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Along for the Ride by Sarah Dessen

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Jan 19, 12

bookshelves: books-i-own, read-in-2012
Recommended for: Everyone
Read from January 08 to 17, 2012 — I own a copy, read count: 1

I’ll be up front. I have major love for Sarah Dessen. Like, mega major love. She has a way, with her fluid, wistful style of writing, of sweeping me away. So I will say right now, this isn’t so much a review as it is thoughts about the way the book made me feel.

Each time I sit down to read her books, I find it darn near impossible to stop. When April and I started this read-along, affectionately named #DessenQuest2012 (Yes, I meant to include the hashtag. It’s a movement, people. There are only two of us, but we are rocking the hashtag!), we had a goal of five chapters per week. Silly us. There’s no way, none, that you can limit The Dessen to five measly chapters a week. Anyway…each day progressed with one or the other of us tweeting, asking to “please read just one more chapter, because we can’t possibly stop at this point”. Needless to say, what should have taken us nearly a month to read to around two weeks.
Sarah Dessen has magic in her. A way of transporting readers, even tired, frazzled mommies, back to their teenage years. Self-consciousness, inner turmoil and a little bit of angst are the name of the game. That time when every look and every word could change your life and the future felt endless.

I wasn’t sure that Along for the Ride could compete with the only other Dessen book I’ve read, The Truth About Forever. Could Auden compete with Macy’s endearing nature? Could Eli out sa-woon Wes? Would the story tug on me every way possible and leave me smiling while the tears were streaming down my face? The answers: yes, Auden was magnificent; nobody can out sa-woon Wes, but Eli is just as utterly lovable in his own right; and yeah, this book made me smile and cry at the same time, completely heart-tugging.

I’ve said this is only my second Sarah Dessen book, but I’m sensing a pattern, maybe. I don’t mean the stories, but the effect the stories have. I know that I can count (I think) on a main character that speaks with a real, resonating voice. You may not be just like Auden, or any other of the mc’s, but you can find a way to indentify or even just sympathize with her. She will make wrong choices and stumble a bit on the way, but she will find her path.
There will be girls. Girls who, while they may be seemingly unlike the mc, they will have an underlying quality that will surprise her, and you. They will teach her lessons she never expected from them.

There will be a guy. The guy. A Wes, or an Eli. He will be quiet, possibly have a troubled past; nothing too bad, but just enough to make him extra intriguing. But he’s a really, really good guy that you will fall in love with. He will be handsome, heartbreakingly handsome. He will, in his quiet way, teach the girl The Lesson.

Sarah Dessen’s books have become comfort books to me, my hot tomato soup on a cold, windy day. I look at them on my shelf and I smile. I know they are there, when I need That Boy and That Girl, and the comfort of a beautiful, poignant story, told only the way Sarah Dessen can.


Favorite Quotes:

“Leah looked at Maggie. ‘Great,’ she muttered. ‘He’s got the hots for you, and now we all have to eat wieners because of it.’ “ (pg.184)

“Maybe the truth was, it shouldn’t be easy to be amazing. Then everything would be. It’s the things you fight for and struggle with before earning that have the greatest worth. When something’s difficult to come by, you’ll do that much more to make sure it’s even harder –if not impossible – to lose.” (pg.299)

“You couldn’t just pick and choose at will when someone depended on you, or loved you. It wasn’t like a light switch, easy to shut on or off. If you were in, you were in. Out, you were out. To me, it didn’t seem complicated at all. In fact, it was the simplest thing in the world.” (pg.367)

