The Dirty Life: A Memoir of Farming, Food, and Love
"This book is the story of the two love affairs that interrupted the trajectory of my life: one with farming—that dirty, concupiscent art—and the other with a complicated and exasperating farmer."Single, thirtysomething, working as a writer in New York City, Kristin Kimball was living life as an adventure. But she was beginning to feel a sense of longing for a family and f...more
Paperback, 304 pages
Published
April 12th 2011
by Scribner
(first published October 12th 2010)
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Aug 17, 2011
Judy
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5 of 5 stars
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Recommends it for:
people who love the country, memoirs, farming, organics
So there I was, eating haute cuisine in a mobile home. He cooked for me as seduction, a courtship, so that I'd never again be impressed with a man who simply took me out to dinner. And I fell in love with him over a deer's liver.
Kristin Kimball lived, breathed and played in NYC until the fateful day she visited an organic farm with the intent of writing a magazine article. Dressed like a city girl she got drafted to help out until the farm's owner could spare time to talk to her. That was the be...more
Kristin Kimball lived, breathed and played in NYC until the fateful day she visited an organic farm with the intent of writing a magazine article. Dressed like a city girl she got drafted to help out until the farm's owner could spare time to talk to her. That was the be...more
May 04, 2012
Guy Choate
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3 of 5 stars
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review of another edition
Shelves:
immersive-nonfiction
Kimball does a good job in using this book to remove any romantic notion of leaving city life for that of the farm life. Or maybe she enriches that notion for the person who truly wants to seek that farm life. Either way, she gives what I assume is a realistic view of the commitment that a farm is--the cow always has to be milked. I appreciated her straight-forwardness in that. If Kimball is anything, she seems honest, both about the farm and her relationship.
There are a lot of characters that a...more
There are a lot of characters that a...more
I picked this book up at the library primarily because I had, had a fruit/vegetable for lunch that looked like a tomato, smelled a little bit like a tomato, but tasted nothing like the fresh from the garden tomato's that I remember eating as a child.
Kimball gives us an amazingly good look at her move from New York writer to Old Wave farmer. We also learn a little about local sourcing and Ms. Kimball's interior life as she makes the transition. Having grown up on something resembling a farm I und...more
Kimball gives us an amazingly good look at her move from New York writer to Old Wave farmer. We also learn a little about local sourcing and Ms. Kimball's interior life as she makes the transition. Having grown up on something resembling a farm I und...more
Try as I might to dislike The Dirty Life, it’s difficult to fault such an eloquent, honest, and authentic narrative.
An impetuous young female writer, financially and emotionally destitute, longing for love, home and motherhood would have accepted almost anything making her life different. She did, surrendering to a willful man and his work.
In a depiction of her man as the wizened one, she ever the apprentice, The Dirty Life is Kristin Kimball’s account of her introduction to horse powered commu...more
An impetuous young female writer, financially and emotionally destitute, longing for love, home and motherhood would have accepted almost anything making her life different. She did, surrendering to a willful man and his work.
In a depiction of her man as the wizened one, she ever the apprentice, The Dirty Life is Kristin Kimball’s account of her introduction to horse powered commu...more
This book fits into the whole foods, local grown, thinking ecologically about how we eat genre that is popular these days. Coming from Nebraska, it was nice to read a book that talks about farming as a nontrivial, nonmenial career. I suppose some might argue that Kimball glorifies it all a bit more than she should, but I'm not convinced. She talks about sleeping in a rat infested house and goes into pretty explicit detail about animal slaughter and birth. I tend to enjoy the whole local grown wh...more
As I was reading what I knew would be the last few sentences of this book and then forced to, reluctantly, put it down I took solace in the idea and fact that as I was reading here today Kristin and husband Mark and their team on the farm were actually out working, doing many of the things I read about in her book. So, maybe there will be a sequel, the next 7 or so years.
