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The Language of Flowers by Vanessa Diffenbaugh
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May 08, 12

Read in May, 2012

May 2012 RS book group

I know a lot of reviews say that the protagonist is not believable and that the choices she makes as a daughter/mother/partner are atrocious- and they're right about that last part. But I don't think that it's not believable. Yes, it's hard to think a mother would leave a newborn home alone so she can get some time to herself... except mothers really do that (and worse). As someone who works closely with newly postpartum mothers, the protagonist sounds like she had some severe PPD and PTSD. What she did is very believable for someone who grew up in a system that doesn't foster attachment and interpersonal skills. Yes it's bad, but sadly, it's also real.

Having grown up in the same house as people who were basically fostered and my sister- adopted out of a bad situation as a child, I actually could relate (not directly, but I know people like this). It actually did remind me of my sister's current situation as a single mother with difficultly with attachment, getting an education, a job, paying rent.
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