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August 20
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Emma
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The Juicing Bible (Paperback)
by Pat Crocker
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healthyness
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read in August, 2008
Emma said:
"This book rocks! It has awesome recipes, but more than that, it has sections on all the fruits, vegetables and herbs that you can juice or add to your juice, and what they are good for and how to store them. I love it.
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August 11
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New comment on Aeyoung's review of
Second Lady: by Irving Wallace
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August 08
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Emma
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StrengthsFinder 2.0: A New and Upgraded Edition of the Online Test from Gallup's Now, Discover Your Strengths (Hardcover)
by Tom Rath
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personal-growth
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recommended for: everyone, seriously
read in January, 2007
Emma said:
"Total awesomeness!
This book and the included test (be sure to buy a new copy) inspired me for months. Finding out my top 5 strengths made who I am make so much more sense. I love their approach of focusing on what you are "designed" to ...more
Total awesomeness!
This book and the included test (be sure to buy a new copy) inspired me for months. Finding out my top 5 strengths made who I am make so much more sense. I love their approach of focusing on what you are "designed" to do, rather than trying to shore up your weaknesses. They have specific suggestions for each strength which includes which kinds of folks you should pair up with and how others will react to your strength. For instance my top one is "Ideation" - a love for and facility with ideas - and it suggests that some folks might not follow my leaping train of thought so I'll need to connect the dots for them. That's good to remember.
I love the whole mindset of it - it's a way to celebrate diversity and understand that we all have different strengths and we need to work together so we can benefit from things we don't have and vice versa. A great model for teamwork and for managers....less
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Emma
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The Artist's Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity (Paperback)
by Julia Cameron
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artsy-crafty,
personal-growth,
spirituality
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Emma said:
"this book helped me shift my thinking about art and helped me unblock my stuff around it and just make it. I had better luck doing it in a facilitated group than alone.
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Emma
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200 Knitted Blocks (Paperback)
by Jan Eaton
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read in January, 2006
Emma said:
"Great selection of patterns, and the best part is the big photos so you can really see the patterns.
One disappointing thing is that a lot of the 200 blocks are just color variations of the same block. Uh, that's kinda cheating isn't it? I think t...more
Great selection of patterns, and the best part is the big photos so you can really see the patterns.
One disappointing thing is that a lot of the 200 blocks are just color variations of the same block. Uh, that's kinda cheating isn't it? I think they should have just named it "150 blocks" or whatever and made the color variations seem like a bonus. But whatever.
I haven't actually used it to make blocks. I mostly use it to pick out patterns. Like for scarves. ...less
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Emma
marked as to-read:
Right Use Of Power: The Heart of Ethics (Paperback)
by Cedar Barstow
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Emma said:
"I haven't read the book yet, but I took a workshop from Cedar and it was awesome. This isn't technical ethics, like rules and regulations, it's about how power operates within the client-therapist dynamic and how to be responsible with that power.
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I haven't read the book yet, but I took a workshop from Cedar and it was awesome. This isn't technical ethics, like rules and regulations, it's about how power operates within the client-therapist dynamic and how to be responsible with that power.
A key concept I got from this is that when you are in the role of therapist, you *step into* that role. It's not *you*. It's like taking on a cloak or a mantle. The power is in the role. There isn't an inherent power differential between the people, but between the roles. Then, you take it off again after the session. It's important to be able to step out of the role of teacher, leader, or therapist so you don't get caught in it.
I've done workshops where the facilitators just did not seem comfortable just hanging out with the participants. They couldn't transition or give up the role, and they looked really uncomfortable. So that makes more sense now.
Obviously with therapists it's different because you never hang out with your clients, but it's still important to be able to step out of that role, and say, not try to therapizing with your family members of friends.
