I have always been fascinated by the strange dynamics Ryan O'Neal has with his children. I read Tatum's books and for some reason just didn't believe everything I read. However, I admire Ryan for admitting his poor parenting mistakes, but do believe he loved Farrah with everything he had in him. He has four children and has had trouble with three of them. I hope Redmond will get his act together and become the son that his father needs and his mother would have wanted. Ryan's son Patrick has never been involved in drugs like his other children, so Ryan didn't do everything wrong. I feel that Tatum and Griffin need to grow up and move on with their lives instead of hating and blaming their father for everything.