Buggy's Reviews > One Day
One Day (Movie Tie-in Edition)
by David Nicholls
by David Nicholls
Buggy's review
bookshelves: top, cryin-over-u, fiction, lmao, love-story, not-so-hea, shelf-11
Sep 29, 11
bookshelves: top, cryin-over-u, fiction, lmao, love-story, not-so-hea, shelf-11
Read from September 05 to 20, 2011
Opening Line: "I suppose the important thing is to make some sort of difference."
So I’m going to try to write a somewhat sensible review here that doesn’t come across as all gushy fan-girl. I will say (hopefully only once) that I adored this book but you should know that I'm a bit of a sucker for a tragedy too. ONE DAY was brilliant in every way; making me laugh and cry while filling me with nostalgia and longing. And because I’m the same age as Dexter and Emma the time frame here was also totally relatable (see nostalgia) with little details I had forgotten about from the past two decades.
Equal parts heartbreaking and hilarious yet also suspenseful as each chapter takes place a year to the day after the last one so you have to figure out what’s happened in that time between. And of course you want the H/h to get together so you’re waiting with bated breathe for them to finally “see” each other too. In the end this also made me want to seize the day like it’s my last, phone up all my long lost friends and lovers and look at old photographs. Hmmm and I haven’t even gotten into the genius of the writing yet (how do you put that into words?)
I knew that writing a review here was going to be difficult (when you love a book this much there doesn’t seem to be enough correct words to do it justice) and I promised myself to just keep this short and to the point so here goes... This is one of the most hilarious, perceptive, witty, moving and heartbreaking books I have ever read.
Told in 5 parts in alternating POV’s and over a span of twenty years Dexter Mayhew and Emma Morley meet in 1988. Em has just graduated from university and hooked up with that boy she’s seen around for ages. He is Dexter, beautiful, pretentious and in his mind destined for greatness. As the sun rises they drink wine and talk about their futures. They have their whole lives stretching out ahead of them in an endless number of days and isn’t it going to be wonderful they can achieve anything they want to.
Starting as lovers Dexter and Emma continue as friends and the book joins them on July 15th of each year (St Swithin’s day) through their 20’s and 30’s and into their 40’s. As anyone in their 40’s knows, life happens and it doesn’t always go as planned, missed opportunities and the like.
“When I was younger everything seemed possible. Now nothing does.”
Through phone calls and letters, in different countries and towns, through assorted relationships, jobs and life’s little surprises and ruts we join Em and Dex each year in a unique snapshot of their life. They don’t always get along but they do think about each other everyday in some way and in case you haven’t figured it out this is ultimately a love story.
I can’t say much more about this without giving it all away. But when I read the last word I wanted to start it again and nothing I’ve tried to read since compares. Cheers.
“Live each day as if it’s your last, that was the conventional advice, but really, who had the energy for that?”
So I’m going to try to write a somewhat sensible review here that doesn’t come across as all gushy fan-girl. I will say (hopefully only once) that I adored this book but you should know that I'm a bit of a sucker for a tragedy too. ONE DAY was brilliant in every way; making me laugh and cry while filling me with nostalgia and longing. And because I’m the same age as Dexter and Emma the time frame here was also totally relatable (see nostalgia) with little details I had forgotten about from the past two decades.
Equal parts heartbreaking and hilarious yet also suspenseful as each chapter takes place a year to the day after the last one so you have to figure out what’s happened in that time between. And of course you want the H/h to get together so you’re waiting with bated breathe for them to finally “see” each other too. In the end this also made me want to seize the day like it’s my last, phone up all my long lost friends and lovers and look at old photographs. Hmmm and I haven’t even gotten into the genius of the writing yet (how do you put that into words?)
I knew that writing a review here was going to be difficult (when you love a book this much there doesn’t seem to be enough correct words to do it justice) and I promised myself to just keep this short and to the point so here goes... This is one of the most hilarious, perceptive, witty, moving and heartbreaking books I have ever read.
Told in 5 parts in alternating POV’s and over a span of twenty years Dexter Mayhew and Emma Morley meet in 1988. Em has just graduated from university and hooked up with that boy she’s seen around for ages. He is Dexter, beautiful, pretentious and in his mind destined for greatness. As the sun rises they drink wine and talk about their futures. They have their whole lives stretching out ahead of them in an endless number of days and isn’t it going to be wonderful they can achieve anything they want to.
Starting as lovers Dexter and Emma continue as friends and the book joins them on July 15th of each year (St Swithin’s day) through their 20’s and 30’s and into their 40’s. As anyone in their 40’s knows, life happens and it doesn’t always go as planned, missed opportunities and the like.
“When I was younger everything seemed possible. Now nothing does.”
Through phone calls and letters, in different countries and towns, through assorted relationships, jobs and life’s little surprises and ruts we join Em and Dex each year in a unique snapshot of their life. They don’t always get along but they do think about each other everyday in some way and in case you haven’t figured it out this is ultimately a love story.
I can’t say much more about this without giving it all away. But when I read the last word I wanted to start it again and nothing I’ve tried to read since compares. Cheers.
“Live each day as if it’s your last, that was the conventional advice, but really, who had the energy for that?”
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Quotes Buggy Liked
“For some time now she has had the conviction that life is about to change if only because it must. . . .”
