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The House of Mirth
by Edith Wharton, Elizabeth Hardwick
by Edith Wharton, Elizabeth Hardwick
Dear Ms. Wharton,
I recently finished your book, The House of Mirth and am once again left disappointed. I so very much want to love your books. Your style of writing is beautiful and real, but the characters, oh the characters! I feel like I get to know them so well, and feel such hope for them, only to be crushed down at the end!
Let us not start with Lily Bart as that would be jumping in rather hastily. First, let's discuss the handsome Lawrence Selden, that book-loving, philosophical lawyer who sees Lily for the woman she is, not the creature society created. From the early stages, I had hopes that LS would be the slightly impoverished hero, who saves Lily from herself and damns society in the process. But, no! How quickly he is turned away, and falls out of love (or so he thinks) just because he sees something and jumps to a rash conclusion. If ol' Larry were half the man I thought he was, he would have believed more in Lily, and denied the rumors thrown at him. When she needed him most, he turned away. At the end, he still doesn't come through in time, and I think it's appropriate that he will live with this regret in his future.
"Society" - how dull, gossipy, boring, and spiteful they all seem! Is that the point you are trying to make? I can't help but wonder if you were once shunned by society in a similar fashion and have determined to exact your revenge through your writing. If that is the case, then can you have just one woman who doesn't care about whether or not she is society's darling, and one gentleman who is actually looking for a monogamous, committed relationship instead of all those spineless dolts who want a mistress and who don't have the hutzpah to stand up their own wives?
Now, Lily. Poor, expensive toy named Lily. Was she just a symbol for the potential in all woman to deny marriages of convenience and hope for actual love. Was she meant to come across as so indecisive and shallow? It seemed that every time things got rough, she went off on a luxury vacation that her friends, whom she often disliked, paid for. She seemed like a bit of a high-priced, if virginal, prostitute, unfortunately. I had such hopes for her but they were ultimately dashed.
There was one remarkable character, however; Gerty Farrish. She was smart, charitable, independent, strong, caring, and good. Of course, since she had neither money nor looks, she was relegated to the role of unmarryable old maid, subject to have her "friend" cry out her miseries while she actually tried to do good in the world.
Now, I know this may all seem a bit harsh, and I may be missing the point, but this is my third book by you, and I have yet to come to a full appreciation of your novels that a writer of your stature deserves. That is not to say I am giving up, merely that I'm watching, very carefully, for that hidden gem, that little bit that makes a reader think of an author with a heightened sense of awe. I think you may have it, and I shall continue looking.
Til then, requiat in pace, Ms. Wharton, until we meet again.
Your devoted, yet skeptical reader,
Paula
P.S. Where was the mirth?
I recently finished your book, The House of Mirth and am once again left disappointed. I so very much want to love your books. Your style of writing is beautiful and real, but the characters, oh the characters! I feel like I get to know them so well, and feel such hope for them, only to be crushed down at the end!
Let us not start with Lily Bart as that would be jumping in rather hastily. First, let's discuss the handsome Lawrence Selden, that book-loving, philosophical lawyer who sees Lily for the woman she is, not the creature society created. From the early stages, I had hopes that LS would be the slightly impoverished hero, who saves Lily from herself and damns society in the process. But, no! How quickly he is turned away, and falls out of love (or so he thinks) just because he sees something and jumps to a rash conclusion. If ol' Larry were half the man I thought he was, he would have believed more in Lily, and denied the rumors thrown at him. When she needed him most, he turned away. At the end, he still doesn't come through in time, and I think it's appropriate that he will live with this regret in his future.
"Society" - how dull, gossipy, boring, and spiteful they all seem! Is that the point you are trying to make? I can't help but wonder if you were once shunned by society in a similar fashion and have determined to exact your revenge through your writing. If that is the case, then can you have just one woman who doesn't care about whether or not she is society's darling, and one gentleman who is actually looking for a monogamous, committed relationship instead of all those spineless dolts who want a mistress and who don't have the hutzpah to stand up their own wives?
Now, Lily. Poor, expensive toy named Lily. Was she just a symbol for the potential in all woman to deny marriages of convenience and hope for actual love. Was she meant to come across as so indecisive and shallow? It seemed that every time things got rough, she went off on a luxury vacation that her friends, whom she often disliked, paid for. She seemed like a bit of a high-priced, if virginal, prostitute, unfortunately. I had such hopes for her but they were ultimately dashed.
There was one remarkable character, however; Gerty Farrish. She was smart, charitable, independent, strong, caring, and good. Of course, since she had neither money nor looks, she was relegated to the role of unmarryable old maid, subject to have her "friend" cry out her miseries while she actually tried to do good in the world.
