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Lost Memory of Skin
by Russell Banks
by Russell Banks
i have read books by russell banks that i have liked a lot -- i have a tremendously fond memory of Rule of the Bone and Continental Drift and his book about liberia, The Darling, certainly has value -- it's a pretty brutal look at liberia's terrible history of massacres, though i'm always a bit wary of books about africa's wounds written by first worlders.
still.
this book would get 5 stars solely for the fact that it focuses on the horrible plight of convicted sex offenders, a violation of human rights so blatant it makes your stomach hurt. since almost no one knows what paroled sex offenders must go through, i recommend the book just so that folks might learn what we as a society do -- the human sacrifices we require -- in the name of our fantasy of "wholesomeness." sex is the ultimate canary in the coalmine. if you are following the republican primaries you know what i am talking about. never mind poverty, third-world-level education, perennial wars, lack of basic healthcare. it's the sex lives of americans who determine whether we are a good or a bad nation. end of debate.
so, sex offenders, alone among felons, enjoy the privilege of being banned from the proximity of children for a ridiculous amount of years after completion of their sentence, and of being on the sex offender registry for the rest of their lives. to qualify as a sex offenders it is enough to be, say, a 19 year old who had sex with his 17 year old girlfriend, or to have been caught with your dick in your hand in a public place (say you were talking a piss; say you are homeless; say you got very very unlucky). i kid you not.
in miami, where this book is set, sex offenders used to have (for all i know still have) only three places in which they could live. every other spot on the map was within the prohibited 2,500 ft from a school, playground, homeless shelter etc. the three places were: 1) under a specific bridge of the julia tuttle causeway 2) at the airport and 3) in the south everglades. since places 2) and 3) were not exactly practicable, this little sex offender city sprouted under the bridge, where these guys lived in tents or makeshift shanties while trying to keep a day job and support themselves. occasionally the police would raid the shanty town for sanitary reasons. it was awful.
the miami herald and other news outlet (google "miami sex offenders") brought this shame to the attention of the public and now the men have been relocated. i should know where but i don't. i'm sure it's not much better.
so this is the subject of this book. the protagonist, known only as the Kid, is a very shy 22 year old who grew up in a dismally neglectful family and developed an addiction to porn (banks has theory about why people develop “perverse” sexual desires). one day, trying to overcome his almost total isolation, arranged to hook up with a 14 year old he had met online. father called the police, end of story. the Kid is now entirely uninterested in sex and wholly interested in making it through the day. he's also so internalized the sex offender label that he could not perceive himself as anything else.
etc. etc. there is a story but it's a lame story and the book drags. i didn't even understand how it ended. i'm talking about the last 4 lines. i don't get them.
so, not a spectacular literary effort, but clearly banks cares about these guys and spends some serious effort trying to make the reader understand what goes on in the mind of the sex offender and what goes on in the society who punishes him so harshly.
still.
this book would get 5 stars solely for the fact that it focuses on the horrible plight of convicted sex offenders, a violation of human rights so blatant it makes your stomach hurt. since almost no one knows what paroled sex offenders must go through, i recommend the book just so that folks might learn what we as a society do -- the human sacrifices we require -- in the name of our fantasy of "wholesomeness." sex is the ultimate canary in the coalmine. if you are following the republican primaries you know what i am talking about. never mind poverty, third-world-level education, perennial wars, lack of basic healthcare. it's the sex lives of americans who determine whether we are a good or a bad nation. end of debate.
so, sex offenders, alone among felons, enjoy the privilege of being banned from the proximity of children for a ridiculous amount of years after completion of their sentence, and of being on the sex offender registry for the rest of their lives. to qualify as a sex offenders it is enough to be, say, a 19 year old who had sex with his 17 year old girlfriend, or to have been caught with your dick in your hand in a public place (say you were talking a piss; say you are homeless; say you got very very unlucky). i kid you not.
in miami, where this book is set, sex offenders used to have (for all i know still have) only three places in which they could live. every other spot on the map was within the prohibited 2,500 ft from a school, playground, homeless shelter etc. the three places were: 1) under a specific bridge of the julia tuttle causeway 2) at the airport and 3) in the south everglades. since places 2) and 3) were not exactly practicable, this little sex offender city sprouted under the bridge, where these guys lived in tents or makeshift shanties while trying to keep a day job and support themselves. occasionally the police would raid the shanty town for sanitary reasons. it was awful.
the miami herald and other news outlet (google "miami sex offenders") brought this shame to the attention of the public and now the men have been relocated. i should know where but i don't. i'm sure it's not much better.
so this is the subject of this book. the protagonist, known only as the Kid, is a very shy 22 year old who grew up in a dismally neglectful family and developed an addiction to porn (banks has theory about why people develop “perverse” sexual desires). one day, trying to overcome his almost total isolation, arranged to hook up with a 14 year old he had met online. father called the police, end of story. the Kid is now entirely uninterested in sex and wholly interested in making it through the day. he's also so internalized the sex offender label that he could not perceive himself as anything else.
etc. etc. there is a story but it's a lame story and the book drags. i didn't even understand how it ended. i'm talking about the last 4 lines. i don't get them.
so, not a spectacular literary effort, but clearly banks cares about these guys and spends some serious effort trying to make the reader understand what goes on in the mind of the sex offender and what goes on in the society who punishes him so harshly.
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Reading Progress
| 02/01/2012 | page 180 |
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43.0% | "i'm talking a break from this. at this time i need cooing babies and frolicking puppies." |
| 02/16/2012 | page 267 |
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64.0% | "this is the third book in a row about which i don't care at all. finish it? not finish it?" |
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Aug 05, 2012 07:00am
Sex offenders for the most part are "too broke to be fixed". If you desire that they are given more "chances", go for it. The rest of us would like to be protected.
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Liz, did you even read the review? I had sex with a 15 year old when I was 19. I'm now a 45 year old mother, teacher, writer, citizen. Lucky for me, I guess that the age of consent back then was 14. Do you think you and your kids need to be protected from me? What if I had been 29? What if we had driven an hour south and across the border? Would that change things? "Child molesters" and "sex offenders" are not synonymous.
well actually true child molesters should probably be considered sex offenders. the problem is that many "sex offenders" who had sex with underage people are no child molesters at all (see angelhorn's example). the other tragic thing is that this is a label they carry for life (i think?) and that it is an extremely damning label. have you read the book, liz? the protagonist is not a sex offender in any sense at all except within the very narrow, very stupid parameters of a misguided piece of legislation.
Ah, the new excuse for whining that so many sex offenders are falsely accused. I notice Banksrelied on self report for his story's basis-----gee, do you think sec offenders might lie? Rapists don't just rape once. Sex offenders are prolific, because it's a crime that has a dismal conviction rate.
Here's three names for anybody interested in actual facts: Jimmy Savile, beloved Brit comedian, and serial child rapist;
David Lisak, author of "Meet the Predators";
And Marc O'Leary, the serial rapist and ex soldier who almost got away with it.
Anecdote does not equal data. Public urination and so on does not lay behind the majority of the names on these lists.