Another key thing I learned was how the most important thing to do when something feels wonky is to bring it up in session. Acknowledging it is a lot better than thinking 'maybe it was nothing'. The therapist role has a lot of power and clients can take things way differently than you intended, so checking in is really necessary....less
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Emma
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Lesbian Couples: A Guide to Creating Healthy Relationships (Paperback)
by D.Merilee Clunis
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read in January, 2006
Emma said:
"This is a pretty middle-of-the-road, calm person's guide to relationships. As in, not going into the nitty gritty stuff, but suggesting counseling if you have nitty gritty stuff. It does provide a good overview of issues that come up with lesbians th...more
This is a pretty middle-of-the-road, calm person's guide to relationships. As in, not going into the nitty gritty stuff, but suggesting counseling if you have nitty gritty stuff. It does provide a good overview of issues that come up with lesbians throughout the span of a relationship. I've gone back to it a few times to review the section on boundaries. ...less
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Emma
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Listening to Depression: How Understanding Your Pain Can Heal Your Life (Paperback)
by Lara, Ph.D. Honos-Webb
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read in January, 2007
Emma said:
"This book changed how I think about my depression, from a "problem", to something that is my system trying to tell me something. I stopped trying to fight it and make it wrong and started to pay attention to it and listen more. This book, c...more
This book changed how I think about my depression, from a "problem", to something that is my system trying to tell me something. I stopped trying to fight it and make it wrong and started to pay attention to it and listen more. This book, combined with Undoing Depression (and some medication), helped me really get my depression managed....less
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Emma
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Don't Be Nice, Be Real: Balancing Passion for Self With Compassion for Others (Paperback)
by Kelly Bryson
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read in January, 2007
Emma said:
"A little rough, but a good alternative to Marshall's sanitized prose. It's nice to have a different perspective on NVC, from someone who seems more like a real human struggling with it. I love you Marshall but are you an alien?
Uh, which is to sa...more
A little rough, but a good alternative to Marshall's sanitized prose. It's nice to have a different perspective on NVC, from someone who seems more like a real human struggling with it. I love you Marshall but are you an alien?
Uh, which is to say it met my needs for authenticity, inspiration, and support by providing lots of examples from his own life in full messy detail.
Contains what are likely useful insights on the Mars/Venus issues between men and women. Which don't exactly apply to us homos, but what can you do....less
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Emma
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The 4-Hour Work Week: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich (Hardcover)
by Timothy Ferriss
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recommended for: a desperate wage slave who has no picture of how things could be different for them
read in January, 2007
Emma said:
"At first I thought this was the bee's knees, toes, and ankles. But as I read further I began to realize that this guy "wins" by cheating, "delegates" by leaving everything in the hands of his $5/hour personal assistant in India, a...more
At first I thought this was the bee's knees, toes, and ankles. But as I read further I began to realize that this guy "wins" by cheating, "delegates" by leaving everything in the hands of his $5/hour personal assistant in India, and sells books by promising to tell you how to get rich, and delivers a book on how to get everyone around you to be really annoyed with you for shirking any responsibility.
He encourages you to lease expensive cars so you can feel like you are living the "life of your dreams". And then he puts Walden in his list of resources. I'm confused. I guess he's saying that if you really want to drive a fancy car, then make that your priority, and then when you can afford to lease it, you'll be happy. I'm hoping that would then teach you that maybe a car is not the most important thing in your life and you might want to spend your $2500 a month on rent, food, health insurance and the like. So you don't have to live in Borneo in order to drive your new car.
Reading this book made me realize that I already have a life that involves meaningful work, setting my own schedule, and choosing whatever projects I want to do. And oh yeah, passive income. No, I don't drive a Ferrari and vacation in Argentina because the exchange rate is awesome. But you know? I don't really want to.
I agree with some of his instructions on automation, especially the importance of not having decision-making bottlenecks. However, if you care about the reputation of your company you might want to have *some* input on its day to day operations. I guess now we know why he is described as a "serial" entrepreneur on the book jacket.
I give him points for being honest. If someone wanted his kind of lifestyle, this would be a fairly good roadmap. Except for one thing: his sales ability. Which he doesn't really teach in this book.
He definitely has a different take on business and the point of life, and perhaps it is useful just in that sense. He is definitely marching to the beat of his own drummer. I just am not sure I want to march with him....less
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