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Quotes Andrea Liked

Sarah Dessen
“Life is full of screwups. You're supposed to fail sometimes. It's a required part of the human existance.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“Relationships dont always make sense. Especially from the outside”
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Sarah Dessen
“You couldn't just pick and choose at will when someone depended on you, or loved you. It wasn't like a light switch, easy to turn on or off. If you were in, you were in. Out, you were out.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“So maybe it wasn't the fairy tale. But those stories weren't real anyway. Mine were.”
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Sarah Dessen
“It shouldn't be easy to be amazing. Then everything would be. It's the things you fight for and struggle with before earning that have the greatest worth. When something's difficult to come by, you'll do that much more to make sure it's even harder--or impossible-- to lose.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“An ending was an ending. No matter how many pages of sentences and paragraphs of great stories led up to it, it would always have the last word.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“It didn't make you noble to step away from something that wasn't working, even if you thought you were the reason for the malfunction. Especially then. It just made you a quitter. Because if you were the problem, chances were you could also be the solution. The only way to find out was to take another shot.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“But sometimes you lose. Nothing you can do but admit it.
-Eli”
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Sarah Dessen
“Maybe it was true, and being a girl could be about interest rates and skinny jeans, riding bikes and wearing pink. Not about any one thing, but everything.”
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Sarah Dessen
“The basic fact is that no, this isnt ideal. Very few things are. Sometimes, you have to manufacture your own history. Give fate a push,so to speak.
-Heidi”
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Sarah Dessen
“Who says there has to be a point?" He asked. "Or a reason. Maybe it's just something you have to do."
-Eli”
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Sarah Dessen
“If you're not getting hurt, you're not riding hard enough.”
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Sarah Dessen
“It was so weird, because usually I was totally nervous talking to guys. But Eli was different. He made me want to say more, not less. Which was maybe not a good thing.”
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Sarah Dessen
“He was the closest thing I'd ever had to something, or someone, that mattered. But in the end, close didn't count. You were either in, or you weren't.”
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Sarah Dessen
“I wasn't sure what I expected her to do or say to this. It was all new to me from that second on. But clearly, she'd been there before. It was obvious in the easy way she shrugged off her bag, letting it fall with a thump onto the sand, before sitting down beside me. She didn't pull me close for a big bonding hug or offer up some saccharine words of comfort, both of which would have sent me running for sure. Instead she gave me nothing but her company, realizing even before I did this that this, in fact, was just what I needed.”
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Sarah Dessen
“It was terrible and awful when someone left you. You could move on, do the best you could, but like Eli had said, an ending was an ending. No matter how many pages of sentences and paragraphs of great stories led up to it, it would always have to have the last word.”
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Sarah Dessen
“I don't know," I said. "What else did you do for your first eighteen years?"
"Like I said," he said as I unlocked the car, "I'm not so sure that you should go by my example."
"Why not?"
"Because I have my regrets," he said. "Also, I'm a guy. And guys do different stuff."
"Like ride bikes?" I said.
"No," he replied. "Like have food fights. And break stuff. And set off firecrackers on people's front porches. And..."
"Girls can't set off firecrackers on people's front porches?"
"They can," he said... "But they're smart enough not to. That's the difference.”
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Sarah Dessen
“I told you, everyone understands a quest.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“This is a 911? You know you only text that when someone is dead or dying. You scared the crap out of me.”
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Sarah Dessen
“It's still a memory worth having, even if it's not exactly what you imagined.”
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Sarah Dessen
“It was so risky and so scary, and yet at the same time, so beautiful. Maybe the truth was, it shouldn't be easy to be amazing. Then everything would be. It's the things you fight for and struggle with before earning that have the greatest worth.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“Sometimes a question can hurt more than an answer.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“Because if you were the problem, chances were you could also be the solution. The only way to find out was to take another shot.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“It's not always easy being her daughter.'

I think,' she said, 'sometimes it's hard no matter whose daughter you are.”
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Sarah Dessen
“It all counts,' Adam said again. 'And the bottom line is, what defines you isn't how many times you crash, but the number of times you get back on the bike. As long as it's one more, you're all good.-pg 325 Along for the Ride”
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“Morning would come before we knew it. It always did. But we still had the night, and for now, we were together, so I just closed my eyes and drank it all in.”
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Sarah Dessen
“Let me guess,” Eli said, his voice that low, even timbre, as always. “Drinking from kegs also falls under outdoor activity.”

I just looked at him, standing there in jeans and the same blue hoodie he’d had on the first time I met him. Maybe it was the embarrassment, which had been bad enough before I had an audience, but I was instantly annoyed. I said, “Are we outside?”

