Dana Rongione's Reviews > To Heaven and Back
To Heaven and Back
by Mary C. Neal
by Mary C. Neal
To Heaven and Back is "a doctor's extraordinary account of her death, Heaven, angels and life again" and is supposedly true is all aspects.
Allow me to preface this review by stating that this opinion is coming from a born-again, fundamental, Bible-believing Christian. As such, I found this book very disturbing and feel that the best place for it is in the garbage can. I know that sounds harsh, but I feel this book contains several elements that could prove to be extremely hazardous to Christians and non-Christians alike. Allow me to state a few examples:
1. Ms. Neal gives readers the idea that a Christian following God's direction will not encounter troubles. In her words, "when you are doing God's will, everything seems to happen without much effort or many obstacles". Say what? Read the Bible, and you'll discover the exact opposite is true. David was a man after God's own heart, and he faced obstacles. Job was a good man and full of integrity, yet he lost everything he held dear. Paul was the greatest missionary to have ever lived, yet he was imprisoned countless times, stoned, beaten, shipwrecked, and the list goes on. Satan knows how to put obstacles in our path too. He doesn't want us serving the Lord. I fear after reading this, there will be Christians doubting their life's direction because they've run into an obstacle or two. My dear Christian, if this is the case, please know that those obstacles are a pretty good sign that you are on the right track.
2. Ms. Neal claims to have experienced salvation during her baptism. Salvation occurs when you accept Jesus Christ as Lord over your life. It has nothing to do with baptism except that baptism is an outward show of an inward change.
3. Ms. Neal admits that she felt God was a "Sunday thing" and spent the majority of her early life ignoring Him. Yet every time she found herself in a difficult situation, she "remembered" to pray and God jumped in to meet her need exactly as she saw fit. Again, I fear we have Christians reading this and wondering why God doesn't work that way for them. God doesn't work that way for anyone! God is not a genie in a lamp. He is not at our beck and call. We either have a relationship with Him or not. We can't ignore Him and then expect Him to jump every time we call.
4. Ms. Neal uses quite an imagination in describing how children actually abide in Heaven before being sent to earth and that they remember Heaven when they're young. So if that's the case, child-like faith isn't faith at all. It's just memories. Additionally, she tells of communicating with angels and of others who communicated with their dead loved ones. Okay, if you say so.
5. Beyond that, there were events that were described that were beyond miraculous; they were downright fictional. Please don't misunderstand me. I believe in miracles, and I believe God can do the impossible and unfathomable. However, for one person to have experienced so many HUGELY miraculous events is just very hard to believe.
6. Last, but certainly not least, Jesus was hardly mentioned at all in the book. Yes, this woman went to Heaven, but yet angels and light and gardens get more mention than Jesus. And the few times she did mention Jesus, His name was used interchangeably with "the angel". Jesus is not an angel. He is the Son of God. Surely, a book about heaven should have more focus on Jesus and less on self, right?
I hope that you understand why I'm so emphatic about my opinions on this book. It is "feel good" fiction like this that is leading hordes of people away from true salvation and a true knowledge of Christ. And as a Christian, I feel it is my responsibility to warn others of the dangers I see lurking in these areas. I do so with love, for I want to do as God commanded and speak the truth in love, seasoned with grace. And so, my friends, consider yourself warned!
I received this book from Waterbrook Multnomah for the purpose of this review. Obviously, I was not required to write a positive recommendation of this book.
Allow me to preface this review by stating that this opinion is coming from a born-again, fundamental, Bible-believing Christian. As such, I found this book very disturbing and feel that the best place for it is in the garbage can. I know that sounds harsh, but I feel this book contains several elements that could prove to be extremely hazardous to Christians and non-Christians alike. Allow me to state a few examples:
1. Ms. Neal gives readers the idea that a Christian following God's direction will not encounter troubles. In her words, "when you are doing God's will, everything seems to happen without much effort or many obstacles". Say what? Read the Bible, and you'll discover the exact opposite is true. David was a man after God's own heart, and he faced obstacles. Job was a good man and full of integrity, yet he lost everything he held dear. Paul was the greatest missionary to have ever lived, yet he was imprisoned countless times, stoned, beaten, shipwrecked, and the list goes on. Satan knows how to put obstacles in our path too. He doesn't want us serving the Lord. I fear after reading this, there will be Christians doubting their life's direction because they've run into an obstacle or two. My dear Christian, if this is the case, please know that those obstacles are a pretty good sign that you are on the right track.