Somehow in a very deep way this effort from Kristin Kimball touched me, connected the dots in me and for me in ways I heret...more
Somehow in a very deep way this effort from Kristin Kimball touched me, connected the dots in me and for me in ways I heret...more
This was a fun read. It is about a 30ish woman who was a journalist in New York. She went out on an assignment about organic farming, meets a farmer and soon is living with said farmer. This book is the story of how they set up their farm, the work and their lives. I now want a couple of draft horses and some chickens.
Because I am married to someone who grew up on a farm, much of the content of this book was old hat to me, and I skimmed quite a bit. I very much appreciated the fact that the author did not romanticize agricultural life too much. So many books of this genre gloss over the fact that farming is a lot of work and most small farmers are fairly poor. This author really FARMED - she didn't just have a little garden or gentleman's (lady's?) farm and call it farming.
Part of my frustration with this bo...more
Part of my frustration with this bo...more
Freelance writer from NYC meets a farmer and starts an update-NY farm and family with him. The book is mainly a chronicle of first year on the farm. Some good bits about getting established in the community and giving/receiving trust and help (initially her fashionable attire stands out so much that a rumor spreads that she used to be a call girl). I was also interested in the economics of the CSA they begin, and in one or two of the "zany antics when learning to milk a cow" sort of anecdotes.
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Every once in a while I'll need a break from my usual heady, absurdly stylish reading fare, and books like this are my version of a beach read. Last year, I picked up a little gem called Goat Song (by Brad Kessler), which explored in a tight, journal-style format the trials and rewards of escaping the harried metropolitan life for a pastoral fantasy on a dairy goat farm. That book had such a lyrical flow, with gut-wrenching moments of life and death and lovely prose, fascinating anecdotes on his...more
A non-preachy book about one woman's transition from New York City Girl to operator of a large scale ago-business.
Kristin met Mark during an interview. He was an organic farmer with big ideas who effortlessly dodged her for three days while she kept finding herself helping out in her hipster outfit. By the end of three days, when they finally managed to sit down together, Mark knew he was in love and Kristin new she was....intrigued. She took a leap of faith and moved with Mark to a 600 acre far...more
Kristin met Mark during an interview. He was an organic farmer with big ideas who effortlessly dodged her for three days while she kept finding herself helping out in her hipster outfit. By the end of three days, when they finally managed to sit down together, Mark knew he was in love and Kristin new she was....intrigued. She took a leap of faith and moved with Mark to a 600 acre far...more
Periodically, while reading "The Dirty Life", a book which I loved, I found myself thinking about "Eat, Pray, Love", a book I hated for its solipsism. The protagonists in each book are both writers, living the Yuppy life. Their paths diverged with Elizabeth Gilbert ending up as a famous author while Kristin Kimball, in an unbelievable life shift, becomes a farmer now helping to produce food for more than 200 families from a 600 acre farm in Essex, New York.
I'll return in a minute as to why I thi...more
I'll return in a minute as to why I thi...more
I thoroughly enjoyed The Dirty Life and read it in two days. I had a hard time understanding the inner transformation Kristin Kimball experienced, from city girl to farmer - or honestly, what she ever saw in her husband in the first place, since she paints him as an unsympathetic, crazy New Agish daydreamer - and that lack of depth would be enough to knock this book down another star, if she didn't do such a great job making me feel vividly both the difficulty and beauty of life on a farm (at le...more
I read this book not long after finishing The Egg and I by Betty McDonald, another memoir about life on a farm (but set approximately 70 years ago and on the opposite side of the country). This book is the story of a woman who meets a farmer while doing some freelance writing, falls in love and gets engaged to him, and moves from New York City to live with him on a farm they are creating from scratch. She chronicles her life going from a city girl who cherished her silk blouses and heels to a wo...more
The author's account of how she left her glamorous freelance writer's life to marry a die hard back to the earth man who has a dream of starting a CSA farm that will provide all the food needs for shareholders, as much as a person could want, and then some. Kristin Kimball and her husband-to-be move to the North Country of New York and against all odds, make their dream come true, proving that hard work can be transformative. This account may be overly romantic and I was overwhelmed with just ho...more
Really enjoyed this book! It made me want to garden and farm and live an organic life. It made me think of my grandparents who were farmers and appreciate them more. The writing was beautiful! This quote really touched me: "Some people wish for world peace or an end to homelessness. I wish every woman could have as a lover at some point in her life a man who never smoked or drank too much or became jaded from kissing too many girls or looking at porn, someone with gracious muscles that come from...more
I really liked this book and raced through it as if it were fiction. I am no fan of memoirs and usually avoid them, but this was different. And it definitely was NOT the whiny "pity me" memoir that is so common today.
