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  <title>Between Two Worlds: The Inner Lives of Children of Divorce</title>
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    <body><![CDATA[Interesting and sensitively written book that showcases the author's research on children of divorce. Marquardt points out that there has been almost no research on the spiritual development of children whose parents have split up. Based on her study, those children interpret religious imagery very differently than children from intact families do. The notion of God as a parent affects them in a different way--some say, &quot;Great, a father who is with me everywhere I go and whom I can always talk to,&quot; while others say, &quot;Thanks, but I already have a mysterious, faraway father who ignores me.&quot;<br/><br/>Children of divorce also struggle with moral questions much earlier than most children——Why did this happen to me? How come Mom has one truth and Dad has another? Am I a different person with Mom than I am with Dad, or do I just feel different? Is it disloyal to act like (or sound like, or look like) one parent when I am with the other?<br/><br/>The author describes many of her own experiences as a child who suffered through her parents' divorces and remarriages. She believes that she became a fundamentalist Christian as a teenager for the same reasons that other teenage girls develop eating disorders--to control the body and numb the mind.<br/><br/>Marquardt has little good to say about society's idea of a &quot;good divorce&quot; and hates the term &quot;blended family.&quot; (She says &quot;divided family&quot; would be more accurate, and she has a point.)]]></body>
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