― David Nicholls, One Day
― David Nicholls, One Day
“...and once again Dexter is struck by how easy conversation can be when no-one is in their right mind”
― David Nicholls, One Day
― David Nicholls, One Day
Reading Progress
| 09/07/2011 | page 144 |
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33.0% | 3 comments |
| 09/19/2011 | page 353 |
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81.0% | "Om my god, I am so in love with this book!" |
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No I had no idea about that, so yeah I was super surprised. The thing is though I love a tragedy. To me the best romances are tragedies. THis was also just such a great coming of age story, especially if your around the 40 mark now
I had a super hard time picturing whats-er-name (escapes me now)-Academy awards, Devil wears Prada- as the lead though. I can't see how she could pull this off, especially the British accent. I wish I hadn't had her face in my brain while reading this, otherwise it was perfect.
I read somewhere that what happened to her had to in order for the story to go where it needed to (good grief, don't think I can get any vaguer than that, but I don't want to spoil). I suppose also that the way the book went is much truer to the way life works - arbitrary and unfair lots of times.I was 21 in 1988 so this would be a nostalgia read for me as well. I'm not sure about the crying part, though. Last sad book I read was Tuesdays with Morrie and I literally sobbed every time I picked the book up. I'm afraid to read anything sad nowadays, I'd probably have to be hospitalized, lol.
You're review is making me want to read it, so I'll send you the bill for all the kleenex if I do. :D
I would have to agree that this is very much about how real life is. Unfair and not going where you imagine its going to. I don't know that it was necessary for the story but it made it more poignant.Its very bittersweet because you see how full of hope they are at the beginning and I remember feeling that way. The world was my oyster. Now the world is some old piece of seaweed. LMAO.
I highly recommend it if for nothing else the writing is absolutely beautiful as well as very witty and I can't tell you how many "OMG thats exactly how I felt/feel" moments I had. Its very clever. Especially since you're the right age.
Remember when you never thought you'd be 40- thats ancient. I think they have that conversation on page 2, but then they are
5 stars, awesome! I can't wait to read this Buggy, I saw an interview with Anne and the concept behind the book sounded fascinating.
Excellent review as always, Buggy! It sounds like I'm of the same vintage so this is probably one I'll get a kick out of, too. On the pile it goes. :)
Thanks so much Lotus, Quinn and Nicole. I've always loved a tragedy so this really worked for me but I know lots of people need their HEA. I also adored the writing style
Wow, you really made me want to read this! Excellent review. What a satisfied feeling after finishing an amazing read.
Thanks Jennifer, I think you would really like this one. I'm still struggling to find something to read in the aftermath
This sounds so good! Great review, Buggy. I might even be willing to leave my cage and read it. Of course, Sawyer would have to come with me.
Thanks U-ITC, This was SO good. I recommend you leave your cage for several reasons. One so you can read this book but mostly so I can sneak in and get a little Sawyer time!!!
Just finished reading this book. I like to wait until after I've finished to look at the reviews. I hadn't read any spoilers so I was completely torn apart while reading. This book grabbed onto me and wouldn't let go. I started yesterday, slept a few hours last night and finished just now. I was bawling way before the great tragedy. I think I started when Dex and Em were in the maze at Tilly's wedding. Needless to say, my eyes are red and swollen and I have a bit of a headache (and my family thinks I've lost my mind). It was just such a REAL journey of their lives that we only got snapshots of. The author was brilliant to have been able to pull off such little glimpses into 20 years of life and make me feel as if these people were my best friends who I love dearly.Your review summed up my feelings perfectly. I, too, wanted to turn to the beginning and read it all again when I read that last line.
Hi Tonya, I always wait before reading reviews too. Wasn't this just the greatest book. I agree the author was brilliant. I also liked trying to figure ut what had happened in the year since we last saw them. What about that letter that Evan wrote (early on) that got lost in Em's book? Gah that killed me. Yup this made me cry too and I had a tough time trying to find something to read that compared on any level afterwards. I wonder how the movie will compare?
Dex's letter - I know! I kept waiting for it to show up later because the book actually had Emma's old London (I think) address in it. But, of course, it never did. He finally put it all out there and his horndog ADD kicked in and he probably never thought of it again.I finished it early in the day and I actually didn't start another book yesterday. I just couldn't do it. One of the quotes on my profile page is:
“A great book should leave you with many experiences, and slightly exhausted at the end. You live several lives while reading.”
― William Styron
That's how I felt. Exhausted!
I read somewhere yesterday that David Nicholls actually wrote the screenplay for the movie. That makes it sound promising to me. Maybe it will actually follow the book pretty closely. We can only hope.
Buggy,You are so right! I nodded my head so many times while reading your review, because I felt the same way when I read this book last summer. AMEN!!!
Thanks so much Komet. This is one of those books that has stuck with me, even now 6 months later. Glad you liked the review.
Thanks Vix, this was fantastic. Still haven't seen the movie but I will definetly be reading this again.
Such great memories thinking of this book. Just finished it a couple of weeks ago. I bawled, I mean, Bawled, while reading it. The movie was good too, but come on, just can't beat the book. I bawled at the movie too, more so just thinking of the book. Great review, I agree, just one of those books that stay with you!



Did you know about that part when you started reading it?