probably may not be the type that i would re-read again but this is one book i'd surely would love to recommend to chic-lit and sophie kinsella fans..probably may not be the type that i would re-read again but this is one book i'd surely would love to recommend to chic-lit and sophie kinsella fans... i love this book -- so much witty and crazy stuff, and laugh-out-loud moments!...more
I usually just get tears from reading when the storyline is a bit boring and I am just simply forcing myself at least for the sake of getting to the eI usually just get tears from reading when the storyline is a bit boring and I am just simply forcing myself at least for the sake of getting to the end of it. The tears were of course induced by drowsiness. A professor once told me that there is a connection between feeling sleepy and lacking capacity to understand during class. I have to do the long introduction because the first thing that I love about “my imaginary ex” is the fact that characters are gradually introduced, it lets the audience get the feel of each individual personalities, for a moment get creative and imagine it as if it’s a scene from a movie, or at least a time spared to feel as if you knew the characters personally. I can only handle 3 to 4 characters introduced first time in a chapter, if it exceeds the number there will definitely be confusion in my head. The attachment was perfectly built as the story progresses, in short, I never lost focus on the lead characters, that by the time I hit this particular line: “Because it looked like everyone knew it but us, and that made me want to cry“, a tear fell from my eye, as if I was Jasmine.
I guess I will never get over Chapter 11, I was so moved by Zack’s sweetness as Jasmine reminisces. I felt like for a moment I stole the Jasmine part and played it myself in the movie, like I was the one experiencing everything.
And then it’s past midnight, way past bedtime but I kept turning one more page, too eager to know what happened next. I struggled to keep my strong personality intact but when time brought me to this line, “Can we talk now?” I finally became aware of the big lump in my throat. It stayed there as I quickly read through and until there were real tears, overflowing this time.
I think this isn’t just about finding love, to me the impact of it is inspiring, from having been beautifully and creatively written, to hoping and never losing the grip no matter what, to having the courage and no longer staying stuck waiting.
Favorite line from Zack: “I hated that guy from the start and I never lied to you about it. I let you stay with him because you kept choosing to go back. Even when I was just there the whole time.”...more
As posted in my facebook status: I love this book. I was so moved while reading. At first I cried, then was filled with anger, then I got stuck with tAs posted in my facebook status: I love this book. I was so moved while reading. At first I cried, then was filled with anger, then I got stuck with this emotion and heard myself say out loud "he's an ass! he's an ass!" and then I think there's a couple of scenes that made me laugh out loud, some part where i was laughing out loud then was also teary-eyed at the same time. And then there were pages where I read over and over because it was so well written. And then out loud, I'd say "oh my god! oh my god!".
I don't know why some people would not agree but my verdict remains the same: five stars for Mina V. Esguerra! I'm such a fan!...more
**spoiler alert** I couldn’t say I did not appreciate the book. Fair enough, Collins was able to give it a graceful ending (even if my bet remained to**spoiler alert** I couldn’t say I did not appreciate the book. Fair enough, Collins was able to give it a graceful ending (even if my bet remained to be Gale for Katniss). I think I expected way too much for the book, that a great part of the book specifically the early chapters, left me wanting more from Collins. I was hoping the last book was more thrilling, only it was a late bloomer. I wanted to keep Finnick alive towards the end, wished it was Annie they killed instead. There were just so many insignificant inserts to the plot that most times led me to wonder non-related stuff, or had me wondering what happened to the mother? I wished Collins had considered a strong emphasis on the mother’s character and its importance. It could have supported Katniss and Prim’s role in the Mockingjay. I find Katniss here less appealing, less of a hero and very weak to be “the mockingjay”....more
**spoiler alert** Dreamland to most of us is a venue where we could momentarily escape reality. It could be a place where a medium of communication fo**spoiler alert** Dreamland to most of us is a venue where we could momentarily escape reality. It could be a place where a medium of communication for a lost loved one is possible. At least for me, that's how it is.