2. Ms. Neal claims to have experienced salvation during her baptism. Salvation occurs when you accept Jesus Christ as Lord over your life. It has nothing to do with baptism except that baptism is an outward show of an inward change.
3. Ms. Neal admits that she felt God was a "Sunday thing" and spent the majority of her early life ignoring Him. Yet every time she found herself in a difficult situation, she "remembered" to pray and God jumped in to meet her need exactly as she saw fit. Again, I fear we have Christians reading this and wondering why God doesn't work that way for them. God doesn't work that way for anyone! God is not a genie in a lamp. He is not at our beck and call. We either have a relationship with Him or not. We can't ignore Him and then expect Him to jump every time we call.
4. Ms. Neal uses quite an imagination in describing how children actually abide in Heaven before being sent to earth and that they remember Heaven when they're young. So if that's the case, child-like faith isn't faith at all. It's just memories. Additionally, she tells of communicating with angels and of others who communicated with their dead loved ones. Okay, if you say so.
5. Beyond that, there were events that were described that were beyond miraculous; they were downright fictional. Please don't misunderstand me. I believe in miracles, and I believe God can do the impossible and unfathomable. However, for one person to have experienced so many HUGELY miraculous events is just very hard to believe.
6. Last, but certainly not least, Jesus was hardly mentioned at all in the book. Yes, this woman went to Heaven, but yet angels and light and gardens get more mention than Jesus. And the few times she did mention Jesus, His name was used interchangeably with "the angel". Jesus is not an angel. He is the Son of God. Surely, a book about heaven should have more focus on Jesus and less on self, right?
I hope that you understand why I'm so emphatic about my opinions on this book. It is "feel good" fiction like this that is leading hordes of people away from true salvation and a true knowledge of Christ. And as a Christian, I feel it is my responsibility to warn others of the dangers I see lurking in these areas. I do so with love, for I want to do as God commanded and speak the truth in love, seasoned with grace. And so, my friends, consider yourself warned!
I received this book from Waterbrook Multnomah for the purpose of this review. Obviously, I was not required to write a positive recommendation of this book.
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Jul 01, 2012 06:44pm
wonderfully said!! i was so incredibly disturbed reading this book!!
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I liked your review because, although you didn't like some of the concepts in the book, you didn't present yourself as "I know everything and she's stupid" sort of thing. I appreciated the honesty in your comments and curious to see what I think when I get around to reading it.
Thank you, Nique. I certainly don't think I know everything, and I honestly don't believe this author is stupid. . .just misinformed. As an author myself, I dislike giving negative reviews; however, as a Christian, it is my responsibility to point out doctrinal errors so that the misinformed do not spread their misinformation to others. In this case, I feel the book was a bit like the blind leading the blind.
So glad to see other Christians take a stance on this! I only hope others recognize that claiming accounts against true doctrine is threading on very dangerous territory! As a born again Christian, I do believe God does reach out to us personally. I also know there is a great deal of deception taking place all around us. The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit should never be minimalized. If ever in doubt, read what the true Word of God says. Do not accept anything less!
Mary states in her book that she isn't a writer and didn't want to write this book. She doesn't claim to be anything that she is not. She is suffering much pain from the loss of her son. Even though God is good and Heaven is real, losing a child is a huge loss for a parent. I felt her grief was palpable. She believes in Jesus. She is a human just like the rest of us that needs at times to be reminded that He is in charge and not us. This is just her very human account of how He spoke to her, not a book about how to be a perfect Christian.
Uuuummmm... Maybe "Born Again Christians" view of Heaven isn't the way it really is. I whole heartedly believe we were in heaven before we came to Earth. Our relationships are ETERNAL as Mary said she felt like she had known the others forever. She wasn't referring to JESUS when she spoke of her ANGEL GUIDE . ANGELS don't have wings. Born Again Christians need to open their mind to the fact that your view may not be the CORRECT VIEW.

