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November 17, 2008
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Jamie Lawrence
gave to:
Man's Search for Meaning (Mass Market Paperback)
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Viktor E. Frankl
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recommended for: Anyone trying to "understand life"
read in November, 2008
Jamie said:
"This is an inspirational book; not in that fluffy, chirpy plastic way of too many popular books but in shear darkness of the author's story and his attitude towards it.
Part of the appeal of this book lies in the historical account from ...more
This is an inspirational book; not in that fluffy, chirpy plastic way of too many popular books but in shear darkness of the author's story and his attitude towards it.
Part of the appeal of this book lies in the historical account from a survivor of the holocaust, told in a slightly detached, matter-of-fact, manner. It's only 60 years ago but we quickly forget about the horrors of the concentration camp, and all the other human-inspired miseries since.
However, as the title might indicate, this book has much more to offer the reader. The author shows how even in the darkest nightmarish situations there is a way for the human psyche to come through. Though the reader might feel awkward comparing their situation to that endured by the author (I certainly did) the advice and anecdotes presented here are applicable far beyond the extreme suffering of the concentration camps (and, indeed, that is exactly the intention of the author).
Here's a few things I've picked up from the book
- It isn't how life treats you that's important, it's how you approach life. Some situations might be inescapable and result in great suffering but there is little point on dwelling on the unfairness of the universe. You must look at as an opportunity to prove yourself -- to show your integrity. The one choice you always have is how you to react to a situation.
- Having something to hold onto. Whether it is the thought of a loved one or the knowledge that your suffering might have saved another. For example, the loneliness of a windower had actually saved his wife from the same suffering by living longer than her.
Quote:
- "A man who has a why to live for can bear with almost any how" (actually from Nietzsche)
- "everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way."
- "It did not really matter what we expected from life, but rather what life expected from us. We needed to stop asking about the meaning of life, and instead to think of ourselves as those who were being questioned by life—daily and hourly. Our answer must consist, not in talk and meditation, but in right action and in right conduct. Life ultimately means taking the responsibility to find the right answer to its problems and to fulfill the tasks which it constantly sets for each individual."
- "We can discover this meaning in life in three different ways: (1) by creating a work or doing a deed; (2) by experiencing a something or encountering someone; and (3) by the attitude we take toward unavoidable suffering."
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November 01, 2008
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Jamie Lawrence
gave to:
The 4-Hour Work Week: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich (Hardcover)
by
Timothy Ferriss
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recommended for: anyone / everyone
read in November, 2008
Jamie said:
"First off, you're probably not going to get to a 4 hour week and certainly not working as an employee. However, this book is a must read simply because of the way the author makes you look at things differently and turns established notions on their...more
First off, you're probably not going to get to a 4 hour week and certainly not working as an employee. However, this book is a must read simply because of the way the author makes you look at things differently and turns established notions on their head. It's a real mind-f*ck.
- Why work for the best years of your life, instead of enjoying it now? Putting off everything until you're 65 isn't a great plan. You're fit and active now.
- Based on my current age, I have 400 months until retirement. How do I want to spend that? In a cubicle?
- You don't need to be a millionaire, you just need to have enough (autonomous) income to live like one.
- Most people dream of running a company but really you want to own one, and get others to manage it whilst you pursue your dreams. This isn't about getting your dream job (because dreams tend to turn sour when they become 'work') but about income generation.
- Define your dreams (if you had no financial constraints) for the next 6/12 months and determine their costs. Add in your living expenses. Multiply by 1.3 to account for savings and safety padding. This is the income you need to achieve to realise your dreams. Divide it by days or weeks to arrive at a daily or weekly income.
- The key is generating that income for the least amount of work. Selling digital goods over the Internet is ideal as most of the process can be automated and outsourced.
- €50 x 100 people = €5000. It's mathematically obvious but the consequences are astounding.
- Aim to have freedom of location and time (i.e., work that doesn't take 40hours/week and require you to be in a particular place). Aim for mini-retirement breaks every few months where you travel to and live in another part of the world.
Whether you accept all of the book's suggestions (like outsourcing your personal life to India) it will truly change the way that you look at life.(less)
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October 30, 2008
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Jamie Lawrence
is currently reading:
Rails Pocket Reference (Pocket Reference (O'Reilly))
by
Eric Berry
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Jamie Lawrence
is currently reading:
The Dalai Lama's Book of Awakening (Paperback)
by
Dalai Lama XIV
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October 29, 2008
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Jamie Lawrence
gave to:
The Paradox of Choice: Why More Is Less (Paperback)
by
Barry Schwartz
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recommended to Jamie Lawrence by:
The Simple Dollar
recommended for: Anyone, consumers or advertisers
read in October, 2008, has a copy to sell/swap
Jamie said:
"A very interesting book about how an overabundance of choice creates stress and depression, particularly for a certain class of people (maximisers). Interestingly, it seems that I'm not a perfectionist but a maximiser (someone who always tries to fi...more
A very interesting book about how an overabundance of choice creates stress and depression, particularly for a certain class of people (maximisers). Interestingly, it seems that I'm not a perfectionist but a maximiser (someone who always tries to find the absolute best course of action/choice).
As an example, I've recently been trying to buy a new monitor but I've now spent upwards of 6 hours comparing prices, spec, reviews and availability. In the end, I was getting so down about the decision because there didn't seem to be a perfect choice that fitted my criteria. ~3 weeks later, I still haven't bought one. It is this process that the book tries to unravel.
It is very well researched with plenty of insights into consumer behaviour. If I had one criticism it would be the self-help section at the end, which I didn't find particularly inspiring. However, just being aware of the paradox of choice, and your own personality type, can help you avoid investing too much in your decisions.(less)
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Jamie Lawrence
gave to:
The Dip: The Extraordinary Benefits of Knowing When to Quit (and When to Stick)
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Seth Godin
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recommended for: PhD students, developers and entrepreneurs
read in October, 2008, has a copy to sell/swap
Jamie said:
"A fantastic book that every PhD student should read.
The advice is obvious but presented clearly and simply, making it a very powerful message: Winners quit (the right stuff). Basically, you can either quit your project (to focus on somet...more
A fantastic book that every PhD student should read.
The advice is obvious but presented clearly and simply, making it a very powerful message: Winners quit (the right stuff). Basically, you can either quit your project (to focus on something else more worthwhile), stick with it (til the end) or neither. The first two are winning strategies, the last is not (and the one I chose in my PhD -- I should have read this book 3 years ago). The book is about making that decision.
It is very well written, in an informal style, and can easily be read in a day or weekend.(less)
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August 19, 2008
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Jamie Lawrence
gave to:
Weather (Collins Wild Guide)
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Storm Dunlop
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read in October, 2008
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Jamie Lawrence
gave to:
Photography Essentials: Waiting for the Light (Photography Essentials)
by
David Noton
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read in October, 2008
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Jamie Lawrence
gave to:
Without Fail (Jack Reacher Series, #6)
by
Lee Child
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Jamie said:
"Easy to read, hard to put down, thoroughly enjoyable -- as always. A great book to read between more heavyweight subjects.
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