I am not planning on go celibate, but I loved how this book challenged current thinking about how the church talks about sex and thinking that sex is really an act between two people and doesn't effect others - but rather if the church could hold more open conversation about sex then we could all learn and grow in it.

I really like Lauren Winner's other books - they tell her story - so knowing that history I read this book maybe differently than I would have if I didn't have that history.