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Not Quite a Husband by Sherry Thomas

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Jan 02, 11

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Read from December 30 to 31, 2010

Sherry Thomas is an extraordinarily talented author. Her prose is letter perfect, and her study of a fractured relationship is second to none. She is a master of the slow-reveal, feeding the reader the pieces of the puzzle with a brilliant sense of timing, steadily drawing the reader in, engaging their emotions exquisitely and placing them firmly and personally within the hidden, private depths of a broken marriage.

In Not Quite a Husband, Sherry will lead you to question your notions of right and wrong, and show you that sometimes there is no clear answer or even purpose to assigning blame.

How do you move forward, when, having long believed yourself the victim, you discover that the failure of your marriage could more accurately be placed upon your shoulders? That you can no longer claim the high ground? When your behaviours prove more abhorrent than that one misdeed of his? When you finally, finally realise what you never knew you had and were too blind to see?

She had a sudden vision of herself as a wizened old physician, her hands too arthritic to wield a scalpel, her eyes too rheumy to diagnose anything except measles and chicken pox. The wizened old physician would very much like to drink tea next to her wizened old professor, chuckle over the passionate follies of their distant youth, and then go for a walk along the river Cam, holding his paper-dry liver-spotted hand.

How ironic that when they’d been married, she’d never thought of growing old with him. Yet now, years after the annulment, she should think of it with the yearning of an exile, for the homeland that had long ago evicted her.


What if you made one stupid mistake, and it cost you everything you hold dear, your very future? If there was nothing you could ever do to make it right, no way to repair the damage? If you were forever destined to live your life as a shadow, trapped in the wanting of what you can never have?

Amazing what a man thought of, looking at a fully clothed woman who did nothing more provocative than sipping her tea while gazing thoughtfully into the distance.

For the thousandth time he wished he’d just met her. That they were but two strangers traveling together, that such lovely, filthy thoughts did not break him in two, but were only a pleasant pastime as he slowly fell under the spell of her aloof beauty and her hidden intensity.

There were so many stories he could tell her, so many ways to draw her out of her shell. He would have waited with baited breath for her first smile, for the sound of her first laughter. He would be endlessly curious about her, eager to undress her metaphorically as well as physically.

The first holding of hands. The first kiss. The first time he saw her unclothed. The first time they became one.

The first time they finished each other’s sentences.

But no, they’d met long ago, in the furthest years of his childhood. Their chances had come and gone. All they had ahead of them were a tedious road and a final good-bye.


And what then, when you discover this truth? That the carnage of your life, the years of torture and heartache, the loss of your dreams and future, all of this could all have been saved by the simple act of honesty and communication. Would you then be forced to live with the regret, which must surely be more powerful and devastating than all that has come before?

Neither Bryony Asquith nor Leo Marsden are as they first appear. The author gradually provides the reader with both Leo and Bryony’s perspectives on their disastrous marriage and the years since the annulment, along with details of their respective lives before they met. Thus you come to learn about the characters and understand their behaviour.

Not Quite a Husband is an extremely poignant and moving tale, plumbing the depths of emotions with heartbreaking insight and hindsight. Set against the majestic backdrop of India in rebellion, this book, along with the extraordinary Private Arrangements are must-reads for any lover of complex - and at times dark - historical romance.

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Reading Progress

12/30/2010 page 156
46.0% ""Thank you," she added. He smiled briefly, a sweet smile that drove a bead of pain deep into her heart. "It's no hardship to hold your hand."" 15 comments
12/31/2010 page 157
46.0% ""It was strange to be talking like this, of ordinary things, when the sky had fallen."" 2 comments
12/31/2010 page 341
100.0% "Excellent!"

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new_user *gasp* You haven't read this yet? Why didn't I see that?!


message 2: by Quinn (last edited Dec 30, 2010 06:50pm) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Quinn Shocking, I know! I had such an amazing experience with Private Arrangements that I didn't want to be disappointed.


new_user Well, I thought it was PA improved! So hopefully you'll enjoy it too! :D


Quinn Ooooh, that's exciting to know! Here's hoping I feel the same!


Maldivianbookreviewer I loved this one!! Leo *sigh*


Quinn So far, so good, MBR! I like the slow-reveal of each character.


new_user She does that well.

Also, Leo. *sigh* LOL.


Maldivianbookreviewer new_user: I know!! Leo just totally invaded my heart, body and soul as his character was revealed. I love him to bits and then some ^_^


Quinn Can I join in the chorus? Leo. *sigh*


 Lady Jayne *~*The Beach Bandida*~* Oh!! I want to be sighing over Leo, too!!! Guess I'll need to step this up my TBR!


Quinn Yes, step it up, Jayne. It's really good so far (but oh so sad, too, so make sure you're in the right mood). Leo, Leo, Leo....


 Lady Jayne *~*The Beach Bandida*~* I think I'm ready for something emotional again now. So, should I read this before Private Arrangements, Quinn?


Quinn Tammy asked me the same question, Jayne, and it's hard to answer because I'm only halfway through this one.

While they are both about fractured relationships and the impact one mistake can have, I found Private Arrangements more confronting because of the animosity portrayed.

This one I am finding just so sad. There is a lot of angst, but not the same level of vindictiveness (which in some ways makes it more heartbreaking to read).

As you've seen, although Leo is not blameless, he is also a wonderful character - which again makes the situation so much sadder. But, I think this is probably a less confronting/traumatic taste of the author's style (which, in a word, is magnificent).

I don't think you can go wrong with either, Jayne, but I'm happy to chat further once I'm finished if that helps!


 Lady Jayne *~*The Beach Bandida*~* Yes, that would be good, thanks, Quinn! I'm trying to decide on what my first book for 2011 will be. Hmmm....


