I enjoyed reading this book. I saw one of their episodes on my mom's TV (the one about their house being built) and it was the first time I'd ever heard of them. I didn't hear much more about them til their latest baby ended up in the hospital.
I dont' really see why people get so upset about other people living their own lives to the best of their conscience. The whole 'overpopulation' myth has been debunked for ages. Everyone is going to do something you don't like or agree with. Someone made a complaint about them using paper plates (which I also dont' like, but is it better to use all the water it would take to wash that many dishes every day?) but what about all the books that are printed and so many other things that are wasteful? I recycle loads of mail (most of it junk) every week.
I was impressed with this couple, Jim Bob and Michelle. They decided early on what their convictions and priorities were and they have mostly stuck with them through it all. How many of us have actually made that distinction in our lives and then dedicated ourselves and our family to it? I know I have fallen short! They have incredible faith in God. I love the stories they shared about how He answered their prayers. Too many times I think I have to make my own way and it was a good reminder to me to rely more on Him. He wants to bless His children.
I also liked some of the parenting tips and the reminder to speak more softly as I have had an anger problem since having children as well. I know it is hard, but I believe with a more concerted effort I can overcome that fault.
I love the homeschooling part too because we have discussed it a lot. I think it's ridiculous when people say these kids are brainwashed. Aren't all kids? Whatever we as parents, or teachers at school teach kids, it could be considered brainwashing. To the people who believe in global warming, I'm sure they 'brainwash' their kids about being 'green' and other things. So anytime you're teaching your kids your own beliefs, you could be brainwashing them. But I guess we only call it that when they are being taught something other than our personal beliefs! I come from a family with 6 kids, and no it wasn't love and hugs all the time, but we did get a long a lot better than some of the families I saw with less children. It seems families with 2 or 3 kids have the most sibling rivalry in my experience.
I also liked their commitment to being debt free and their examples of how The Lord helps them keep that commitment.
Overall this book helped strengthen my own faith, gave me confidence to more and rely on the Lord more.
The recipes are pretty horrible if you were expecting them to eat healthfully, but I bet they taste good!
I agree that some of their answers seem over the top sunshine and roses, even the new daughter in law. But if you've ever been around someone that really immerses themselves in their faith, they seem a little unreal. I think it just gives me more incentive to overcome the natural man and be more Christ-like. Even if others find me unbelievable or hard to relate to.