I picked this one up from the Valentine's display at the library and read it in a couple of hours on a Saturday afternoon. I like to read a marriage book once a year and this was a good one. It is a straightforward analysis of how men think and feel. I like the statistical, survey approach. I like the Christian perspective. Some of the writer's analogies and comparisons were helpful and memorable. This quick read is a good reminder about men's yearning for respect, their performance anxiety, the intensity of their pressure to provide, their view of romance, how sex affects their well-being, and many more topics. It goes beyond "man are visual" to explain exactly how this tendency operates in their lives. It goes beyond "men see romance differently" to explain what is romantic to a man. This book helped me understand my sons as well as my husband better.