a variety of books on her BDSM interests, she is living the glam life of a fetish model, sex educator, and professional Dominatrix. You can learn more about Mistress Harley on her website MistressHarley.com or on Twitter at @TechDomme
❤ Ned Would is a run of the mill queer mad scientist who spends his free time building sex toys and administering free sexual health screening & STi treatment. His past exploits include producing and performing in DIY queer pornography, inventing biometric buttplugs, pioneering the use of liquid nitrogen as a sex toy, and failing elaborately to build a quantum computer. Like most mad scientists, Ned has a tendency to isolate himself socially, so he thinks if you like his story you should say hi after the show and make friends with him.
Doctor Popular is a full time maker and artist who's been making zines since his teens. He's a game designer, chiptune musician, nerdcore rapper, and professional yo-yoer. Having just wrapped up his 6th successful Kickstarter project, Doc is now focusing on launching a single player board game called The Lonely Dungeon. You can follow him on @docpop or see his work on http://docpop.org❤ Bay Area native Bruce Wang is a creator of comics beloved by children the world over. ❤ Jefferson Bergey writes and performs his family-unfriendly music all over the Bay Area and most notably as one of the resident songwriters at San Francisco's Bawdy Storytelling. As a solo acoustic act, Bergey's sound is akin to coffee-shop singer-songwriter folk...if the coffee shop also sold sex toys and sativa gummy bears. His polite vulgarity is definitely not for the very young and impressionable or the very old and conservative. His recent release 'Come For Me' (Spotify/Itunes) was inspired by and largely comprised of sex-centric compositions custom written for Dixie De La Tour and Bawdy Storytelling. His music has been heard on the Bawdy Storytelling podcast, Kevin Allison's popular RISK! podcast, and as part of this year's SFSketchFest. You can find his music at JeffersonBergey.com
❤ Online dating prankster and Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour founded Bawdy Storytelling with one idea: To bring people together to tell, share, and delight in each other’s stories of sex, kink, gender, love, and lust in a live setting. What began in a San Francisco Burning Man arts space more than 10 years ago is now a multi-city event and podcast, and is celebrated as the nation’s premiere sex and storytelling series. Lauded for its Inclusivity (LGBTQIA, kink, polyamory, swingers, vanilla, and more) as much as it’s celebratory attitude, Bawdy Storytelling is driven to bring acceptance through live autobiographical storytelling to new communities, cities, and countries. Dixie and Bawdy Storytelling have been praised by press both big and small; She has been recognized as a "masterful emcee, and her show is everything that works for storytelling—she creates a warm, safe space in which stories can bloom with dark hilarity, salacious textures, and moments of deep connection.” (Master Storyteller Mike Daisey).Dixie has hosted and curated Bawdy Storytelling events at Yale Sex Week, the Bondage Awards, the Jewish Community Center of San Francicso, CatalystCon Sexuality Conference, Dark Odyssey, FetFest, and more, as well as her home turf of the Bawdy Mainstage and BawdySlam shows. She can be found at @Bawdy on Twitter, Bawdy Storytelling on Facebook and always, always at www.BawdyStorytelling.com
• No Refunds or Exchanges• Lineup Subject to Change• General Admission seating is first come, first served. We recommend you arrive by 7:15 for best seating (Reserved Seating guarantees you a seat right up front)•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••“Dixie De La Tour’s scandalous, over-the-top Bawdy Storytelling series” – SF Weekly•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••Want more Bawdy?www.BawdyStorytelling.comTwitter: @Bawdy& at Facebook.com/BawdyStorytellingHave questions about Bawdy Storytelling's '#NerdSex -w/Mini Carnal-val!' (5/17, SF)? Contact Bawdy Storytelling
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Published on May 22, 2017 15:34