Look Both Ways: Bisexual Politics

by Jennifer Baumgardner
Look Both Ways: Bisexual Politics
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February 20th 2007 by Farrar, Straus and Giroux

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Hardcover, 256 pages

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0374190046    (isbn13: 9780374190040)

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For the acclaimed author and activist Jennifer Baumgardner, bisexuality has always been more than the “sexual non-preference of the ’90s.” In Look Bot...more




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Grace
12/05/07
Grace rated it: 1 of 5 stars

bookshelves: 2007
Read in October, 2007
recommends it for: I wouldn't
Last month, I posted about my irritation with the Bitch interview with Jennifer Baumgardner, the author of Look Both Ways: Bisexual Politics. I was very disappointed with the interview, but at that time said I'd still read the book, as maybe she had more to say than she'd let on.

Once again, I'm disappointed.

The book is just as bad, if not worse, than the interview was. Baumgardner honestly seems to see a special place for herself and other bisexuals (or at least bisexual ...more
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Lola Wallace
06/23/07
Lola Wallace rated it: 3 of 5 stars

Read in June, 2007
I can't really disagree with a lot of the criticism leveled against this book. I find Baumgardner's thesis to be valuable and enlightening, but it is largely based on her own sexual and romantic experiences, which were largely dysfunctional, it seems: she seems to simultaneously give more weight to relationships with men while contending that women make better partners and much better lovers.

I was drawn to this book because my sexual history is, on paper, pretty similar to Baumgardn...more
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Chantel
06/20/07
Chantel rated it: 2 of 5 stars

bookshelves: queer
Read in December, 2007
The most annoying thing about this book was not that it was mostly a piece of fluff, an excuse for the author to mention all the famous people she knows. (She is especially proud that Amy Ray of the Indigo Girls was once her partner.)

The most annoying part of this book is not even that it is waaaaay longer than it needs to be. (It is mostly just a magazine article barely fleshed out into a book.)

The most annoying part of this book is the author's insistence on using som...more
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Rachel
08/17/07
Rachel rated it: 1 of 5 stars

Read in July, 2007
recommends it for: anyone needing something to mock
This book is hours of my life I will not get back. It received a great deal of positive press in feminist circles earlier this year, so I was really excited to read it, enough that I almost bought it in hardback. How glad I am that I waited to get it from the library. Baumgardner, a third-wave feminist with some bizarre atavistic 70s separatist tendencies, believes that relationships between women are without exception nurturing and sheltering, offering protection from the oppression that (also ...more
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Anna
05/08/07
Anna rated it: 2 of 5 stars

Read in February, 2008
The book is more of a memoir than a political manifesto(a). Its mostly interesting if you care a lot about Jennifer Baumgardner and her path to and through feminism with name dropping mention of relationship with famous lesbian singer/songwriter Amy Ray. I actually found her critique of bisexual involvement in the Gay rights movement to be a bit homophobic... certainly not terribly inclusive of the many and diverse sexualities that exist within the movement. I do however agree with her stance ...more
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Stephanie
07/29/07
Stephanie rated it: 2 of 5 stars

Read in June, 2007
I was a little disappointed by this book. I've read some of Baumgardner's previous writings. As someone who has read a lot of literature, popular to scholarly, on sex, gender, and sexuality, this book was a fluffier read than reviews had led me to believe. Marketing it as more of a memoir would have been a more accurate representation of the writing in the book. It works as a memoir; as a treatise on current bisexual politics, or a bisexual state of the union, not so much.
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Bad Penny
08/20/08
Bad Penny rated it: 1 of 5 stars

I don't know why I hated this book so much, but I did. It seemed like Baumgardner never made a succinct point; her writing was like someone talking just to hear themselves talk. In her endless yammering on about herself and her relationship with Amy Ray, she really did nothing for bisexual politics and her overuse of the phrase "look both ways" made her come across as a high-schooler trying to meet the word count requirement for an essay.
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Jennie
04/29/08
Jennie rated it: 3 of 5 stars

Contrary to the criticism raised in previous reviews, I actually enjoyed this book. It's definitely more of a sexual memoir than anything but I actually prefer my personal reading to be more personal and less pedantic. However, as an autobiography there are certain flaws within the narration. Baumgardner tends to describe sexual politics from a very binary perspective, even while she's arguing for a more inclusive, fluid definition of sexuality. While I related to some of her feelings, I felt sh...more
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Sarah Hanck
04/17/07
Sarah Hanck rated it: 3 of 5 stars

