I find that I learn a great deal about a topic when I write about it. Even when I think I have an expertise in a certain area, I am always amazed by how much I still learn putting my thoughts to paper. I had no such illusions however tackling this topic. I knew that I often let my competitive drive get the better of me to the point that I engaged in destructive behavior rather than productive behavior. I was sure I wasn't alone so I set out to see what discoveries I could make to turn myself into a better competitor. I researched many other societies and species and engaged in a number of competitive endeavors as part of my journey. The result was enlightening to me and I hope what I discovered can help others harness that inner competitive drive to maximum gain in all aspects of their lives.