He glanced round, as if needing to confirm this. “Nope.”
“Then no.” I turned my attention back to the keg.”
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Sarah Dessen
“The truth was, I wasn't sure. But I wanted to keep believing people could change, and it was certainly easier to do so when you were in the midst of it.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“What do you do when you finally hear everything you've always thought said aloud?”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“Life is full of screwups," he said, chucking another paper at the split-level before taking the corner. "You're supposed to fail sometimes. It's a required part of the human existence.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“You know," I told him,"if you don't know how to eat a cupcake, that's nothing to be ashamed of."
Now he did smile. "I know how to eat a cupcake."
"Sure you do."
"I do," he said. "I just don't want one of those."
"Yeah? Prove it.”
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Sarah Dessen
“This thought was interrupted, suddenly, by a crash from the front entrance. We all looked over just in time to see Adam bending back from the glass, rubbing his arm.
"Pull open," Maggie called out. As Leah rolled her eyes, she said, "He never remembers. It's so weird.”
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Sarah Dessen
“I waited. Because with Eli, he was never trying to get you to finish for him. He always knew where he was going, even if it took a little while to get there.”
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Sarah Dessen
“I trailed off and he didn't push me to finish. I was finding that I liked that.”
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Sarah Dessen
“You own a Tic Tac. Gum is just borrowed. - Esther”
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Sarah Dessen
“This true difference in me now: I had these experiances, these tales, more of this life. So maybe it wasn't the fairy tale. But those stories weren't real anyway. Mine were.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“What," I said, "is that a crime here or something? Like only buying one thing at the Gas/Gro?”
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Sarah Dessen
“Nope.' He sat back. 'Just been there, done that. Done that getting hauled to the police station thing because of it, too.I appreciate your quest and everything, but I have to draw the line somewhere.'
'Wait,' I said, holding up my hand. 'My quest?'
He turned to look at me. We were at a red light, no other cars were anywhere in sight. 'Yeah,' he said. 'You know, like in Lord of the Rings, or Star Wars. You're searching for something you lost or need. It's a quest.'
I just looked at him.
'Maybe it's a guy thing,' he said. 'Fine, don't call it a quest. Call it chicken salad, I don't care. My point is, I'm in, but within reason. That's all I'm saying.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“It was like reaching for someone's hand, then missing their fingers, or even their arm, and hitting their shoulder instead. But no matter. You hang on tight anyway.”
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Sarah Dessen
“its been a long night" "aren't they all?”
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Sarah Dessen
“Life shouldn't be about the either/or. We're capable of more than that, you know?”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“I wondered if emotions were like menstrual cycles, if you get enough women together. Give it time, and everyone was crying.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“Oh darling, don't be bitter. It's the first instinct of the weak.”
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Sarah Dessen
“When you don't know where you're going, maybe it wasn't such a bad thing to have more than you need.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“Call it crazy, or just chicken salad.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“You just walk over there and into the office and say, 'Hey, be my prom date,'" he said. "It's that simple.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“No, no, no to Tallyho.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“You're supposed to fail sometimes. It's a required part of the human existence
-Eli”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“It’s the things you fight for and struggle with before earning that have the greatest worth.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

Sarah Dessen
“Because maybe, the best of times were yet to come. You never knew.”
Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride


Reading Progress

01/08/2012 page 22
6.0%
01/14/2012 page 165
43.0% "So goooood!!"
01/15/2012 page 225
59.0% "This book gets better w/each word."
01/16/2012 page 275
72.0% "Oh, Eli. How I love you."
01/17/2012 page 367
96.0% "I'm dying!!!"
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Rachel Harris Love this one!! One of my favorite Sarah Dessen's (tied for first is Truth About Forever and This Lullaby) =)


Andrea I loved The Truth About Forever! I loved Wes! Sa-woon! I have This Lullaby. Cant wait!


Rachel Harris Yeah, Wes was a keeper for sure. Can't wait to hear what you think of This Lullaby, too!


ShawnaLeAnn [Dreaming In The Pages] Oh my This Lullaby will have you swooning your socks off Andrea. It. is. so. GOOD! Dreamland is also one of my favorites. Sarah Dessen just amazes me.


Andrea I can't wait!


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