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    			  I remember being compelled to read Faulkner's work in high school, and having such a difficult time appreciating the themes in this work.  Now I know why I had difficulty with the psychological themes and the character development when I first read.  I've re-read, and now with better education and loads of life experience, I have to say this is one of the most engaging, moving works that has impacted my literary interests and life perspective in some respects.  I highly encourage! 
    			
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    			  Excellent depth and awareness of the challenges inherent in being human.  Loved the work...read twice already, and I look forward to taking it with me to my next local poetry read.
    			
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    		<![CDATA[Mollianna added 'Life Strategies: Doing What Works, Doing What Matters']]>
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    			  again...an epitome of vapid self-help cliches....
    			
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    			  This is a solid book emphasizing the importance of awareness, problem engagement and resolution.  Giannet takes the most vital key areas of healthy relationships and identifies 240 themes ranging from sexuality to communication.... that are critically important to relationships.... and gives the reader the opportunity to rank where she or he is on each area.  It provides a candid portrayal of relationships (if the reader is willing to really invest the time and emotional energy to think and reflect on their interpersonal experiences). <br/><br/>I also liked his reflection questions, where the reader is asked to contemplate on various themes ranging from goals to social support to attempted strategies to improve the relationship.  His recommendations for change are very insightful and definately work, again, if one is truly invested in healthy change. <br/><br/>We have all asked what the ingredients of a bad relationship are...I think this manual provides a truly exhaustive answer, and it also identifies even unspoken areas that we often overlook consciously or unconscioulsy.  <br/><br/>If I were in psychotherapy today, knowing what I know, I would be extremely grateful if my therapist offered this power-packed book as a gift for my current relationship and, if applicable, my future ones. 
    			
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		<![CDATA[<strong><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/list/user_vote/130322">Mollianna</a></strong>  voted on the book list <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/list/user_vote/130322" class="listTitle">best self help books</a><br/>      <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6087375?use_route=book_page"><img alt="The Dysfunctional Relationship Manual: A Checklist and Workbook... by Stanley M. Giannet" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51OnHmaPMUL._SL160_.jpg" style="float: left; padding: 3px 0px 0px 1px; width:55px; height:80px" title="The Dysfunctional Relationship Manual: A Checklist and Workbook... by Stanley M. Giannet" /></a>      <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6015055?use_route=book_page"><img alt="Love Is Stronger Than Death: Encountering Our Struggle With Grie... by Stanley M. Giannet" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/419gb1LFLsL._SL160_.jpg" style="float: left; padding: 3px 0px 0px 1px; width:55px; height:80px" title="Love Is Stronger Than Death: Encountering Our Struggle With Grie... by Stanley M. Giannet" /></a>  <br class="clear"/><div style="padding-top:3px">  Mollianna added 2 books to this list. <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/list/show/691" class="actionLinkLite left">Add your votes &raquo;</a>  <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/list/user_vote/130322" class="actionLink right">add a comment</a></div>
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    		<![CDATA[Mollianna added 'Oh, the Places You'll Go!']]>
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    			  My interpretation of this book is that it provides a timeless tale about a parent's self-sacrificing, unconditional love for a child..an imperfect child.  Wonderful metaphor that works for me!!
    			
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    		<![CDATA[Mollianna added 'Love, Medicine and Miracles']]>
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    			  This book provides an incredible narrative about the power of the mind in influencing disease and health. Medical treatments are indeed influenced by our emotional coping, our stories, our relationships.  The presence or absence of love is so critical in healing, and Siegel's account is filled with depth and beauty.  It gives much hope to anyone with chronic illnesses.
    			
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