This is an OK book, but the author comes off as defensively reacting to some major hurt from a male. I understand about being assertive and standing up for yourself, but fully half of the book seems to be aimed at males and how they "take advantage" of females in one way or another. This is the impression given in the book and a viewpoint I don't agree with. I think this book could have been more effective if it dealt with a more open range of situations, rather than just domestic relationships. Overall, some good tips given, but the author comes off as angry and a little too defensive. Moderately recommended, though there are better books out there that deal with boundaries and taking care of yourself.