What happens if everything has been altered and there's nothing you can do but stay stuck? Perhaps, pray that someone would see things through and save you. Being stuck in the dreamland as Sarah Dessen had described, is like drowning. You can't just pull yourself up. Like gravity, it could be beyond control.
Caitlin is surrounded with all the people that she loved but she never recognized how much they too love her. She contained herself into believing that everybody’s too occupied when her sister left. She grew tired of dealing with people reminding her of her loss. She didn’t need sympathy. All she wanted is silence. She wanted to start clean slate and not a single trace of her sister and the memories shared with her. It’s when Rogerson’s perfect timing gets in the picture. He divides the world for her and in him is the so-called dreamland where she can find solitude in his company. It sets her free. She was willing herself to do anything just to stay affixed with that isolation. What she got herself into is not the typical dreamland but it sure has the same essence, an addicting factor, where comfort level’s been intact, it’s the kind where you can’t just stay away, like there are no other options.
Sure, it can be all that bad. Caitlin found another venue to cope with her loss – photography (one thing, I could really relate to).
“Behind the camera, I was invisible. When I lifted it up to my eye it was like I crawled into the lens, losing myself there, and everything else fell away.”
The photos had become instrumental to her “awakening”. Every single time she describes a photo she just took, it triggers her senses, allowing herself to rationalize what situation she got herself into. Rogerson doesn’t want his photo taken. His photos, accidentally taken, were described four times in the book, one is where both him and Caitlin looking very happy and in love, while the rest were all in parallel to the negative side of him. Rogerson doesn’t want his photo taken; the same way as he doesn’t want to show the real him. The other significant photo was Caitlin’s self-portrait, only in the late part of the story had she realized that she after all doesn’t want it and it was only after her recovery to that long slumber. She ripped it off until it was in tiny bits. She ceased from throwing it away, part of the healing process perhaps. Somebody had stopped her. I realized here that despite our imperfections and shortcomings, a life is still never wasted. At our own pace, we can decide to get it all together, piece by piece until we’re whole again. In the end, that’s all that matters and not how shattered we once were. As we continue to learn and accept, we are creating a masterpiece, a mosaic of all our past experiences beautifully put together. And we don’t do it alone, the presence of our loved ones are there to be taken advantaged.
What I especially like about this book is the fullness of its details and the personal touch embedded in it. I could easily say what could have been done. I could have just said that the main character is plain stupid. However, I'm an escapist myself, and I clearly knew what trauma could give you. It slows down your pace. It numbs the pain, more like what happens with adrenaline rush. And most times, rationalization only comes after, Actually, I find the real beauty here in the mistakes, the what-if’s and the what-not’s. It gives us realizations, enabling its readers to get creative, take part and switch roles with the main character. In a different view, it gives me a different kind of inspiration.
When I saw Tina’s reviews of Sarah Dessen’s books in Goodreads, I figured this could be what I’ve been looking forward to read. It was recommended thaWhen I saw Tina’s reviews of Sarah Dessen’s books in Goodreads, I figured this could be what I’ve been looking forward to read. It was recommended that I add in my list, the title, “The Truth About Forever.” It was five stars in her rating, so I said “why not?”
Amazing the timing was, I started reading this on my father’s birthday, to which I celebrate it by reminiscing good old memories. Every memory that Macy was sharing felt so nostalgic, one that I could relate even if it may not be too similar.
“I hated that I was in this situation, I hated that my dad was gone, I hated that I’d been lazy and sleepy and had waved him off when he’d come into my room that morning,”
I read everything slowly, trying to grasp every bit of it little by little. With the balance of different characters mashed with the lead character, I started finding it too shallow to read further. Truth is, I was in denial. All the hurt from the past came back and I became uneasy. I haven’t heard these thoughts when I was given a chance 7 years ago. It was a choice I’ve made, to move forward. As I read through, I realized the kinds of books that I have come to appreciate are those that speak for me.
“It’s not about being perfect, really. It’s about… I don’t know. Being in control.”