Now, I know this may all seem a bit harsh, and I may be missing the point, but this is my third book by you, and I have yet to come to a full appreciation of your novels that a writer of your stature deserves. That is not to say I am giving up, merely that I'm watching, very carefully, for that hidden gem, that little bit that makes a reader think of an author with a heightened sense of awe. I think you may have it, and I shall continue looking.
Til then, requiat in pace, Ms. Wharton, until we meet again.
Your devoted, yet skeptical reader,
Paula
P.S. Where was the mirth?
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Reading Progress
| 07/25/2011 | page 184 |
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57.0% | "Ugh.. Do I have to go on? It's already clear what is going to happen to Lily and it's hard to watch. I really want to like Wharton, but she makes it all seem so.... Hopeless." 2 comments |
| 08/11/2011 | page 241 |
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74.0% |
""...she felt of no more account among them than an expensive toy in the hands of a spoiled child." (p.237) Great statement to summarize the sentiment of the book thus far." |
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What a marvelous review, Paula. Better reading than the book! You failed to point out that it was painfully obvious from the outset that our heroine would meet a bad end.
I've only read this one, Ethan Frome and Summer and all three have left me feeling disappointed. I know that all tragedies will end a certain way, I just had higher hopes for the characters. Her books just tend to be depressing, in my opinion. Her writing style is beautiful, so I'll try one more, but my expectations are a bit low at this point.
Lily had been too conditioned by the mother I think. She was like a beautiful bird that was in a cage with the door left unlocked and open a crack. She was still afraid or unable to escape (society). She did try to make those hats though. No? :) I always hesitate to blame Selden. She couldn't overcome her own demons, how could he do it for her? You are right, certainly no mirth.
I don't blame Selden for failing her, per se, I blame him for unquestioningly believing bad things about her. I give her credit for the hats, but that seemed a bit of a half-hearted attempt; she really just wanted to stand behind a counter and look pretty. I get that Wharton's novel is more tragedy, less mirth, but there was just too much Debbie Downer for me to enjoy it. Not that every book needs to be all Disney happy (actually, I don't like Disney happy in most books) but if you are going to portray a woman who is struggling against society to be true to herself in some way, then ending it that way just seems to imply that if you try to buck the trends of society, there's only one inevitable conclusion. I prefer hope!
You have done better than me Paula, I have only read Summer in addition to this one and it was so long ago I don't remember anything about it. You have certainly tried to give her a chance. I probably only keep looking at the up side because I have only read the one basically. I am curious about her other writings. I think that Lily was not the character that really reached anything definite in her battle with society. I think she was the in-between woman. Published in 1905, right? Society on the brink of change? young women on the brink of change maybe. I understand what you mean about a bit of happiness, a ray of hope. It is not the kind of book I could read every day either, but it did have some tone and qualities that spoke to me. I guess with Seldon, Lily had a long history before her and he knew it, a reputation of such serious husband-hunting -- she was about 10 years into her career at that point right? She would have been hard to trust.
I agree, the time in which it was written clearly played a huge role in the plot, and in the character development of Lily. Perhaps you are right - woman on the brink of change.... You may have something there, my friend.
So let me get this straight: because characters have failings and things don't go well for them you didn't consider the book or the author worthy of being considered with high regard?
Speaking only for myself: If the book doesn't move me in some way, either to sympathy, or empathy, or even disgust or horror, then the book fails for me. If the characters have failings and things don't go well for them, within a story that means something to me, then the author and the book are worthy of being considered, by me, with high regard. This book did not engage me in any way. I'm sure there are many others who feel differently.I don't see House of Mirth on your bookshelves. Have you read it? I'm curious to hear what you think of it.
Yes! I completely agree with you, although you have more hope in Ms. Wharton than I do. I have officially given up on her (after 3 books). Well said!
i completely disagree with your review. I think that the book that you wish Edith Wharton had written would be predictable and dull and doesn't ask the questions that the book she actually wrote does. Instead of criticizing Lily for her indecisiveness and Selden for the fact that he doesn't endlessly pursue Lily, ask why these characters are constantly removing themselves from the things they want? Lily wants to get married, and yet she destroys every opportunity she has for it. Selden wants Lily and yet he takes the first opportunity to believe in her shortcomings. These characters are not weak and indecisive, these characters are thoughtful and complex to the point of self-destructiveness. Also, while Lily is shallow, how much is this absolutely inherent to her being? When Lily is forced to live inside the dinginess she's spent her life condemning, she ultimately dies. While she has expensive taste, it is as necessary as food to her, and can she be criticized for that? The answer isn't a clear-cut no, but it's also not a clear-cut yes, and I think that's more important to what Edith Wharton was trying to write.


It's one of those oh-so-cheery Biblical quotations: but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth.
But I agree that Wharton's characters don't seem to get the mirth. It's like the punishment without the fun of the sin -- raw deal.