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    		<![CDATA[Mily added 'Wish I Could Be There: Notes from a Phobic Life']]>
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    		<![CDATA[Mily added 'Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself']]>
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    			<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/4482.Melody_Beattie" class="authorName">Melody Beattie</a>
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    			  Very accessible and helpful book.
    			
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    		<![CDATA[Mily added 'The Geography of Bliss: One Grump's Search for the Happiest Places in the World']]>
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    		<![CDATA[Mily added 'The Speed of Light']]>
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    			  I really enjoyed this book - the depth of the characters and psychology of trauma - their own as well as generational (holocaust). <br/><br/>It took me awhile to get use to the structure of the book. Three characters alternate in telling the story. Once I got the rhythm of this it was a book I hated to put down.<br/><br/>Quite uplifting and joyful despite the serious nature of the material.
    			
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    		<![CDATA[Mily added 'JANET, MY MOTHER, AND ME: A Memoir of Growing Up with Janet Flanner and Natalia Danesi Murray']]>
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    			  I loved this book!<br/>It was a great two for one interest!<br/>Learning about an interesting lesbian relationship in the 40' and 50's<br/>PLUS<br/>Learning about a wonderful writer for the New Yorker and some of the NY'er dynamics!
    			
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    		<![CDATA[Mily added 'Terry: My Daughter's Life-and-Death Struggle with Alcoholism']]>
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    			Mily gave <img alt="4 of 5 stars" class="star" height="15" src="http://www.goodreads.com/images/layout/stars/red_star_4_of_5.gif?1260584691" title="4 of 5 stars" width="75" /> to:	<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/379484.Terry_My_Daughter_s_Life_and_Death_Struggle_with_Alcoholism" class="bookTitle">Terry: My Daughter's Life-and-Death Struggle with Alcoholism (Paperback)</a>
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    			  This is such a heartbreaker. From the first page you know that Terry McGovern died at the age of 45 after passing out drunk in a snowbank in Madison, WI.<br/><br/>This book is a very poignant account of a father's relationship with his alcoholic daughter.<br/>The father is George McGovern (democratic senator and presidential candidate of years gone by).  I thought he did a great job of articulating the family dynamics of alcoholism.
    			
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    		<![CDATA[Mily added 'The Night Watch']]>
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    			Mily gave <img alt="4 of 5 stars" class="star" height="15" src="http://www.goodreads.com/images/layout/stars/red_star_4_of_5.gif?1260584691" title="4 of 5 stars" width="75" /> to:	<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/550720.The_Night_Watch" class="bookTitle">The Night Watch (Paperback)</a>
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    			  I recently finished Night Watch (by Sarah Waters, author of Tipping the Velvet). <br/>Engaging book about the intersecting lives of half a dozen characters during WW II in England. Several of the characters are lesbians and their respective relatives.<br/>Initially I found the book to be confusing because it moves backwards in time.<br/>Once you get the hang of walking backwards through England while the bombs are dropping - it's worth it.
    			
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    		<![CDATA[Mily added 'The Night Watch']]>
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    			  I recently finished Night Watch (by Sarah Waters, author of Tipping the Velvet). <br/>Engaging book about the intersecting lives of half a dozen characters during WW II in England. Several of the characters are lesbians and their respective relatives.<br/>Initially I found the book to be confusing because it moves backwards in time.<br/>Once you get the hang of walking backwards through England while the bombs are dropping - it's worth it.
    			
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