“When my dad died, it was like everything felt really shaky, you know? And trying to be the best I could be, it gave me something to focus on. If I could just do everything right, then I was safe.”
“I couldn’t believe I was saying this, not here, at a party packed with classmates and strangers. In fact, I couldn’t imagine saying it anywhere, really, except in my own head, where it somehow made sense.”
I treat my books as a companion in my solitude. They take me to fancy dinner, dance with me at a party, pick me up and drove me home, I listen to their share of story and afterwards I take my turn to speak when I do the review. Perhaps, any book lover would understand the kind of high felt whenever surrounded by thousands of books or racks with neatly piled books. It was like a never-ending mystery, boundless journey.
What I appreciate about Sarah Dessen’s books is that it talks about real issues and it somehow helps you deal with it.
“You’re just setting yourself up to fail, because you’ll never get everything perfect.”
It doesn’t preach in a judgmental kind of way, it touches the soul of the reader. Sarah Dessen has real talent; her books deserve no less than three stars.
If you want to know the truth about forever, you have to read this. It gave me a big smile when I found out.
I probably had too much of the wimpy kid series, I can no longer give it full 5 stars. I appreciate it and is still looking forward to reading the nexI probably had too much of the wimpy kid series, I can no longer give it full 5 stars. I appreciate it and is still looking forward to reading the next book, in fact I am also considering getting myself the movie diary and the DIY book. No hard core laugh out loud moments probably because this seemed so similar with the last one I read....more
**spoiler alert** Moms' do not know everything, very evident in the first two books. Well, for the third book it was concluded: Dads too or at least f**spoiler alert** Moms' do not know everything, very evident in the first two books. Well, for the third book it was concluded: Dads too or at least for Greg who was forced to engaged in "macho" activities his father had involved him.
Half-hearted, Greg thought it was best to just obediently follow as told so as not to get into more trouble. Apparently, things went beyond expectations again. More trouble happened and in the end this one last shot of trouble also saved him from the biggest deal he had to face: Military Academy. Is he really just clever? Or forces of nature just gives him a little bit of luck, sometimes?...more
First day of school can be exciting but can also be a source of stress for a kid. It is expected that first days are opportunity to talk about your suFirst day of school can be exciting but can also be a source of stress for a kid. It is expected that first days are opportunity to talk about your summer vacation. Not all kids are fortunate enough to have that chance with their family. Sometimes, it may not be as extravagant, what’s overlooked is the fact that over chaos, family remains intact. No matter how things can get too crazy sometimes, you still go home to the same family and believe it or not, “NO” have never been an option (no matter how much you resist it at first).
When they say, Mom knows everything. When you’re a kid you always felt like they don’t. There would be days they would insist to be around but for some reason their presence could sort of embarrass you. You don’t get it sometimes when they try to discipline you, like say, “never lie” yet you’d see them do it the other way around.
Dads are neutral. They can be either a pro or a con.
Younger siblings are the untouchables in front of the parents. Big brothers on the other hand are naturally born bully.
As kids we tend to ask too much basically because when you were still a kid, you always don’t know. You just knew how to be a kid. You just knew your only agenda for the day and the day after that is to have fun and you’re only worry is when you’re in trouble; afraid your parents will scold you.
These are silly realities. All these realizations are creatively put together once again in the second book of the series, diary of a wimpy kid: Rodrick Rules and it’s hilarious!...more
The first book in the series is hilarious and deserves 5 stars mainly because the book was designed to be a good read not only for the kids but also fThe first book in the series is hilarious and deserves 5 stars mainly because the book was designed to be a good read not only for the kids but also for the young at heart. I must say Jeff Kinney really pulled it off. I was literally laughing out loud. I recommend this book to those who needed a good break from the stress-induced reality. It makes me want to track back all the silliness way back childhood days. It was fun to remember all this stuff, wish I kept my diary. I must have burned every single one of them (including the autographs that me and my classmates consistently sign) more than a decade ago (couldn’t afford to embarrass myself)....more