Quinn Ooooh, what are the options?


 Lady Jayne *~*The Beach Bandida*~* Oh, like over 400 choices! LOL But I'm in the mood now for an emotional HR. I have Untamed and all Pamela Clare's other historicals. I've heard a lot of great things about Catherine Anderson's Comanche Moon and that arrived in the last couple weeks. Anne Stuart's House of Rohan. I'm not sure which one to read!


Quinn No wonder you can't pick - they're all excellent choices! Although I haven't read Comanche Moon (can't get it from the library), I've heard excellent things about it. I really loved the first two House of Rohan, and of course you can't go wrong with Pamela Clare. Eeny, meeny, miny, mo!


message 18: by Lady Jayne *~*The Beach Bandida*~* (last edited Dec 31, 2010 04:24am) (new) - rated it 5 stars

 Lady Jayne *~*The Beach Bandida*~* Yeah, I think I may just make a pile of my choices and just close my eyes and grab one. See which one is fated to be my first read of the year. ^_^ Quinn, once I've read Comanche Moon, I'd be happy to lend it to you. I could post it to you and then you just post it back when you're done.


 Lady Jayne *~*The Beach Bandida*~* Ha! I picked Comanche Moon! Too funny! ^_^


message 20: by Quinn (last edited Dec 31, 2010 04:38am) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Quinn LOL! Fate again!

That's so unbelievably sweet that you would offer to do that, Jayne. Thank you soooo much. *hugs* I just checked and it's available at The Book Depository, so if you think it's a winner, I will just order it. Amazingly, that will be cheaper than the cost of posting it in Australia. I ♥ TBD!

You're the best, Jayne! I hope you love Comanche Moon.

And BTW -




 Lady Jayne *~*The Beach Bandida*~* I ♥ TBD, too! That's where I ordered it from! Hey, no worries, I don't mind sharing. ^_^




new_user Quinn is right about NQaH. I suggest to people sometimes that they read Private Arrangements first because NQaH has more satisfying resolution/hope, and it's more sexy, but the premise is similar to Private Arrangements, so NQaH seems like an improvement upon PA in that sense. I don't want readers who decide to read her backlist to feel like they're downgrading.

Then again, if it's your first impression of this writer, you want to start with the best, right?


message 23: by Keri (new) - rated it 4 stars

Keri Great review! I agree about all the comments made about ST. While this isn't one of my most favorite book of hers it was still a really good intense emotional read.


Quinn Thanks, Keri. What was your favourite ST? I'm looking forward to reading her other books.


message 25: by Keri (new) - rated it 4 stars

Keri Quinn I love them all, but His At Night is my absolute fav.


Quinn Well that's something to look forward to! I was going to read Delicious next because it is loosely connected to this one, which I didn't realise.


message 27: by Keri (new) - rated it 4 stars

Keri Yes it is and Delicious was really good as well. ST can really get your emotions in a twist with these books. She is so talented.


Tammy Walton Grant Absolutely awesome review, Quinn. Your feelings for the book came through so clearly, I can't wait to read it. Again, nice work. :)


Lady Danielle aka The Book Huntress Great review, Quinn.


Quinn Aww, thanks, Tammy! I really hope you love it too!


Quinn Thanks, Danielle!


Catherine Fabulous review, Quinn! This book was so powerful, and one of the few that worked for me even with one of my big taboos in romance.


Quinn Thanks, Catherine! Yes, it did have one of your big taboos, didn't it! It says a lot for her writing that you enjoyed this one. ^_^


message 34: by new_user (last edited Jan 03, 2011 09:38pm) (new) - rated it 5 stars

new_user I completely agree about her study of relationships too. When are you reading Delicious? I'm a little afraid it won't be as good as the rest, but I eat up even her lesser works, LOL.


Tammy Walton Grant Catherine, what is your big taboo?


Catherine Quinn wrote: "Thanks, Catherine! Yes, it did have one of your big taboos, didn't it! It says a lot for her writing that you enjoyed this one. ^_^"

She definitely has some major skill. Her other ones haven't worked as well for me, but I still have His at Night to try.


Catherine Tammy wrote: "Catherine, what is your big taboo?"

Cheating. I don't care how narrow minded it makes me seem, I just cannot get behind a cheater. I liked this one despite myself. :)


Tammy Walton Grant Not narrow-minded at all -- you just know what you like to read about. I'm like that with erotic historicals. There's a line for me between steamy and erotic and when a book crosses it, it just makes me feel icky. Not that I don't like erotica on it's own; I just don't like it in my historical romance.


Quinn new_user wrote: "I completely agree about her study of relationships too. When are you reading Delicious? I'm a little afraid it won't be as good as the rest, but I eat up even her lesser works, LOL."

I'm going to give it a little space after this one, NU. I want to make sure it isn't competing in my mind with NQaH and has a chance on it's own. I guess I have the same worries as you about it standing up to my first 2 reads. But you're right, NU, even her lesser works have to be great! Do you have Delicious?


new_user Yep, I just haven't gotten around to reading it. Wanna read it together? :)


Quinn Love to! I might order it in a couple of weeks, if that works for you?


new_user Sounds good! :)


Catherine Tammy wrote: "Not narrow-minded at all -- you just know what you like to read about. I'm like that with erotic historicals. There's a line for me between steamy and erotic and when a book crosses it, it just m..."

Just historical? Curiosity compels me to ask--what exactly about erotic historicals don't you like?


 Lady Jayne *~*The Beach Bandida*~* Excellent review, Quinn!


Quinn Thanks, Jayne! Did you like it? I shall go and hunt down your review/updates.


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