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Graceling by Kristin Cashore

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bookshelves: ya-na, fantasy, 2011, annoying, wtf-sexism
Read from May 06 to 07, 2011



First thing I need to point out is that I consider myself a feminist, even as far as to take an active role is such matters. Previously, I have written articles on Feministing and I honestly think so many of these issues are still very important in today's world. However you look at it, the battle for equality has not been won and has, in fact, become rather dormant.

On that note, I love reading fiction by feminist writers, Atwood never fails to deliver and The Handmaid's Tale is one of my favourite books of all time. Similarly with Virginia Woolf's A Room of One's Own, except Woolf's writing can make you want to slit your wrists at times. The point of me saying this is that when I heard Graceling called 'feminist propaganda', rather than being repelled, I was intrigued. I love modern stories with strong heroines who can stand up for themselves and don't need to wait for prince charming to swoop in and save them. Katsa fit this in many ways, true, but I have so many issues with the feminist ideals in this novel that I don't know where to begin.

I am constantly faced with the irritating irony of radical feminists. The irony being that their favourite passtime is telling women what to do. Real feminism (as in the one that actually cares about women) is about choice, not about having to follow strict guidelines in order to banish the image of feminity. It's people like Kristin Cashore who make the term 'feminism' seem like a dirty word. Being strong and capable of making your own decisions is one thing... but the extremes of having to prove that you don't care about your looks or refusing to wear a dress is ridiculous. I wear dresses, I wear make-up, I like to make the effort to look nice... but in Cashore's world that means I'm a weak, pathetic wannabe-housewife.

For me, the main mistake that Cashore makes is to assume that anything 'girly' is bad. It's an ongoing debate about women and feminism. For example, take the stereotype that women are more emotional and are therefore more weak than men. The argument is: Is this wrong and women are not more emotional? Or does what's wrong lie in the idea that emotions are a weakness because they are a feminine trait? Radical feminism continues to try and spit on traditional aspects of what it means to be feminine. Of course, it is arguable that the idea of 'feminine' is created through socialisation (e.g. dressing babies in either pink or blue depending on gender), but it has long been my opinion that if you take the colour pink (a worldwide symbol of the female gender) and make it into something that should be disgusting, then that's about as anti-woman as you can get.

Margaret Atwood understood the dangers of radicalism and wrote the novel to go with it. In the same way that extreme socialism becomes the mirror of totalitarianism, radical feminism begins to mirror sexism. And that's why I had issues with a great deal of Graceling.

But... what I did like was the love story between Katsa and Po, once Katsa got over the idea that he would somehow take possession of her after sex. Po was a sweetheart and an all-round likeable character. And, don't get me wrong, I never really disliked Katsa because the fact that she refuses to wear a dress and doesn't want children is entirely her choice and that's what's important. I liked her strength and at many times I felt her frustration... particularly with regards to the girls throughout the kingdoms who were never taught to protect themselves because their fathers and brothers were expected to do it. I completely agree with the idea that the girls should have been taught self-defence and self-sufficiency.

The whole backdrop of magical kingdoms and whatnot was alright. It fit nicely around the main characters but I found the love story to hold most of my attention and that's why I've decided that I don't want to read Fire. The reviews of it tell me that romance comes far behind the whole fantasy aspect and I still have Tolkien nightmares. Yeah so, not a bad story but so many things disagreed with what I stand for.

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Kwesi 章英狮 Great review! I might read this book next and by the way nice articles.


Emily May Kwesi 章英狮 wrote: "Great review! I might read this book next and by the way nice articles."

Thank you :) It is definitely worth the read!


Lisa O. On the contrary, I think Fire is more satisfying than Graceling if you consider the romantic aspect. I even think I liked Fire better than Graceling, all considered, the story is better developed But hey, that's my opinion.


Emily May Lisa wrote: "On the contrary, I think Fire is more satisfying than Graceling if you consider the romantic aspect. I even think I liked Fire better than Graceling, all considered, the story is better developed B..."