Kimball writes about her decision to chuck a freelance writing career in NYC and start a sustainable agricultural venture with her fiance in very rural upstate New York (they later marry and have two daughters). He has a vision of having a CSA farm that provides year-round grocerie...more
Kimball writes about her decision to chuck a freelance writing career in NYC and start a sustainable agricultural venture with her fiance in very rural upstate New York (they later marry and have two daughters). He has a vision of having a CSA farm that provides year-round grocerie...more
Mar 21, 2012
Patty
rated it
3 of 5 stars
Shelves:
2012,
2012-book-group,
food,
humor,
husband-and-wife,
non-fiction,
new-york,
new-york-city,
farming,
gardening,
gardens,
memoir,
audiobook,
talk-tote,
marriage,
local-food,
women-writers
Somehow I managed to finish our book group's April read before our March read. There are many reasons - I am listening to the March read and did not bring it along to Texas. Also, I had read it before and so was hoping that the audio book would bring me new insights.
Mostly though, The Dirty Life was extremely readable. Once I started it on Friday night, I just wanted to finish it. However, I had to attend my nephew's wedding and get my mom and I back to the Dallas airport. The wedding was very i...more
Mostly though, The Dirty Life was extremely readable. Once I started it on Friday night, I just wanted to finish it. However, I had to attend my nephew's wedding and get my mom and I back to the Dallas airport. The wedding was very i...more
A dirty life indeed: pig entrails, a pit bull attacking and mauling a beloved Jersey cow, animal slaughter described in vivid detail and a rat infested home are just a few examples of the life Kristin Kimball chooses on an impulse, then grows into slowly, deeply. She chucks her Manhattan lifestyle and job for the backbreaking work of a 500 acre, organic farm, not knowing quite what she is getting into but better off for that, as it turns out. I laughed out loud at her descriptions of her wedding...more
I'd like to give it 3.5 stars, but since it won't let me, I'll have to go with 3. She gives a full and amazing description of the work involved in starting their farm. Any romantic notions of the life of organic farming, or working with teams of horses rather than tractors are absolutely put into perspective. You can feel the sheer exhaustion, but at the same time, feel the love and dedication they had (and still have) to making it work.
What I would love to have seen much more of in the book wa...more
What I would love to have seen much more of in the book wa...more
It's hard to decide if this is a love story about farming or the author's husband. Both came as a complete surprise to the author. Kristin writes with great humor and exquisite detail about how a "rustic" style farm operates, without chemicals and with reliance on horses and hand labor over tractors and engine-powered machines. The farm life descriptions are fascinating, I really enjoyed learning along with her and Mark as they tried, failed, and succeeded at the various tasks (e.g. planting, an...more
The interesting thing about this book was Kimball's point of view, which is never more than 5 feet distant from the muck. This is not some soft-focus, romantic tale (though if that's what you are looking for, see my recent review of The Pioneer Woman: Black Heels to Tractor Wheels -- A Love Story) but rather a book wherein you find yourself up close with the author, smelling the contents of a gored bull's wound for intestinal spillage, and when she finds it, knowing there's about to be a gunshot...more
This is the second book I've read about a woman who makes a dramatic course change in her life (the previous one was Black heels and tractor wheels by Ree Drumond). I sure hope this isn't a premonition of some sort.
