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When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chödrön

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Jul 10, 11

Read from June 28 to July 10, 2011

This was a wonderful read, quite short, but to the point. My only complaints were that, as with many other esoteric texts that are non-Western based, the author resorted to lingo within the Buddhist tradition. Since I have a poor memory, I'd often pick up the book the next day, or a few days later, and wonder what "tonglen" meant. I'd have to backtrack a few chapters. This happened a few times. The other complaint was that, after about three-fourths of the way in, the instruction seemed to fizzle. I was waiting for some bang-holy-crap moment towards the end, I guess. I was probably biased since I started this book in the middle of a deep and hopeless depression, but by the time I was done with it, I was feeling much better. I would say, however, that a good part of the reason why I was feeling better by about two-thirds of the way in was because this book really spoke to me. It brought me out of the despair I was feeling and forced me to sit and take an honest look at why I was feeling so miserable. When I stopped trying to escape, to numb the pain away, and actually face my fears, my depression, and my sadness, I really felt it. It hurt real bad. But I was able to cultivate kindness towards it and feel compassion for myself. I'm putting the teachings into practice with hope they'll become habit eventually. I took this book out of the library, but I'm going to buy my own copy and reread it regularly. It's full of good things and I highly recommend it to anyone who is going through their own dark night of the soul.

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Reading Progress

06/28/2011 page 32
22.0%
07/06/2011 page 100
68.0% "I borrowed this book from the library, but I'm going to buy a copy and read it like scripture. It hits home so powerfully, especially as I'm going through the worst depression in about a decade now. It's helping me deal directly with my pain and I'm learning to feel my emotions rather than pushing them aside and suffering for long periods of time. Definitely recommend to anyone who is experiencing very hard times."
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