Not the bad, but nothing so much amazing.
The best and most important thing for me is near beginning - that men can love deeply mainly during and after good sex. That sex helps them to open their love - and their beloved ones. And it helps them to feel anything at all.
My boyfriend told me often in the past that he has sex with me because he loves me. I denied it angrily - "No, this is not true! You has sex with because you want have sex, because your own pleasure! Don´t lie to me!"
But he WAS right. And I was on mistake.
I didn´t know it. (And I couldn´t know it, because women have no direct conecting between sex and love: they can enjoy sex deeply only if they feel loved before sex - which is true for me, too, but they can´t feel more love during and after sex if they didn´feel deep love before it. All women react similar. And when John Gray told that women commonly don´t believe in conecting between sex and love by men - yes, I was such common case, too!)
I am so sorry! After reading it, I apollogized him immediately, and he forgave me. :o)
/But, not all men feel love after sex, I fear. When some man doesn´t love some woman and only want to have sex, after it will be no more love, maybe more disgust for her - as his plaything, as "whore". He must like her mindestens a little from beginning - and after that, he will feel more love for her. Sex is no miracle. :o)
John Gray writes about love and sex in serious relationships, mainly in marriage, also all "his" couples are in love and they need help only for feeling more love and bigger happiness. I live in such relationshio, too, also this book fits me very well.)