I find this book comforting. Ted Hughes, who's character seemed hard to me due to his tumultuous marriage to Sylvia Plath, brilliantly, eloquently shares his thoughts and experiences so openly that I'm left feeling like we know each other. How well he speaks my own thoughts. I'm left learning that same lesson over again, that there is no black and white, no good and bad, just people doing the best they can with what they've got. Thank you Ted.