Really? I might change my mind then. I'll see how I feel next time it becomes available at my local library :)


Lisa O. It's true that most reviews find it less romantic. I guess I liked the fact that Fire is less Rambo-woman than Katsa and in Fire the love story comes to a definite end while in Graceling is a bit left hanging in the air. I read those books a while ago, before I even started with Goodreads but that is what struck me most. Also, if you're not going to buy it but borrow it at the library then you should give it a try... these books have definitely a different taste than your average YA fantasy - if you consider them YA, that is. I don't.


message 6: by Elisa (new)

Elisa Paige I enjoyed your review for many reasons -- the most important one, personal.

My nine-year-old daughter is at that point where she's no longer a little girl, but she's not a teenager either. She loves sports, loves being active, loves getting messy, and considers herself a tomboy. But she also loves pretty clothes, having her hair curled, and leopard print sandals (grin).

I've explained to her that being a tomboy isn't about fitting one mold or acting in one way because that's what others expect. It's about being true to yourself. Always. (I believe this is feminism's ideal.)

So when I read your review, I smiled.

Thank you! Brava! Kudos!

- Elisa


Emily May Elisa wrote: "I enjoyed your review for many reasons -- the most important one, personal.

My nine-year-old daughter is at that point where she's no longer a little girl, but she's not a teenager either. She l..."


Thanks for taking the time to read my review and for your comments. I love the fact that you're daughter already feels comfortable enough to be true to all aspects of her personality at such a young age. Best wishes to you both :)


Meishuu I think that is the most important part: Being true to yourself (and this comes from a really un-feminine woman).
Great review, by the way.


Emily May Thanks and well said! :)


message 10: by I, Curmudgeon (new)

I, Curmudgeon "Margaret Atwood understood the dangers of radicalism and wrote the novel to go with it. In the same way that extreme socialism becomes the mirror of totalitarianism, radical feminism begins to mirror sexism. And that's why I had issues with a great deal of Graceling. "

That is a wonderful statement about anything-ism. (Including Schauvanism, sexism, feminism or racism). I like to call it the animal farm principle.

I was linked from another review on this book and, in my work, I have had to deal with this kind of thing from both sides so I followed the link here.

I like this review. Thank you very much for your thoughts.


Amanda I'd argue against the idea that Cashmore's main aspect was to make anything 'girly' bad. This isn't set in the time frame of the present where we all have an opportunity to where girly clothes and jewellery. This is more of a medieval place, and I would imagine only people of considerable wealth would have the ability to wear these things. Katsa never mentions that she is resentful of women in the inns wearing dresses, I think it's just the fact that she is dressed up and paraded around her Uncle's dining table. As for her short hair and pants the rest of the time, its convenience because she's a fighter and doesn't need anything getting in her way. I think in a modern setting it would definitely work for the argument of putting down any kinds of feminism, but not in this setting.


Emily May Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Amanda.

I think the problem for me, regardless of the time period the novel was set in, was not so much Katsa herself but the disdain she had for the other more typically feminine women. I also thought that whole show she put on about somehow feeling degraded because she had to wear a dress was silly and the idea that she could not have sex with a man without him somehow owning her is ridiculous. I often wonder what Cashore was thinking with this latter issue - surely that is a very sexist way to look at things? But, I don't know, this book seems to cause quite a few debates between readers because it can be interpreted in multiple ways. I'm glad you were able to enjoy it more :)


Amanda The part that got me was how women were 'protected' by sons and fathers, yet no one seemed to notice the failure of that. It seems illogical for them to argue that. Either way the book definitely makes you think!


message 14: by Jess (new) - rated it 4 stars

Jess Just wanted to add that Bitterblue was my favourite in the series. I really liked Bitterblue and her love interest (i forget his name right now), but because of this book its worth reading through Fire (which was my least favourite of the series, but it was still ok)Just had to add my two cents!


Emily May Thanks Jess, hopefully I can get back to this series eventually :)


Greta Marlow You've hit on the two things that bothered me most about this book - glad to see I wasn't the only one.


Emily May Thanks, Greta :)


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