However, if it is, both of the women ended up quite happy with their new lives, so it wouldn't be all bad.
In this book Kristin is a freelance travel writer living in New York city. As part of a writing assignment she meets Mark, who is running an organic farm in Pennsylvania. In the c...more
However, if it is, both of the women ended up quite happy with their new lives, so it wouldn't be all bad.
In this book Kristin is a freelance travel writer living in New York city. As part of a writing assignment she meets Mark, who is running an organic farm in Pennsylvania. In the c...more
This was given to me by my friend,Sarah. She just knew I would love this story and she was so completely correct. I could barely put this book down once I got started, which surprised me, because I didn't expect to love it *that* much. The Dirty Life fell right in line with my interest in sustainable agriculture and farming as it followed Kristin and her husband through the beginning of their romance to their ultimate destiny as husband and wife farmers in the Northeast.
Along the way she descri...more
Along the way she descri...more
The story of a writer from NYC who visits a young farmer, falls in love and joins him on their journey to create a new type of CSA together. It is a quick, fun read that pulls you into their adventures. I could not put it down!
The one thing that I did not like was the fact that the couple was co-habitating during their engagement. I make mention of this mostly because the wedding is the climactic point in the book and the stress and tension between them as they struggle against the elements is a...more
The one thing that I did not like was the fact that the couple was co-habitating during their engagement. I make mention of this mostly because the wedding is the climactic point in the book and the stress and tension between them as they struggle against the elements is a...more
This was a delightful, honest account of one woman's adventure going from the life of a Manhattan writer to a full-time farmer on a farm that is not only self-sustaining but provides enough animal products, grain, and vegetables to support more than one hundred other people.
Kimball's story begins when she travels from New York to Pennsylvania to interview a man who runs a community farm that provides subscribers with eggs, vegetables, pork, and chicken. To her surprise, she finds herself not sim...more
Kimball's story begins when she travels from New York to Pennsylvania to interview a man who runs a community farm that provides subscribers with eggs, vegetables, pork, and chicken. To her surprise, she finds herself not sim...more
After the first few pages of this book, I was sure it was going to be a detailed description of various meals the author had eaten. I wouldn't have minded as she is a kickass writer. But the book is more than that. It's how a Harvard-educated New York city writer falls in love with a Swarthmore-educated no-nonsense farmer, and how they build a life together, creating an over-the-top organic farm in upstate New York. And, as the title suggests, it's a dirty life--full of pigs, pig entrails, cows...more
_The Dirty Life: On Farming, Food, and Love_ by Kristin Kimball (Published October 12th 2010 by Scribner)
Added 5/12/11.
Our local public library has just announced a "Community-Wide Reading Experience" featuring this book. The purpose of the event is to connect people through reading. The event will run from May 19, 2011 to October 6, 2011. The event is being run in conjunction with the library's Folklife Center program called “Foodways: Documenting the Local".
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Added 5/12/11.
Our local public library has just announced a "Community-Wide Reading Experience" featuring this book. The purpose of the event is to connect people through reading. The event will run from May 19, 2011 to October 6, 2011. The event is being run in conjunction with the library's Folklife Center program called “Foodways: Documenting the Local".
A member review by Megan says:
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Kristin Kimball is a farmer and writer living in Northern New York. Prior to farmer, Kristin worked as a freelance writer, a writing teacher, and an assistant to a literary agent. A graduate of Harvard University, she has run Essex Farm with her husband since 2003.
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“In his view, we were already a success, because we were doing something hard and it was something that mattered to us. You don't measure things like that with words like success or failure, he said. Satisfaction comes from trying hard things and then going on to the next hard thing, regardless of the outcome. What mattered was whether or not you were moving in a direction you thought was right.”
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“So there I was eating haute cuisine in a mobile home. He cooked for me as seduction, a courtship, so that I'd never again be impressed with a man who simply took me out to dinner. And I fell in love with him over a deer's liver.”
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