Finally got around to reading this - I bought a copy when Febos came to the Olympia library. And of course, the insight into the world of the dungeons and deeds of the professional dominatrix is fascinating. But what I was really impressed me was the honest way Febos exposed herself, deconstructed the world, and discussed the complexity of life. I especially identified with her relatively trauma-free childhood, her disdain for innocence, her intelligence. Fascinating, and it made me seriously think about my own life. Read it in two sick days home from work. And one of very few adult books I get to read these days.