Read in April, 2007
The main premise of the book is a great one - that bisexuality is inherently isolated from gay and straight, lacking in a sense of community/identity, and that one is always defined by the gender of your current partner. I like the premise, but was frustrated by the way she makes her argument. Ultimately it seemed that she believes what some feminists/lesbians argue, which is that being with women is inherently 'better', both in terms of intimacy, power balances, role negotiating, communicati...more
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alicia
08/05/07
alicia rated it: 3 of 5 stars

Read in July, 2007
Not the most well-written book that I've ever read - in fact at many points throughout I found myself wondering: "what's her point." It could have been 100 pages shorter and better for it. Finally in the last several pages Baumgardner gets to the crux of her point (or at least she finally articulates it in a concise way) - clearly making the link with feminism. That is, that accepting who women choose to have relationships with is ultimately about embracing the notion that sexuality is...more
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sara m. larsen
09/27/07
sara m. larsen rated it: 2 of 5 stars

baumgarder touches on, but doesn't fully explore, what it means these days to consider your sexuality as fluid, or queer. i'm bothered by her constant binaries.

perhaps my problem is the idea of "bisexual", which feels so limiting.

this is a simple good start, probably best for younger readers. but there is too much more to be said here, too much terrain blocked out.
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Twiggy Strauss
08/02/07
Twiggy Strauss rated it: 1 of 5 stars

We read this for my bookgroup, no one liked it. Manifesta and Grassroots are both excellent books- which is why we were so surprised this one fell flat. The author is basically just rambling on here from personal experience, it wasnt very helpful to the conversation we were hoping to have about the book.
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kate
07/21/08
kate rated it: 3 of 5 stars

I'm about 1/3 in so far... but I'm confused about the so-far unquestioned assumption that a "bisexual" must be a woman. Unless I missed something, there hasn't been anything about choosing to focus only on bisexuality in women.
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Carrie
04/21/08
Carrie rated it: 1 of 5 stars

As indicated by its title, this book relies on really binary, essentialist ideas about what it means to be a man or woman. It also excludes male sexuality almost entirely, and the politics are totally stale.
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Laura
05/09/07
Laura rated it: 4 of 5 stars

Read in March, 2007
Interesting... half memoir, half manifesta. A good read, but not as comprehensive or developed as it could be.
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Jen
06/29/08
Jen rated it: 3 of 5 stars

Read in August, 2008
recommended to Jen by: Bust magazine
recommends it for: Queer women, bisexual women, feminists, fans of Amy Ray or Ani Difranco
I enjoyed this book a lot, but mostly in a way that might be sort of self-indulgent. I've only ever seen one other book devoted solely to bisexuality. So this was a cool find for me because it is so rare to find any writing on that topic that goes beyond the "hot girl on girl action!" surface to substantial analysis. And substatial analysis is what Baumgardner dishes out, but I wish her scope was a bit broader. She interviewed a lot of veteran, 2nd wavers who've had relationships w...more
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Jen Schripsema
06/02/08
Jen Schripsema rated it: 3 of 5 stars

bookshelves: politics
Read in June, 2008
The first book I've ready on sexuality that I didn't need to "translate" for my own life, which made me realize just how much being bisexual puts me on the defensive. You have to defend your sexuality as more than a phase, a cop-out, a way to titillate the straight boys... But the book goes far beyond "no fair" diatribes about how bisexuals are seen (or not seen as the case may be) in society. One idea that really appealed to me is how, in being in relationships with both men...more
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Carrie
09/10/07
Carrie rated it: 3 of 5 stars

Read in September, 2007
I liked Baumgardner's writing in Manifesta and Grassroots, so I was interested to see what she had written here - especially since I had never really taken the time to consider how being involved with both men and women would necessarily be different personally and politically than being either gay or straight. Important to think about since, I think, bi people tend to get labeled as one or the other depending on what relationship they are in. In the book, Baumgardner says "It's simply that...more
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Vanessa
03/31/09
fbuser701821394 rated it: 5 of 5 stars

Read in February, 2009
As much a primer on second-wave feminism as on bisexuality, I found this book completely fascinating. Full of personal anecdotes, research & interviews with well-known queer feminists, this book was extremely readable & thought-provoking.
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Jodi
09/28/07
Jodi rated it: 3 of 5 stars

bookshelves: gender, queer, sexuality
Read in October, 2007
Jennifer Baumgardner is a good writer. She weaves together narratives from interviews and other writings and connects them to her larger argument about bisexuality. Since Baumgardner was a writer for Ms. Magazine, the book reads like a who's who in the feminist movement. She interviews feminist theorists, musicians, and more. I have to admit her pop culture references left this TV-less woman googling (embarrassingly, I didn't know who Anne Heche is).

I read the book, because I t...more
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