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  <title>Parenting With Love and Logic (Updated and Expanded Edition)</title>
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    <body><![CDATA[I am not a fan of this book although I see that there are many useful concepts therein.  The book is frequently recommended for parents adopting older children, but the whole tone of the book put me off.  The authors seem to take pleasure in the ways they've invented to show children the natural consequences of misbehaviors.  It's very meanspirited.<br/><br/>For post-institutionalized kids in particular, the whole concept of &quot;natural consequences&quot; may not even make sense to them at an age-appropriate level.  They need to build trust in their new families and a better understanding of how the world beyond their orphanage walls functions before they can fully grasp the consequences of their actions.]]></body>
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