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  <title><![CDATA[It Takes a Parent: How the Culture of Pushover Parenting Is Hurting Our Kids--and What to Do About It]]></title>
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  <default_description>A nationally syndicated columnist and conservative commentator examines the harmful effects of today's &quot;parenting culture.&quot; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; Tyrannized by &quot;experts.&quot; Obsessed with perfection. Harried and anxious to the point of misery. Columnist and commentator Betsy Hart sees these traits in what she calls today's &quot;parenting culture&quot;-that is, a nation of parents who refrain from making moral judgments, who put their kids on a pedestal whether they deserve it or not, who shy away from disciplining or even criticizing when kids misbehave, and who generally cede the responsibility for making decisions, large and small, to their children. Hart argues that the consequences of this hands-off approach can be seen on the faces of dependent, wayward, and even violent children and teens-not to mention miserable moms and dads. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; A mother of four, Hart presents a smart, passionate, and provocative argument for the crucial-and currently unfashionable-role of parents who lead rather than follow. From parents who insist on giving their kids a choice about everything and make excuses for their bad behavior, to those who drive their kids to excel at any endeavor and who turn to trained professionals for every problem, &lt;i&gt;It Takes a Parent&lt;/i&gt; questions some tightly held cultural assumptions, and sheds light on the everyday concerns of parents across the nation. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; This insightful, commonsense book will help shift the focus back to the role and responsibilities of parents-for guiding the character and hearts of their children, so they will grow up to be responsible adults themselves.</default_description>
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  <original_publication_year type="integer">2005</original_publication_year>
  <original_title>It Takes a Parent: How the Culture of Pushover Parenting Is Hurting Our Kids--and What to Do About It</original_title>
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  <read_at>Mon Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[The author has a lot of great points in this book against pushoever parenting.  I didn't agree with everything she said, but I especially enjoyed how she focused on a religious aspect of parenting and what we are really trying to accomplish as parents.  While reading a different parenting book about...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/58414286">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Jan 06 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is really about common sense parenting.  With so much parenting advice out there author Betsy Hart strongly asserts that parents have forgotten how to follow their instincts.  Parents are so afraid of making any mistakes with their children that they end up succumbing to the culture of &quot;...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/40299674">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Sep 08 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[The first part of the book, the author was bashing all of the parental advice books out there. I got a little annoyed by it and felt guilty for following some of that advice. While I didnt find the book overly insightful, it did help me think about parenting in a different way. I especially like the...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/58575465">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[one of the best parenting books i've read]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Apr 29 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[It's all about limits and being willing to enforce those limits. So many parents want their children to have the biggest and best of all things and all experiences. But this book challenges parents to be the parents, not the best friends of their child and the provider of all their wants. My heart s...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/18748877">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I am not one for reading a lot of parenting books and that's why I liked this book.  It is a bit repetetive.]]></body>
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